FabSwingers.com forum: No one is chatting with me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iam doing something wrong I think I look ok or is it that iam not being naughty enough if you help me tell me what to do !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you are trying to initiate chats?

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Where?

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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If you messaged me I would look at your profile first and wouldn't be so interested; your profile says what you want but doesn't say what you can offer those you're messaging or showing what makes you stand out from other men on here...

Also as above, depends how you are initiating chats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no 'copy and paste' message or one way to approach conversations, Ohpee, to be fair.

I know you haven't asked for profile advice so what I'll say is to be sure to at least use your profile to your advantage; be it your pictures, bio etc. That's what everyone looks at, if it doesn't grab a person's attention then you risk being lost in a crowd. It's your opportunity to present yourself

Often it's the source of conversation starters; detailing what you're like, what you're looking for etc. So with that even, be sure to see if there's some common ground you can talk about when you message someone.

Ultimately just be yourself, you'll attract those best suited to you then. Patience and manners go a long way too, I promise! Best of luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Iam doing something wrong I think I look ok or is it that iam not being naughty enough if you help me tell me what to do !! "

Welcome to the forum.

It can be difficult for single men to get into conversation.

Try and join in some of the threads on the forum, it might take a while but if you're positive and friendly people will eventually chat.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm defo gonna suggest that the problem isn't that you're not being naughty enough.

Many people assume that just because the site is *sex based* that vulgarity is "normal and to be expected"

Hell no.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

I’ll chat with anyone

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

As this is the only post by OP I'm gonna guess that "Iam doing something wrong I think I look ok or is it that iam not being naughty enough if you help me tell me what to do !!" Is aimed at messages, in which case, who the fuck knows if it ain't public!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Monique on here she chats with everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a deep breath, be brave, and let them come to you....

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Nature of the beast. No one speaks to us either lol welcome to Fab!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Depends on what you mean my chatting op? Chatting with people on the forum, just takes time and patience for people to become familiar with you like in any social environment.

Chatting via pm there's a whole myriad of reasons why I don't chat with people or vice versa. Try to personalise any messages by reading their profile etc. As some above me have said be yourself and it will come eventually

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