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Definition of “Perfect” to you?

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By *heGentleman2024 OP   Man
over a year ago

North West

Hello shexi ladies and Gents of Fab

Today I’m wandering what’s the definition of Perfect to you? As in a person?...i know there is no Perfect in the real world...

But to you there really is...

To me it’s got to be the way the person comes across, the way they speak laugh and talk. Someone confident in their own skin makes me lust for them. The eye contact for more than a few seconds and the cheeky laugh .

Sure physical attraction is a biggie, but when that inner beauty comes out in that person too..wow..

Would be nice to see what it is for you

Gbig28

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is honest, thoughtful, open minded and kind.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its what perfection becomes.

I think when you meet someone and fall for them, they are not perfect at first but become perfect, so its your vision that changes.

And thats the best feeling in the world

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Agree with you completely, much prefer personality and being able to have a conversation with someone who puts you at ease straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who knows their flaws and owns them

Imperfectly perfect

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

A couple we can trust and laugh with, socialise with,fuck with (together and apart) and then socialise more and again.

Also need to be happy to share cooking breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who makes me smile, laugh, challenges me to always strive to better myself, makes me feel safe and is generally a good person.

A solid dose of wicked humour, sarcasm and intelligence and you have my perfect man... also probably by hubby

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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What makes someone perfect to me is their lack of perfection. Give me someone authentic, who allows me to see their less than pleasant side. I don't mind if they have fat days, if they have self doubting moments, if they've been through a shit time and are a bit scarred.

Someone who talks openly and freely, who is flawed, yes, because we all are but is aware of it and strives to be better and do better as a person. I don't want a cleverly crafted facade of perfection, of someone without wobbles and doubts and flaws. Give me a person who laughs freely and unashamedly, who fucks up reverse parking because they are too engaged in talking to me, who blushes when I tease them, who cries when emotions are overwhelming and whose soul is beautiful. Perfection to me is imperfectly perfect in every way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes someone perfect to me is their lack of perfection. Give me someone authentic, who allows me to see their less than pleasant side. I don't mind if they have fat days, if they have self doubting moments, if they've been through a shit time and are a bit scarred.

Someone who talks openly and freely, who is flawed, yes, because we all are but is aware of it and strives to be better and do better as a person. I don't want a cleverly crafted facade of perfection, of someone without wobbles and doubts and flaws. Give me a person who laughs freely and unashamedly, who fucks up reverse parking because they are too engaged in talking to me, who blushes when I tease them, who cries when emotions are overwhelming and whose soul is beautiful. Perfection to me is imperfectly perfect in every way. "

You write so beautifully x

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

We like people for their qualities, but love them for their defects.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Someone that has an external beauty that makes me want to watch them while they sleep, and an inner beauty that makes me want to be inside their head and know all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no perfect. They might be perfect to begin with in the first flush of the honeymoon period.

Then the irritation and boredom sets in. I don't want long term perfect because it doesn't exist. I'll just take short term perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is the same the day I fell for her as she is 20 years from then. A positive mental attitude, glass half full, a smile that melts my heart and an inner beauty that brings joy to all she meets. That having been said, I'm happily single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who understands me is perfect to me.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't think you can seek perfection in someone else, more an idea of perfection creeps up on you as you get to know and accept someone, flaws and all. It's that click, that spark, that knowing they are someone you want in your life, their acceptance that they are not perfect, nor do they strive to be, or expect you to be either.

It's not about physicality or mentality more an overall sense of their being that leads you to want that person in your life, whether it be as a friend or something more.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Authentic is good. And someone you can just be yourself with and it’s effortless, you can let your guard down but they also inspire you to raise your game and be a better person.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Perfection to me is imperfectly perfect in every way.

You write so beautifully x"

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess to me, perfect would when they allow to love them unconditionally, they’re there when you wake up. Even though they make you question if they even like you or if you’re together because of circumstance, you know deep down there’s at least a fondness there.

Hearing them purr curled up on your lap after you’ve fed them is the most rewarding thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is kind, thoughtful, funny, intelligent, wants to spend virtual time with me wasting the day making me laugh and laughing at my jokes, wants the absolute best for me and never wants to hurt me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who is kind, thoughtful, funny, intelligent, wants to spend virtual time with me wasting the day making me laugh and laughing at my jokes, wants the absolute best for me and never wants to hurt me "

Ob and never judges me, just accepts me unconditionally for who i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a (perfect)woman is not shalow...that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfection doesn’t exist in my eyes.

I just like someone that is down to earth. I can’t stand when people think they are entitled and are better than anyone.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Perfect is the accumulation of my stable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who constantly fascinates me. When I already think they're just perfect and they pull some new trick out of the bag to show me I had no idea what perfect was until now....

....awww man, I miss perfect now....

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

My husband isn’t perfect, I’m not perfect, but we’re perfect for each other.

That’s probably the most Vom-inducing thing I’ve said for a while but it’s true.

Lou x

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"My husband isn’t perfect, I’m not perfect, but we’re perfect for each other.

That’s probably the most Vom-inducing thing I’ve said for a while but it’s true.

Lou x "

Awwww - I’ll grab the bucket.

Love you - Ed xxx

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By *heGentleman2024 OP   Man
over a year ago

North West


"My husband isn’t perfect, I’m not perfect, but we’re perfect for each other.

That’s probably the most Vom-inducing thing I’ve said for a while but it’s true.

Lou x

Awwww - I’ll grab the bucket.

Love you - Ed xxx"

Now that’s cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont look for perfection as its not a thing..its an ideal..thats my opinion mind

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

My husband.

He isn't perfect but he is perfect for me.

He is intelligent, caring, funny, musical, practical, chilled and always there for me.

Not to mention great in bed and willing to try new things.

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By *uyfrombristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Really just someone who 'gets' and accepts me and vice versa. The rest is ephemeral.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"What makes someone perfect to me is their lack of perfection. Give me someone authentic, who allows me to see their less than pleasant side. I don't mind if they have fat days, if they have self doubting moments, if they've been through a shit time and are a bit scarred.

Someone who talks openly and freely, who is flawed, yes, because we all are but is aware of it and strives to be better and do better as a person. I don't want a cleverly crafted facade of perfection, of someone without wobbles and doubts and flaws. Give me a person who laughs freely and unashamedly, who fucks up reverse parking because they are too engaged in talking to me, who blushes when I tease them, who cries when emotions are overwhelming and whose soul is beautiful. Perfection to me is imperfectly perfect in every way. "

Oh Meli... perfectly put

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No one is perfect but you can find someone that is perfect for you... it’s not about looks or body, it is you accepting that person for who they are, allow them to be their true selves, let them talk openly without judgment or fear and in turn you know you can be all those things too with them..... that is perfect to me

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