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By *ark_desires69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Ever thought about having a polyamorous relationship? Know how this can be done and any good websites for it. We are very curious about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it. Found it through fab and it was amazing while it lasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in one with my first wife for 17 years before she died from breast cancer. Still keep in contact with Vern but........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s something I’m curious about, but at the moment it’s only curiosity.

If it happens it’ll happen. If not, that’s fine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it has to happen naturally, for us it was never intended but it happened and developed

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've thought about it, yes but nothing more than fleeting ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't polyamory simply the practice of having multiple partners in consensual relationships?

How is that any different from being a swinging couple?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Isn't polyamory simply the practice of having multiple partners in consensual relationships?

How is that any different from being a swinging couple?"

Because it is about relationships rather than just having sex with randoms - that's my take on it anyway

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived with a bi couple for just over 2 years when I was 18 and it all came about by chance when we got chatting in a pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a group called London Polyamory (and regional ones) I want to try this as the ethics of it are closer to what I am seeking.

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By *ark_desires69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Where do I find this group

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By *ark_desires69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Yeah we would love to have a polyamorous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I think about it, but no. I don’t think it’s for me right now.

Never say never though, I don’t know who/where/what I’ll be in the future. My mind is always open to new possibilities

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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It intrigues me, but I know it's not for me...I'm happy to share physically, but not emotionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really just depends on a lot of things...sitting on the fence x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Isn't polyamory simply the practice of having multiple partners in consensual relationships?

How is that any different from being a swinging couple?"

Its about feeling love and emotions with more than one person at a time, a married couple who both have serious girlfriends and boyfriends for instance, some trio and quads live together.

You can have many different versions of it, but sharing love and emotions with no jealousy is paramount to polyamory

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Still my ultimate goal when the time in right but it may not be for everyone.

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By *ere againMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

My wife and I have enjoyed and loved this, mainly was a partner for her so in a V relationship and did build it into a N with me finding a lady. Was really good very supportive and honest relationship.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

They might not last too long, but amazing whilst they do!

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I would be open to it, definitely

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By *astYorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Bridlington

We have been looking for something like this for the past year but no luck

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By *astYorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Bridlington

Have you tried the Facebook poly groups?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the idea of it!

But no... I can share my man sexually, no issues, but emotionally? No...he's mine.

Lu

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I find it difficult to manage one emotional relationship, let alone two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry everyone but what is a poly...?no joking I actually dont know what it is.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We both have regular FWBs but are very clear about priorities,,boundaries of feelings, finances , being discreet etc. It works really well for us and we also meet couples together.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I find it difficult to manage one emotional relationship, let alone two "

It gets easier, you make boxes! Tbh all relationships have emotions, families, kids, friends - you use the exact same skills you just happen to be fucking as well

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Sorry everyone but what is a poly...?no joking I actually dont know what it is."

People seem to have their own definitions of what is poly... for me it is essentially having an open emotional relationship with more than one person. Like example, one woman is in love with two men who know eachother. nothing to hide and they come up with a practical arrangement for it to work. Some poly relationships all live together or take turns when they see eachother. But this doesn't stop someone in a poly relationship from cheating on eachother

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I find it difficult to manage one emotional relationship, let alone two

It gets easier, you make boxes! Tbh all relationships have emotions, families, kids, friends - you use the exact same skills you just happen to be fucking as well "

its the jealousy, insecurities I can't cope with. To offer decent amount of quality time for me is too tricky to give to one person, let alone more than one.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I (k) have previously lived with two women, it started off with the +1 coming round on various evenings, then for the weekend, then she moved in. It was great, we had some amazing fun times, in and out of the bed. Something special about going out as a three, whether it's blackberry picking, going to a restaurant or watching a band, the sexual tension that builds is incredible!

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Blackberry picking sounds nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The well known fetish website we are not allowed to mentiom in the forums has lots of poly grpups and forums, well worth a look at!

Good luck and hope you find what you are looking for x

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