FabSwingers.com forum: Advise please

By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Been suffering shoulder and neck pain for over two weeks now, living on painkillers.

I hate going to a doctor and with my recent medical history I don’t want to go

Nor to a hospital ( fuck that )

Anyone got any ideas?

My right arm is aching too

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Voltarol cream. Or heat patches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is go to a doctor.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Chiropractor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think the problem is muscular you can try going to a physio/sports therapist/massage person.

But if its something like a slipped disk you'll need medical scans to be properly diagnosed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand your reluctance to visit the GP, but based on your recent medical history, I think it would be wise to give them a call.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Most drs are doing over the phone consultations. I'd definitely give them a call, you could need some anti inflammatory, other pain killers or a referral to another Dr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stella you need to go I understand why you are worried but please go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be anything..If painkillers aren't working I definitely advise seeing a doctor.

Sometimes heat compressions help or cold. Just depends on what it is.. Difficult with muscle problems...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doctor and a trip to the physio

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"My advice is go to a doctor."

See the doc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Have you done anything different recently e.g. carried something, slipped down kerb, slept on a different bed or with different pillows? Does it feel muscular?

You could try heat or cold, a painkilling cream, gentle stretching, standing with a hot shower aimed at it or something that will relax the muscles like massage or meditation.

Hope it gets better soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ring the NHS help line lets face it swingers are in general not the best for medical advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put on your big girl pants and see a professional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes get a bad neck and shoulder usually a muscle in shoulder which effects the neck really painful ! I found some neck exercises on u tube which really helps but does take time ! Take ibuprofen rather than painkillers as they are a antiinflam so could help if it's a trapped nerve!

Good luck

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Would you avoid the dentist and seek "sexpert" advice from fab if you were having complications of dental decay?

Go see a healthcare professional

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"My advice is go to a doctor."

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Please go to the doctor. I've got bad back problems partly because I didn't get checked earlier

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"If you think the problem is muscular you can try going to a physio/sports therapist/massage person.

But if its something like a slipped disk you'll need medical scans to be properly diagnosed. "

No I have a broken vertebrae, which I have known about for 6 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer from neck and shoulder pain. Sat to long in front of the lap top.

Its usually tight, knotted muscles for me.

I have a massage every few months and it really helps. They use hot bamboo canes with oils rather than hands.

Might be worth a try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chiropractor, taking painkillers won’t get to the route of the problem. Good luck

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Not sure if you work from a desk Stell, if so you could be sitting funny or the chair or desk needs adjusting. Need to do a desk assessment, work should point you in the right direction.

Are you feeling stressed over anything? Stress can physically manifest in the body, particularly neck and shoulders (does for me). Need to try and address what's stressing you.

But ultimately if the pain carries on you need to go to the docs. Mine are doing assessments over the phone at the min, so you don't need to go in and sit with the germy folks.

Hope you are ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try and speak to your GP over the phone, or video call? This way you may get a referral to a physio without going in to see the doctor? Heat patches or cream as others have said also?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NHS website. You can go through symptom checker on 111.nhs.uk

Also they have great write ups for stuff like this and exercises (https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/neck-pain-and-stiff-neck/).

If continues though then it has to be GP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It def needs checking out professionally. I appreciate you dont like doctors etc but no cream or pain killers will resolve the problem with the sounds of it.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

You need to get a diagnosis to work out whether it is joint or muscle pain. I tore the muscle under the shoulder blade and physio didn’t help, two lots of acupuncture did however

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could come and give you a good rub....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would ring the NHS help line lets face it swingers are in general not the best for medical advice."

What she said!

I haven't got the faintest idea on your medical history OP, or why you are reluctant to seek proper advice, but your GP or the NHS help lines in the first instance should be your first contacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With your medical history I'd refer you to your doctor/consultant for a medical diagnosis or permission to treat before I looked at you ... xxx

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"With your medical history I'd refer you to your doctor/consultant for a medical diagnosis or permission to treat before I looked at you ... xxx"

I’m sure it’s purely muscular, I just have a nagging doubt..

I’m struggling to do much, I can put up with pain, having gone through throat cancer.

But fuck it’s bloody uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely recommend a trip to the physio. They will help ascertain what is causing the issue as well as treating it

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Ordered heat pads

But think this is more than muscular issue

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Hope they help OP you’ll know with a couple of hours of using them, but you really should speak to the doc to be sure

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Hope they help OP you’ll know with a couple of hours of using them, but you really should speak to the doc to be sure "

Have to say you don’t look 49

Amazing body xxx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I would ring the NHS help line lets face it swingers are in general not the best for medical advice.

What she said!

I haven't got the faintest idea on your medical history OP, or why you are reluctant to seek proper advice, but your GP or the NHS help lines in the first instance should be your first contacts."

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

You recently battled a nasty disease, you are having pain in a site not too far away from to where the thing was.

I understand your reluctance, but you should really go to the doctor with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been suffering shoulder and neck pain for over two weeks now, living on painkillers.

I hate going to a doctor and with my recent medical history I don’t want to go

Nor to a hospital ( fuck that )

Anyone got any ideas?

My right arm is aching too"
sounds like nerve pain. Google physiotherapy for neck pain and try that. I had a bad time with neck and head nerve pain. It did eventually ease after about a month. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ordered heat pads

But think this is more than muscular issue"
have you tried a tens machine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See a dr!!

A swingers site is not the place for medical advice!

I’m currently awaiting a nerve conduction test then possible surgery.

Hope that you get sorted soon.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Ordered heat pads

But think this is more than muscular issue have you tried a tens machine?"

Oooh that’s a thought I have one too

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"See a dr!!

A swingers site is not the place for medical advice!

I’m currently awaiting a nerve conduction test then possible surgery.

Hope that you get sorted soon. "

It is a swingers site where you can’t meet at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See a dr!!

A swingers site is not the place for medical advice!

I’m currently awaiting a nerve conduction test then possible surgery.

Hope that you get sorted soon.

It is a swingers site where you can’t meet at the moment"

Yes I understand that, however you can socialise at a safe distance but still not the place to get medical advice from, just saying

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