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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?

Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?

Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent? "

Red flag for sure also shows lack of discretion i believe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?

Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent? "

It would put me off for sure.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I have a couple of pic's with various men's body parts no faces so I can't really say anything,but to be honest I preferred not seeing women on a guy's profile.

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

It puts me off to honest, main reason is consent

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Well you would hope they have the other persons consent.

Dont mind pics of other people on single profiles.

MsD

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Personally not a fan. Especially explicit ones.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have two pics with other people on my profile and I have their consent. One is to show I play with women and the other to show I am happy with group play.

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It depends the photo and consent , but if not probably not appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We appear on a few couples profiles, they definitely asked us at the time and we oked it. So we assume everyone who has others in their profiles have asked and gotten consent to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's sex scene then can't see a problem, but if they are celebrating Christmas with their Nan then come on!!!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I have two pictures with hands in, both with consent and can’t be identified.

I took them because they look nice and make me smile, I guess it’s the same for others who have more graphic pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's ok as long as the other party are ok with it.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I don't mind the ones where it's not explicit and just a hand or something, but not those where it's just the bottom inch of someone's cock and the rest is all woman with a not very disguised face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally am not a fan of single profiles showing a sexual act with another person.

I think of the consent aspect and I think of whether they would take pics without the other persons knowledge. I think that they display them as a badge of honour and I don't want to see potential play partners hanging out of a woman. I also don't like to see unprotected sex, so I scrutinise the image to look for a condom...

By the time all of the above goes through my mind the person is not someone of interest to me.

Some pics can look very sexy and artistic but these could be in the friends only section.

Her x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I have a photo I love with someone else in it; even though it’s not explicit, only their hands, he said I could / should upload it, but I haven’t as it just doesn’t sit right with me

I don’t like seeing other people in single profiles, it does put me off, but everyone runs their profile as they choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about someone being dragged on the beach? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really like it - unless it mentions they have a partner & are playing with consent.

Sure, I don’t mind Hotwire scenario taking pictures for Mr to enjoy after. I like surprises, what’s there to be surprised at when you see a DP of some random guy’s?

Less is more sometimes..

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?

Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent?

Red flag for sure also shows lack of discretion i believe.. "

Agreed unless it’s a leg or something with agreement. I think there’s the odd bit of us here and there....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not a fan but it's up to them. We all like different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's sex scene then can't see a problem, but if they are celebrating Christmas with their Nan then come on!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the singles or couples profiles where there's so many pics of other people it's difficult to tell who is the one you will be meeting!

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"How about someone being dragged on the beach? lol"

That’s quite funny!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I generally swipe on past those pics as they don't interest me and If a profile is full of them with different women I will avoid chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a fan. I don’t need to see someone’s penis in a vagina to believe they are capable of doing so.

I just scroll by but if their profile is full of them it would put me off.

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I generally swipe on past those pics as they don't interest me and If a profile is full of them with different women I will avoid chatting "

Didn’t think of that tbh thanks ??

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By *leeperMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I generally swipe on past those pics as they don't interest me and If a profile is full of them with different women I will avoid chatting

Didn’t think of that tbh thanks ?? "

The emoji didn't come out haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about someone being dragged on the beach? lol

That’s quite funny! "

Isn't it?

I rather avoid people being too serious than people with action photos on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the pics tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about someone being dragged on the beach? lol

That’s quite funny!

Isn't it?

I rather avoid people being too serious than people with action photos on their profiles "

Is it you in the pic?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Personally I don’t have a problem. Consent was asked at the time, and I have made sure to blur or block as appropriate

If consent was later redacted happily remove!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single! "

They’re everywhere, always sending me fanny pics too.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have another's hand shot. I like the image to be it's hot. With permission of course.

I'm not bothered if no one else likes it..my profile my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing parts of others I don't see as an issue but it depends on which parts, I'm not keen on seeing someone hanging out the back of someone else.

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By *iker babe 777Couple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!

They’re everywhere, always sending me fanny pics too. "

I’m one of those couples profiles lol

More pics of me than anything - a few of us and a few with our meets ( with consent ) so show we play how we say , but it’s all explained in the profile it’s our way of play he’s totally involved -but not always present x

Apologies _iddlesticks if i am guilty

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!

They’re everywhere, always sending me fanny pics too. "

Apologies, I'll start sending you pics of hubby instead xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples profiles with pics of only the lady are confusing

Pics showing sex acts a huge turn off for me

Each to there own though,there profile ,there pics

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"How about someone being dragged on the beach? lol

That’s quite funny!

Isn't it?

I rather avoid people being too serious than people with action photos on their profiles

Is it you in the pic?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of good feedback from women with the pics / videos using a sex toy rather than having pics with other people.

I think men are far too late to the sexy toy game, there would be far less anger in the world...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I generally find it irritating, as it doesn't give me what I want, which is to see how someone looks and assess whether I find them attractive or not.

Almost invariably, a single man will show less of himself than he will of the others in the pics, so it also smacks of someone who isn't sensitive to others' needs. That's a red flag, as he'll need to be sensitive this way when meeting.

Once someone is beyond puberty then it's reasonable to assume that we know what sex is, we don't need visual guidance to know that someone knows this and isn't a virgin.

A good rule here would for each photo to have 80% plus of the profile holder as content. They could also be required to add the names of anyone else in the photo, which would probably deter many of them as well as to state the date that consent was given to have them publicly displayed.

It would probably be best to have single profiles only showing photos of themselves, without anyone else but I'm guessing that fab will not move this way.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I have a couple of pic's with various men's body parts no faces so I can't really say anything,but to be honest I preferred not seeing women on a guy's profile. "

This for me too.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!

They’re everywhere, always sending me fanny pics too.

Apologies, I'll start sending you pics of hubby instead xx"

Now don’t be hasty

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I have others body parts in my vids pics but I did ask if I could use them obviously no faces x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find the sight of a man I potentially fancy, hanging out of another woman attractive

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It can be done well. It usually isn't.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I don't find the sight of a man I potentially fancy, hanging out of another woman attractive "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple pics in my friends only that have other people in, nothing explicit, just I look fairly dapper in them if I say so myself.

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single! "

I get confused if a couple or single woman has lots of pictures with another woman. It’s sometimes difficult to know which woman is the profile owner and which one is the prop.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!

I get confused if a couple or single woman has lots of pictures with another woman. It’s sometimes difficult to know which woman is the profile owner and which one is the prop. "

... "Prop"

It's so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are people’s thoughts about singles profiles that have pictures of them with other people in?

Do you find it attractive or a distraction? Do you wonder if they have consent? "

I expect a single profile to only have photos of that person on it. With a couples profile, I expect to see both parties on it.

Third parties? Personally, if I'm looking at a profile its because I'm curious or interested in the person(or persons) behind the profile. Do I need to see action shots? No.

I would hope that consent has been sought before photos of third parties are splashed all over a profile. But given how the majority of people do not understand how the law works on such things, I doubt consent has always been sought, or offered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get confused by couples profiles with only pictures of her..... makes me wonder if she’s actually single!

I get confused if a couple or single woman has lots of pictures with another woman. It’s sometimes difficult to know which woman is the profile owner and which one is the prop. "

Prop vs bait

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Really off putting.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Puts me off deffo.

Just said to Jack, got a wink from a profile and literally nothing to see of him, just women and their shoes and body parts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. One of the things that’s an instant delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly off putting. Especially when there' is more of the extra person than the profile person.

Though I have someone's boobs and someone's penis in mine, they are in the minority and both have consented.

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