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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you become a part of the furniture in here?

That worn old Chesterfield catching a sunbeam in a dark corner, or a dusty book on the coffee table as opposed to that sparkling new item?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta keep polishing yourself and sprinkling on glitter fella....

Are you feeling that way or just asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you start saying .. I remember the good days.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

When you stop feeling sexy I suppose....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think of myself as a comfy old beanbag.

You have to remember that for some you will always sparkle and others might think that the gloss has tarnished. Regardless you are a value to the forums either way.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

When the clique accept you

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I feel like a comfy sofa!

Although I only have to take a few weeks break and I feel like I don’t have a place. It then takes a good few days to get back into the groove.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the clique accept you"

Don't mention the C word

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

We are always in the room.. just depends on how visible you wish to be. Sometimes it’s the good old side table that’s the one piece you realise you value the most. Shiny things often go out of fashion.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

When you can comment on a thread not not really mind how you are perceived or how it may be taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to think of myself as a comfy old beanbag.

You have to remember that for some you will always sparkle and others might think that the gloss has tarnished. Regardless you are a value to the forums either way."

Good point this. I often feel like ppl either notice me or don't, love me or hate me. You can't please the entire crowd so it's not worth trying to. Just enjoy what you enjoy, try to remain positive and hopefully some folk will enjoy you too, innit....

The furniture is always changing in here too or getting broken and replaced or folk redecorate depending on the latest trends....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to think of myself as a comfy old beanbag.

You have to remember that for some you will always sparkle and others might think that the gloss has tarnished. Regardless you are a value to the forums either way."

Awwww!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive been here 14 years and now sit in the corner watching the up and coming newbies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been here 14 years and now sit in the corner watching the up and coming newbies"

I remember you from years gone by

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"We are always in the room.. just depends on how visible you wish to be. Sometimes it’s the good old side table that’s the one piece you realise you value the most. Shiny things often go out of fashion. "

Spot on - some pieces of furniture come and go like a cheap bit of MFI - others are more sturdy and dependable, and more to the point, adaptable.

It's not so much about being part of the furniture as blending in with the other furniture and the decor no matter what the current trend is.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Ive been here 14 years and now sit in the corner watching the up and coming newbies

I remember you from years gone by "
much more mellowed and quieter these days

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I like being the book in the corner that gets picked up occasionally, because they know it and want to

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Ive been here 14 years and now sit in the corner watching the up and coming newbies"

Always smile when i see you commenting again.

Ive become an infrequent poster of late but have been around for over 10 years so im kind of like that piece of exercise equipment you pile clothes on and forget about for a while then think is fantastic when you find it again but then easily forgotten again

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Ive been here 14 years and now sit in the corner watching the up and coming newbies

Always smile when i see you commenting again.

Ive become an infrequent poster of late but have been around for over 10 years so im kind of like that piece of exercise equipment you pile clothes on and forget about for a while then think is fantastic when you find it again but then easily forgotten again"

Sounds like my peloton bike.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

.....only a sweet young thing ....hehe ....made of brass ....ahhhh .....I was vey vey d*unk

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Ive been here 14 years and now sit in the corner watching the up and coming newbies

Always smile when i see you commenting again.

Ive become an infrequent poster of late but have been around for over 10 years so im kind of like that piece of exercise equipment you pile clothes on and forget about for a while then think is fantastic when you find it again but then easily forgotten again

Sounds like my peloton bike. "

Might change my name lol

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Ive been here 14 years and now sit in the corner watching the up and coming newbies

Always smile when i see you commenting again.

Ive become an infrequent poster of late but have been around for over 10 years so im kind of like that piece of exercise equipment you pile clothes on and forget about for a while then think is fantastic when you find it again but then easily forgotten again

Sounds like my peloton bike.

Might change my name lol "

Not sure putting bike in your user name is a good idea. People may get the wrong idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Do you become a part of the furniture in here?

That worn old Chesterfield catching a sunbeam in a dark corner, or a dusty book on the coffee table as opposed to that sparkling new item?"

Why would you want to be part of the furniture?

Not conforming and challenging views and opinions is what forum debate is all about. If you just want to contribute to insanely dull discussion about tits, cocks and other bodily attributes and other such drivel then acceptance is only 10 posts away!

By the way the bank holiday bonkathon is seeking contributors!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Iv always felt quite comfortable here and iv only really been chatting in the fourms for six months and I still haven’t made my own thread

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I often feel like that corner of the rug, you know the one, it won’t lay flat and every now and then someone will stub their toe on it, turn with a vindictive glare in their eyes, offer up an expletive and then carry on their way

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Iv always felt quite comfortable here and iv only really been chatting in the fourms for six months and I still haven’t made my own thread "

You must change this today

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We are just that annoying flickering light in the corner that you notice every now and again

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I often feel like that corner of the rug, you know the one, it won’t lay flat and every now and then someone will stub their toe on it, turn with a vindictive glare in their eyes, offer up an expletive and then carry on their way"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been here 11 years and still feel that no one would even notice if I just slipped away.

Not a bad thing, just that life isnt permanent and people come and go.

I would say being "part of the furniture" is when you are past the "kid in a sweetshop" phase, and have a recognisable posting style, whether you post hourly, daily, weekly, monthly, or rarely xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If we're using furniture to describe ourselves I think Fab is like a shared house. It's not meant to be a permanent residence, the furniture won't match and it will have come from various different places. How people see it will depend on their personal taste and how well the furniture has been maintained.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"If we're using furniture to describe ourselves I think Fab is like a shared house. It's not meant to be a permanent residence, the furniture won't match and it will have come from various different places. How people see it will depend on their personal taste and how well the furniture has been maintained. "

Like a squat?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If we're using furniture to describe ourselves I think Fab is like a shared house. It's not meant to be a permanent residence, the furniture won't match and it will have come from various different places. How people see it will depend on their personal taste and how well the furniture has been maintained.

Like a squat?"

I wrote squat then changed it. Some of us pay rent

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"When you stop feeling sexy I suppose..."

I haven't even started that yet....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Weirdly that's not a feeling I get in any part of my life. There's places where I feel familiar with but not part of the furniture so to speak

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Just keep dusting down the cobwebs and reinvent yourself and all will be good.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Never really. It's abit like a large pub. There's a handful of regulars who always stick around but the turnover of the rest is fairly quick so if you don't show your face for a while you're quickly forgotten by all other than your friends. Though I quite like taking a break and seeing all the new faces when I come back. Or just others who have been around years who I just haven't bumped into before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you can comment on a thread not not really mind how you are perceived or how it may be taken. "

. Just no.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Ive been here 14 years and now sit in the corner watching the up and coming newbies

Always smile when i see you commenting again.

Ive become an infrequent poster of late but have been around for over 10 years so im kind of like that piece of exercise equipment you pile clothes on and forget about for a while then think is fantastic when you find it again but then easily forgotten again

Sounds like my peloton bike.

Might change my name lol

Not sure putting bike in your user name is a good idea. People may get the wrong idea "

Or will they???

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