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How far do you go on a "first date"?

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By *lipperyWhenWet! OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Amber58's thread "I want a date" got me thinking.

You go to a swinger club / party and it's tits / cock out in front of others, and soon someone is sucking on something

But you go on a "First Date", what do you expect and how far do you go?

Is it different to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect someone to show at least then a drink and a talk.

No further than Asda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it’s with and if the chemistry is right. I don’t see the issue in having sex on a first date

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Both of us would have sex on a first date when we were dating. Usually only with the person we were dating though.

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By *rnaughtyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm always willing to go all the way on a first date....im not easy though i expect to be bought at least 1 drink first ha ha

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Would completely depend on the chemistry and how well I knew someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess for me, would depend how well the date was going, and if we both hit it off and chemistry between us.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

when i was younger i shagged on a first date but i wouldnt know. The only thing they would get from me is a kiss goodnight

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Meet my mum..she always waits in the car anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect someone to show at least then a drink and a talk.

No further than Asda "
not even tesco?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Amber58's thread "I want a date" got me thinking.

You go to a swinger club / party and it's tits / cock out in front of others, and soon someone is sucking on something

But you go on a "First Date", what do you expect and how far do you go?

Is it different to you?"

It's not always like that at clubs but on a first date (if I were ever to go on one) I wouldn't expect anything other than plesent company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowadays, a kiss cheerio

And probably not even a full on snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the best fab date ever last December, lot and lots and lots of flirting and lingering eye contact but nothing more, not even a kiss until we left the pub for our cars but then THE kiss of my life, stood out in the cold with her warm lips all over mine! On our second date a few days later we were fucking in under a minute in the hallway and doing anal....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the best fab date ever last December, lot and lots and lots of flirting and lingering eye contact but nothing more, not even a kiss until we left the pub for our cars but then THE kiss of my life, stood out in the cold with her warm lips all over mine! On our second date a few days later we were fucking in under a minute in the hallway and doing anal.... "

Dates are great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 14 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 14 miles "

That's boob and fanny in one shot!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Both of us would have sex on a first date when we were dating. Usually only with the person we were dating though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably need to brave the dating thing at some point because I really don't want to be single forever.

I think I would avoid sex on the first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A coffee or a glass of wine and get to know someone. If there is a connection then a kiss. Zero expectations and just see if there’s a spark.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I expect nothing less than a ring and a proposal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be going on a date if I didn't want to have sex with the person. Don't see any reason to hold off on having sex on a firsr date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the flow and see what feels right. I have no issue with sex on the first date if it feels mutual, fun and the chemistry is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 14 miles

That's boob and fanny in one shot! "

Thats a yes isnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 14 miles

That's boob and fanny in one shot!

Thats a yes isnt it? "

What was the question....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 14 miles

That's boob and fanny in one shot!

Thats a yes isnt it?

What was the question....? "

Will you Nippy, go on a date with Me, Testarossa?

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

it really depends on how well you get on.. there are "vanilla" dates where you're just enjoying each others companies and you know no more than a peck on the cheek or a hi5 will happen, versus plenty flirting and suggestive body language where one is just waiting for the other to ask "your place or mine "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was dating I really enjoyed the flirting and sexual tension of a first date but never gave in to it. Just a goodbye kiss at the end of the evening knowing that you both want each other but are resisting. Then send messages of frustration to each other later.

The second date was totally different and animalistic passion erupts ....

Her x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Will always have a social on the first date, need to have the chemistry first kiss test before I'd even consider sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a proper date, then a kiss at the end of the evening. Sex can come on a later date after reflection and building anticipation ... In my mind it's something to look forward to as a relationship develops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck them on the first so I don't waste my time having a second if they're shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 14 miles

That's boob and fanny in one shot!

Thats a yes isnt it?

What was the question....?

Will you Nippy, go on a date with Me, Testarossa? "

That sounds very official but those are not out real names and I doubt it'd hold up in a court of law. But yeah, sure I'd love to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 14 miles

That's boob and fanny in one shot!

Thats a yes isnt it?

What was the question....?

Will you Nippy, go on a date with Me, Testarossa?

That sounds very official but those are not out real names and I doubt it'd hold up in a court of law. But yeah, sure I'd love to... "

Well dont fall over yourself, will ya!

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