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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peaks and troughs, although this is a big trough mind

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

I've even posted threads today! Got to keep myself amused at work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely been a slump or something this last few days.

Think regulars probably worried about an influx from the tv programme maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sanitisation?

Less controversial material?

General boredom of it all?

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Definitely been a slump or something this last few days.

Think regulars probably worried about an influx from the tv programme maybe? "

Possibly, plus furloughs are ending, schools are due back, everyone is fed up with social distancing...

Strange times we live in!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm enjoying it at the moment.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Aww chin up op ..some days there's nothing to comment on...then a towball turns up and the craziness continues... maybe you'll get some adoration at ten xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always go through these cycles but it always picks back up again.

Stick with it

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring. Have hardly been on here lately

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By *eathersnlustCouple
over a year ago

stoke

maybe its peeps wearing face masks on their profile !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!"

I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boring. Have hardly been on here lately "

Need a secret service soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always go through these cycles but it always picks back up again.

Stick with it

Her x"

Im still new(ish) so it seems like fun to me. Sure it will wear off soon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a backlog of hilariously original threads that are pencilled in for an autumn release.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We haven’t logged on for a little bit and thought we’d just remembered it differently. Forums definitely seem a bit unusual at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always go through these cycles but it always picks back up again.

Stick with it

Her x"

It doesn't. Same things different wording... May try another forum maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely been a slump or something this last few days.

Think regulars probably worried about an influx from the tv programme maybe?

Possibly, plus furloughs are ending, schools are due back, everyone is fed up with social distancing...

Strange times we live in! "

All good points, people just getting busier again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps posted my first thread - go take a look ; subject : if you could only do one

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I tried to give it a boost today with a suit thread but I agree it has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lull is because I haven’t done a thread for a week, I’ve been focused on some new material that no one will comment on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m seeking inspiration from immersing myself in different cultures, stay tuned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!! "

Yeh ive tried a few times.

I cant take another "what would you do to the person above" or "tits out tuesday"

No offense to those who do, i just get bored if it all

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!! "

I have noticed your efforts, sir, and while they light not be something I can / want to engage with I appreciate the effort you're going to.

So don't be disheartened

It's probably because you're not part of this forum clique that definitely does not exist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time "

Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time "

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Yeah same old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time

Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet."

I refuse to sell out, I will stick to my principles even if they barely make double figure comments.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I would say part of it is possibly people are just sick of being on their phone/computer to communicate with people and really just want to see face to face.

Also sometimes keeping up with threads can be hard work when they move so fast etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!!

Yeh ive tried a few times.

I cant take another "what would you do to the person above" or "tits out tuesday"

No offense to those who do, i just get bored if it all"

Yep... like I said I tried but it always fails. First day back was good and my threads was good but think they've got used to me being back now lol.

Thought it'd be DIFFERENT this time but it's not really. I've met and chatting too some amazing people in the last few days mind so not all bad!! If in left now I've left with a few friends I didn't have so anything from now is a bonus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time

Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet.

I refuse to sell out, I will stick to my principles even if they barely make double figure comments."

I avoid them threads like coronavirus!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might have to Re- release My roller disco thread, I don’t think it got the critical acclaim it deserved on first release, as often happens with ground breaking work, it needs time, for people to catch up, it’s only later the genius is discovered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

I try posting new threads not the same as others but they get ignored. Think people are just in the habit to post the same crap on the same threads. Not bothering again!!!

I have noticed your efforts, sir, and while they light not be something I can / want to engage with I appreciate the effort you're going to.

So don't be disheartened

It's probably because you're not part of this forum clique that definitely does not exist... "

It does maybe I can start my own clique for people not worthy of the 'popular' people on here

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

***shameless plug***

Read my story in the Fantasies forum,"Miss Clare's Detention"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely been a slump or something this last few days.

Think regulars probably worried about an influx from the tv programme maybe?

Possibly, plus furloughs are ending, schools are due back, everyone is fed up with social distancing...

Strange times we live in!

All good points, people just getting busier again! "

Nothing to do with it... plenty of people on here just going in the same sort of threads each and every day. People post them threads just to get the response. Think there should be something on here where a post or simular is limited to once a week.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time

Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet.

I refuse to sell out, I will stick to my principles even if they barely make double figure comments.

I avoid them threads like coronavirus!! "

Increasingly, so do I, because I keep getting ignored on them. Or anyone I try to flirt with passes on by.

Granted I'm painfully aware that I'm not many people's ideal date, being less of an oil painting and more of an oil slick, but I don't need constant reminding of that fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming soon.....

Does having googly eyes tattooed on your penis turn women on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about starting a snog, marry, avoid thread to appease the masses in the mean time

Make it a snog, fuck, or avoid one and you’ve won the internet.

I refuse to sell out, I will stick to my principles even if they barely make double figure comments.

I avoid them threads like coronavirus!!

Increasingly, so do I, because I keep getting ignored on them. Or anyone I try to flirt with passes on by.

Granted I'm painfully aware that I'm not many people's ideal date, being less of an oil painting and more of an oil slick, but I don't need constant reminding of that fact "

Not that mate. Just not in the clique. They say the poster above but people look for friends or the so called popular people. Don't take it personally.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've started a few threads, and they are probably ones that the masses avoid or say are cringe worthy. No matter, we can all avoid the threads we don't like. I've had some great conversations off the back of them. Loads of people have been on here for years so original threads will be hard to think up. I stay in the lighthearted, flirty threads. Too often I've seen words be misread, or taken out of context and people get upset x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Coming soon.....

Does having googly eyes tattooed on your penis turn women on? "

Well I had a fling with a guy who showed me a tattoo on his penis within 10 minutes of meeting him. So maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok guys... Gonna risk it for a biscuit. May get a time out for my next one but maybe not... font think it's breaking the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys... Gonna risk it for a biscuit. May get a time out for my next one but maybe not... font think it's breaking the rules. "

Don’t you dare start a googly eyes one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming soon.....

Does having googly eyes tattooed on your penis turn women on?

Well I had a fling with a guy who showed me a tattoo on his penis within 10 minutes of meeting him. So maybe"

I gotta know, what was it ?

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.

If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying

The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will

Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.

If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying

The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will

Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children "

He's the wise monkey

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.

If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying

The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will

Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children

He's the wise monkey "

Wise gorilla, thank you very much

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

It's a great place xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm enjoying it at the moment. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New thread up guys

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I'm enjoying it at the moment.

Me too "

Xx

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm enjoying it at the moment.

Me too "

Me three x

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.

If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying

The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will

Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children

He's the wise monkey

Wise gorilla, thank you very much "

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's same old same old.

I'm sure it used to be more entertaining a few years ago but some people have left and some personalities have changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea but at least my crappy jokes are consistent

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yea but at least my crappy jokes are consistent "

I love your crappy jokes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea but at least my crappy jokes are consistent

I love your crappy jokes x"

Thanks darling

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ultimately the forums are what we each make of them as individuals and doesn't even have to be related to whether you're in a good or bad place currently - personally I'm in a pretty good place generally speaking but am finding them a little tiresome lately - it's either trite nonsense or people taking offence at people holding a different opinion.

It may be related to lockdown, it may be peaks and troughs and this is just a particularly long trough, or it may just be the regular "changing of the guard" that happens as people come and go and I've not particularly warmed to the new guard - whatever it is though, it is what it is and I'm quite happily taking a back seat and post only on things that take my interest, which is less and less.

There are far more important things in life and the forums are after all a tiny percentage of the site.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Ultimately the forums are what we each make of them as individuals and doesn't even have to be related to whether you're in a good or bad place currently - personally I'm in a pretty good place generally speaking but am finding them a little tiresome lately - it's either trite nonsense or people taking offence at people holding a different opinion.

It may be related to lockdown, it may be peaks and troughs and this is just a particularly long trough, or it may just be the regular "changing of the guard" that happens as people come and go and I've not particularly warmed to the new guard - whatever it is though, it is what it is and I'm quite happily taking a back seat and post only on things that take my interest, which is less and less.

There are far more important things in life and the forums are after all a tiny percentage of the site."

there speaks the wise voice

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yea but at least my crappy jokes are consistent "

Your great xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea but at least my crappy jokes are consistent

Your great xx"

Yea but your greater x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boring. Have hardly been on here lately

Need a secret service soon! "

Patience. Soon. Every 3 or 4 weeks. Kills it otherwise

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes. "

Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason "

I always miss the good ones

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"To be serious for a moment - which I know is never a good idea around here - the problem probably isn't the forum, or the content, but the individual's own perception of it.

If you're in a good place mentally it can be joyous and uplifting. If you're in a bad place it can be soul destroying

The forum is what it is, take from it whatever you will

Here endeth the lesson. Go in peace, my children

He's the wise monkey "

Indeed he is! Some of the most saccharine popularity validation threads appear when people are at their lowest and need a boost. Nothing wrong with that per sa but not loads of them!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

It always seems like the same topics come up.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason "

There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes. "

I like nichè, its more intersting

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

I like nichè, its more intersting"

Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

There's more to the forums than the lounge ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can complain or we can be proactive and post new threads? Generally agree though. It changes fast anyway! Will peak up soon eventually.

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

Its because of all the murders on the fab train!!! That was so good that these threads just don't hold up to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

I like nichè, its more intersting

Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago. "

Yea but at least your an individual so just carry on being you

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason

There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G! "

What's niche to you though may be normal to some

Actually joking aside you make a very good point some activities do tend to get frowned on or attract the negative type of comments - but when a BDSM thread for example attracts a good positive response that is the kind of thing I enjoy.

Even a decent debate that doesn't descend into offence being taken for holding an opposing opinion can be interesting

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Its because of all the murders on the fab train!!! That was so good that these threads just don't hold up to it! "

My fave thread in a long time! Was so much fun! Bravo to Sirius!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

I like nichè, its more intersting

Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago.

Yea but at least your an individual so just carry on being you "

I am still being me, I just keep lots to myself on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

I like nichè, its more intersting

Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago.

Yea but at least your an individual so just carry on being you

I am still being me, I just keep lots to myself on here "

Yea but don’t darling shake it up a bit

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason

There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G!

What's niche to you though may be normal to some

Actually joking aside you make a very good point some activities do tend to get frowned on or attract the negative type of comments - but when a BDSM thread for example attracts a good positive response that is the kind of thing I enjoy.

Even a decent debate that doesn't descend into offence being taken for holding an opposing opinion can be interesting "

Debate is fine but I've had my partners be called paedophiles and people say I must have been abused as a child.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason

There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G!

What's niche to you though may be normal to some

Actually joking aside you make a very good point some activities do tend to get frowned on or attract the negative type of comments - but when a BDSM thread for example attracts a good positive response that is the kind of thing I enjoy.

Even a decent debate that doesn't descend into offence being taken for holding an opposing opinion can be interesting

Debate is fine but I've had my partners be called paedophiles and people say I must have been abused as a child. "

That's truly awful. It saddens me when people turn nasty x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

I like nichè, its more intersting

Same but I also come on here for fun and not to recieve a load of hate so I stopped talking about lots of things on here a long time ago. "

Hugs

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"People complain the forums are boring and repetitive but then get their knickers in a twist if you talk about any niche sexual tastes.

Yeah my discussion about the merits of sex whilst dressed as a pixie wearing a Boris mask completely flopped for some reason

There's niche and then there's niche Mr. G!

What's niche to you though may be normal to some

Actually joking aside you make a very good point some activities do tend to get frowned on or attract the negative type of comments - but when a BDSM thread for example attracts a good positive response that is the kind of thing I enjoy.

Even a decent debate that doesn't descend into offence being taken for holding an opposing opinion can be interesting

Debate is fine but I've had my partners be called paedophiles and people say I must have been abused as a child. "

Yeah I've seen some awful things said on BDSM related threads - the worst being that anyone into it must have mental health issues by someone that when challenged continued to assert that belief

Shaven or hairy threads always seem to descend into people being vile too.

Why people can't just accept others may have different tastes and desires and accept that even though it's not for them, others may like it, is beyond me.

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By *asygoingguy82Man
over a year ago

bognor


"I've started a few threads, and they are probably ones that the masses avoid or say are cringe worthy. No matter, we can all avoid the threads we don't like. I've had some great conversations off the back of them. Loads of people have been on here for years so original threads will be hard to think up. I stay in the lighthearted, flirty threads. Too often I've seen words be misread, or taken out of context and people get upset x"

I've only recently started to to make a conscious effort to comment on the forums but I think you threads have been great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a break for a bit and come back when VR Fab gets up and running.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've started a few threads, and they are probably ones that the masses avoid or say are cringe worthy. No matter, we can all avoid the threads we don't like. I've had some great conversations off the back of them. Loads of people have been on here for years so original threads will be hard to think up. I stay in the lighthearted, flirty threads. Too often I've seen words be misread, or taken out of context and people get upset x

I've only recently started to to make a conscious effort to comment on the forums but I think you threads have been great fun"

Thank you for saying that x

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By *asygoingguy82Man
over a year ago

bognor


"I've started a few threads, and they are probably ones that the masses avoid or say are cringe worthy. No matter, we can all avoid the threads we don't like. I've had some great conversations off the back of them. Loads of people have been on here for years so original threads will be hard to think up. I stay in the lighthearted, flirty threads. Too often I've seen words be misread, or taken out of context and people get upset x

I've only recently started to to make a conscious effort to comment on the forums but I think you threads have been great fun

Thank you for saying that x"

No worries. Just spreading the love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was ludicrous a few months back hence my departure ....

Happens all the time

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Yup, same old repetitive threads...

Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.

Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup, same old repetitive threads...

Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.

Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting. "

It’s always been like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup, same old repetitive threads...

Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.

Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.

It’s always been like that "

She’s back!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yup, same old repetitive threads...

Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.

Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.

It’s always been like that "

Love the lips

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yup, same old repetitive threads...

Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.

Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting. "

So change it then start some interesting threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup, same old repetitive threads...

Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.

Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.

It’s always been like that

She’s back! "

Not sure how long, but for a little while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup, same old repetitive threads...

Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.

Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.

It’s always been like that

She’s back!

Not sure how long, but for a little while "

You’re worse than me! Good to see you anyway x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It can be difficult at times to find amusement, especially with meets still not happening making people frustrated.

All we can do is our little bit to bring joy and happiness to others.

.

And squeeze a few bums on the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup, same old repetitive threads...

Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.

Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.

It’s always been like that

She’s back!

Not sure how long, but for a little while

You’re worse than me! Good to see you anyway x"

Lovely to see you too beautiful

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I need my ego boosting - rate my bottom please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!"

Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.

Who you gonna call ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I need my ego boosting - rate my bottom please "

Show me

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"It was ludicrous a few months back hence my departure ....

Happens all the time "

Welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!"

Agree Ivey

Hope your ok tho x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.

Who you gonna call ? "

Ghostbusters!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was ludicrous a few months back hence my departure ....

Happens all the time

Welcome back "

thank you

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I look and leave quite quickly most days. I’ll post on what interests me, but other than that I’m quite happy being quiet, doing my thing away from here keeps me smiling

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

FAF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best advice comes from The Ramones - they decided to play the music they wanted to hear on the radio.

The threads I create are primarily for my own amusement and if other people like them or comment on them great that is a bonus (and I love it when they go off at tangents).

Some of mine die and do the thread drop of shame, some shine for a few brief moments and others soar to the heights. But I keep plugging away.

Don't tailor a thread to the audience. Let the audience find your thread. Post what you'd like to see or talk about.

If you enjoy knitting do a knitting thread.

Use an interest or hobby (other than sex) of yours to connect with people (a good one was Lacey_Red's geek/nerds thread which started a plethora of rpg/geeky/nerd threads).

Observe the world around you and post funny/serious anecdotes of what you see.

Do a nature watch thread (I saw a dead badger on the road yesterday - what road kill have you seen recently?).

If you enjoy reading start a forum book club.

Go niche and talk about the socioeconomic impact of anal fisting amongst stockbrokers.

The forum is not one community but many communities each trying to vie for space. And you never know you might connect with someone you never thought you would connect with.

The only limit is what you can think of. If someone trolls your thread don't engage with the troll.

Hoist the mainsail and have at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup, same old repetitive threads...

Used to be a social place to spark new conversations with people.

Now it's just mostly attention seeking/ego boosting.

It’s always been like that "

Hey lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.

Who you gonna call ?

Ghostbusters!! Lol x "

That was removed as an option

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.

Who you gonna call ?

Ghostbusters!! Lol x

That was removed as an option "

I like to break the rules x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.

Who you gonna call ?

Ghostbusters!! Lol x

That was removed as an option

I like to break the rules x "

You're a rebel

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I see no forum slump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!

Try the phone a friend, there is a million up for grabs.

Who you gonna call ?

Ghostbusters!! Lol x

That was removed as an option

I like to break the rules x "

I have been known to use that line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see no forum hump "

It's all about Quasimodo and his (Busty) Belles

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I see no forum slump "

Same here. I've only been posting for a couple of days but now chatting to some lovely people

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I see no forum slump

Same here. I've only been posting for a couple of days but now chatting to some lovely people "

Hello lovely xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I see no forum hump

It's all about Quasimodo and his (Busty) Belles "

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I see no forum slump

Same here. I've only been posting for a couple of days but now chatting to some lovely people

Hello lovely xxx"

And you're one of them

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Same topics worded differently and the same posters posting on each one...have been saying it for a while.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I see no forum slump

Same here. I've only been posting for a couple of days but now chatting to some lovely people

Hello lovely xxx

And you're one of them "

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I see no forum slump

Same here. I've only been posting for a couple of days but now chatting to some lovely people

Hello lovely xxx

And you're one of them "

Amazing hair colour. Wish I could get mine that vibrant x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Same topics worded differently and the same posters posting on each one...have been saying it for a while."

Deja vu. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see no forum slump "

You may not, but i was saying i do

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Turnip related posts....we need more of them

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Over the 14+ years that I've been on here, I've seen things come full circle many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the 14+ years that I've been on here, I've seen things come full circle many times "

I would say the same over the 10 I have been on here.

Probably a rise in the 'I fancy you threads'.

Saying that not seen one of those today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been thinking of keeping out of The Lounge for a while and see if that helps break the monotony of the same old big each other up threads.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them "

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them

"

I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them

I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also "

You're sooooooo diverse.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them

I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also "

What else

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Things come and go, holiday periods affect things. Plus the sex rations are likely having a big influence, on top of the big challenge out there affecting everyone in complex ways. Fab as well as the forum are best dipped into at the right times for us and stayed away from when we're not getting what we need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them

I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also

What else"

Swede?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them

I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also

What else"

I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here.....

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them

I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also

What else

I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here..... "

Dont eat em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them

I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also

What else

I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here.....

Dont eat em"

Put them up your bum

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them

I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also

What else

I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here.....

Dont eat em

Put them up your bum "

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turnip related posts....we need more of them

I’ll accept radishes and possibly asparagus also

What else

I’ve never seen a thread devoted exclusively to the awesomeness that are pickled eggs on here..... "

Funnily enough, it was myself who did a thread on them agggeesss ago.

Love em

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Been in a bit of a slump, not enjoying it as much, gets very samey.

Hoping this wears off soon though!"

This happens now and again x

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