FabSwingers.com forum: New definition vanilla, dirty, filthy

By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

Had such fun with the last definition forum, chat debate and such. New one to have

Vanilla

Dirty

Filthy

'Naughty' was to obvious and is in everything especially on here, but the 3 above?

Vanilla.

So I seen this on profiles, and I think, to me, I class this as 'normal', or possibly 'boring sex'

Just barely any foreplay, take clothes off, lie back and do it.

Guy lays there and just gets ridden.

Girl lies there and just gets fucked.

And that's it.

Dirty

OK the first of the two that could be seen similar.

But different in my head. And from a male perspective I might add

Girl sends a picture of a gear shift in pussy, or bottle/cucumber.

Sending pictures that are not vanilla anyway.

Possibly a woman pegging a man. Not one I'm interested in, but I'd say she was dirty or had a dirty mind perhaps?

Filthy

I see this as being bit more and beyond.

Possibly involving, to a degree, scat.

Being peed on, poo play {ew sorry}

Sucks the dick been in her ass, his ass that person's ass pussy and someone elses mouth, then sucks it anyway.

Man fucks a woman with 3 other guys cum in the pussy.

I know a woman wants me to fuck her and during to piss in her, and then continue.

Its a interesting thought, filthy for sure, but I'm considering it. And it prompted this little forum to.

So yeah, that's my definitions.

What are yours?

Any experiences, or are some things left behind closed doors.

Go for it

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Ah mannnnnn you think a lot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So naughty then?

How do you define naughty OP?

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"So naughty then?

How do you define naughty OP?"

Well can be a lot.

Dress up like a schoolgirl or secretary, naughty.

Sent pic of underwear going to put on for our date.

When knows I'm in a important meeting and sends a risqué message.

Wears a short skirt and no panties.

There all naughty but not filthy or dirty in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla - cum in pussy

Filthy - cum on face

Dirty - cum in ass

Easy, next question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only got to vanilla and gave up. I think you're confusing vanilla sex with shit sex....

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"Vanilla - cum in pussy

Filthy - cum on face

Dirty - cum in ass

Easy, next question

Hahaha OK then

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"I only got to vanilla and gave up. I think you're confusing vanilla sex with shit sex....

Maybe vanilla is shit sex then.

2 positions and turn over to sleep.

Yawwwwwn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla, cum in her

Dirty, cum in him and her

Filthy, cum in me, him, her, and them.

Simples.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

" Ah mannnnnn you think a lot..."

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only got to vanilla and gave up. I think you're confusing vanilla sex with shit sex....

Maybe vanilla is shit sex then.

2 positions and turn over to sleep.

Yawwwwwn"

All sex can be that!

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"I only got to vanilla and gave up. I think you're confusing vanilla sex with shit sex....

Maybe vanilla is shit sex then.

2 positions and turn over to sleep.

Yawwwwwn

All sex can be that!

It can be that, but then it's barely fun if it's all the time.

Variety and spicing it

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

" Ah mannnnnn you think a lot..."

Haha, yeah a little bit.

It intrigues me how ppl think and there versions of things.

Ooh that's dirty, to me, but same situation is vanilla to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all a matter of perspective, which in its self is subjective.

You can't put a specific thing for anyone but yourself. What's Nasty for you, maybe vanilla for others! A Priest thinks masturbation is nasty but, the younger denominations are perfectly fine!!!

Vanilla - what you consider a social norm.

Dirty - what you are willing to tell your social friends.

Filthy - what you tell those "close" friends.

Nasty - what you admit to yourself and shyly ask a "special" friend "am I weird?"

Then there is "The other". The one you never breath a word about.....its exciting but, would never tell anyone!

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I only got to vanilla and gave up. I think you're confusing vanilla sex with shit sex....

Maybe vanilla is shit sex then.

2 positions and turn over to sleep.

Yawwwwwn"

2 positions?! Far too athletic for me

For me, vanilla is just everyday sex without add-ons... toys, bondage, other people, etc. No anal.

But, all sex is good sex if it’s with the right person. There’s a time and a place for everything, the best thing to do it mix it up a bit so it’s never boring or predictable.

Lou x

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"I only got to vanilla and gave up. I think you're confusing vanilla sex with shit sex....

Maybe vanilla is shit sex then.

2 positions and turn over to sleep.

Yawwwwwn

2 positions?! Far too athletic for me

For me, vanilla is just everyday sex without add-ons... toys, bondage, other people, etc. No anal.

But, all sex is good sex if it’s with the right person. There’s a time and a place for everything, the best thing to do it mix it up a bit so it’s never boring or predictable.

Lou x "

Yes, it all depends on the person, situation and what you both like.

Very cool

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"Its all a matter of perspective, which in its self is subjective.

You can't put a specific thing for anyone but yourself. What's Nasty for you, maybe vanilla for others! A Priest thinks masturbation is nasty but, the younger denominations are perfectly fine!!!

Vanilla - what you consider a social norm.

Dirty - what you are willing to tell your social friends.

Filthy - what you tell those "close" friends.

Nasty - what you admit to yourself and shyly ask a "special" friend "am I weird?"

Then there is "The other". The one you never breath a word about.....its exciting but, would never tell anyone!

Oh yes I like this.

Were all different and like or try new things.

All about finding that person to share what you both like, or try new things you never thought about doing before

And the other.

Yeah I bet there are some things that are left between 2 ppl that is theirs, and theirs alone

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

" Ah mannnnnn you think a lot..."

This was my first thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I don't regard watersports as filthy, pretty vanilla in my relationship

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Its all a matter of perspective, which in its self is subjective.

You can't put a specific thing for anyone but yourself. What's Nasty for you, maybe vanilla for others! A Priest thinks masturbation is nasty but, the younger denominations are perfectly fine!!!

Vanilla - what you consider a social norm.

Dirty - what you are willing to tell your social friends.

Filthy - what you tell those "close" friends.

Nasty - what you admit to yourself and shyly ask a "special" friend "am I weird?"

Then there is "The other". The one you never breath a word about.....its exciting but, would never tell anyone!

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My definition

Vanilla,, role on role off.

Dirty ,, Cum kisses, hard fucking

Filthy,, Anal,arse slapping, chocking, gagging,slamming, cum everywhere, sticky mess..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla - what you do

Dirty - what you'd like to do

Filthy - what you said you would never do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definition differs with different people and your mood and how horny I am and with the right person

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"Definition differs with different people and your mood and how horny I am and with the right person

Nice, agre there as well

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"Vanilla - what you do

Dirty - what you'd like to do

Filthy - what you said you would never do"

That's very cool way of putting it for yaself there.

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"My definition

Vanilla,, role on role off.

Dirty ,, Cum kisses, hard fucking

Filthy,, Anal,arse slapping, chocking, gagging,slamming, cum everywhere, sticky mess..

As always you impress me there

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I’ve never thought of sex as being dirty, filthy, or naughty. That’s a Carry-On, oo-er, 1950’s mindset, isn’t it? Enjoying exciting and varied sex should be seen as normal and healthy, not as rude naughtiness.

I've tried pretty much everything there is and consider myself an adventurous lover. But so-called vanilla sex can be mind blowing with the right person. Just as sex involving chains, whips, toys and degradation can be shite with the wrong person.

Too many people let porn dictate their definitions of what sex 'should' be. Isn’t amazing sex about attitude and compatibility rather than a checklist of apparatus and who ejaculates where?

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