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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I used to perform burlesque and fecking loved it! However, it's been a while (years) and I'm not sure I'd be any good anymore...

J has been waiting forever (well, the almost 5 years we've been seeing each other) for me to give him a private performance.

Many times I've promised him a burlesque-y lap dance. And so far I've not had the minerals to do it

What am I waiting for?

Should I just chuck a few drinks down my neck and get it done this weekend?

Have you ever danced for your partner? Or anyone?

We're you as much of a pussy about it as I'm being?

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you used to perform it whats stopping you now?

do it ffs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have danced for a couple of partners yes. Quite inebriated at the time, but thoroughly enjoyed it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you used to perform it whats stopping you now?

do it ffs!!!"

Somehow it's easier performing for a room full of strangers than my boyfriend...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have danced for a couple of partners yes. Quite inebriated at the time, but thoroughly enjoyed it... "

Oh I'm definitely gonna need a few rums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have danced for a couple of partners yes. Quite inebriated at the time, but thoroughly enjoyed it...

Oh I'm definitely gonna need a few rums "

Do it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you used to perform it whats stopping you now?

do it ffs!!!

Somehow it's easier performing for a room full of strangers than my boyfriend... "

odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually did it sober! Felt a right wally, but he appreciated so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have danced for a couple of partners yes. Quite inebriated at the time, but thoroughly enjoyed it...

Oh I'm definitely gonna need a few rums "

Don’t think about it just go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if me d*unk twerking dressed as a elf singing I’m elf on the shelf counts for dancing for my partner....... no wonder we didn’t stay together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you used to perform it whats stopping you now?

do it ffs!!!

Somehow it's easier performing for a room full of strangers than my boyfriend...

odd"

Why's that odd?

I'm not overly bothered what strangers think of me...i was there to enjoy myself.

I'd be performing for him...i want him to enjoy it, I care what he thinks....hence the nerves.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've done it. It's often more fun if you can have a laugh while you do. An ex play partner made me do the teapot dance during a strip tease for her and my partner at the time. I still smile thinking about it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it! I'm positive that your partner will lose his mind and love every second. If you need a drink to relax you then have a few. But definitely give him the burlesque experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder if me d*unk twerking dressed as a elf singing I’m elf on the shelf counts for dancing for my partner....... no wonder we didn’t stay together "

Please tell me there's a video!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you used to perform it whats stopping you now?

do it ffs!!!

Somehow it's easier performing for a room full of strangers than my boyfriend...

odd

Why's that odd?

I'm not overly bothered what strangers think of me...i was there to enjoy myself.

I'd be performing for him...i want him to enjoy it, I care what he thinks....hence the nerves."

get them all to dress up as clowns, full make up the lot then you wont tell which one is your partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've done it. It's often more fun if you can have a laugh while you do. An ex play partner made me do the teapot dance during a strip tease for her and my partner at the time. I still smile thinking about it now. "

love this! We laugh pretty constantly so it'll either be erotic or hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if me d*unk twerking dressed as a elf singing I’m elf on the shelf counts for dancing for my partner....... no wonder we didn’t stay together

Please tell me there's a video! "

Thankfully not however others in the forum witnessed it as I also twerked out the balcony window at them after the MLS

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for it! I'm positive that your partner will lose his mind and love every second. If you need a drink to relax you then have a few. But definitely give him the burlesque experience. "

I think I might

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you used to perform it whats stopping you now?

do it ffs!!!

Somehow it's easier performing for a room full of strangers than my boyfriend...

odd

Why's that odd?

I'm not overly bothered what strangers think of me...i was there to enjoy myself.

I'd be performing for him...i want him to enjoy it, I care what he thinks....hence the nerves.

get them all to dress up as clowns, full make up the lot then you wont tell which one is your partner "

It'll just be he and I.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Go for it

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"if you used to perform it whats stopping you now?

do it ffs!!!

Somehow it's easier performing for a room full of strangers than my boyfriend... "

I've performed strippery pole/chair dance in the studio I train at and completely agree with you here. My bf at the time was in the audience so of course it was sexy/slutty for him but I didn't mind performing with a room of others there. On and 1 to 1 situation though I would freak out haha! I don't know why though but yeah maybe because it's so much more intimate?

But yes you should have a couple cheeky gins and maybe a tequila and just go for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you used to perform it whats stopping you now?

do it ffs!!!

Somehow it's easier performing for a room full of strangers than my boyfriend...

I've performed strippery pole/chair dance in the studio I train at and completely agree with you here. My bf at the time was in the audience so of course it was sexy/slutty for him but I didn't mind performing with a room of others there. On and 1 to 1 situation though I would freak out haha! I don't know why though but yeah maybe because it's so much more intimate?

But yes you should have a couple cheeky gins and maybe a tequila and just go for it "

I'm going to have to I think...hes waited long enough I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do it on cam in the chatroom then you'll have a audience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my DD a lapdance, felt like a total tit, but i think he really liked it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do it on cam in the chatroom then you'll have a audience."

I don't want one...

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Do it only if you feel comfortable enough. Vulnerability is beautiful but sometimes it's not the right thing to put yourself in a challenging position.

Take turns.. Share instead of perform?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do it only if you feel comfortable enough. Vulnerability is beautiful but sometimes it's not the right thing to put yourself in a challenging position.

Take turns.. Share instead of perform? "

No chance of that...he won't even dance WITH me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do it only if you feel comfortable enough. Vulnerability is beautiful but sometimes it's not the right thing to put yourself in a challenging position.

Take turns.. Share instead of perform?

No chance of that...he won't even dance WITH me "

he wont dance with ya!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do it only if you feel comfortable enough. Vulnerability is beautiful but sometimes it's not the right thing to put yourself in a challenging position.

Take turns.. Share instead of perform?

No chance of that...he won't even dance WITH me

he wont dance with ya!"

He won't dance full stop.

He's not one for being the centre of attention.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I had a forfeit of doing a lap dance for Mr N when we were playing a game at a guys house. Somehow it was easier with another guy there and a glass of something in my hand.

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By *hereswallyMan
over a year ago

peterborough

I would dance with you and make you the centre of my attention so go for it make him the centre of your attention then get him dancing with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it by yourself first. A little practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to perform burlesque and fecking loved it! However, it's been a while (years) and I'm not sure I'd be any good anymore...

J has been waiting forever (well, the almost 5 years we've been seeing each other) for me to give him a private performance.

Many times I've promised him a burlesque-y lap dance. And so far I've not had the minerals to do it

What am I waiting for?

Should I just chuck a few drinks down my neck and get it done this weekend?

Have you ever danced for your partner? Or anyone?

We're you as much of a pussy about it as I'm being?

Lu "

You should do it! Regardless of how technically good it may be, you'll be giving your man a lapdance and I'll bet he'll love it. I know I'd enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a forfeit of doing a lap dance for Mr N when we were playing a game at a guys house. Somehow it was easier with another guy there and a glass of something in my hand.

"

One thing is certain...if I do it, I will definitely be having a drink or 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to perform burlesque and fecking loved it! However, it's been a while (years) and I'm not sure I'd be any good anymore...

J has been waiting forever (well, the almost 5 years we've been seeing each other) for me to give him a private performance.

Many times I've promised him a burlesque-y lap dance. And so far I've not had the minerals to do it

What am I waiting for?

Should I just chuck a few drinks down my neck and get it done this weekend?

Have you ever danced for your partner? Or anyone?

We're you as much of a pussy about it as I'm being?

Lu

You should do it! Regardless of how technically good it may be, you'll be giving your man a lapdance and I'll bet he'll love it. I know I'd enjoy it!"

I think I'm gonna...

He will see this in the morning and hopefully get all excited...that will encourage me

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I wonder if me d*unk twerking dressed as a elf singing I’m elf on the shelf counts for dancing for my partner....... no wonder we didn’t stay together "

Listen, beautiful, you could twerk for me any time

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

In my 20s when I (Luke) was much fitter than I am now, I had a friend who was a professional dance instructor. She used to run burlesque classes and hen nights. She needed strippers for the hen nights so she asked some of the guys she knew, including me, to save on agency fees. She created a full choreographed routine for me which a couple of lovers have seen.

A small number of Fab ladies have expressed an interest in seeing it. Some day after lockdown I may do it again. If anybody wants to join the party do let us know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ve lap danced for my girl and up until a few months ago we d dance slow blues or jive together or she d see me putting together a contemporary dance. She and her gf have asked me to do a kilted striptease film for them which I ll do in next few days. Just go for it girl..but I get it if its a confidence thing or the desire. Most of my dance stopped a few months ago as their doesn t seem to be a point now and it frustrates and upsets me that I can only dance in my home or alone in the wilds, so I dont bother.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It was 40 years ago but I still have fond memories of a striptease an ex performed for me.It led to some incredible sex.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was 40 years ago but I still have fond memories of a striptease an ex performed for me.It led to some incredible sex.

Mike"

Haha..I ll bet...a lapdance for my gf at a party certainly got the party revellers in party mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yepp, I've danced for most of the partners I've had in the past.

I just let my alter ego out and go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did one for a partner last year, I was so nervous but the look on his face let me know how much he was enjoying it. And the sex after was very hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely go for it! Bit of Dutch courage first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm feeling the wave of encouragement people!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Practise on a gal pal first! Get the perfect outfit and music. In the words of Nike. Just do it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Practise on a gal pal first! Get the perfect outfit and music. In the words of Nike. Just do it!

"

This is my current problem...which song?!

I have several that have the "stripper song" effect

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just go for it ..I'd love a burlesque dance to tease me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm a woman .. W O M A N Peggy Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to perform burlesque and fecking loved it! However, it's been a while (years) and I'm not sure I'd be any good anymore...

J has been waiting forever (well, the almost 5 years we've been seeing each other) for me to give him a private performance.

Many times I've promised him a burlesque-y lap dance. And so far I've not had the minerals to do it

What am I waiting for?

Should I just chuck a few drinks down my neck and get it done this weekend?

Have you ever danced for your partner? Or anyone?

We're you as much of a pussy about it as I'm being?

Lu "

If you've been together five years, then I doubt you'd find a more supportive or appreciative audience than him. Do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling the wave of encouragement people! "

Honestly he'll love it, even if it goes wrong ... What music are you thinking about ?

I did mine to Portishead - Roads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to perform burlesque and fecking loved it! However, it's been a while (years) and I'm not sure I'd be any good anymore...

J has been waiting forever (well, the almost 5 years we've been seeing each other) for me to give him a private performance.

Many times I've promised him a burlesque-y lap dance. And so far I've not had the minerals to do it

What am I waiting for?

Should I just chuck a few drinks down my neck and get it done this weekend?

Have you ever danced for your partner? Or anyone?

We're you as much of a pussy about it as I'm being?

Lu

If you've been together five years, then I doubt you'd find a more supportive or appreciative audience than him. Do it!"

Oh I know he will enjoy it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm feeling the wave of encouragement people!

Honestly he'll love it, even if it goes wrong ... What music are you thinking about ?

I did mine to Portishead - Roads "

Great song choice!

I'm thinking either closer by nine inch nails or go fuck yourself by two feet. Probably the latter as it's only a minute and a half long

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"I wonder if me d*unk twerking dressed as a elf singing I’m elf on the shelf counts for dancing for my partner....... no wonder we didn’t stay together "

I think the fact that you did this d*unk violated elf and safety regulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love doing it. I’m such a show pony after a glass of wine though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love doing it. I’m such a show pony after a glass of wine though "

I'll more than likely need a bottle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I go to dance classes every week before covid. And it's just confidence, why don't you find your music and set yourself a routine so that it eliminates nerves a bit?

Since I've no class to go to started a routine and I video it so I don't forget it. It's all about confidence you've got the moves, get back into your dance groove.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to dance classes every week before covid. And it's just confidence, why don't you find your music and set yourself a routine so that it eliminates nerves a bit?

Since I've no class to go to started a routine and I video it so I don't forget it. It's all about confidence you've got the moves, get back into your dance groove. "

Share please....

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Go for it! Says the woman who would never have the guts too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for it! Says the woman who would never have the guts too x "

I'm still not sure I have yet

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Go for it, once you get started you’ll enjoy it as much as he is! I’ll dance for my partner now and again, or in a club for some lady friends. Or pretty much anyone who’s in viewing distance after a vino or two.

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