FabSwingers.com forum: How romantic are you

By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

As a child did you dream of a big white wedding? Are you the type that is constantly falling in and out of love. Are you a mills and boon fan. Just how romantic are you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I was more a Mod/Rude Boy...Duran Duran, Spandau Ballet, Visage and all those pixie boots didn't do a lot for me back then...ohhhhhh...not that kind of romantic

I have my moments but they've been chipped away at by the experience of life...they're still there and get unleashed when appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too romantic for my own god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I can be. Romantic is so subjective after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all dream of a big white wedding when younger..

I use to fall in and out of love, well what I thought was love very easily, until I actually did really fall in love...

I am very much a romantic though with the right person. Nothing nicer than been wined and dined and the rest..love and affection is a wonderful thing..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I hated how girls were expected to want to get married and the stupid horse and carriage and huge princess dress

, I was adamant I'd never want to get married or live with a man.

I don't think I am particularly romantic - I love people (in a variety of ways) but the things I do are more thoughtful.There's a small part of me that loves what would typically be associated as romantic - you know like little love letters? Surprises? I'm not sure if it's the romance or more the thoughtful attention though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much for my own good.

Infact it's my romantic notions that have probably broken my heart the most.

That said I can't see me ever changing now x

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Ironically, my ex and I from years ago had planned out our wedding 5yrs or so ahead... But as I've grown older, I've become the romance ninja

and enjoy being unconventional in occasionally spoiling a special woman

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Nah, we're not romantic at all really......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very. Invariably leads to disappointment though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very romantic that’s my thing I tend to like to sweep woman off they feet make them feel special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incredibly. I love Disney and want to be a Disney princess with the prince who sweeps me off my feet. Sadly I’ve learned the hard way that the Disney thing is a bull and the princes turn into a toad rather than the frog to the prince

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Gosh by those criteria I'm a bit of a mixed bag. Marriage doesn't interest me. I do fall in love a lot though and I'm very giving to those who I feel deserve my affections. I'm probably a weird one though in that me loving someone doesn't come with a level of expectation or desire for where I want that connection to go. I just want them in my life for as long as they continue to make me warm and fuzzy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been in past relationships.

Not really been with anyone who was romantic

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Not that romantic to be honest, but I am faithful and supportive. The most romantic thing I used to do is turn up at my partners work and walk her home. As I loved the chance to talk whilst walking with no distractions.

So a romantic walk is as romantic as I get

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Don't have a romantic bone in my body

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve never wanted to get married, do the big wedding or wear a dress are you mad... that’s my idea of hell

My folks have always been told that if I did it, they’d find out about 48 hours before (if I told them) and then we grab fish and chip supper and sit in the park or on the beach, simple as.

However, there is part of me that has a soft side and it shows occasionally

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

lots and lots of romantic intentions but I like the little things more like sneaking a couple of biscuits out for a dog walk to share .. it's only romantic if they individually wrapped.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I can be very but it’s rare. Done the wedding thing but it wasn’t princess style it was really small with a great party afterwards. I’m a big fan of small gestures and thought. Much more between two people rather than for anyone else to see.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"As a child did you dream of a big white wedding? Are you the type that is constantly falling in and out of love. Are you a mills and boon fan. Just how romantic are you."

Going by those options i am obviously not at all romantic. Passionate maybe but not romantic. I was reading Jackir Collins books at aged 14 and would never entertain Mills and Boon.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm not romantic at all I'm afraid. I've never wanted to get married

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

As a kid getting married and a big wedding, wasn't at all on my radar. And I'm not into big romantic gestures they kind of make me uncomfortable. I'd rather a plant than a bunch of flowers.

But I guess it depends on your definition of romantic.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Didn’t dream of a big white wedding. Don’t let my heart be ruled by a man.

If I ever met a decent man then I would like there to be romance

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

P.S. Never read a Mills & Boon.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Not particularly romantic. I don't remember planning my wedding as a kid.

Sometimes though I pen a flowery poem or I might buy something that I know a partner would love.

I don't see this as being romantic but more as things I do when the whim takes me.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I'm not romantic at all I'm afraid. I've never wanted to get married "

Me neither. Never saw the point or need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just scoping out my fellow romantics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very romantic. I wear my heart quite loudly on my sleeve and like to make the people I care about happy with little gestures that mean something to them.

Waking my partner up with breakfast in bed, surprising him with something he noticed the previous month that I knew he wanted or just taking the time to snuggle in with him and watch a movie are the things that keep the love strong.

In terms of the big “white wedding” that’s never seemed romantic to me. I want to have a tiny, intimate wedding with only our nearest and dearest then fuck off on a long honeymoon just to be together.

The white wedding idea is to please others. I plan to marry to please my partner and I.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I was looking for a fairytale romance with the right girl when I was a teenager and in my 20s. Not so much now I've experienced life.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I am not a big over the top type romantic. I like nice little every day gestures. Buying their favourite sweets something you know they like.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We’re both romantics , like dating and seduction, random acts etc but not into falling in love and all that , only with each other !

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I am not a big over the top type romantic. I like nice little every day gestures. Buying their favourite sweets something you know they like. "

I bet you like lollipops?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I am not a big over the top type romantic. I like nice little every day gestures. Buying their favourite sweets something you know they like. "

I'm the same. Not into the traditional romantic ideas. It's the little things that are thoughtful and specific to you that are where it's at

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I am not a big over the top type romantic. I like nice little every day gestures. Buying their favourite sweets something you know they like.

I bet you like lollipops? "

I might do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by those options i am obviously not at all romantic. Passionate maybe but not romantic. I was reading Jackir Collins books at aged 14 and would never entertain Mills and Boon."

HA HA - this is me too. Massively passionate and when I am in, I am in. As for dreams and fantasy with romantic gestures, I struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defos did not dream of big white weddings, zero romantic, I am thoughtful though

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I read mills and boon avidly when I was younger, the art of seduction and falling in love really appealed to me, when I realised that I can feel this with more than one person I realised I was poly.

I have a couple of very special loving romantic relationships which are non committal, having love in a non possessive fwb relationship is an amazing thing

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