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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Message 50 women and lucky to have one reply lol I have better success in bars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then stick to bars

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yh I think I need too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you attracted to all 50 of the women you messaged?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I say 30 i was lol

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

patience and thick skin needed here mate... they should put that on the application form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say 30 i was lol "

Then why message them, if you’re not attracted to them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh mate your so right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re looking for advice, there’s plenty here on the forums. Type ‘profile advice’ or ‘message advice’ into the forum search bar

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

Did you message them all the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I didn't and didn't even copy and paste !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP why are you sending msgs to women you dont find attractive?

Have I missed something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say 30 i was lol

Then why message them, if you’re not attracted to them?"

?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh dear..... 30 were stunning and others yes I liked them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont worry you not missing anything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message 50 women and lucky to have one reply lol I have better success in bars "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha you know I'm right, stop playing mean women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha you know I'm right, stop playing mean women lol "

Allllrighty thennnn

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Why shouldn’t he message them just because he doesn’t fancy them I’ve shagged some ugly guys it’s just sex not a relationship

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP...follow your dreams...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 50?

Lightweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP why are you sending msgs to women you dont find attractive?

Have I missed something?"

It's sex innit

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

how many do you message in bars, before you get a reply? just trying to gage the success rate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP why are you sending msgs to women you dont find attractive?

Have I missed something?

It's sex innit "

Yeah

In Fabland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got 1 reply out of 50.

I’d say that was a success. Stop complaining.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You only joined 6 weeks ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only joined 6 weeks ago! "

You mean this isn't Dial-a-Shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the current situation that we are in at the minute. It doesn't matter if you message 50 women or not and you get no replies. I used to message now and again and still only receive messages from guys pretending to be women lol. You've just gotta go with the flow it takes time you've got to remember that there are a good amount of percentage of men on here compared to women. Just imagine how many of the women get messages every single day and your message goes down the order. Don't go thinking that you're ugly don't go thinking that they're not into you, not coming onto you don't worry I don't swing on the gay side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perseverance, determination and hardwork will see you through. Don't give up bud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message 50 women and lucky to have one reply lol I have better success in bars "

Stop messaging people too much. Concentrate more on your profile text. Say more about you as a person. Use the forums and be respectful. They'll message you if they spot what they like.

PM me with the sort of first message you send and I'll have a read and give my honest opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message 50 women and lucky to have one reply lol I have better success in bars

Stop messaging people too much. Concentrate more on your profile text. Say more about you as a person. Use the forums and be respectful. They'll message you if they spot what they like.

PM me with the sort of first message you send and I'll have a read and give my honest opinion. "

Oh be DIFFERENT.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Reduce your sense of entitlement and you'll be fine.

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

You will find a lot of people aren't meeting at the minute though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message 50 women and lucky to have one reply lol I have better success in bars "

Maybe review the message you sent. Was it a copy and paste or original just to that person. Or maybe you dont match their preferences and need to message less,but more suitable ppl.

If I messaged any 50 women I'm pretty sure atleast 20-25 would reply, even if a polite no ty.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Did you send a pic of your dick? There's maybe where you failed.

Or, 49 of them were actually men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why shouldn’t he message them just because he doesn’t fancy them I’ve shagged some ugly guys it’s just sex not a relationship "

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale


"Why shouldn’t he message them just because he doesn’t fancy them I’ve shagged some ugly guys it’s just sex not a relationship "

A mouth is a mouth

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Why shouldn’t he message them just because he doesn’t fancy them I’ve shagged some ugly guys it’s just sex not a relationship

A mouth is a mouth "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though people aren't meeting at the moment it shouldn't stop someone messaging back. Now would be the time to get to know someone, see if there is some sort of attraction personality wise then your good to go when you're allowed. We try to message back even to say that we don't think we're suited. Unless what they message is crap & goes straight to dirty chat then we ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flip it...

Instead of asking yourself why they're not replying...why would they?

What's special about you?

What makes you stand out?

What makes your message more appealing than the other 4629 in her inbox?

Any man can be successful on fab...you get out what you put in.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

If you can pull face to face in a bar chances are you’re not unattractive, my money is on the way you approach people on here.

Also, people tend to be more polite face to face, it’s harder to ignore someone in person.

Maybe tweak your profile and your opening messages.

Good luck.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You women are bullying us poor men haha

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Watch my videos.

I cover this very subject .... and a few more you may do well to take note of.

Also, 50 women in 6 weeks. That sounds pretty net casty widey to me and I must say I'd be surprised if you found 50 women who you believed you ticked all their boxes after reading their profile and likes/dislikes etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flip it...

Instead of asking yourself why they're not replying...why would they?

What's special about you?

What makes you stand out?

What makes your message more appealing than the other 4629 in her inbox?

Any man can be successful on fab...you get out what you put in."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The videos are too funny haha

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The videos are too funny haha"

Yet sadly all true.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Not at all OP it can be very easy to miss a message on here try keep them original I’m usually attracted to the messages that relate to me rather than something you have sent to the last 50 people good luck

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Not at all OP it can be very easy to miss a message on here try keep them original I’m usually attracted to the messages that relate to me rather than something you have sent to the last 50 people good luck "

im currently trying something different, im asking certain folk if theyd like a date night meet rather than smash and dash... not much luck so far unfortunately but patience is a virtue they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried to message guys on here? I heard they replay quicker

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Are you quacky doodle duck?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Not at all OP it can be very easy to miss a message on here try keep them original I’m usually attracted to the messages that relate to me rather than something you have sent to the last 50 people good luck

im currently trying something different, im asking certain folk if theyd like a date night meet rather than smash and dash... not much luck so far unfortunately but patience is a virtue they say "

I don’t think you should be asking for any kind of a meet right now maybe getting to know a few people is a better option

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings


"I say 30 i was lol

Then why message them, if you’re not attracted to them?"

Hi did not message them his cock done it for him.....

Sorry mate just had too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People are not meeting and haven't for months. They probably have a waiting list of people who they have wanted to meet since before the virus struck.

If you want regular sex and can get it elsewhere, then you will have a choice. People here have tons of choice and also have mf couples, groups etc for sex as well as choices on others sexuality, where they have probably been there and done that, with the mundane.

People are also here for swinging social interaction. How do you measure up? There's tough competition and you need to stand out and be better for somebody than the others

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Not at all OP it can be very easy to miss a message on here try keep them original I’m usually attracted to the messages that relate to me rather than something you have sent to the last 50 people good luck

im currently trying something different, im asking certain folk if theyd like a date night meet rather than smash and dash... not much luck so far unfortunately but patience is a virtue they say

I don’t think you should be asking for any kind of a meet right now maybe getting to know a few people is a better option "

who said anything about meeting 'right now?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message 50 women and lucky to have one reply lol I have better success in bars "

That must be it.

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