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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That one line is enough to make me flip.

It is the most egocentric thing you could ever say.

Like, they are so sexy you couldn't possibly detest them based purely on their cuntish behaviour/personality.

What phrase really gets under your skin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it winds me up when someone says 'ive got you an amazing gift... but im not going to tell you what it is'

man that winds me up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obvs.......

Need a kick in nether regions if you use that

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Everything happens for a reason

God works in mysterious ways

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"That one line is enough to make me flip.

It is the most egocentric thing you could ever say.

Like, they are so sexy you couldn't possibly detest them based purely on their cuntish behaviour/personality.

What phrase really gets under your skin?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obvs.......

Need a kick in nether regions if you use that "

Soz about that then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obvs.......

Need a kick in nether regions if you use that

Soz about that then.... "

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Everything happens for a reason

God works in mysterious ways

"

Those!

And I hate bae. Also sick meaning good. I mean, WTF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything happens for a reason

"

But things aren't just truly random - it'd chaos I tell you chaos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everything happens for a reason

God works in mysterious ways

Those!

And I hate bae. Also sick meaning good. I mean, WTF? "

I can agree with both of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes me laugh the most is when my phrases piss other people off on here and then they quote them back at me or say "innit" in a failed attempt to try get at me.... WIN, innit!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That one line is enough to make me flip.

It is the most egocentric thing you could ever say.

Like, they are so sexy you couldn't possibly detest them based purely on their cuntish behaviour/personality.

What phrase really gets under your skin?"

I'm with you on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything happens for a reason

God works in mysterious ways

"

Oh my god I hate this so so so so much o.O

Oh yeah little Timmy just died a painful and horrible death but don't forget everything happens for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheer up

You're just being different on purpose

Why won't you talk to me?

LOL

Have you nearly finished?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who ends a sentence with ‘Fact’ or ‘Innit’, usually after spouting complete bollocks, just cause you say it, doesn’t make either so.

Or ‘I just Say it as it is!’ usually after they’ve been a narrow minded prick.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Everything happens for a reason

But things aren't just truly random - it'd chaos I tell you chaos "

Chaos would be way easier to understand than believing it was pre-planned that I was gonna get with someone evil who enjoyed beating the crap outta me physically and mentally.

Like oh great, ta for that.

Followed up with falling in love again after I'd promised myself I'd never let another man that close, and then learning the truth in lockdown that his marriage wasn't over at all! Like, some cunt is sick and twisted to fuck if they're creating this shizzle and pulling the puppet strings.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

'check your privilege'. Really riles me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My top 2:

At the end of the day .........

It is what it is.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Or 'Simples'.

Probably doesn't help that I can't stand those bloody meercat ads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

"

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth


"Everything happens for a reason

God works in mysterious ways

Oh my god I hate this so so so so much o.O

Oh yeah little Timmy just died a painful and horrible death but don't forget everything happens for a reason "

Somebody I know (don't like much, TBH) tried using that one someone who was grieving. To say that their reaction was bad is putting it mildly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who say " Im such a laugh or such a nutter".

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Everything happens for a reason

God works in mysterious ways

"

The 'God' one definitely

And

"It's God's will".

Grrrrrr

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you! "

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not a phrase per se but... "I don't want too much".

Of course you don't want too much. As, by definition, that would be more than you want. it'd be too much. How much that amount is a separate matter. But everyone will have a limit, and more than that limit would be... too much!

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

You don’t understand me.....when I clearly do lol

There is one more that makes me more sad that annoyed but I’ll save that one

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

"It is what it is"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything happens for a reason

But things aren't just truly random - it'd chaos I tell you chaos

Chaos would be way easier to understand than believing it was pre-planned that I was gonna get with someone evil who enjoyed beating the crap outta me physically and mentally.

Like oh great, ta for that.

Followed up with falling in love again after I'd promised myself I'd never let another man that close, and then learning the truth in lockdown that his marriage wasn't over at all! Like, some cunt is sick and twisted to fuck if they're creating this shizzle and pulling the puppet strings."

Determinism vs indeterminism vs free will

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singing from the same hymn sheet.

Jesus wept!

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

Holibobs instead of holiday and familam instead of family. I don’t know why, they just annoy me! That and ‘living my best life’ which I see a lot recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear."

I'm not trying to blow smoke up your bum, but from what I know of you I would have to say that you are very direct, but you're not a dick about it. I think so many people wrongly label themselves as a straight talker but really they are just rude and insensitive bastards, but that's definitely not how you come across.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying it how it is, as long as you're respectful and only give your opinion when necessary.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Anything about not changing for anyone. People often mistake excessive stubborness and pig headedness for being a strong person. Personally I think the strongest people are those willing to do some self reflection when confronted with feedback they don't like. Of course the problem isn't always you but sometimes it is and sometimes it's both of you. Continuous self improvement is a great thing. None of us are perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger... Rubbish... It makes you harder!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

People who spout on about how genuine or how nice they are. I can work out for myself whether i think your nice and genuine and those that say innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not racist, but..."

"I have black/Muslim friends, but..."

"I'm not homophobic, but..."

"I have gay friends, but..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who spout on about how genuine or how nice they are. I can work out for myself whether i think your nice and genuine and those that say innit"

Oh shit where's Nippy o.O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty more fish in the sea ..... when you're utterly heartbroken

I dont bite ...... unless asked to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger... Rubbish... It makes you harder! "

I read that on the back of a book yesterday. About viruses.

'... what doesn't kill you might make your species stronger ...'

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear.

I'm not trying to blow smoke up your bum, but from what I know of you I would have to say that you are very direct, but you're not a dick about it. I think so many people wrongly label themselves as a straight talker but really they are just rude and insensitive bastards, but that's definitely not how you come across.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying it how it is, as long as you're respectful and only give your opinion when necessary.

"

Yep, like the people who think the likes of Katie Hopkins "say it how it is". Nah she's just a cunt.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear.

I'm not trying to blow smoke up your bum, but from what I know of you I would have to say that you are very direct, but you're not a dick about it. I think so many people wrongly label themselves as a straight talker but really they are just rude and insensitive bastards, but that's definitely not how you come across.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying it how it is, as long as you're respectful and only give your opinion when necessary.

"

Phew! Appreciate that.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Wake up

You're all sheep...

And many similar patronising phrases..

Along with.. I say it as I see it... Which is just used as an excuse for being clumsy and or offensive with choice of words.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger... Rubbish... It makes you harder! "

Yep, or pushes you one step closer to the edge.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"

At the end of the day .........

"

That, and, “in terms of....”

Little fillers used blaggers buying time when asked a direct question. I had a boss once and if anyone used them she would interrupt, look them

straight in the eye and say don’t fucking bullshit or lie to me...answer the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who spout on about how genuine or how nice they are. I can work out for myself whether i think your nice and genuine and those that say innit"

Yeah this. I find that people who have to tell you how nice and genuine they are turn out to be anything but.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The proof is in the pudding

I just hate - no reason lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear.

I'm not trying to blow smoke up your bum, but from what I know of you I would have to say that you are very direct, but you're not a dick about it. I think so many people wrongly label themselves as a straight talker but really they are just rude and insensitive bastards, but that's definitely not how you come across.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying it how it is, as long as you're respectful and only give your opinion when necessary.

Yep, like the people who think the likes of Katie Hopkins "say it how it is". Nah she's just a cunt. "

Oh I'd knock that cunt out if I passed her in the street. She's a vile vile human. She's not just offensive, she's an arrogant self absorbed piece of shit who seems to think if you ain't got money then you're scum. I'll take being scum if that's what money turns you into

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"People who spout on about how genuine or how nice they are. I can work out for myself whether i think your nice and genuine and those that say innit

Yeah this. I find that people who have to tell you how nice and genuine they are turn out to be anything but."

And i thought i was a nice person.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Plenty more fish in the sea ..... when you're utterly heartbroken"

Yep, I came here to say exactly the same thing. It really pisses me off

And I'm obviously weird because I don't want to date fish, I want to date women. Preferably randy, liberated ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear.

I'm not trying to blow smoke up your bum, but from what I know of you I would have to say that you are very direct, but you're not a dick about it. I think so many people wrongly label themselves as a straight talker but really they are just rude and insensitive bastards, but that's definitely not how you come across.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying it how it is, as long as you're respectful and only give your opinion when necessary.

Yep, like the people who think the likes of Katie Hopkins "say it how it is". Nah she's just a cunt.

Oh I'd knock that cunt out if I passed her in the street. She's a vile vile human. She's not just offensive, she's an arrogant self absorbed piece of shit who seems to think if you ain't got money then you're scum. I'll take being scum if that's what money turns you into "

She hides behind ‘telling it like it is’ she doesn’t ‘tell it like it is’ at all. She says whatever shit is going to get her noticed and more money in her pocket. She’s just a trout with no moral compass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That one line is enough to make me flip.

It is the most egocentric thing you could ever say.

Like, they are so sexy you couldn't possibly detest them based purely on their cuntish behaviour/personality.

What phrase really gets under your skin?"

I turned around and said......

Really Karen, did you do a spin before every sentence?

Can you tell it boils my pee

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear.

I'm not trying to blow smoke up your bum, but from what I know of you I would have to say that you are very direct, but you're not a dick about it. I think so many people wrongly label themselves as a straight talker but really they are just rude and insensitive bastards, but that's definitely not how you come across.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying it how it is, as long as you're respectful and only give your opinion when necessary.

Yep, like the people who think the likes of Katie Hopkins "say it how it is". Nah she's just a cunt.

Oh I'd knock that cunt out if I passed her in the street. She's a vile vile human. She's not just offensive, she's an arrogant self absorbed piece of shit who seems to think if you ain't got money then you're scum. I'll take being scum if that's what money turns you into

She hides behind ‘telling it like it is’ she doesn’t ‘tell it like it is’ at all. She says whatever shit is going to get her noticed and more money in her pocket. She’s just a trout with no moral compass "

And people who follow people like her are arrogant enough to think everyone else agrees which is why she is just "telling it like it is" . Anyone who doesn't agree is either too shy to say so publicly or mentally challenged .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear.

I'm not trying to blow smoke up your bum, but from what I know of you I would have to say that you are very direct, but you're not a dick about it. I think so many people wrongly label themselves as a straight talker but really they are just rude and insensitive bastards, but that's definitely not how you come across.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying it how it is, as long as you're respectful and only give your opinion when necessary.

Yep, like the people who think the likes of Katie Hopkins "say it how it is". Nah she's just a cunt.

Oh I'd knock that cunt out if I passed her in the street. She's a vile vile human. She's not just offensive, she's an arrogant self absorbed piece of shit who seems to think if you ain't got money then you're scum. I'll take being scum if that's what money turns you into

She hides behind ‘telling it like it is’ she doesn’t ‘tell it like it is’ at all. She says whatever shit is going to get her noticed and more money in her pocket. She’s just a trout with no moral compass

And people who follow people like her are arrogant enough to think everyone else agrees which is why she is just "telling it like it is" . Anyone who doesn't agree is either too shy to say so publicly or mentally challenged . "

‘She says what we’re all thinking’

Who

Who is thinking that Karen? I’m certainly not because I have a soul

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"People who spout on about how genuine or how nice they are. I can work out for myself whether i think your nice and genuine and those that say innit

Yeah this. I find that people who have to tell you how nice and genuine they are turn out to be anything but.

And i thought i was a nice person. "

perhaps you are but its a big turn off for me

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"People who spout on about how genuine or how nice they are. I can work out for myself whether i think your nice and genuine and those that say innit

Yeah this. I find that people who have to tell you how nice and genuine they are turn out to be anything but.

And i thought i was a nice person. perhaps you are but its a big turn off for me"

I'll get me coat. Lol

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear.

I'm not trying to blow smoke up your bum, but from what I know of you I would have to say that you are very direct, but you're not a dick about it. I think so many people wrongly label themselves as a straight talker but really they are just rude and insensitive bastards, but that's definitely not how you come across.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying it how it is, as long as you're respectful and only give your opinion when necessary.

Yep, like the people who think the likes of Katie Hopkins "say it how it is". Nah she's just a cunt.

Oh I'd knock that cunt out if I passed her in the street. She's a vile vile human. She's not just offensive, she's an arrogant self absorbed piece of shit who seems to think if you ain't got money then you're scum. I'll take being scum if that's what money turns you into

She hides behind ‘telling it like it is’ she doesn’t ‘tell it like it is’ at all. She says whatever shit is going to get her noticed and more money in her pocket. She’s just a trout with no moral compass

And people who follow people like her are arrogant enough to think everyone else agrees which is why she is just "telling it like it is" . Anyone who doesn't agree is either too shy to say so publicly or mentally challenged . "

Unfortunately, she is saying the quiet part out loud for some people.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"People who spout on about how genuine or how nice they are. I can work out for myself whether i think your nice and genuine and those that say innit

Yeah this. I find that people who have to tell you how nice and genuine they are turn out to be anything but.

And i thought i was a nice person. "

If you are people will see that fir themselves. I don't really think it's for us to judge about ourselves anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this isn't going to be popular but I really hate seeing

"They're lovely inside & out"

Sorry

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Plenty more fish in the sea ..... when you're utterly heartbroken

"

Yeah, it's so dismissive I feel. Like, oh, you're at the depths of despair but fuck it eh? Go do it all again as soon as ya can.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear.

I'm not trying to blow smoke up your bum, but from what I know of you I would have to say that you are very direct, but you're not a dick about it. I think so many people wrongly label themselves as a straight talker but really they are just rude and insensitive bastards, but that's definitely not how you come across.

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying it how it is, as long as you're respectful and only give your opinion when necessary.

Yep, like the people who think the likes of Katie Hopkins "say it how it is". Nah she's just a cunt.

Oh I'd knock that cunt out if I passed her in the street. She's a vile vile human. She's not just offensive, she's an arrogant self absorbed piece of shit who seems to think if you ain't got money then you're scum. I'll take being scum if that's what money turns you into

She hides behind ‘telling it like it is’ she doesn’t ‘tell it like it is’ at all. She says whatever shit is going to get her noticed and more money in her pocket. She’s just a trout with no moral compass

And people who follow people like her are arrogant enough to think everyone else agrees which is why she is just "telling it like it is" . Anyone who doesn't agree is either too shy to say so publicly or mentally challenged .

Unfortunately, she is saying the quiet part out loud for some people."

Some people yes. But I'd never be arrogant enough to assume that because someone well known says something I agree with that means everyone is thinking it. That's never going to be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't judge me"

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Living My Best Life’, ‘Living It Large’ and a plethora of other modern ‘hip’ phrases.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Don't hate the player, hate the game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That one line always makes me think.....

"i'm stuck up my own bottom and I'm wonderful, even though I'm a total asshole who thinks I'm perfect"

Aarrgghhhh...... I had this exact conversation yesterday and I'm still raging over it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't hate the player, hate the game. "

Yessss, this one, trying to make excuses for your digusting behaviour

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"I am what I am and if you don't like it you know what to do" absolutely be your own person but to me this comes across like you are a uncompromising tit. We're all wrong from time to time, everyone can always learn new life skills and how to deal with situations better.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


""I am what I am and if you don't like it you know what to do" absolutely be your own person but to me this comes across like you are a uncompromising tit. We're all wrong from time to time, everyone can always learn new life skills and how to deal with situations better. "

I had Gloria Gaynor in my head from the first few words....

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

me too when I was writing it

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest


""I am what I am and if you don't like it you know what to do" absolutely be your own person but to me this comes across like you are a uncompromising tit. We're all wrong from time to time, everyone can always learn new life skills and how to deal with situations better. "
forgot to say depending on the context its used

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Don't hate the player, hate the game.

Yessss, this one, trying to make excuses for your digusting behaviour"

Oh yes! How's about, I'd rather not play the damn game because it's immoral or causes hurt. Fucking twats.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


""I am what I am and if you don't like it you know what to do" absolutely be your own person but to me this comes across like you are a uncompromising tit. We're all wrong from time to time, everyone can always learn new life skills and how to deal with situations better.

I had Gloria Gaynor in my head from the first few words.... "

Cracking song though

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"Don't hate the player, hate the game.

Yessss, this one, trying to make excuses for your disgusting behavior"

Exactly! You don't have to play the game.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Those that say that they 'don't care if they're not liked by others'.

.

This normally written by those that know they're not liked.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


""I am what I am and if you don't like it you know what to do" absolutely be your own person but to me this comes across like you are a uncompromising tit. We're all wrong from time to time, everyone can always learn new life skills and how to deal with situations better.

I had Gloria Gaynor in my head from the first few words....

Cracking song though "

Amen sister!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said don’t hate the player, hate the game just this morning.

I said it to my flat mate as I used up the last of the milk.

No regrets

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I use a fair few of the examples given on here

I’ll get me coat (has anyone put that yet?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obvs.......

Need a kick in nether regions if you use that "

You've never kicked me x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I use a fair few of the examples given on here

I’ll get me coat (has anyone put that yet?) "

Damn.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Those that say that they 'don't care if they're not liked by others'.

.

This normally written by those that know they're not liked. "

Hmmmm, depends on context.

I'd rather not be liked by people who have ugly souls and lack moral compass.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

'No drama.' Often the opposite is meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said don’t hate the player, hate the game just this morning.

I said it to my flat mate as I used up the last of the milk.

No regrets

"

Shameless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that respond with "fair" when they can't think of an actual response.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Those that say that they 'don't care if they're not liked by others'.

.

This normally written by those that know they're not liked.

Hmmmm, depends on context.

I'd rather not be liked by people who have ugly souls and lack moral compass.

"

I meant when saying it in general, not if said to someone directly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone says "I'm not being rude / racist / generally cuntish, but...." it's clear a precursor to them being exactly that!

Really grinds my gears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says "I'm not being rude / racist / generally cuntish, but...." it's clear a precursor to them being exactly that!

Really grinds my gears. "

But is it them you're looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger"

Because a) its bollocks! And b) its misquoted and totally out of context (unless you actually are a nazi who believes in the Ubermench)

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

When being come on too

"sorry not interested and I'm married"

"so, what he/she don't know won't hurt him/her"

You need to piss off before I throat punch you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone says "I'm not being rude / racist / generally cuntish, but...." it's clear a precursor to them being exactly that!

Really grinds my gears.

But is it them you're looking for? "

It always is matey, it always is

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Two general ones that make me irrationally angry: in regard to TV programmes, I hear people increasingly refer to "seasons" of a show. No, we're in Britain where it's a series

And in the business world "going forward" gets my goat, too. You mean "in future"....

I caught myself using that last one once and had to have a stern word with myself

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"Obvs.......

Need a kick in nether regions if you use that "

Haha, me and Babygirl both use Obvs all the time.

The one that bugs me is

"It is what it is"

What is worse is that i catch myself using it ffs

Daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New normal

Stay safe

Social distancing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

Yaaaaaaaas yaaaas yas

I completely agree with you!

See this one confuses me. I do think I'm a straight talker but I don't intentionally be an arsehole. I'm aware I'm definite marmite. If I AM being an intentional arsehole tho I make it quite clear."

You don't have to be an arsehole to tell it as it is. Just have to be honest. It's the delivery that counts. Ie. "Yeah your going to die. Can you shut the door on the way out?" This would be an asshole.

My hate though is "Really?".when not used to express suprise but to express annoyance or irritation.

Ie. When I do door work and I refuse entry

Really?

My response is yes really. You really sound like a towie reject when you say that.

You really aren't that smart if you can't understand or comprehend the words no you can't come in.

And are you really suprised when you walk to the club door barefoot (well I say walk.) WKD blue in one hand knickers in other, and I don't let you in?. I could go on but, hey, you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New normal

Stay safe

Social distancing

"

100% This. New normal makes my teeth itch!!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Everything happens for a reason

God works in mysterious ways

"

The first one is true but so obvious that it doesn’t need saying!

The second is a matter of belief but it’s very glib even if God does exist.

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By *mperialMan
over a year ago

Chislehurst

Not a saying as such, but I cringe every time when people do that thing with their fingers to suggest quotation marks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh. When people say "lol" in a message as a reply.

Just lol. Nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those that say that they 'don't care if they're not liked by others'.

.

This normally written by those that know they're not liked. "

But I dont care, but i dont think im disliked really, just that you will always find some people dont like you, and im ok with that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a saying as such, but I cringe every time when people do that thing with their fingers to suggest quotation marks.

"

"......."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't hate the player, hate the game.

Yessss, this one, trying to make excuses for your digusting behaviour

Oh yes! How's about, I'd rather not play the damn game because it's immoral or causes hurt. Fucking twats.

"

I wonder if those people would say the same when its their child coming back heartbroken by "the game"

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Don't hate the player, hate the game.

Yessss, this one, trying to make excuses for your digusting behaviour

Oh yes! How's about, I'd rather not play the damn game because it's immoral or causes hurt. Fucking twats.

I wonder if those people would say the same when its their child coming back heartbroken by "the game""

They'd be straight round there threatening, I can almost guarantee it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Those that say that they 'don't care if they're not liked by others'.

.

This normally written by those that know they're not liked.

But I dont care, but i dont think im disliked really, just that you will always find some people dont like you, and im ok with that x"

Like many of the things already said here - it doesn't apply to everyone and the context in how things are said does count. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Literally"

As in, I'm literally shitting myself about blah blah blah....

Well, Karen, I hope you arent on public transport typing this then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone puts ‘hehe’ in a message. I don’t know why but it just bugs me it’s definitely me being tightly wound though, it’s not offensive, harmful, rude etc

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

It seems what ever you say someone will take umbridge to it at some point.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

When someone describes themselves as 'reasonable' and then uses the word more than once, it's a sure sign that they're anything but.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Don’t hate the player, hate the game’

‘I’m a sayer’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone describes themselves as 'reasonable' and then uses the word more than once, it's a sure sign that they're anything but."

That ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best"

BULLSHIT! I dont know about anyone else, but when I'm at my worst I wouldn't expect anyone to handle me, because I can be a massive cunt.

And why wouldn't you want to be the best you can be at all times??

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


""If you can't handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best"

BULLSHIT! I dont know about anyone else, but when I'm at my worst I wouldn't expect anyone to handle me, because I can be a massive cunt.

And why wouldn't you want to be the best you can be at all times??"

This has an honorary mention on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not bad" in response to how are you?

And, people asking how you are in passing. Like they're actually going to stop and listen if you're not "not bad?" I just say "hello/good morning/afternoon" it's acknowledgement without fake interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone puts ‘hehe’ in a message. I don’t know why but it just bugs me it’s definitely me being tightly wound though, it’s not offensive, harmful, rude etc "

What about haha?

-serious ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""If you can't handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best"

BULLSHIT! I dont know about anyone else, but when I'm at my worst I wouldn't expect anyone to handle me, because I can be a massive cunt.

And why wouldn't you want to be the best you can be at all times??"

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


""not bad" in response to how are you?

And, people asking how you are in passing. Like they're actually going to stop and listen if you're not "not bad?" I just say "hello/good morning/afternoon" it's acknowledgement without fake interest."

I normally try and answer that question with something unusual. Just to be different.

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke FREE ENTRANCE ALL WEEKEND

'Tonight is your lucky night'

I always answer with 'Yes. I escaped you!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything religion based.

God's plan and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone puts ‘hehe’ in a message. I don’t know why but it just bugs me it’s definitely me being tightly wound though, it’s not offensive, harmful, rude etc

What about haha?

-serious ask! "

Haha is fine.

Hehe just makes me think they’re trying to be cute and failing.

Or now thanks to peach, it makes me think of a meme that she’s just sent me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

So.

Alexander Armstrong: And where do you come from Steven?

Contestant: So I'm from Sheepshead.

AA: What do you do for a living?

C: So I'm a farmer.

AA: And what do you like to do in your spare time?

C: So I like Morris Dancing and basket weaving.

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Plenty more fish in the sea ..... when you're utterly heartbroken

I dont bite ...... unless asked to

"

I know it’s bad but all I can think of is Shaun of the dead

I'm not gonna say if you love her let her go and I'm not gonna bombard you with clichés but what I will say is this...it's not the end of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Team work makes the dream work.

Usually said by lazy cunts who don't pull their weight.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Lets put on a show for the guys....

She means girl on girl fun.

Really infuriates me. I am not a circus performing animal. Instant no from me. 1 couple are still messaging us & she said this (others too). I have very little interest after she said that.

MsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only God can judge me

Which isn't untrue to some extent but as we love in a very social world you can expect shitting on ppl's shoes at Primark and expect no judgment from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete Facebook and Instagram etc .. and do your best to stay away from chavs and you'll never have to hear any of these phrases again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Moving forward" this phrase really irritates the hell out of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here- I’ve been here before so I know how it works.

In every day life- smile, it may never happen.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

For me it is not a phrase as such, more a way of speaking or writing.

I can't fucking stand gangster talk, or text speech. I think it makes you sound like an idiot, or a child.

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

Living my best life

What the fuck does that mean? Has anyone intentionally lived their worst?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

People who rattle on about how they are misunderstood.

If that many people as misunderstanding you, you probably need to take a look at yourself.

Oh and totally agree with the "telling it like it is" chat too!

Mrs TMN x

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By *aver999Couple
over a year ago

East Mids

tbh (nope not going to even write it out!)

The rise of certain words that have replaced perfectly good ones used for decades before.

Narrative, sense, journey, protagonist etc. It's almost as if someone has discovered a thesaurus for the first time.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"‘I tell it like it is’

People use it as justification to be an arsehole then try pass it off as a good personality trait.

"

Yes! You're a dick when and how it suits you (because I don't think you do it when it'll actually cost you), you lack diplomacy. Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and any one who says 'guys'

Like turning up to a restaurant and someone saying 'hey guys what would you like?'

There is only one male here, the other 3 are female, guys doesn't come into it.

I worked in restaurants for years and It really grated on me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Man up.

No. Let humans be humans, let men feel a full range of emotions if they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man up.

No. Let humans be humans, let men feel a full range of emotions if they want to."

Yes!!! On behalf of all men with depression and anxiety, thank you x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Man up.

No. Let humans be humans, let men feel a full range of emotions if they want to.

Yes!!! On behalf of all men with depression and anxiety, thank you x"

Solidarity x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever talking to someone I barely know at work:

- Is it beer o'clock yet?

- Working hard or or hardly working

- Is Monday over yet?

Maybe lockdown isn't so bad after all

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