FabSwingers.com forum: Married men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm married and open about it on my status some women and couples like it some dont how do people feel about married men (grabs tin hat runs for cover)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married and open about it on my status some women and couples like it some dont how do people feel about married men (grabs tin hat runs for cover)"

Not being bi I have no desire to meet married men but as a couple they are no problem for my wife as it states on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some will judge you negatively, some will praise your ironic honesty, some will want to fuck you, some wont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big no no for us sorry

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Don't really need the drama but discretion is a benefit ...

6 and half a dozen..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Although i admire the married men who admit it i do feel annoyed at the married men on here who are looking for men because not only are they cheating they are also living a lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You answered your own question in the op... some like it some don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're here with your spouses knowledge and consent, that's fine. Otherwise, it's a definite no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are desperate for a shag so usually make more effort.

Then they have to dash off home before the wife notices they are gone, so no need to have any boring chat with them.

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you

"They are desperate for a shag so usually make more effort.

Then they have to dash off home before the wife notices they are gone, so no need to have any boring chat with them.

True story...

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Makes no difference to me, it’s their life

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I think they're wonderful husbands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although i admire the married men who admit it i do feel annoyed at the married men on here who are looking for men because not only are they cheating they are also living a lie."

When you say they’re living a lie do you mean you think they’re lying to themselves too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im married and state it. I think honesty goes a long way. If people dont want to meet married people and i say that for men and women then they have a right to know. But so many lie about it. Shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like any aspect of a person on fab, be it status, height, boob size, etc, some will have issues with it, others won't. Being honest about it is important. For some its a straight "no thanks", others will have a more liberal view.

Meeting somebody who thinks you are single, be that by omission or deceit is wrong, and could make you're life interesting in ways that could be considered undesirable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they're wonderful husbands."

Errrr. There are married women on here as well. Believe me there are. Its not just men

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Depends on how much time they can give tbh, I find it easier to play with married hot husbands as I can have them for an evening and overnight and I can message them at any time so a deeper connection is built. I can't see how I could do that with a fab single and having just a shag is not what I am looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Errrr. There are married women on here as well. Believe me there are. Its not just men"

But on Fab, no women can do wrong, and being an arsehole is the sole preserve of men. Sarcasm for those not concentrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on how much time they can give tbh, I find it easier to play with married hot husbands as I can have them for an evening and overnight and I can message them at any time so a deeper connection is built. I can't see how I could do that with a fab single and having just a shag is not what I am looking for

Blimy this married man cant sleep over.well not that much anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimy this married man cant sleep over.well not that much anyway"

I was wondering if it was sarcasm or getting married/single men mixed up. I most certainly can’t sleep over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they're wonderful husbands.

Errrr. There are married women on here as well. Believe me there are. Its not just men"

This always gets raised. As does the 'at least I'm honest comment'.

I sigh every time I read these threads.

Just own your choices, don't complain or play the victim if it goes wrong, and don't be mystified that not everyone sees your position? Its your choice so own it.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Blimy this married man cant sleep over.well not that much anyway

I was wondering if it was sarcasm or getting married/single men mixed up. I most certainly can’t sleep over

Neither.

Hot husbands play with their girlfriends overnight whilst their hot wives play with their boyfriend's overnight.

Some open marriages have overnight play agreements

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't knowingly meet one, it doesn't sit right with me and would hate it done to me.

However some do meet married men and if you're upfront about it, people have the choice to meet or not.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Wouldn't knowingly meet one myself but dont judge either! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy chatting to anyone but I won't meet married men or women, not that I have an issue, it's their choice, I just don't feel comfortable meeting behind the partners back..

I wouldn't want to hurt anyone deliberately.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We don't judge but don't want to be involved either. We just would hate to get involved in any drama.

What does annoy is when people don't say so from the start. You get on well and think there is potential only to find it won't go anywhere for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she doesn't know. Then your a bad horrible man. Don't deserve a woman. Nicest way i can put it without being banned from forum's

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south

"We don't judge but don't want to be involved either. We just would hate to get involved in any drama.

What does annoy is when people don't say so from the start. You get on well and think there is potential only to find it won't go anywhere for us x"

We are a married cpl and are very up front about it

Our verification show mrs meets sometimes and she always knows when I play

Still so many have an issue with this

I don’t understand why?

I can stay over night and go to parties and club ( once safe )

Interested in reading comments

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We wouldn’t meet married women or men we like to keep things drama free..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Drama free seems to be a theme. Why is it drama at least you know the married man is discreet and less likely to get attached..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drama free seems to be a theme. Why is it drama at least you know the married man is discreet and less likely to get attached.. "

Until his wife finds out and starts calling and harrassing the person he fucked. Or turning up on their doorstep causing a scene.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Drama free seems to be a theme. Why is it drama at least you know the married man is discreet and less likely to get attached.. "

Read the words on my profile.

My life will likely never be the same again.... and I dare you to tell me as long as it's discrete nobody will get hurt... I totally dare ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some will judge you negatively, some will praise your ironic honesty, some will want to fuck you, some wont."

Pretty much this

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Drama free seems to be a theme. Why is it drama at least you know the married man is discreet and less likely to get attached.. "

Yes this part is ideal they wont want anything full on and probably clean but I for one will not b a part of deceiving another woman what men do is on them but wont play a part in it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married and open about it on my status some women and couples like it some dont how do people feel about married men (grabs tin hat runs for cover)"

I’m sure they’re not remotely interested in your marital status when your up to the makers label on them. It only seems to be an issue afterwards.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Everyone has their own reasons for being on here - I'd ask for clarification of those reasons and make a decision on an individual basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's best not to declare it on the forum or on your status, but be upfront about it when chatting to someone if the intention is to meet eventually

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south

"I think it's best not to declare it on the forum or on your status, but be upfront about it when chatting to someone if the intention is to meet eventually "

I think that is a shame as it deceptive not to tell up front

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Drama free seems to be a theme. Why is it drama at least you know the married man is discreet and less likely to get attached.. "

Each to their own but all too often these things have a way of coming out into the open. All it takes is for you to forget to use incognito mode or delete your browsing history and she could see all of your messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's best not to declare it on the forum or on your status, but be upfront about it when chatting to someone if the intention is to meet eventually

I think that is a shame as it deceptive not to tell up front

Yeah, that's why I suggested people be upfront when they're chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also open about being married on my profile and will explain why when asked. In honestly I find being honest on here is detrimental to finding anyone or couples to meet, which is a shame but it is their choice and one must respect that.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I'm married and open about it on my status some women and couples like it some dont how do people feel about married men (grabs tin hat runs for cover)"

I'm no moral judge..I was playing without permission when I first joined Fab (now single) but I avoid married men for 2 reasons..firstly I don't want any drama & secondly, the attached men I have met have been REALLY selfish!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I think they're wonderful husbands.

Errrr. There are married women on here as well. Believe me there are. Its not just men"

Of course there are,this thread is about married men.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I think they're wonderful husbands.

Errrr. There are married women on here as well. Believe me there are. Its not just men

This always gets raised. As does the 'at least I'm honest comment'.

I sigh every time I read these threads.

Just own your choices, don't complain or play the victim if it goes wrong, and don't be mystified that not everyone sees your position? Its your choice so own it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im married and state it. I think honesty goes a long way. If people dont want to meet married people and i say that for men and women then they have a right to know. But so many lie about it. Shame"

Honesty goes a real long way we agree.

How did your wife take it when you told her?

We wish more guys had the balls to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married and open about it on my status some women and couples like it some dont how do people feel about married men (grabs tin hat runs for cover)

I’ve found the opposite to be honest. They’ve mostly been nicer and more respectful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm married and open about it on my status some women and couples like it some dont how do people feel about married men (grabs tin hat runs for cover)

I’ve found the opposite to be honest. They’ve mostly been nicer and more respectful. "

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Don’t see it as a problem. If they are not interested then your not going to get a reply .

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