FabSwingers.com forum: How important is intelligence in potential meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do love a bit of intelligence and also good banter, how important is this to you guys? X

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Critical!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you explain?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

To some it will matter, to others less so ... and that in a nutshell is Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your perception of intelligence

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Depends on the sort of intelligence you mean? For me personally there are many different kinds of intelligence.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Meeting of minds is essential. Not necessarily intelligence as such..

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Emotional Intelligence is just as important as Brain Intelligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on your perception of intelligence "

This

Social/interpersonal intelligence

Skill based intelligence

Knowledge based intelligence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can you explain?"

This really? Do you mean cultured and knowledgeable, or just not a neanderthal...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on your perception of intelligence "

Good informed conversation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting of minds is essential. Not necessarily intelligence as such.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on your perception of intelligence

Good informed conversation x"

I am well informed about French politics are you though ?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Going with the commonly accepted definition of intelligence, I'd rank it pretty highly but then my intellectual vanity is through the roof

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Emotional Intelligence is just as important as Brain Intelligence "

Agreed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just need to get on well.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"can you explain?

This really? Do you mean cultured and knowledgeable, or just not a neanderthal...?

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you explain the question in layman’s terms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you explain the question in layman’s terms"

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

East London

I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define intelligence. I’ve been bored stupid by men with PhDs and fascinated by men who can explain how to fix my car...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Critical!

Mrs TMN x"

Agree

No brain, no gain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"can you explain?

This really? Do you mean cultured and knowledgeable, or just not a neanderthal...?

Just someone who can hold a decent well informed conversation, nothing to do with education, I suppose different people perceive this in different ways x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on your perception of intelligence

Good informed conversation x

I am well informed about French politics are you though ? "

Lol I am not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the type of intelligence and the person in question.

As I’ve said before, connection is key!! Which probably means that they have to be on a level of emotional/intellectual intelligence to stimulate me. X

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay "

Queen's gambit or the Sicillian Defense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its often more an energy for me that i pick up on. But also, yeah, they can't be a Neanderthal. My general current knowledge is poor, but I can still apply common sense to any conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay

Queen's gambit or the Sicillian Defense?"

I assumed he meant the soundtrack to the musical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotional intelligence. Someone who can engage my mind. As long as I can have lots of laughs and enjoy someone’s company then I’m happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay "

I like to play afterwards naked in bed. True fact.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Define intelligence. I’ve been bored stupid by men with PhDs and fascinated by men who can explain how to fix my car...

I thought every man on Fab boasted a PHD...

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay

Queen's gambit or the Sicillian Defense?

I assumed he meant the soundtrack to the musical. "

I know him so well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define intelligence. I’ve been bored stupid by men with PhDs and fascinated by men who can explain how to fix my car...

I thought every man on Fab boasted a PHD...

Plenty of Hard Dickpics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay

Queen's gambit or the Sicillian Defense?

I assumed he meant the soundtrack to the musical.

I know him so well?"

You'll know his tactics then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Emotional intelligence. Someone who can engage my mind. As long as I can have lots of laughs and enjoy someone’s company then I’m happy. "

Yes indeed x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I prefer interesting guys

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay

Queen's gambit or the Sicillian Defense?

I assumed he meant the soundtrack to the musical.

I know him so well?

You'll know his tactics then. "

Small bullet shaped mints?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should treat every social as interviewing someone for a job.

if they dress in poor fitting clothes, superdry or some tacky fashion brand they are low quality and as a result will disappoint.

if they cannot have a conversation with you and are constantly looking at their phone you should get up and leave.

they are wasting your time and shows they are shallow, uninteresting and very self centered i.e. narcissistic

a shit fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define intelligence. I’ve been bored stupid by men with PhDs and fascinated by men who can explain how to fix my car...

I thought every man on Fab boasted a PHD...

Plenty of Hard Dickpics. "

Better than flaccid ones I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay "

Checkmate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on your perception of intelligence

This

Social/interpersonal intelligence

Skill based intelligence

Knowledge based intelligence?"

I suppose a little of all where possible

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

As some have said before intelligence can sometimes be some what boring

Interesting people come is all guises, some are articulate others are funny or have amazing life stories

That's far more important than intelligence

ray

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

To explain a little better.

Football fans , no thank you.

Golfers, never going to happen.

Types and stereotypes.

Its not necessarily I.Q.

Personality counts far more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define intelligence. I’ve been bored stupid by men with PhDs and fascinated by men who can explain how to fix my car...

I thought every man on Fab boasted a PHD...

Plenty of Hard Dickpics.

Better than flaccid ones I suppose.

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"should treat every social as interviewing someone for a job.

if they dress in poor fitting clothes, superdry or some tacky fashion brand they are low quality and as a result will disappoint.

if they cannot have a conversation with you and are constantly looking at their phone you should get up and leave.

they are wasting your time and shows they are shallow, uninteresting and very self centered i.e. narcissistic

a shit fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"should treat every social as interviewing someone for a job.

if they dress in poor fitting clothes, superdry or some tacky fashion brand they are low quality and as a result will disappoint.

if they cannot have a conversation with you and are constantly looking at their phone you should get up and leave.

they are wasting your time and shows they are shallow, uninteresting and very self centered i.e. narcissistic

a shit fuck.

If a guy turned up in Lonsdale I'm out of there lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

oh and they have to have common sense

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"It depends on the type of intelligence and the person in question.

As I’ve said before, connection is key!! Which probably means that they have to be on a level of emotional/intellectual intelligence to stimulate me. X"

I agree with Mrs Cats on this one. I always look for intellectual stimulation of cerebral cortex however, I often find that intellectual prat’s often lack any common sense.... find a happy medium is often difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally I prefer someone who can have a laugh, talk at length on something that interests them in their life. But above all treats me not as a 'single guy who is out for sex' but someone who is interested in the woman as a whole, who doesn't take themselves too seriously.

Are we not all here to get along first and foremost as adults?

That is my thoughts, now 'it's time for bed said Zebedee!!'

Miller x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

University degrees or IQ scores mean nothing unless you have life experience and are prepared to challenge opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"University degrees or IQ scores mean nothing unless you have life experience and are prepared to challenge opinions "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite frankly, there is nothing sexier...

...boobs maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"University degrees or IQ scores mean nothing unless you have life experience and are prepared to challenge opinions "

Yes I agree x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Definitely a must. Intelligence commonsense but also what makes it for me is a great sense of humour and a great level of intelligent sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basic intelligence is a must. The ability to string a sentence together and have emotional intelligence.

I’m not bothered about how academically minded they are but I’ll give the Neanderthals a miss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely a must. Intelligence commonsense but also what makes it for me is a great sense of humour and a great level of intelligent sarcasm "

Me too x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nah, I like stoopid guys who can't run fast

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"It depends on the type of intelligence and the person in question.

As I’ve said before, connection is key!! Which probably means that they have to be on a level of emotional/intellectual intelligence to stimulate me. X"

To expand on my answer, I'm stealing this one! A meeting of minds, a connection.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he can spell spaghetti he can get me wetty so yeah I'd say it's very important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, I like stoopid guys who can't run fast

Poor old Forrest. So close.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Quite important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he can spell spaghetti he can get me wetty so yeah I'd say it's very important.

And if he can spell linguine, you'll suck his weeny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, I like stoopid guys who can't run fast

Poor old Forrest. So close. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he can spell spaghetti he can get me wetty so yeah I'd say it's very important.

And if he can spell linguine, you'll suck his weeny? "

I think I love you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basic intelligence is a must. The ability to string a sentence together and have emotional intelligence.

I’m not bothered about how academically minded they are but I’ll give the Neanderthals a miss."

this

intelligence is not all grammar and school/uni results ... some of those most intelligent are the thickest of all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he can spell spaghetti he can get me wetty so yeah I'd say it's very important.

And if he can spell linguine, you'll suck his weeny?

I think I love you. "

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"Nah, I like stoopid guys who can't run fast

Those rocket scientists are slippery, always getting away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you can't find your way there then you have seriously failed the test!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he's got a pulse I'm happy.

I don't want him for his brains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as there is chemistry and a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a quick wit and a mastery of the double entendre. Someone smart can usually work out how I tick and get right under my skin in the most appealing ways...

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Intelligence is a broad term. I don't expect to discuss politics, quantum physics or nuances of Roman history, but i do like to someone who can actually put some effort in conversation

Inability to conversate is like a screening tool for being a rubbish in bed.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"Intelligence is a broad term. I don't expect to discuss politics, quantum physics or nuances of Roman history, but i do like to someone who can actually put some effort in conversation

Inability to conversate is like a screening tool for being a rubbish in bed."

I could talk about the quantum of solace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely important, if you can't stimulate my mind you have no chance with stimulating my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Extremely important, if you can't stimulate my mind you have no chance with stimulating my body "

This.

And some imagination.

And empathy.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Male or Female mode I need my brain to be turned on. As others have quite rightly said, there’s different levels of intelligence so just someone who has a good working knowledge of the world, would be fine. I’ll leave the quantum physics for some other time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotional Intelligence is important and personality. Ultimately, you don't want someone who is super intellectual talking to you about the Battle of Vorenesh in WW2 but also not someone who can't spell their own name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a conversation on messaging. One that flows and is two-sided. Bit more than just single sentences or a few words.

I generally treat messaging like letter writing and a decent turn of phrase or artful comment can be as much a turn on as actual sexual stuff.

As others have said intrigue my mind and you will excite my mind and in turn my body.

There are different forms of intelligence from pure intellect to emotional intelligence. And maturity comes into it for me as well (no matter how old you actually are).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None essential for me I mean not looking for someone to have a phd in astrophysics or loop quantum mechanics

Not on a meet to talk shop and stuff

Would say simi intelligents is more important at least be able to hold a hafe way decent convo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say intelligence is important, but a degree of common sense, empathy and humour is essential..

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

Well they don’t have to be Nuclear Physicists but a broad general knowledge is always handy.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I always bring my school reports with me on dates and they usually say it's not needed

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

"If he can spell spaghetti he can get me wetty so yeah I'd say it's very important.

And if he can spell linguine, you'll suck his weeny?

I think I love you. "

Nice to see true romance blossom

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Intelligence and a sense of humour pretty much essential for me.

Primarily because I'm so hard to understand and a bit of a joke...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant be having sex with retards , probably why i am celibate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty vital when enjoying a post-sex game of Trivial Pursuit. Gotta get all those cheeses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man has t oat least have average intelligence even better if he has a sharp mind and the banter to go with it. If i wanted to be pleasured by a knuckle dragger I would just use a dildo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We absolutely need to meet people we can have a conversation with and have some banter with.

For us the social side is important not just sex so we want to be able to have fun with who we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err, hmmm, ohh, err, yer know,

Wot woz the kwestion again.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely... Nobody needs a plank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Err, hmmm, ohh, err, yer know,

Wot woz the kwestion again....."

Its kweshchun. God!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While a certain level of intelligence is something I look for, having something in common to talk about in equally as important.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

East London

"I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay

Queen's gambit or the Sicillian Defense?"

Haha I'd let her know who the Magnus in bed was

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

East London

"I like to play chess before sex its my idea of foreplay

I like to play afterwards naked in bed. True fact. "

If the queen is naked I've already lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love a bit of intelligence and also good banter, how important is this to you guys? X"

Has to be part of the equation ..doesn't it ??...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's crucial for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do love a bit of intelligence and also good banter, how important is this to you guys? X

Has to be part of the equation ..doesn't it ??..."

I would say so x

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"I do love a bit of intelligence and also good banter, how important is this to you guys? X

Has to be part of the equation ..doesn't it ??...

I would say so x"

Definitely has to be done kind of mental connection / stimulation.

Much as I'm a wannabe total tart, I can't bump uglies with just anyone

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"I do love a bit of intelligence and also good banter, how important is this to you guys? X"

More so than I care to admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love a bit of intelligence and also good banter, how important is this to you guys? X"

For me, essential and outweighs the physical. Thankfully I've met a few ladies who feel the same way.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I do love a bit of intelligence and also good banter, how important is this to you guys? X"

laughter and banter are more important than intelligence on meets for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intellect or a symposium of 2.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Intelligence can be subjective , We need interesting conversation and like sharp switched on people but they don’t have to be super brainy, often find academics or people who cain to be intelligent can be quite dull and slow. Quite like geeks they , they are sweet

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Emotional intelligence is much more important to me than IQ

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

An ability to communicate well matters to me. That's not necessarily intelligence

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"An ability to communicate well matters to me. That's not necessarily intelligence"

Yeah agreed, we don't necessarily need deep intellectual conversation to be able to enjoy great sex with someone

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Got to have brains if I am going to fuck them out

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"should treat every social as interviewing someone for a job.

if they dress in poor fitting clothes, superdry or some tacky fashion brand they are low quality and as a result will disappoint.

if they cannot have a conversation with you and are constantly looking at their phone you should get up and leave.

they are wasting your time and shows they are shallow, uninteresting and very self centered i.e. narcissistic

a shit fuck.

What about generic tribal tattoos ?

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