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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are your thoughts about kissing during meets. Do You love it or You wouldn't kiss someone who's not your partner. Question is addressed to couples of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started out as no kissing but after our first meeting we soon changed that , both love kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be kissing... helps build the passion? Xx

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I couldn't not kiss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We started out as no kissing but after our first meeting we soon changed that , both love kissing x"

I just can't imagine good meet without kissing although I'm aware that some couples do it with partners only

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We both love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy kissing with other people, its important for us to feel that intimacy.

We wouldn't feel comfortable meeting people who didn't want to kiss us....only because we would feel nervous in case we forget, overstep a boundary and cause offence.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has to be kissing... helps build the passion? Xx"

Precisely

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s too delicious to be able to resist a lush kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t touch someone if I couldn’t kiss them.

It’s torture for me not to be able to kiss... literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the kissing, it helps with the play and the arousal, deep kissing and caressing kinda does something for me.

I find without kissing it seems a bit blah if you know what i mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won’t touch someone if I couldn’t kiss them.

It’s torture for me not to be able to kiss... literally "

I would very much like to kiss You then as your lips looks fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be kisses and lots of them.. Nothing better than a slowy,sexy kiss with a good set of lips and tongue...Massive turn on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God i love snogging like I'm a teenager... Was day dreaming earlier about snogging my DD and realised i was smooching my hand haha, but was too late - was all hot + horny!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'll respect the rules of any couples, of course, but I'm a big kisser. Really gets the mood going.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

If there is no kissing, I'm going missing and looking elsewhere for a good snog!

Kissing is a must or the rest is just going through the motions with no passion, no intimacy and no connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard not to kiss - no ? Kissing builds up the passion and intrigue of what might follow.

I for one am a big kisser, so I couldn't be with anyone if there's no kissing ; don't care how gorgeous you are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing, but I'll respect the wishes of the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll do it, but I always get shy and get the giggles. I’m not a very good kisser anyway

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport

I love a good kiss!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone like kissing so far. Would be nice to hear from people who don't like to do it to know why

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By *exyD68Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

We Both love kissing cant bet a lovley kisser.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I couldn't not kiss "

I couldn't either.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

I'll happily kiss on a meet. I enjoy the build of tension that can come from a kiss.

A kiss can say so much about a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had meets where there’s been no kissing other than our partners. And I much prefer kissing him. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone like kissing so far. Would be nice to hear from people who don't like to do it to know why"

Cause I get the giggles. I get awkward. I’d rather just be told to get on my knees

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll do it, but I always get shy and get the giggles. I’m not a very good kisser anyway "

Did someone tell You that You're not a good kisser or that's what You think?

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Has to be kissing xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone like kissing so far. Would be nice to hear from people who don't like to do it to know why

Cause I get the giggles. I get awkward. I’d rather just be told to get on my knees "

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has to be kissing xx"

Your name tells everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing couple here too, no issues either way but we do enjoy kissing on meets

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Has to be kissing xx

Your name tells everything "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t/wouldn’t meet someone that didn’t enjoy kissing.

Although it’s not pleasant if they are a rubbish kisser and don’t know it

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON


"I couldn’t/wouldn’t meet someone that didn’t enjoy kissing.

Although it’s not pleasant if they are a rubbish kisser and don’t know it "

Would you tell them or guide them how to kiss you the way you like it?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We kiss others. We couldn't imagine having sex without kissing. It is such a huge turn on that why wouldn't anyone want to do it?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"If there is no kissing, I'm going missing and looking elsewhere for a good snog!

Kissing is a must or the rest is just going through the motions with no passion, no intimacy and no connection.

"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is no kissing, I'm going missing and looking elsewhere for a good snog!

Kissing is a must or the rest is just going through the motions with no passion, no intimacy and no connection.

Agree "

You're a good kisser too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn’t/wouldn’t meet someone that didn’t enjoy kissing.

Although it’s not pleasant if they are a rubbish kisser and don’t know it

Would you tell them or guide them how to kiss you the way you like it?"

I’d try and guide, but I think it’s difficult when it comes to someone’s kissing ‘style’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is no kissing, I'm going missing and looking elsewhere for a good snog!

Kissing is a must or the rest is just going through the motions with no passion, no intimacy and no connection.

Agree

You're a good kisser too xx"

As are you Mr IP xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in response OP we both love kissing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone wouldn't kiss me then I wouldn't poke my bits in theirs. But each to their own.....

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

Oh god, kissing is such a turn on, .... if you’re good at it if course !

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

noone gets sore throat from it??

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I live a good song, how could you not

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What are your thoughts about kissing during meets. Do You love it or You wouldn't kiss someone who's not your partner. Question is addressed to couples of course "

We don't kiss our casual sex partners passionately. It seems to be the only preference that people feel able to question and ask why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I'm a very good kisser and I put it down to how much I love it. It's a must for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't not kiss, kissing is awesome.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Everyone like kissing so far. Would be nice to hear from people who don't like to do it to know why"

I usually mention that we don't kiss on these threads but I'm very often very much in the minority.

I never ask anybody to explain why they like kissing so I don't really feel I need to explain why I don't

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Kissing is a must for me, no kisses...no meet x

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It imperative for us on a meet, if they say no kissing when we chat then we'd politely say thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your thoughts about kissing during meets. Do You love it or You wouldn't kiss someone who's not your partner. Question is addressed to couples of course "

Kissing establishes a connection, a good connection normally leads to amazing sex

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By *ut4fun6969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

To quote a song i once heard "it started with a kiss" and for me it has too. I get why some don't do it with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, then its not going further.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Kissing is a must. Especially a prolonged deep one

I would even say it’s a nice little starter for indications of things that may happen

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

I don't kiss casual partners. I'm not turned on by tongues being rammed down my throat and stubble rash is a bitch.

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border


"I’ll do it, but I always get shy and get the giggles. I’m not a very good kisser anyway "

Need to practice more , i volunteer

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Love it

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

From a quick kiss on the cheek when meeting someone for the first time to the long sensual kiss when you’re in each others arms, it’s all foreplay.

And I enjoy kissing.....

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

We nearly met a couple not into kissing, and tbh when they pulled out I was relieved. I really enjoy the kissing!

The Boy

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Love a good kiss. A hot kiss can set the mood for the whole night x

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Kissing is a must, it's one of the things I really miss. Too of the list post covid x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Love kissing. It's a damn good indicator of how well the sparks will be flying.

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Kissing gets me going big time, i have been on meets where no kissing was involved, but it didn’t feel right if that makes sense?

Honestly a sexy passionate kiss and im up like a rocket!

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By *uncouple4u19Couple
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD


"We started out as no kissing but after our first meeting we soon changed that , both love kissing x"

We were exactly the same

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

A kiss can tell alot about someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing, you can feel a real connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a must for me, no kisses...no meet x"

Lotsssss saved up in the kiss bank over lockdown with a high interest rate x

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Kissing is my best move, and my biggest turn on. If there's no kissing then, there's passion and chemistry. Even for a quick meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not keen tbh. I started out not kissing at all, now I'll kiss a little bit but honestly, passionately kissing anyone on the mouth other than my other half leaves me cold and doesn't sit well with me...it's a level of intimacy that I don't want to share with anyone other than my partner

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not keen tbh. I started out not kissing at all, now I'll kiss a little bit but honestly, passionately kissing anyone on the mouth other than my other half leaves me cold and doesn't sit well with me...it's a level of intimacy that I don't want to share with anyone other than my partner

Mrs"

I fully understand You. What's the reaction when You saying, no kissing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was part of a couple and I was happy enough to swing I think I'd be happy enough to kiss others I met and have my partner do the same. Kissing plays a big part in the bedroom and I dont think I could have a meet where I couldn't kiss.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Yes to kissing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree has to be kissing to create intimacy, build passion and heightened all those senses that lead to mind blowing encounters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i man cant or wont kiss then thats the end of the meet.kissing is a big turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not keen tbh. I started out not kissing at all, now I'll kiss a little bit but honestly, passionately kissing anyone on the mouth other than my other half leaves me cold and doesn't sit well with me...it's a level of intimacy that I don't want to share with anyone other than my partner

Mrs

I fully understand You. What's the reaction when You saying, no kissing? "

It's never been an issue at all

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By *ilvery brownMan
over a year ago

lewisham


"Has to be kisses and lots of them.. Nothing better than a slowy,sexy kiss with a good set of lips and tongue...Massive turn on... "

Couldnt agree more.love a nice sensual slow kiss, lots of tongue and lips interrupted for a little neck and shoulder nuzzle.

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By *ilvery brownMan
over a year ago

lewisham

Whoops !! Looks like I've killed the thread .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won’t touch someone if I couldn’t kiss them.

It’s torture for me not to be able to kiss... literally

I would very much like to kiss You then as your lips looks fabulous "

Why thank you lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing for me

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.

My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"

I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.

Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"I won’t touch someone if I couldn’t kiss them.

It’s torture for me not to be able to kiss... literally "

*makes notes*

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.

My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"

I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.

Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone. "

Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.

And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I love it and couldn't really meet without it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.

My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"

I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.

Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.

Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.

And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface."

Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.

My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"

I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.

Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.

Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.

And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface.

Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.

"

I know I found it confusing as I'd not felt like that before. I think it may have been me trying to have something, just fucking something that was for me and me alone. Or it could be just as you say, and I just didn't want it.

I could kiss and have that "fire" with other women though, just felt wrong and "cheaty" to me with other men.

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By *uv2kiss2Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

We love to kiss .....hence the username !

If I fancy someone enough to see myself kissing them passionately ....the rest follows !

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By *oriarty99Man
over a year ago

London

I can’t imagine having sex without kissing but appreciate that some couples have boundaries which I respect.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....

How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other ..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....

How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other .."

It was to me, at that time, with that person.

I've never seen Pretty Woman so can't use that as a reference point.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"Not keen tbh. I started out not kissing at all, now I'll kiss a little bit but honestly, passionately kissing anyone on the mouth other than my other half leaves me cold and doesn't sit well with me...it's a level of intimacy that I don't want to share with anyone other than my partner

Mrs"

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.

My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"

I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.

Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone. "

Totally agree.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.

My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"

I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.

Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.

Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.

And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface.

Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.

I know I found it confusing as I'd not felt like that before. I think it may have been me trying to have something, just fucking something that was for me and me alone. Or it could be just as you say, and I just didn't want it.

I could kiss and have that "fire" with other women though, just felt wrong and "cheaty" to me with other men."

Yes I understand. For me it's as simple as I don't want (or need ) that level of intimacy with anyone else, I wouldn't hold another man's hand either.

If people would discuss it, like you've done, without judgement of preconception I'd discuss right back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started as no kissing 20 minutes into our first meet i was kissing the lady Danish was watching and got turned on so much it went out the window.

Doughnut

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....

How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other ..

It was to me, at that time, with that person.

I've never seen Pretty Woman so can't use that as a reference point."

Think this show how different men are to women (some) celebrations our differences..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....

How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other .."

Easily to some of us. Are you saying we're wrong to feel that level of intimacy from a kiss?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.

My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"

I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.

Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.

Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.

And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface.

Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.

I know I found it confusing as I'd not felt like that before. I think it may have been me trying to have something, just fucking something that was for me and me alone. Or it could be just as you say, and I just didn't want it.

I could kiss and have that "fire" with other women though, just felt wrong and "cheaty" to me with other men.

Yes I understand. For me it's as simple as I don't want (or need ) that level of intimacy with anyone else, I wouldn't hold another man's hand either.

If people would discuss it, like you've done, without judgement of preconception I'd discuss right back "

Thank you, I gotta admit the judgey from others in this thread has, instead of giving people a "safe space" to discuss their feelings (especially ones that can be confusing) kinda belittled them.

Thank you for saying how it is for you. It goes to show that everyone IS different and that's OK. It also goes to show that just because someone doesn't understand something doesn't make it wrong.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.

My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"

I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.

Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.

Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.

And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface.

Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.

I know I found it confusing as I'd not felt like that before. I think it may have been me trying to have something, just fucking something that was for me and me alone. Or it could be just as you say, and I just didn't want it.

I could kiss and have that "fire" with other women though, just felt wrong and "cheaty" to me with other men.

Yes I understand. For me it's as simple as I don't want (or need ) that level of intimacy with anyone else, I wouldn't hold another man's hand either.

If people would discuss it, like you've done, without judgement of preconception I'd discuss right back

Thank you, I gotta admit the judgey from others in this thread has, instead of giving people a "safe space" to discuss their feelings (especially ones that can be confusing) kinda belittled them.

Thank you for saying how it is for you. It goes to show that everyone IS different and that's OK. It also goes to show that just because someone doesn't understand something doesn't make it wrong. "

It's interesting to me that people do vehemently defend kissing and their right not to meet those of us who don't. We're genuinely not a threat

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*so not do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....

How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other .."

For me there's a huge emotional connection when I kiss my partner. And I find it more intimate. Intimate on a different level. And that's something I don't want to give to someone else. That's ours. Something we have between us that I'm unwilling to share.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....

How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other ..

For me there's a huge emotional connection when I kiss my partner. And I find it more intimate. Intimate on a different level. And that's something I don't want to give to someone else. That's ours. Something we have between us that I'm unwilling to share."

I understand totally. I've shared kisses with my ex that were so emotionally charged and beautifully connected that they have reduced both of us to tears. Not sobbing on the floor sad tears, but eye-leakingly beautiful tears of appreciation and one-ness. So unbelievably lost in the moment where everything in the universe felt it had aligned.

That's seriously special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing? No point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love kissing x and wouldn’t meet anyone that wouldn’t on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....

How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other ..

For me there's a huge emotional connection when I kiss my partner. And I find it more intimate. Intimate on a different level. And that's something I don't want to give to someone else. That's ours. Something we have between us that I'm unwilling to share.

I understand totally. I've shared kisses with my ex that were so emotionally charged and beautifully connected that they have reduced both of us to tears. Not sobbing on the floor sad tears, but eye-leakingly beautiful tears of appreciation and one-ness. So unbelievably lost in the moment where everything in the universe felt it had aligned.

That's seriously special.

"

That's exactly it. And I think that's a huge part of the reason kissing (or even the thought of kissing) someone else leaves me feeling almost bereft. I think you said earlier in the thread about it almost being like a betrayal.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Has to be kissing all the way.. so sensual and makes sex more passionate and meaningful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be kissing such a turn on

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If I’m highly attracted to someone, kissing is a must as I want to be as close to them as possible. It’s also a massive turn on for me.

But I can fuck and be fucked without it, if I’m just after some quick relief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss! I find that it adds to the passion of a meet, I can't imagine not doing it!

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Love kissing,

Such a turn on,

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Chunky's kissing service is available

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

My hubby loves watching me kissing someone else on the rare occasions we get to meet people together xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing, is like house without central heating... cold.

Kiss or go home. I've never had bad sex with a woman who knew how to kiss. It's the foundation of all that follows, and is a before, during and after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy the kissing with play

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Dam

I wished I lived closer to some on the couples on here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing for me on meets, other than my Master. I do however like kissing other girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Kissing all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes has to be kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, it’s not the same without a good snog

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sex without kissing, is like house without central heating... cold.

Kiss or go home. I've never had bad sex with a woman who knew how to kiss. It's the foundation of all that follows, and is a before, during and after."

There are alternative forms of heating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good slow snog and a 3 way one is hot as fuck

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