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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum " (Big Hug) You look fantastic  | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum " We all have body confidence issues whether your Male or female. You have nothing to worry about tho!! Sexy  | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum " I just had a nose at your pictures and wow, you look fantastic!  | |||
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"Whether you have been hurt by someone, been let down by family or friends, struggling with the last few months or just feel insecure and unattractive, we all need a pick me up at times. Say I'm in or say what's got you down and I and anyone else here can pm you a compliment or support( no constructive criticisms,or critiques) ,and you can PM anyone too. Let's be nice to each other. " Lovely thread! Always like your posts I hope you are feeling good today | |||
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"Whether you have been hurt by someone, been let down by family or friends, struggling with the last few months or just feel insecure and unattractive, we all need a pick me up at times. Say I'm in or say what's got you down and I and anyone else here can pm you a compliment or support( no constructive criticisms,or critiques) ,and you can PM anyone too. Let's be nice to each other. Lovely thread! Always like your posts I hope you are feeling good today " Clearly a hottie yourself | |||
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"Whether you have been hurt by someone, been let down by family or friends, struggling with the last few months or just feel insecure and unattractive, we all need a pick me up at times. Say I'm in or say what's got you down and I and anyone else here can pm you a compliment or support( no constructive criticisms,or critiques) ,and you can PM anyone too. Let's be nice to each other. Lovely thread! Always like your posts I hope you are feeling good today Clearly a hottie yourself "Hot as a hot thing!
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum (Big Hug) You look fantastic " | |||
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"I’m currently feeling body conscious as I feel I’ve put on weight
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum We all have body confidence issues whether your Male or female. You have nothing to worry about tho!! Sexy "
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"Whether you have been hurt by someone, been let down by family or friends, struggling with the last few months or just feel insecure and unattractive, we all need a pick me up at times. Say I'm in or say what's got you down and I and anyone else here can pm you a compliment or support( no constructive criticisms,or critiques) ,and you can PM anyone too. Let's be nice to each other. Lovely thread! Always like your posts I hope you are feeling good today Clearly a hottie yourself
Hot as a hot thing!
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You look nice yourself "Thank you. Glad someone appreciates it | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum I just had a nose at your pictures and wow, you look fantastic! "Love pic 3 on your profile hun very hot | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum We all have body confidence issues whether your Male or female. You have nothing to worry about tho!! Sexy
Thank you, you have nothing to worry about either live the shower pic"I love all of yours pics | |||
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"I’m currently feeling body conscious as I feel I’ve put on weight
Mrs ikc x"You seriously have nothing to worry about | |||
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"I’m currently feeling body conscious as I feel I’ve put on weight
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You look beautiful! "Aww thank you
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"I’m currently feeling body conscious as I feel I’ve put on weight
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You seriously have nothing to worry about "Thanks lovely | |||
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"Who doesn't like an ego boost? I'm in "With a profile like that I bet you get lots of ego boosts. | |||
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"Great thread. Lots of women say they find confidence attractive in a man. I’ve lost a lot of mine since lockdown!" Hello you... Now how can we help you get it back? | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum I just had a nose at your pictures and wow, you look fantastic!
Love pic 3 on your profile hun very hot "Thank you  | |||
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"Yes. Been badly hurt recently, and it highlighted all sorts of insecurities I'd previously tried to bury, and I've lost what little confidence I had deep down. I feel fat, ugly, useless and worthless, which is why I'm on the list for assessment with the mental health unit. Worse is that I keep telling myself all this and reinforcimg that self image, and I don't believe anyone who tells me anything to contradict that view. It's also why my mood can swing wildly from one moment to the next
Bet you're glad you asked now, aren't you? "Hug of support to you | |||
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"Whether you have been hurt by someone, been let down by family or friends, struggling with the last few months or just feel insecure and unattractive, we all need a pick me up at times. Say I'm in or say what's got you down and I and anyone else here can pm you a compliment or support( no constructive criticisms,or critiques) ,and you can PM anyone too. Let's be nice to each other. Lovely thread! Always like your posts I hope you are feeling good today Clearly a hottie yourself
Hot as a hot thing!
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You look nice yourself
Thank you. Glad someone appreciates it"I do, very much so xx | |||
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"Whether you have been hurt by someone, been let down by family or friends, struggling with the last few months or just feel insecure and unattractive, we all need a pick me up at times. Say I'm in or say what's got you down and I and anyone else here can pm you a compliment or support( no constructive criticisms,or critiques) ,and you can PM anyone too. Let's be nice to each other. " The pic with you in the white top is fking hot one of my big turn on's is a tight white top and tight jeans, think I need a cold shower after this thread | |||
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"Yes. Been badly hurt recently, and it highlighted all sorts of insecurities I'd previously tried to bury, and I've lost what little confidence I had deep down. I feel fat, ugly, useless and worthless, which is why I'm on the list for assessment with the mental health unit. Worse is that I keep telling myself all this and reinforcimg that self image, and I don't believe anyone who tells me anything to contradict that view. It's also why my mood can swing wildly from one moment to the next
Bet you're glad you asked now, aren't you? "Sending love | |||
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"Yes. Been badly hurt recently, and it highlighted all sorts of insecurities I'd previously tried to bury, and I've lost what little confidence I had deep down. I feel fat, ugly, useless and worthless, which is why I'm on the list for assessment with the mental health unit. Worse is that I keep telling myself all this and reinforcimg that self image, and I don't believe anyone who tells me anything to contradict that view. It's also why my mood can swing wildly from one moment to the next
Bet you're glad you asked now, aren't you?
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"Hello you... Now how can we help you get it back? "I’m open to suggestions | |||
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"Yes. Been badly hurt recently, and it highlighted all sorts of insecurities I'd previously tried to bury, and I've lost what little confidence I had deep down. I feel fat, ugly, useless and worthless, which is why I'm on the list for assessment with the mental health unit. Worse is that I keep telling myself all this and reinforcimg that self image, and I don't believe anyone who tells me anything to contradict that view. It's also why my mood can swing wildly from one moment to the next
Bet you're glad you asked now, aren't you? "This is a supportive thread, think everyone has some kind of issues, it’s been a really uncertain time especially with Covid and lockdown. Have you tried mindfulness? | |||
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"I'm currently filling in forms that are proving to be majorly triggering. Having to find times and dates for incidents etc. I've put them off for last few weeks but now is crunch time. I'd run away if I could but that isn't going to solve this. Urgh " *Hugs* my DMs are open xc | |||
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"I'm currently filling in forms that are proving to be majorly triggering. Having to find times and dates for incidents etc. I've put them off for last few weeks but now is crunch time. I'd run away if I could but that isn't going to solve this. Urgh " Support hug returned | |||
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"Hormonal today which makes me emotional and feeling pretty down today on top of that. I'd welcome any hugs x " Sending lots of hugs and kisses, hormones are a bitch, while I am at it though maybe a few quishes so I can press up against those breast they are amazing | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum " You've got some lovely curves...and cracking norks if you don't mind me saying | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum You've got some lovely curves...and cracking norks if you don't mind me saying " Your mash and gravy eating skills improved 10 fold in the last year  | |||
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"Great thread. Lots of women say they find confidence attractive in a man. I’ve lost a lot of mine since lockdown!" Wow just wow love the pics any change you own a cowboy hat | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum You've got some lovely curves...and cracking norks if you don't mind me saying Your mash and gravy eating skills improved 10 fold in the last year "Well I was taught by the king of mashed potatoes
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum You've got some lovely curves...and cracking norks if you don't mind me saying " I don't mind at all | |||
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"Have you tried mindfulness? "I know the usual response to this is “yeah yeah whatever” but try it for a period of time. It’s not a quick fix, but it can be very helpful. It helps you to rebalance things. | |||
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"Have you tried mindfulness?
I know the usual response to this is “yeah yeah whatever” but try it for a period of time.
It’s not a quick fix, but it can be very helpful. It helps you to rebalance things. "I am in love with yoga it has really helped me | |||
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"Have you tried mindfulness?
I know the usual response to this is “yeah yeah whatever” but try it for a period of time.
It’s not a quick fix, but it can be very helpful. It helps you to rebalance things. "Also simple grounding exercises 5things you can see 4 things you can feel 3 things you can hear 2 things you can smell 1 thing you can taste | |||
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"I’m in to stroke some egos 
Great rack MissD "Heck Miss Hants
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"Have you tried mindfulness?
I know the usual response to this is “yeah yeah whatever” but try it for a period of time.
It’s not a quick fix, but it can be very helpful. It helps you to rebalance things.
Also simple grounding exercises
5things you can see
4 things you can feel
3 things you can hear
2 things you can smell
1 thing you can taste
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"Hormonal today which makes me emotional and feeling pretty down today on top of that. I'd welcome any hugs x " Hugs it is and a big welcome back | |||
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"Hormonal today which makes me emotional and feeling pretty down today on top of that. I'd welcome any hugs x Hugs it is and a big welcome back "Thank you  | |||
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"Is it bad that I thought of all naughty things " I’d be disappointed If anyone had thought of anything else. | |||
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"Definitely need a pick me up and ego boost, lost my marine fish last night due to a power cut. That and no luck on here causes me sadness inside "Awww that's very sad, sorry to hear about your fish | |||
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"Definitely need a pick me up and ego boost, lost my marine fish last night due to a power cut. That and no luck on here causes me sadness inside
Awww that's very sad, sorry to hear about your fish "Thank you, miss them all now | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum You've got some lovely curves...and cracking norks if you don't mind me saying Your mash and gravy eating skills improved 10 fold in the last year
Well I was taught by the king of mashed potatoes
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"Have you tried mindfulness?
I know the usual response to this is “yeah yeah whatever” but try it for a period of time.
It’s not a quick fix, but it can be very helpful. It helps you to rebalance things.
Also simple grounding exercises
5things you can see
4 things you can feel
3 things you can hear
2 things you can smell
1 thing you can taste
Is it bad that I thought of all naughty things "Not at all, if that’s what helps | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum " You look amazing,and hope u r ok now.. I'm not convinced that's a real special police uniform tho | |||
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"Have you tried mindfulness?
I know the usual response to this is “yeah yeah whatever” but try it for a period of time.
It’s not a quick fix, but it can be very helpful. It helps you to rebalance things. "I haven't yet, although it has been mentioned to me. I should Google it I know, but I'm not sure I have the concentration span for it at the moment Sending love and hugs to everyone who's posted on here and needs it | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum " Just had a perve ; wow you are sexy as hell !! | |||
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"Great thread. Lots of women say they find confidence attractive in a man. I’ve lost a lot of mine since lockdown!" Some like vulnerability, the shy or quiet type. Confidence is good but can be seen as arrogance at times | |||
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"Love it OP! It’s been a tough few months but can a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel... finally "Let's hope its ot a train xx Always love your posts n pics | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum " you look amazing, a true beauty, | |||
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"Have you tried mindfulness?
I know the usual response to this is “yeah yeah whatever” but try it for a period of time.
It’s not a quick fix, but it can be very helpful. It helps you to rebalance things.
Also simple grounding exercises
5things you can see
4 things you can feel
3 things you can hear
2 things you can smell
1 thing you can taste
Is it bad that I thought of all naughty things
Not at all, if that’s what helps "LOL nothing helps no matter what I do it just always goes straight to dirty | |||
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"A boost to mine would be dangerous..... "Love a bit of danger | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum Just had a perve ; wow you are sexy as hell !!" Couldn't resist and took a sneak peak myself | |||
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"Love this currently not feeling down but have had many bad days with my body confidence, I think all woman do at some point or another, for me it's also my stomach love my boobs sometimes my bum you look amazing, a true beauty, "Thank you, love the suit and eyes by the way | |||
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"I could go for an ego boost, if anyone is feeling generous. Been floating between gym bod and dad bod the last few months, just feeling a bit bleh to be honest.." Nothing wrong with what I could see | |||
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"I could go for an ego boost, if anyone is feeling generous. Been floating between gym bod and dad bod the last few months, just feeling a bit bleh to be honest.. Nothing wrong with what I could see " Thanks very much right back at you, too | |||
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"I think it's more of a case of who doesn't need an ego boost everybody likes one I'm in by the way" I think you are lovely, kind and grateful for you checking in? Xx | |||
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"After losing 10st, I've had 4 major skin removal surgeries in a year, partly for looks & largely for comfort. Unfortunately, 2 of them haven't gone to plan & I need further surgeries to improve the appearance. I know I look better than before but it's still disappointing to not look good in my eyes. Loose skin is really unattractive "That's one hell of a transformation! Firstly, congratulations, it takes some serious commitment to achieve what you have. And secondly, you look incredible from what I can see, I hope you're proud of how far you've come! | |||
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Love a bit of danger "Stoppitttt..... | |||
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"After losing 10st, I've had 4 major skin removal surgeries in a year, partly for looks & largely for comfort. Unfortunately, 2 of them haven't gone to plan & I need further surgeries to improve the appearance. I know I look better than before but it's still disappointing to not look good in my eyes. Loose skin is really unattractive "I understand how you feel hun I have lost 6.5st and still not where I want to be and hate the loose skin on my arms and inner legs | |||
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"After losing 10st, I've had 4 major skin removal surgeries in a year, partly for looks & largely for comfort. Unfortunately, 2 of them haven't gone to plan & I need further surgeries to improve the appearance. I know I look better than before but it's still disappointing to not look good in my eyes. Loose skin is really unattractive
That's one hell of a transformation! Firstly, congratulations, it takes some serious commitment to achieve what you have. And secondly, you look incredible from what I can see, I hope you're proud of how far you've come! "Thank you so much for that. My pics are better than in the flesh though!! Even so, my health is greatly improved & that's the important thing xx | |||
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Love a bit of danger
Stoppitttt..... "That is one fine back view | |||
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"After losing 10st, I've had 4 major skin removal surgeries in a year, partly for looks & largely for comfort. Unfortunately, 2 of them haven't gone to plan & I need further surgeries to improve the appearance. I know I look better than before but it's still disappointing to not look good in my eyes. Loose skin is really unattractive
I understand how you feel hun I have lost 6.5st and still not where I want to be and hate the loose skin on my arms and inner legs "Well done- that's amazing!! I have had a tummy tuck, butt lift, arm lift & thigh lift!! Butt & thighs not so successful, but I love wearing sleeveless tops now!! X | |||
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"Got called fat the other day on here. Nearly made us close everything down. " Omg never!! That sounds like pure jealousy!! I'd be chuffed to have a body like yours!! | |||
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"Got called fat the other day on here. Nearly made us close everything down. " Did the person have a sight impairment? You guys are the very opposite of fat | |||
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"Got called fat the other day on here. Nearly made us close everything down. " That's ridiculous, I can't see why anyone would call either of you fat! Probably just looking for someone else to project their issues on to.. don't let the haters get to you. You're hot! | |||
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"After losing 10st, I've had 4 major skin removal surgeries in a year, partly for looks & largely for comfort. Unfortunately, 2 of them haven't gone to plan & I need further surgeries to improve the appearance. I know I look better than before but it's still disappointing to not look good in my eyes. Loose skin is really unattractive
That's one hell of a transformation! Firstly, congratulations, it takes some serious commitment to achieve what you have. And secondly, you look incredible from what I can see, I hope you're proud of how far you've come!
Thank you so much for that. My pics are better than in the flesh though!!
Even so, my health is greatly improved & that's the important thing xx"I bet they aren't! From what I can see, you look amazing. And I bet the confidence that comes with what you've achieved is even better? X | |||
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"After losing 10st, I've had 4 major skin removal surgeries in a year, partly for looks & largely for comfort. Unfortunately, 2 of them haven't gone to plan & I need further surgeries to improve the appearance. I know I look better than before but it's still disappointing to not look good in my eyes. Loose skin is really unattractive
That's one hell of a transformation! Firstly, congratulations, it takes some serious commitment to achieve what you have. And secondly, you look incredible from what I can see, I hope you're proud of how far you've come!
Thank you so much for that. My pics are better than in the flesh though!!
Even so, my health is greatly improved & that's the important thing xx
I bet they aren't! From what I can see, you look amazing. And I bet the confidence that comes with what you've achieved is even better? X"I definitely feel better. I actually feel normal now!! I still feel like hiding parts of my body but who doesn't, I guess xx | |||
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"After losing 10st, I've had 4 major skin removal surgeries in a year, partly for looks & largely for comfort. Unfortunately, 2 of them haven't gone to plan & I need further surgeries to improve the appearance. I know I look better than before but it's still disappointing to not look good in my eyes. Loose skin is really unattractive
That's one hell of a transformation! Firstly, congratulations, it takes some serious commitment to achieve what you have. And secondly, you look incredible from what I can see, I hope you're proud of how far you've come!
Thank you so much for that. My pics are better than in the flesh though!!
Even so, my health is greatly improved & that's the important thing xx
I bet they aren't! From what I can see, you look amazing. And I bet the confidence that comes with what you've achieved is even better? X
I definitely feel better. I actually feel normal now!! I still feel like hiding parts of my body but who doesn't, I guess xx"Exactly right. I consider myself wholly average, but I still have good parts and bad parts of my body. It's only natural to self criticize a little, just don't stand for anyone else doing it! Xx | |||
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"After losing 10st, I've had 4 major skin removal surgeries in a year, partly for looks & largely for comfort. Unfortunately, 2 of them haven't gone to plan & I need further surgeries to improve the appearance. I know I look better than before but it's still disappointing to not look good in my eyes. Loose skin is really unattractive "Wow incredible. Well done and I hope everything works out well for you x | |||
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"After losing 10st, I've had 4 major skin removal surgeries in a year, partly for looks & largely for comfort. Unfortunately, 2 of them haven't gone to plan & I need further surgeries to improve the appearance. I know I look better than before but it's still disappointing to not look good in my eyes. Loose skin is really unattractive
That's one hell of a transformation! Firstly, congratulations, it takes some serious commitment to achieve what you have. And secondly, you look incredible from what I can see, I hope you're proud of how far you've come!
Thank you so much for that. My pics are better than in the flesh though!!
Even so, my health is greatly improved & that's the important thing xx
I bet they aren't! From what I can see, you look amazing. And I bet the confidence that comes with what you've achieved is even better? X
I definitely feel better. I actually feel normal now!! I still feel like hiding parts of my body but who doesn't, I guess xx
Exactly right. I consider myself wholly average, but I still have good parts and bad parts of my body. It's only natural to self criticize a little, just don't stand for anyone else doing it! Xx"Exactly!! We're all way more critical of ourselves anyway..it's not always easy to remember that xx | |||
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Wow incredible. Well done and I hope everything works out well for you x "Thank you so much xxx | |||
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"Hormonal today which makes me emotional and feeling pretty down today on top of that. I'd welcome any hugs x " Sending a big hairy man hug your way. Everyone needs one now and then. Even me. X | |||
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"Great thread OP, and kind thoughts to all above. As I am feeling a bit shitty today, could do with a boost of sorts, not really an ego boost as such. Taking my ex employer to tribunal is starting to take it's toll, I knew it wouldn't be a walk in the park, but could really do without it in a sense, and I am unsure if it will actually change anything there in terms of policies and practices. Any wise words, something funny would be appreciated, or even some critique on the situation "I have no experience in this, but I suppose my advice would be to let the lawyers argue it out & trust the process..I hope you get what you need from it but stressing about it won't change things. Try & focus on the good & positive things in your life, I'm sure there must be lots. Good luck xx | |||
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"I’m currently feeling body conscious as I feel I’ve put on weight
Mrs ikc x"I know that feeling but I am sure you are looking as amazing. Much love xx | |||
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