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Is there anything you wouldn’t say to someone’s face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That you would dare to say in a message?

Where do you personally draw the line?

Is there even a line for you hypothetically speaking?

Procrastination is better than constant masturbation....

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

There are things I wouldn't say in a message that I WOULD say to their face.

If I'm not prepared to say it face to face then I won't send a cowardly message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are things I wouldn't say in a message that I WOULD say to their face.

If I'm not prepared to say it face to face then I won't send a cowardly message."

Can I ask what out of curiosity?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"There are things I wouldn't say in a message that I WOULD say to their face.

If I'm not prepared to say it face to face then I won't send a cowardly message."

If it's something critical, then this.

I do find it easier to be explicit about wanting someone in a message though. I have told someone I wanted to fuck their brains out and I would never say that face to face.

Oh, we were mid conversation and it had already turned explicit, that wasn't my opening salvo to a randomer or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say anything rude or nasty. We do not need hate in this world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be kind and treat people as i would wish to be treated, always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'd say it in a message then I'd say it to the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to be kind and treat people as i would wish to be treated, always"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id struggle truthfully to tell someone if they had bad body odur or bad breath to their face.

i would though try and broach that subject via a written word though.

id simply feel awkward saying things like that face to face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are things I wouldn't say in a message that I WOULD say to their face.

If I'm not prepared to say it face to face then I won't send a cowardly message.

If it's something critical, then this.

I do find it easier to be explicit about wanting someone in a message though. I have told someone I wanted to fuck their brains out and I would never say that face to face.

Oh, we were mid conversation and it had already turned explicit, that wasn't my opening salvo to a randomer or anything."

That old chestnut

I’m joking btw, don’t take offence.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I always tell the truth,don’t believe in lying but I’m never nasty with it. If it’s something personal I would say it to their face but always if it’s just us,not in front of others

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"There are things I wouldn't say in a message that I WOULD say to their face.

If I'm not prepared to say it face to face then I won't send a cowardly message.

If it's something critical, then this.

I do find it easier to be explicit about wanting someone in a message though. I have told someone I wanted to fuck their brains out and I would never say that face to face.

Oh, we were mid conversation and it had already turned explicit, that wasn't my opening salvo to a randomer or anything.

That old chestnut

I’m joking btw, don’t take offence."

Haha, you'd have to try much harder for me to take offence!

99% of the FAF messages on here are from me, and one day someone will say yes...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say anything rude or nasty. We do not need hate in this world. "

I’m the same, but can’t help taking the piss sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends...

If you feel what you are about to say may embarrass the recipient and that is something you would want to avoid, then a message may be best. Sometimes, it's easier to read the truth than to hear it, and as time passes, rather than rewriting history in your head you can read the actuality of the message over and over again. But it does depend on the message.

Equally, you may be about to say something that exposes a personal vulnerability, or say something that may not be reciprocated, or accepted, leading to your own embarrassment or in some cases humiliation. In those circumstances, a message may be a safer option.

I take the view that the most important thing is an honest message is delivered, wether that is face to face or in writing. If it's bad news in particular, the honesty and lack of ambiguity can be respected making the sentiment hard to deny. Sometimes... a shot to the head is kinder than a thousand cuts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"id struggle truthfully to tell someone if they had bad body odur or bad breath to their face.

i would though try and broach that subject via a written word though.

id simply feel awkward saying things like that face to face "

See I don’t understand this?

Just walk away and don’t say anything perhaps?

“Just a polite email.... please brush your teeth and spray some lynx”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always tell the truth,don’t believe in lying but I’m never nasty with it. If it’s something personal I would say it to their face but always if it’s just us,not in front of others "

Tactful. Yeah that’s probably the best way.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m too honest.

Plus I think my face says it even if my mouth doesn’t.

I don’t beat around the bush. No point. But I wouldn’t go out my way to be nasty to someone. If you piss me off or I don’t like you, you would definitely know about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m too honest.

Plus I think my face says it even if my mouth doesn’t.

I don’t beat around the bush. No point. But I wouldn’t go out my way to be nasty to someone. If you piss me off or I don’t like you, you would definitely know about it. "

Can I be honest with you? You have a beautiful face.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"There are things I wouldn't say in a message that I WOULD say to their face.

If I'm not prepared to say it face to face then I won't send a cowardly message.

Can I ask what out of curiosity?"

Depends who it is, what I have to say and why.

I am a fan of telling it like it is, it doesn't win me any fans and I'm OK with that, but I'm also not a bitch just because I can.

I ignore most shitty messages on here because they usually aren't worth the time or effort that it takes to reply to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have told someone I wanted to fuck their brains out and I would never say that face to face."

I may need to send you my email address

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

If you can’t say it face to face I certainly would put it in a text..

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I'm a very direct person, so will say anything to somebody's face that I'm prepared to say in a message. If anything, if it's something personal I'd prefer to do it face to face as body language /intonation etc means that there's less chance of it being misinterpreted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to say it face to face or aurally.

Translation can be lost in text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't intentionally say something to someone's face, or written, that would be hurtful. Anything I'd say to someone in a message, I would say to their face.

Saying that, it is a very broad question, and factors would be needed taken into account. But on the whole, what I said previous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you are purely talking this site there is nothing i would say to someone in message that would not say to face

if you mean in general there are plenty of things i would not say to someone's face or in message as think would cause too much aggro or heartbreak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being more graphic comes easier by text than in person I'd say. It's not that I'm embarrassed to repeat what I've said by text, just doesn't sound sexy when I say it out loud!

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