FabSwingers.com forum: Block list

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My block list gets bigger and bigger everyday!

The ones that I block mainly are the horrible statuses where they sound rude and aggressive towards women after they have been rejected. MASSIVE RED FLAG to me!

When you look at your block list, what are the main reasons you block people?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Because they're twats!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Brown belts worn with black shoes....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because they're twats!

Remember on family fortunes where the winning answer would get a prize .... you just won a speed boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're twats!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

People who send horrible messages

, people who mention anything to do with drugs and people who have status’ that are derogatory towards people

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I block very few. The ones i have blocked have crossed the line others i just ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a twat/bully or fake

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"People who send horrible messages

, people who mention anything to do with drugs and people who have status’ that are derogatory towards people

This pretty much sums mine up. Thankfully not many these days

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

I’ve been blocked by several women for turning down a meet with them .

Also for giving 48 hours notice that I couldn’t give one a lift to townhouse

Another for a lift to a club in bury

And 2 others because I decided not to renew there site pass

I’m never rude and can take rejection

Women are equally as rude as men on this site

Believe me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only guys who keep on messaging after I have said they are not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see them in Aldi and they don’t buy any brioche rolls

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I block men who ask for strangers to seduce their unaware wife, or give out their wife's phone number to guys from the net to see if they can entice them into sexy chat or swap photos of their partner.

Mr N blocks profiles that send messages just addressed to me.

We both block people who harass us.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I only block people who know me In real life, anything else I just make a private note about what they did that annoyed me, tbf though I don't get any nasty messages from people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority on my block list are couples. Rude, aggressive, threatening even sometimes. They often think it's OK to lay into blokes on here because they've had a bad experience. It's not OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I block people who are impolite on their mail replies. People who are up themselves and generally twats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many reasons why my list is so long

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Get myself blocked all time not as funuy as a hoped..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been blocked by several women for turning down a meet with them .

Also for giving 48 hours notice that I couldn’t give one a lift to townhouse

Another for a lift to a club in bury

And 2 others because I decided not to renew there site pass

I’m never rude and can take rejection

Women are equally as rude as men on this site

Believe me . "

The blocking for turning down a meet makes sense. You’re not interested in them, so blocking means you won’t turn up on any searches they do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I see them in Aldi and they don’t buy any brioche rolls "

*running to aldi for brioche now*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't really used mine yet, or would you know if I had?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I sometimes block people that post pictures that appear on my local updates that make my stomach churn

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"I’ve been blocked by several women for turning down a meet with them .

Also for giving 48 hours notice that I couldn’t give one a lift to townhouse

Another for a lift to a club in bury

And 2 others because I decided not to renew there site pass

I’m never rude and can take rejection

Women are equally as rude as men on this site

Believe me .

The blocking for turning down a meet makes sense. You’re not interested in them, so blocking means you won’t turn up on any searches they do."

Fair point - Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest block list was in 2018 i sat one night and counted 1500 people blocked

I only block if people can’t get the hint if I say I am not interested xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly its men that wouldn't leave me alone.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The majority I’ve blocked, is due to something they’ve posted on the forums. If they’ve showed their true colours on here I’d hate to be alone with them.

It wouldn’t be over a difference of opinion though, it’s only if they’ve shown discriminatory attitudes or really horrible opinions over a subject I care about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really only have about three these days, just gossips who give me shit on the forum mostly. It's not like a block from Nippy denies someone a great deal anyway. I don't get the thing about blocking ppl you've never spoken with and who you're never likely to speak with - we're all free to do what we like I guess, but who's really THAT important...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve been blocked by several women for turning down a meet with them .

Also for giving 48 hours notice that I couldn’t give one a lift to townhouse

Another for a lift to a club in bury

And 2 others because I decided not to renew there site pass

I’m never rude and can take rejection

Women are equally as rude as men on this site

Believe me . "

I imagine they are, but they also have to put up with a lot to. I just try to block and move on without letting things effect the way I am with peoole but sometimes on here you just scroll through messages like:

Allllllll the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly it’s those who repeatedly message, whether on purpose or accidentally as I’m on their searches again.

A few because of rude and vile messages and some that are local and seem familiar I block too.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Any status updates slating others or saying need my balls emptying /sucking constantly

Pushy people or repeat messages

This who send really crude 1st messages or have profiles full of their dicks or more of other women on show than them.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Blocked it's not really a bad thing some seemingly believe it is but in reality it just removes the white noise of fab if you find something posted offensive text or pictures is it likely you can get on if you ever met probably not the first impression will be already made just be pragmatic not referred to it as a block but No thank you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block people who who are rude to me/about others to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For being fake, or too high above their station.

For me.. there seems too much negativity on some people's profile's, too many NO's and DISLIKES rather than positivity in things they want to do or try in YES or LIKES, but maybe that's just my observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat messages or do not take no for an answer

Crude/offensive messages espeically when I have said no and then they come back with the personal attack on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

Even if they send vag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've some people because of crude messages not even a hello but straight to dirty talk. No working your way round or buttering you up straight to crude talk which I think should come later ,some people don't know how to talk to others. Also blocked people that repeatedly ask to meet now or tomorrow night even though you've repeatedly told them you have kids a life & need to plan meeting. It really winds me up my partner just hits the block button he's more ruthless than me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you might as well block me

everyone else does

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Only ever block if they rude/threatening/stalkerish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see them in Aldi and they don’t buy any brioche rolls

*running to aldi for brioche now* "

*licks lips*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people because :

They've sent me a message and clearly haven't read my profile / I'm not attracted to them for any reason or they aren't what I'm looking for / the message is copy pasted.

They've been rude or abusive to me.

They've said something I don't like in a status or on the forums.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I’ve been blocked by several women for turning down a meet with them .

Also for giving 48 hours notice that I couldn’t give one a lift to townhouse

Another for a lift to a club in bury

And 2 others because I decided not to renew there site pass

I’m never rude and can take rejection

Women are equally as rude as men on this site

Believe me . "

Yes this is true have had to block 2 very nasty women x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're twats!

This..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I block for a variety of reasons, mostly because I don't want to interact with them. Doesn't make them twats, just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

Even if they send vag

I'm STILL waiting Belle! STILL!!!

You can hit me with your vag repeatedly until I say the safe word....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

Even if they send vag

I'm STILL waiting Belle! STILL!!!

You can hit me with your vag repeatedly until I say the safe word....

Safe sentence* is "ooops sorry about the mess"

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

Even if they send vag

I'm STILL waiting Belle! STILL!!!

You can hit me with your vag repeatedly until I say the safe word....

Safe sentence* is "ooops sorry about the mess""

you mean you didn’t get my pic

I may have sent someone unsolicited vag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

Even if they send vag

I'm STILL waiting Belle! STILL!!!

You can hit me with your vag repeatedly until I say the safe word....

Safe sentence* is "ooops sorry about the mess"

you mean you didn’t get my pic

I may have sent someone unsolicited vag

Shut the front door!!!!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

Even if they send vag

I'm STILL waiting Belle! STILL!!!

You can hit me with your vag repeatedly until I say the safe word....

Safe sentence* is "ooops sorry about the mess"

you mean you didn’t get my pic

I may have sent someone unsolicited vag

Shut the front door!!!!

But I like the back door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block anyone that starts a convo with

'Fancy a chat?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block anyone that starts a convo with

'Fancy a chat?'"

Fancy a shag?

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Reserved for people who don’t deserve my time ... oops I sound like a woman

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

1 Age

2. Male being Bi

3. Horrible status or profile info.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block anyone that starts a convo with

'Fancy a chat?'

Fancy a shag?"

Also blocked

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By *aver999Couple
over a year ago

East Mids

we've only got 1 on our list so far, maybe as a couple we don't attract so many idiots as a single woman's profile or we are just too polite in our reply they don't bother us anymore?

Filters to the ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you all please add me to your block lists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, for whatever reason, we just wouldn’t meet them or be inclined to interact with them.

We have very itchy block button fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got a message from a couple in their early 20's no hello how are you nothing just Cam fun yes or no

I replied don't have a cam ... WhatsApp,snapchat or Skype I said only have WhatsApp not giving number out, got back just add us I said & they sent just... Y . I was pissed off by this stage so I just sent a cheeky message about them not taking the hint,not reading our profile as they'retoo young for us & we didn't bloody want to. It takes some people a long time to get the message!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

Even if they send vag

I'm STILL waiting Belle! STILL!!!

You can hit me with your vag repeatedly until I say the safe word....

Safe sentence* is "ooops sorry about the mess"

you mean you didn’t get my pic

I may have sent someone unsolicited vag

Shut the front door!!!!

But I like the back door

You're gonna make me cry....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block anyone that starts a convo with

'Fancy a chat?'"

What do you even say to that?!! Like "ummm yeah what you wanna chat about?"

Bit awkward ...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

Even if they send vag

I'm STILL waiting Belle! STILL!!!

You can hit me with your vag repeatedly until I say the safe word....

Safe sentence* is "ooops sorry about the mess"

you mean you didn’t get my pic

I may have sent someone unsolicited vag

Shut the front door!!!!

But I like the back door

You're gonna make me cry....

Please don’t cry baby cakes

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Because they're twats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess I'd probably block someone for unwanted repeat messages too if I had that luxury....

Even if they send vag

I'm STILL waiting Belle! STILL!!!

You can hit me with your vag repeatedly until I say the safe word....

Safe sentence* is "ooops sorry about the mess"

you mean you didn’t get my pic

I may have sent someone unsolicited vag

Shut the front door!!!!

But I like the back door

You're gonna make me cry....

Please don’t cry baby cakes

Drowning in my own eyejuice here, vagless....

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Dick pics and dick heads to match!

People I dislike

People I don’t wish to _iew my profile

Persistent messengers who won’t take no for an answer

And status drama llamas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dick pics and dick heads to match!

People I dislike

People I don’t wish to _iew my profile

Persistent messengers who won’t take no for an answer

And status drama llamas! "

Go DC!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Because they're twats!

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any status updates slating others or saying need my balls emptying /sucking constantly

Pushy people or repeat messages

This who send really crude 1st messages or have profiles full of their dicks or more of other women on show than them. "

Yes I'm starting to block repeated messengers as I received one today, a clear cut and paste for the 4th time.

I do my best to answer all, whether its a polite decline etc. With this man I did 1st time.

As well as all the pushy,harassing ones, repeats are now on my list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking the fake profiles is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latest addition to block list messaged me the same cut and paste message three times in 6 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list looks like the cast of "The Walking Dead"

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Rude, arrogant, childish and won't take no for an answer types are on mine

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By *in82Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Anyway.... on a different note. I’ve seen a bloody mouse in my hotel room tonight. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always said when someone gets too much just block them there is a lot of needy people on this website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have got to realise on a website like this if you tell someone too much information they can easily use it against you and and that's not right. As many people can see from my profile I'm very true and honest because that's just the way I am. Maybe I am too nice to be on here maybe I am too generous at the end of the day someone tells me some information about themselves I keep it quiet where some people just don't

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By *in82Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"People have got to realise on a website like this if you tell someone too much information they can easily use it against you and and that's not right. As many people can see from my profile I'm very true and honest because that's just the way I am. Maybe I am too nice to be on here maybe I am too generous at the end of the day someone tells me some information about themselves I keep it quiet where some people just don't

Peoples personal lives should never be repeated to the general public, ever, no matter who or what! . That goes without saying. Not only my job has been advertised which could now compromise my professional standing, but also personal details of my private life have also been shared to the world by someone I thought "was" a good friend!

Jeeeeez, no doubt my phone number will be up next!

Well done, Thunderace, well played!"

Can we not get the mods to delete this thread? I know it won’t change what’s happened, but it might help stop it spreading further?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Please do not use this thread to communicate with people you have blocked or vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please do not use this thread to communicate with people you have blocked or vice versa.

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Thank you x

I'd quite like to talk to a forum mod in private regarding this please? Thanks

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