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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Lol so even after 6+ years here I'm still surprised or confused at the number of female profiles that state categorically that they want discretion (albeit some come with a reason be it due to a bf or husband etc)....

...and yet they post their face pics up.

Do you find that chuckle worthy too?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Lol so even after 6+ years here I'm still surprised or confused at the number of female profiles that state categorically that they want discretion (albeit some come with a reason be it due to a bf or husband etc)....

...and yet they post their face pics up.

Do you find that chuckle worthy too? "

Men do the same.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Lol so even after 6+ years here I'm still surprised or confused at the number of female profiles that state categorically that they want discretion (albeit some come with a reason be it due to a bf or husband etc)....

...and yet they post their face pics up.

Do you find that chuckle worthy too?

Men do the same."

Oh my that I didn't know 2 peas in a pod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they mean by discretion.

It can mean not blowing up their phone with calls or texts. Can mean they don’t want to accommodate at their home. They just want something on the side.

I think as well maybe they know their partners or friends are not on here.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Depends what they mean by discretion.

It can mean not blowing up their phone with calls or texts. Can mean they don’t want to accommodate at their home. They just want something on the side.

I think as well maybe they know their partners or friends are not on here. "

The last part possibly however pics are often stolen by pic hunters and users to think otherwise is naive so im certain this makes it irrelevant.

The first points I dont agree as I always felt discretion implied secrecy thus calls and texting was automatically a part of that.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

I once asked a guy what he means by "discretion is a must" and he said he didn't want meets shouted from the roof tops....I said "that's a shame I like my meets to arrive on my doorstep with neon flashing signs, shouting I'm getting laid through a megaphone so all my neighbours know"

He never did reply strangely, not sure if my sarcasm was lost on him or if he genuinely believed me.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I once asked a guy what he means by "discretion is a must" and he said he didn't want meets shouted from the roof tops....I said "that's a shame I like my meets to arrive on my doorstep with neon flashing signs, shouting I'm getting laid through a megaphone so all my neighbours know"

He never did reply strangely, not sure if my sarcasm was lost on him or if he genuinely believed me."

But did he have his face pics up?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I once asked a guy what he means by "discretion is a must" and he said he didn't want meets shouted from the roof tops....I said "that's a shame I like my meets to arrive on my doorstep with neon flashing signs, shouting I'm getting laid through a megaphone so all my neighbours know"

He never did reply strangely, not sure if my sarcasm was lost on him or if he genuinely believed me."

In my defense, neon flashing signs are pretty hard to find at a pinch...

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"I once asked a guy what he means by "discretion is a must" and he said he didn't want meets shouted from the roof tops....I said "that's a shame I like my meets to arrive on my doorstep with neon flashing signs, shouting I'm getting laid through a megaphone so all my neighbours know"

He never did reply strangely, not sure if my sarcasm was lost on him or if he genuinely believed me.

But did he have his face pics up?"

Sideways face shot from behind, if you knew him you would recognize him easy from it.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I once asked a guy what he means by "discretion is a must" and he said he didn't want meets shouted from the roof tops....I said "that's a shame I like my meets to arrive on my doorstep with neon flashing signs, shouting I'm getting laid through a megaphone so all my neighbours know"

He never did reply strangely, not sure if my sarcasm was lost on him or if he genuinely believed me.

But did he have his face pics up?

Sideways face shot from behind, if you knew him you would recognize him easy from it. "

Then he's trying to be discrete in hiding his identity but clearly failed i thin.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I once asked a guy what he means by "discretion is a must" and he said he didn't want meets shouted from the roof tops....I said "that's a shame I like my meets to arrive on my doorstep with neon flashing signs, shouting I'm getting laid through a megaphone so all my neighbours know"

He never did reply strangely, not sure if my sarcasm was lost on him or if he genuinely believed me."

This made me snort laugh x

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"I once asked a guy what he means by "discretion is a must" and he said he didn't want meets shouted from the roof tops....I said "that's a shame I like my meets to arrive on my doorstep with neon flashing signs, shouting I'm getting laid through a megaphone so all my neighbours know"

He never did reply strangely, not sure if my sarcasm was lost on him or if he genuinely believed me.

This made me snort laugh x"

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be work related to. I got called out last week at work, a chap from miles away and his mates in the car. He was d*unk but thats not an excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My meaning off discretion is don’t go shooting ur mouth off down the pub or two ur mates that we hooked up for a night off fun I know I I may prorty my self is a slag on hear but don’t want it to be known around town that I am

If you see me in a none fab setting don’t come up to me and say hello and start talking to me like we know each orther or that we been in bed to gether All that’s needed is a nod and a smile and wink lol

and if we meeting or have meet before that’s not a open invitation to invite friends or bring friends around for a go on me as well without asking first

And don’t try and sneak a video off us have fun ither if you want a video more than happy to as long as it’s done with my camera and you can sit and watch me edit and blur faces and background and stuff out and delete original none edit video and send you edit copy

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