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"Im terrible at photos and thought yesterday i should upload a recent facepic (which also shows my lockdown hair). Well It got the most fabs ive ever had! It was only 5 but go me lol" Lockdown hair has done wonders for some people.. and psstt you cant count. It says 6 | |||
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"Im terrible at photos and thought yesterday i should upload a recent facepic (which also shows my lockdown hair). Well It got the most fabs ive ever had! It was only 5 but go me lol Lockdown hair has done wonders for some people.. and psstt you cant count. It says 6 "Woah, what will i do with this new found fame  | |||
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"I also find my face pictures get more fabs than my body ones. Always amazes me as I'm no looker lol" Personally i am more drawn to a gents face than i am his cock. He could have the 'perfect' cock but if i dont find his face attractive then i soon go off him. Might be same for others.. but thats the joys of preference x | |||
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"I uploaded new ones yesterday and view have gone up but the fabs don't reflect it. "Well im a straight lass and think they look amazing! | |||
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"I uploaded new ones yesterday and view have gone up but the fabs don't reflect it.
Well im a straight lass and think they look amazing! "Thanks! | |||
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"This happens with us also. We have certain pictures we absolutely love and once they’re posted get little attention. Other pictures we’re not sure if to post then get loads. We also like taking requests and it’s funny how many people request things we’d never normally think of being “sexy”... like feet "Thats how the fishnet dress thing started with me.. was a suggestion. I thought 'sod it'.. convinced it was gonna be horrendous but took the risk and yes im mega pluss sized and not to everyones taste but i am happy with the outcome. If feet werent so practical id want mine gone .. just hate them lol | |||
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"I just can't seem to get decent photos.. I try and try and the get so frustrated I give up. Going to invest in a mini tripod I think. " Ive had meets in the past where its been to take photos of each other. Maybe encorperate it with someone with a creative mind. X | |||
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"I uploaded new ones yesterday and view have gone up but the fabs don't reflect it.
Well im a straight lass and think they look amazing!
Thanks! "I fabbed a few.. mice pics | |||
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"I just can't seem to get decent photos.. I try and try and the get so frustrated I give up. Going to invest in a mini tripod I think. Ive had meets in the past where its been to take photos of each other. Maybe encorperate it with someone with a creative mind. X" Yeah good shout.. now to find that meet. | |||
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"I also find my face pictures get more fabs than my body ones. Always amazes me as I'm no looker lol Personally i am more drawn to a gents face than i am his cock. He could have the 'perfect' cock but if i dont find his face attractive then i soon go off him. Might be same for others.. but thats the joys of preference x" Absolutely this, i have to find the face attractive too. Help picturing them between your thighs  | |||
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"I uploaded new ones yesterday and view have gone up but the fabs don't reflect it.
Well im a straight lass and think they look amazing!
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I fabbed a few.. mice pics "Thank you | |||
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"I uploaded new ones yesterday and view have gone up but the fabs don't reflect it. "fabbed  | |||
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"I'd always take suggestions for photos over taking them myself. Would much prefer someone telling me what looks sexy than awkwardly trying to do it myself haha" Yep totally with you on this... often find myself gurning and looking ridiculous.. | |||
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"I'd always take suggestions for photos over taking them myself. Would much prefer someone telling me what looks sexy than awkwardly trying to do it myself haha Yep totally with you on this... often find myself gurning and looking ridiculous.." Only take the photo though guys if your happy with the concept of it. I used to be a real big people pleaser and would do stuff just because i thought its what others wanted but made me miserable in the process. Id suggest every man wears a suit and loves the undone jeans look.. but if a guy isnt comfortable in that it A, becomes false advertising and B.. He doesnt look genuinely confident or sexy because of that awkwardness X x x | |||
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"I'd always take suggestions for photos over taking them myself. Would much prefer someone telling me what looks sexy than awkwardly trying to do it myself haha Yep totally with you on this... often find myself gurning and looking ridiculous.. Only take the photo though guys if your happy with the concept of it. I used to be a real big people pleaser and would do stuff just because i thought its what others wanted but made me miserable in the process. Id suggest every man wears a suit and loves the undone jeans look.. but if a guy isnt comfortable in that it A, becomes false advertising and B.. He doesnt look genuinely confident or sexy because of that awkwardness X x x" Absolutely, its more the "casual" sexy photos i struggle with - the how do i pull people in photo over the "hey, a cactus up your ass would look sexy" Then, i may take a photo i hate which others find super sexy so im doing it without realising. Different horses, different courses. Kind of the point of this thread haha | |||
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"i notice my pics sometimes get a good number (which is low in most peoples terms, haha) and others get none. However, they are generally men fabbing...." Same, which makes me think im sexier to men than women! Not what im on fab for! | |||
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"i notice my pics sometimes get a good number (which is low in most peoples terms, haha) and others get none. However, they are generally men fabbing...." Fabbed by this lady | |||
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"i notice my pics sometimes get a good number (which is low in most peoples terms, haha) and others get none. However, they are generally men fabbing.... Same, which makes me think im sexier to men than women! Not what im on fab for!" Not at all | |||
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"Im terrible at photos and thought yesterday i should upload a recent facepic (which also shows my lockdown hair). Well It got the most fabs ive ever had! It was only 5 but go me lol" I prefer faces to cocks Fabbed | |||
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"I just can't seem to get decent photos.. I try and try and the get so frustrated I give up. Going to invest in a mini tripod I think. " Or get someone else to take them?! Ive got a ring light | |||
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"i notice my pics sometimes get a good number (which is low in most peoples terms, haha) and others get none. However, they are generally men fabbing...." Im going to go out on a limb here and say that men might be more stimulted by overtly sexual images like cock.. Women i think are all about creativity and facial pictures.. of course there are exceptions :D | |||
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"i notice my pics sometimes get a good number (which is low in most peoples terms, haha) and others get none. However, they are generally men fabbing.... Same, which makes me think im sexier to men than women! Not what im on fab for!" ah just take it as a compliment. I find it more flattering to get a fab from a lady | |||
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"i notice my pics sometimes get a good number (which is low in most peoples terms, haha) and others get none. However, they are generally men fabbing.... Im going to go out on a limb here and say that men might be more stimulted by overtly sexual images like cock.. Women i think are all about creativity and facial pictures.. of course there are exceptions :D " No cock pics on mine, i dont see the point. If you want to see it then see it in real life! | |||
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"When I first joined ages ago, I tried copying sexy styles of other people but the pics didn't feel very me and it only made me worry people would be disappointed in real life. I favour basic snaps now and leaving in lumps and bumps etc, and am always surprised with the positive feedback! You get shitty comments too of course, but they're way outnumbered. Plus I don't have any fear meeting people now as they know upfront the reality of what they're getting so if they like it, who am I to argue "Its so liberating just to expose everything.. of course i do try and post the best out of a few shots but back in my younger years on here (when i was like 24) id be holding it in, twisting my body for the best angle.. and all it would do would cause me paranoia and anxiety if given the chance to meet someone. think my profile and pics are pretty blunt | |||
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"I just can't seem to get decent photos.. I try and try and the get so frustrated I give up. Going to invest in a mini tripod I think. Or get someone else to take them?! Ive got a ring light "Same coloured pegs though Evie! lol | |||
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"When I first joined ages ago, I tried copying sexy styles of other people but the pics didn't feel very me and it only made me worry people would be disappointed in real life. I favour basic snaps now and leaving in lumps and bumps etc, and am always surprised with the positive feedback! You get shitty comments too of course, but they're way outnumbered. Plus I don't have any fear meeting people now as they know upfront the reality of what they're getting so if they like it, who am I to argue
Its so liberating just to expose everything.. of course i do try and post the best out of a few shots but back in my younger years on here (when i was like 24) id be holding it in, twisting my body for the best angle..
and all it would do would cause me paranoia and anxiety if given the chance to meet someone.
think my profile and pics are pretty blunt "Your pics are great, ive fabbed a few previously.. | |||
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"i notice my pics sometimes get a good number (which is low in most peoples terms, haha) and others get none. However, they are generally men fabbing.... Im going to go out on a limb here and say that men might be more stimulted by overtly sexual images like cock.. Women i think are all about creativity and facial pictures.. of course there are exceptions :D " This is what I've begun to think too. Creativity is appreciated...  and teaser photos.. I'm always open to suggestions but i still hardly receive views/fabs  | |||
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"think my profile and pics are pretty blunt Your pics are great, ive fabbed a few previously.. " Why thank you very much.. | |||
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"This is what I've begun to think too. Creativity is appreciated... and teaser photos.. I'm always open to suggestions but i still hardly receive views/fabs "Great images. Maybe its down to day and time of day, the amount of uploads that occour. All kinds of reasons. I think they are ace images x | |||
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"Our preference for our profile is black and white as we feel more sexy . But yes we have some coloured which I’m (L) not that sure on and was surprised by amount of fabs " beautifully tasteful and great variety. your confidence oozes through x | |||
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"Iv actually been told I look better with clothes on "like wtf.. you look mind blowingly beautiful in all your pictures.. thats some kinda twisted compliment lol im sure you'd look equally as good.. x | |||
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"You have your own taste, others have theirs. If you don't take pics to receive fabs, why worry? (Fab mine plz )"Just questioning my own judgement of what is/is not good looking.. and i will go have a ganders nippy lol | |||
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"Iv actually been told I look better with clothes on
like wtf.. you look mind blowingly beautiful in all your pictures..
thats some kinda twisted compliment lol
im sure you'd look equally as good.. x "Aww thank you x | |||
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"Iv actually been told I look better with clothes on "Talk about back handed compliment 
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"Our preference for our profile is black and white as we feel more sexy . But yes we have some coloured which I’m (L) not that sure on and was surprised by amount of fabs beautifully tasteful and great variety. your confidence oozes through x " Oh wow thanks I’m actually not that body confident so really means a lot  | |||
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"Iv actually been told I look better with clothes on "Your pics are amazing great body with or without clothes x | |||
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" This is what I've begun to think too. Creativity is appreciated... and teaser photos.. I'm always open to suggestions but i still hardly receive views/fabs "I think that a lot of that is probably down to sheer number of men on the site than women, so any new pictures you put up don't stay high up in the updates list before they get lost in the middle then drop out completely. For the females as there aren't as many, the pictures stay in the updates list for longer and more guys will see the pictures so hence fab them. I have also wondered if time of day makes any difference, if you put a picture up in the evening will it be seen more than one put up during the day. | |||
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"Iv actually been told I look better with clothes on
Talk about back handed compliment
I do not concur!"I know but the only thing i took from it was I spend most of my time in clothes so I must look ok | |||
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"Iv actually been told I look better with clothes on
Your pics are amazing great body with or without clothes x "Aww thank you | |||
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" This is what I've begun to think too. Creativity is appreciated... and teaser photos.. I'm always open to suggestions but i still hardly receive views/fabs
I think that a lot of that is probably down to sheer number of men on the site than women, so any new pictures you put up don't stay high up in the updates list before they get lost in the middle then drop out completely. For the females as there aren't as many, the pictures stay in the updates list for longer and more guys will see the pictures so hence fab them.
I have also wondered if time of day makes any difference, if you put a picture up in the evening will it be seen more than one put up during the day."wonder if the owners have any done any statistical data recording on it lol id have thought pics recieved more during the day with less people around, as the images would stay around for longer. | |||
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"Iv actually been told I look better with clothes on "Beautiful | |||
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"Picture fabbing will always remain a mystery to me. Loads of fantastic pics on here that get very few fabs whereas others that are not as good do well." Baffles me too. Think some men and women just have huge followings in the means of hotlists or friends lists x x | |||
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"Iv actually been told I look better with clothes on
Beautiful "Thank you lovely | |||
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