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"I’d like to know the answer too " Me three. OP, head up north  | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ?" What have you done for them lately?  | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ?" What about pleasing the lady you hope to attract? | |||
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"That’s absolutely not a problem and goes without saying" It needs saying though. You can't expect women to just assume | |||
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"I get the impression that a lot of women get approached with an agenda. We get to know people purely because we like them. We want to make friends regardless of whether somebody is interested in us sexually or not. It just so happens that in this community, when that kind of connection is made, people are often open to friendships which are not purely platonic. We have got to know various women to varying levels who have expressed an interest in us that is not purely social, and we haven't even tried to find that. They feel comfortable with us because we don't have an agenda, and that's when doors can open up, as indeed they have for us. " This  | |||
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"Single ladies are asked by so many. I'd love to be part of a triangle in a poly relationship but I'm greedy and would want both to love me "I realise there are lots of different opinions on the definitions of poly relationships but that is mine. You love her, she loves you, you love me, i love you, I love her, she loves me  | |||
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"Asked to help is often part of the problem. Many guys and couples (the man) message asking me to lick their woman, then watch them fuck and then clean up. It's no mention of my pleasure, desire or any consideration of what I might like. Although I'm not against helping others fulfil their fantasy, it's not very turn on (for me) when people forget I'm a person too.. it's not always clear from the message if the other women even is bi. Which I would prefer. But that might just be me.. " This is spot on x | |||
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"Single ladies are asked by so many. I'd love to be part of a triangle in a poly relationship but I'm greedy and would want both to love me
I realise there are lots of different opinions on the definitions of poly relationships but that is mine.
You love her, she loves you, you love me, i love you, I love her, she loves me "I was under the impression that this was how poly relationships worked anyway  | |||
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"Asked to help is often part of the problem. Many guys and couples (the man) message asking me to lick their woman, then watch them fuck and then clean up. It's no mention of my pleasure, desire or any consideration of what I might like. Although I'm not against helping others fulfil their fantasy, it's not very turn on (for me) when people forget I'm a person too.. it's not always clear from the message if the other women even is bi. Which I would prefer. But that might just be me.. " Definitely this. Your opening message kind of somes it up!! No one wants to be the gooseberry and sent packing once the job is done. Maybe try a club? | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ?" I (Hev) used to get asked to meet couples for FFM without Charlie. I would always reply, Yes if the F ofcouple was willing to return the favour and do FFM with me and Charlie (because being a horny man the thought of FFM gets him slathering at the chops) But the couples always said no to that, so I didn't meet them. | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ?" What I experienced here so far 1-everyone is looking for someone for their pleasure and don’t care about other side. 2-fake pictures and lie. 3-can’t understand why but many arrogant and rude people. I don’t know you but I can understand you. | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ? What about pleasing the lady you hope to attract? " Yes Unicorns are not Circus performers.  | |||
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"Maybe cause they aren’t ‘The help’" You have taken my question to literally “Help“ was maybe a poor choice of words sorry it wasn’t meant like that | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ?" Covid-19? | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ? What I experienced here so far 1-everyone is looking for someone for their pleasure and don’t care about other side. 2-fake pictures and lie. 3-can’t understand why but many arrogant and rude people. I don’t know you but I can understand you. " I can assure you none of the above applies to us as a couple I think I may have phased the question wrongly this is all about EVERYONES pleasure needs and wants not some kind of ego trip as I’m sure any of our verifying couples will confirm we are totally genuine and would always won’t to meet socially first so there can be no deception | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ? Covid-19?" If was more of a question of the last 2 yrs not the last 6 months but I take your point | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ? What about pleasing the lady you hope to attract? Yes Unicorns are not Circus performers. "As I’ve said maybe I phrased the question wrongly I wasn’t suggesting anything of the sort | |||
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"we would love to find a female to be part of our lives, someone that wants to have coffee maybe go shopping nights out and some fun if its right for all. " Exactly that’s what we’re looking for | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ? I (Hev) used to get asked to meet couples for FFM without Charlie. I would always reply, Yes if the F ofcouple was willing to return the favour and do FFM with me and Charlie (because being a horny man the thought of FFM gets him slathering at the chops) But the couples always said no to that, so I didn't meet them. " I don’t see why they wouldn’t agree but I would respect their decision and probably do as you did | |||
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"Why is it sooo difficult to find a lady to help me please my lady ? Covid-19? If was more of a question of the last 2 yrs not the last 6 months but I take your point" Have you ever tried changing your profile? I change mine all the time and it gets me different results. If I'm negative it attracts negativity. If I'm positive/ friendly....
I change it depending on the type of person I'm looking for. Different text, different pics. It does work. Maybe worth a try. Good luck. | |||
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"Asked to help is often part of the problem. Many guys and couples (the man) message asking me to lick their woman, then watch them fuck and then clean up. It's no mention of my pleasure, desire or any consideration of what I might like. Although I'm not against helping others fulfil their fantasy, it's not very turn on (for me) when people forget I'm a person too.. it's not always clear from the message if the other women even is bi. Which I would prefer. But that might just be me.. Definitely this. Your opening message kind of somes it up!! No one wants to be the gooseberry and sent packing once the job is done. Maybe try a club? " As I said perhaps I didn’t phrase the question correctly it was never meant to be so disrespectful sorry | |||
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"You want a lady to help you please your lady, not have fun herself. She must be white, over 40, shaven, gym toned, wearing heels and seamed stockings and own a car. And you wonder why it is difficult to find someone ?" I’m not sure where you got all that from my question as that couldn’t be further from the truth | |||
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"You want a lady to help you please your lady, not have fun herself. She must be white, over 40, shaven, gym toned, wearing heels and seamed stockings and own a car. And you wonder why it is difficult to find someone ? I’m not sure where you got all that from my question as that couldn’t be further from the truth" It is all on your profile. I didn't just make it up. | |||
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"You want a lady to help you please your lady, not have fun herself. She must be white, over 40, shaven, gym toned, wearing heels and seamed stockings and own a car. And you wonder why it is difficult to find someone ? I’m not sure where you got all that from my question as that couldn’t be further from the truth It is all on your profile. I didn't just make it up. " Then clearly you didn’t read the profile Properly it states that the car you drive or where you live doesn’t give you class and that’s a statement about manors and respect. Clearly you have taken exception to my question and I’ve no idea why? And you have made it seem like we are looking a peace of meat !!! When if you read our profile or verifications you would see couldn’t be further from the truth !! Maybe you were having a bad day. | |||
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"You want a lady to help you please your lady, not have fun herself. She must be white, over 40, shaven, gym toned, wearing heels and seamed stockings and own a car. And you wonder why it is difficult to find someone ? I’m not sure where you got all that from my question as that couldn’t be further from the truth It is all on your profile. I didn't just make it up. Then clearly you didn’t read the profile Properly it states that the car you drive or where you live doesn’t give you class and that’s a statement about manors and respect. Clearly you have taken exception to my question and I’ve no idea why? And you have made it seem like we are looking a peace of meat !!! When if you read our profile or verifications you would see couldn’t be further from the truth !! Maybe you were having a bad day." I read it the same. Have you read your profile recently? Do you think it could seem aggressive or friendly? | |||
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