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Where on the spectrum?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Porn-fuelled fantasist (-10), or hedonistic Bohemian (+10)

A great site for all of us - but where do you feel you are on this spectrum?

I think my desire for sensual escapism pushes me a long way towards the +10

Still, no wrong answers.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a freelance wankalot.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Probably a solid 5. I play and play hard, but I need lots of downtime and I have strict rules and boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Wherever uninhibited, open minded with a healthy interest in sex and sexuality in all it's forms sits, that's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hippy moonchild. +20?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a freelance wankalot."

I’m guessing that’s a -10 and proud of it?

Fabulous!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hippy moonchild. +20? "

I understand your scoring....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I dunno, I'm not a fantasist but I have no desire to be a complete hedonist. I probably have a lot less sex than I would ideally want because of the way my sexual attraction works but the alternative would be to force myself to have sex with people I didn't desire so not really an enjoyable alternative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6. Love clubs and group sex with my partner, and we are very kinky! But we also love our alone "vanilla" time, has to be a balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am both 10s and neither..depends on my mindset at the time..if I need isolation then Im positively sexually dead..other times Im way beyond +10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere between 5 and 10, depending on a variety of factors.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm an optimistic sexual realist.

I hope every fuck will be better than the last, but realistically I know the world doesn't revolve around my vag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dunno, I'm not a fantasist but I have no desire to be a complete hedonist. I probably have a lot less sex than I would ideally want because of the way my sexual attraction works but the alternative would be to force myself to have sex with people I didn't desire so not really an enjoyable alternative. "

My wording probably wasn’t great - we’re fantasists at both ends of the spectrum. If I put more thought into it, I see one end of the spectrum being a desire to engage in a specific activity (regardless of the person(s) I am engaging with) -10 to a desire for a sensual adventure with mutual emotional attraction, where the sexual experience naturally evolves +10, fast or slow.

Maybe we all flip to any point on this spectrum dependent on current mood?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I dunno, I'm not a fantasist but I have no desire to be a complete hedonist. I probably have a lot less sex than I would ideally want because of the way my sexual attraction works but the alternative would be to force myself to have sex with people I didn't desire so not really an enjoyable alternative.

My wording probably wasn’t great - we’re fantasists at both ends of the spectrum. If I put more thought into it, I see one end of the spectrum being a desire to engage in a specific activity (regardless of the person(s) I am engaging with) -10 to a desire for a sensual adventure with mutual emotional attraction, where the sexual experience naturally evolves +10, fast or slow.

Maybe we all flip to any point on this spectrum dependent on current mood?"

I think both mood and partner can have an impact if you're talking about specific sexual adventures

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I dunno, I'm not a fantasist but I have no desire to be a complete hedonist. I probably have a lot less sex than I would ideally want because of the way my sexual attraction works but the alternative would be to force myself to have sex with people I didn't desire so not really an enjoyable alternative.

My wording probably wasn’t great - we’re fantasists at both ends of the spectrum. If I put more thought into it, I see one end of the spectrum being a desire to engage in a specific activity (regardless of the person(s) I am engaging with) -10 to a desire for a sensual adventure with mutual emotional attraction, where the sexual experience naturally evolves +10, fast or slow.

Maybe we all flip to any point on this spectrum dependent on current mood?"

Now I'm more confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fall anywhere on that scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm somewhere between ZX and 128.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

I don’t think that’s really two ends of a spectrum!

They both appear to be on very similar ends of the same spectrum.

I’m a sexual libertarian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a realistic fantasist with a conservative bent and bohemian underpinnings. I might just be left of centre of the anal fister but out to lunch when it comes to PPP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this thread was where's my speculum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this thread was where's my speculum"

You know where it is...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

nun

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are probably around a +8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Statistically, 3.14

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought this thread was where's my speculum"

That would probably be far more entertaining

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Sorry don’t understand.. I’m off to check out some porn and have a wank.. be back in a wee while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently -9.

Before Covid? A conservative 3

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