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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what website you're on it doesn't matter where you are in the world. I've noticed in the last couple of months a lot of places these days are so toxic social media and on many many different websites. If you don't like someone you just basically tell them, understand that many people will not like rejection so tell them that you don't like them the best thing to do is block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you tell someone that you don't like them? How would that be a kind gesture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you tell someone that you don't like them? How would that be a kind gesture? "

Think he meant don't tell them just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you tell someone that you don't like them? How would that be a kind gesture?

Think he meant don't tell them just block them. "

I think he means tell them and then block them, before they can message back with a nasty reply to the rejection message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you tell someone that you don't like them? How would that be a kind gesture?

Think he meant don't tell them just block them. "

Okay. My apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you tell someone that you don't like them? How would that be a kind gesture?

Think he meant don't tell them just block them.

I think he means tell them and then block them, before they can message back with a nasty reply to the rejection message. "

Well that's being a bit horrible...

I don't like you!... Block...

No just block them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you tell someone that you don't like them? How would that be a kind gesture?

Think he meant don't tell them just block them.

I think he means tell them and then block them, before they can message back with a nasty reply to the rejection message. "

Makes sense. When someone says they are not interested, it's best to move on. Abusing someone because you got rejected is not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter what website you're on it doesn't matter where you are in the world. I've noticed in the last couple of months a lot of places these days are so toxic social media and on many many different websites. If you don't like someone you just basically tell them, understand that many people will not like rejection so tell them that you don't like them the best thing to do is block them"

No I disagree. Why would we tell people we don't like them. I (Hev) usually give them a non personal reason..ie. too far away, don't host.. That often leads to a nasty reply. It's far better to say no thanks and block. It's very often the people asking who turn into the abusive ones. Nobody is entitled to ba reply from us, it's not our day job.

Hev

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter what website you're on it doesn't matter where you are in the world. I've noticed in the last couple of months a lot of places these days are so toxic social media and on many many different websites. If you don't like someone you just basically tell them, understand that many people will not like rejection so tell them that you don't like them the best thing to do is block them"
a simple your not my type is short but sweet !

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