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" Yes. Thankfully they were still normal human beings doing normal human being things ![]() ![]() And we actually stop to say hello and catch up with them without any awkwardness. | |||
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"Yes have had a very awkward moment years ago Meet a guy on the Monday and seen him on the wenday when out shopping He stopped and started talking to me saying it was good working with you Monday and stuff need to work with you more and stuff Was really awkward as his wife was there had no idear he was married Felt so sorry for his wife all I keep thinking was aww honey I am so sorry I bed you hubby She was such a nice lady and beautiful to couldn’t understand why he was stepping out on her Let’s say he definitely didn’t get a nother meet Xxx" He may have a reasonable reason for playing away but to actually make contact with you under the guise of being work colleagues with his wife there is astonishing. The guy has more front than Debenhams! | |||
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"A couple of times I’ve spotted others and carried on with my day, I did have someone calling me by my user name while at work last year, that was a little too far for me, they’d spotted one of my tattoos so now unfortunately I don’t show any here anymore " That's not on to name you, even in a private conversation. IMO bad etiquette to discuss this site in person if you see someone you suspect of being a fabber. Use the message system, if they're interested they'll reply if not just respect anonymity. | |||
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"I was talking to one guy who was fairly local. I said I was off to the supermarket and the fruitcake turned up to ‘surprise me’ and surprised I was when he had about 10 years on the guy who’s pictures he was using ![]() Borderline stalking. Oh I've had a couple of meets where I stood them down at the doorstep for blatant age fraud. | |||
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"Several times.. there are loads of fabbers round here. For me it’s only a positive experience if I’ve spoken to someone and they’re discreet. Random tool with loud mouth in the supermarket is not ok. " Exactly, just simple eye contact, a raised eye brow, a slight nod or a discreet wink is all that is needed. If it was a memorable meet and my cock started to swell whilst in the shop I'd be straight online sending a msg, probably from the carpark;-) | |||
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"Not shopping but one of my fab friends uses the same gym as me. We're friendly though so it's all good. Apart from his piss taking jokes! ![]() A Liverpudlian taking the piss? No way! It's all about respect I guess. If you notice or get noticed then get blanked, move on. | |||
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"I have seen a couple of fabbers whilst out and about and never approached, never would. Years ago I had chatted to someone and randomly we ended up on the same train, he approached me and was v creepy trying for snogs etc. I wasn't best pleased and he ended up blocked. " That seems like a line crossed to me. It would be a difficult call if i was out out and I see someone from here I had chatted with to politely introduce myself. But then again if I usually get chatting the topic of a social meet is raised so I think the best etiquette is too remain anon unless invited. In the clubs is a different story tho. | |||
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"yes. and i walked straight past them like they didnt exist. " They may have breathed a sigh of relief. | |||
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"Yes, and his wife was with him so we had to ignore each other x" Did you discuss it with the guy later (if in contact) or was it keep calm & carry on? How did you feel? | |||
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"Not shopping but one of my fab friends uses the same gym as me. We're friendly though so it's all good. Apart from his piss taking jokes! ![]() It's how we show affection ![]() | |||
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"Yeah, but don't shout their user name out across the car park! ![]() What if there is a spillage in the milk aisle and the 'slippery when wet' sign is displayed? | |||
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"It happened to me today whilst grocery shopping. I recognised them but thankfully clever dodging down the aisles plus a face mask and cap I remained anonymous. If I fancied them I may have gone out of my way to make eye contact. " one lady come into the pub i own with her friend, i recognised her, lips, wrist tatoo and her amazing figure gave it away, i spoke too her briefly but didn't mention Fab, a bit later i messaged her saying come back if she fancied a 'late drink' she replied that i shouldv said something!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"i often don't even recognise my neighbours when out! but i occasionally slip into a bit of people watching and wonders how many fabbers I am walking right past.." Yep I have been out and have made eye contact with couples and have wondered if they were interested fabbers. Would be great to have a secret sign to say yes we are and approachable. | |||
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"The ones I saw weren't shopping but stealing #youknowwhoyouare And yes eating a banana inside Morrison and shitting it inside toilet's Morrison is still stealing ! " It all depends on how they were 'eating' the BANANA! Deepthroating bananas in the fruit market at Mozzas is just plain weird. | |||
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"No one from fab as don’t meet local. Couple of years ago I was outside my local with mates and see this guy walking down the street, he clocks me and thankfully keeps walking, two minutes later receive a text “shall I come back ?”.... wouldn’t mind but he lived in Glasgow what are the chances he happens to walk down a little side street in London ![]() Haha don't meet local as they're probably Gooners! #redarmy#spuds X | |||
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"Yes I've seen someone who was shopping with his wife. The mature thing was to gently nod with a little smile and carry on as you were ![]() Top etiquette, A+ Fabber. | |||
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"oh hang on i read the thread wrong. Ive never seen an actual meet" You may be unaware of being seen ![]() | |||
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"Wait, seen or SEEN....? ![]() Unless your messaged you will be unaware you have been seen. | |||
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"It happened to me today whilst grocery shopping. I recognised them but thankfully clever dodging down the aisles plus a face mask and cap I remained anonymous. If I fancied them I may have gone out of my way to make eye contact. " Yes 3 times now... Once months ago. I went to the butchers and he served me ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It happened to me today whilst grocery shopping. I recognised them but thankfully clever dodging down the aisles plus a face mask and cap I remained anonymous. If I fancied them I may have gone out of my way to make eye contact. Yes 3 times now... Once months ago. I went to the butchers and he served me ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It happened to me today whilst grocery shopping. I recognised them but thankfully clever dodging down the aisles plus a face mask and cap I remained anonymous. If I fancied them I may have gone out of my way to make eye contact. Yes 3 times now... Once months ago. I went to the butchers and he served me ![]() ![]() Not sure about the tap on the shoulder in the Co op but a msg from an impressed Fabber about your running physique gotta be a good thing, right? How many wolf whistles and lary lad screams do you normally get? Actually you should be ashamed as I almost always crashing from the distraction of you babes in leggings and yoga pants! | |||
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"Yes.. In local m and s.. I was coming down escalator and there he was with partner on the shop floor. We didnt speak. I think his legs went. Lol" And his arse ![]() | |||
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"Yes in a restaurant hundreds of miles away, I was on holiday in his home town. He didn't see me " Fancy the chances of that ![]() | |||
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"Yes in a restaurant hundreds of miles away, I was on holiday in his home town. He didn't see me Fancy the chances of that ![]() He recommended visiting his home town, so I did ![]() | |||
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"Yes in a restaurant hundreds of miles away, I was on holiday in his home town. He didn't see me Fancy the chances of that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes in a restaurant hundreds of miles away, I was on holiday in his home town. He didn't see me Fancy the chances of that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha but it is a very pretty & popular Cornish village | |||
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"Yes in a restaurant hundreds of miles away, I was on holiday in his home town. He didn't see me Fancy the chances of that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() St ives ? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes in a restaurant hundreds of miles away, I was on holiday in his home town. He didn't see me Fancy the chances of that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Not St Ives, nearer Kynance Cove | |||
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"Yes in a restaurant hundreds of miles away, I was on holiday in his home town. He didn't see me Fancy the chances of that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I have to see this place ![]() | |||
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