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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off this site for a couple of years and I know I’m no oil painting but I am finding it so hard to get a meet. I’ve had some wonderful chats with people on here though. Any hints or advice for me please ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just give it time, a lot aren't meeting at the moment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been on and off this site for a couple of years and I know I’m no oil painting but I am finding it so hard to get a meet. I’ve had some wonderful chats with people on here though. Any hints or advice for me please ?"

Rope and duct tape?!?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Are you wanting to meet for sex or a no expectations social? Are you asking straight away or do you ask when it comes up in a conversation? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like to get a good conversation going first then maybe ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because its not all about how you look, its about having the personality (not saying you havent) but i think connection on that level is key

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just give it time, a lot aren't meeting at the moment x"

I am being patient and not pushy, suppose it’s just a matter of waiting. Oh and redheads like yourself are extremely pleasing for my eyes

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Just give it time, a lot aren't meeting at the moment x

I am being patient and not pushy, suppose it’s just a matter of waiting. Oh and redheads like yourself are extremely pleasing for my eyes"

Thank you x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You’ve got to ask yourself one question, why would anyone go for me, when other guys show their face ?

I’m aware it’s probably due to work etc...but women have so much choice, why would they want to get to know you, when they can’t see if they’re attracted to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White van.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’ve got to ask yourself one question, why would anyone go for me, when other guys show their face ?

I’m aware it’s probably due to work etc...but women have so much choice, why would they want to get to know you, when they can’t see if they’re attracted to you.

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I always send a face pic with the first message

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"You’ve got to ask yourself one question, why would anyone go for me, when other guys show their face ?

I’m aware it’s probably due to work etc...but women have so much choice, why would they want to get to know you, when they can’t see if they’re attracted to you.

I always send a face pic with the first message "

If you feel this is sufficient then good luck

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Go to socials and clubs.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Socials are by far the best way to get veris although sometimes unverified people are not allowed to attend which is a shame.x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I’ve been on and off this site for a couple of years and I know I’m no oil painting but I am finding it so hard to get a meet. I’ve had some wonderful chats with people on here though. Any hints or advice for me please ?"
look as soon as the clubs reopen go to a club soon as you get some real verifications from individuals and your face known around the place you will be beaten with a stick..

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Don't take it to heart, noboby can force anyone meet up. You'll get there eventually fab hasn't been the best to us for meets but we love the forum and chatting with others. Maybe try sites other than fab, we have much more meets off of here than on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, when I joined a good few years ago! It was daunting, I thought It’d be easy & women would be throwing themselves at me!!

How very wrong I was, it’s all about being proactive. The best move for me was hitting clubs - I went as a single male & would just meet people there! Then verifications rolled in & it became easier to meet.

You’ll be okay no doubt OP, just don’t come onto fab like you’re owed something & you’ll be good.

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