FabSwingers.com forum: Asking to see face pics without returning

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So if say for example a profile says must send face pics if you're staying your basically for good looking guys or girls so for them they have to send you a facepic for you to decide bit all the ones that you now have their pic and you don't like will never get to see you a or have the equal rights to have your face pic even if its going nowhere... There should be a system in place i think where if they ask to see face pics they need to send them or there is an automated pictures you have that you agree to be sent when you receive from the other party....

Anyone got a view on this or don't care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a dilemma! If someone spontaneously sends one to me (rarely!) Then ill only reply if attracted.

But if you chat then ask to swap, its only polite to exchange and be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a face picture or don’t .

The choice is always yours and no one is forced to send pictures but for some things will not progress without a face picture and that is their choice.

We approach fab our way and if that doesn’t fit in with some ones views then that is indeed fine.

Enjoy and best of luck op!!!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I get first messages with face pics saying "you got a face pic?" I dont ask for face pics to be sent so I send when I feel comfortable doing so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did any of guys here actually get a reply without sending a mug shot attached to first message?

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

If they ask you for a face pic. Then i expect one back. Only fair.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"If they ask you for a face pic. Then i expect one back. Only fair."

I send mine when I ask them for theirs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope to everything you have just said. When looking for meets I want a face pic on first message I will only send back if I’m interested in that person. It’s up to them if they don’t want to send a face pic then don’t message me. If they don’t send a facepic they won’t get a reply. As harsh as that seems it’s my profile and I’ll do it my way and it helps cut down some of the crap.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I show mine anyway now.. the only reason I wouldn’t previously is if I knew someone. But I don’t meet or show anything else so not bothered about being recognised.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's your prerogative whether you choose to comply to a profile that says no face pic no reply - just as it's theirs to ask for one in the first place.

I don't expect people to send me theirs, nor do I expect to be expected to send mine - if they do they do, if they don't they don't kind of thing and vice versa - some people I'll send mine straight away, others when I feel comfortable to - depends on the interaction and interest.

I certainly don't think there's a need for any kind of automation or even etiquette around it.

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