FabSwingers.com forum: Def not for me

By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phobia of care bears is my guess

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yes they are . Spot on

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks "

Really???? That is just weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people want to be loved, wanted, liked or at least accepted?

If they can't achieve those, they select the like to be hated option as it gets the same attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks "

1. Got more time on their hands

2. Makes them feel better about themselves

3. Insecure idiots

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Some people just feel the need to hurt someone, block them back you don't need that in your day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evie

You’re one of the favourite people I’ve bumped into on the scene.

Haters gonna hate.

Take no notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks "

You are clearly out of their league and it made them feel insecure. Take it as a massive compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably would have rejected them anyway, so they are exactly as you described them.

You are lovely, dont let it bug you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks "
its when they send something like that and dont block you that gets me.....are they hoping i will beg them to change thier mind ...oh well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see the need to get nasty on here whether rejected or otherwise.

If they are not for you or you’re not for them then accept it and move on for fucks sake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You probably would have rejected them anyway, so they are exactly as you described them.

You are lovely, dont let it bug you xx"

This

Think of it as a positive as they've made themselves shown to you and you can block them and that's one less idiot to worry about. Don't let word affect you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it wasn't me. I promise.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Sounds like they want to bring you down. Smacks of unhappiness on their part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You probably would have rejected them anyway, so they are exactly as you described them.

You are lovely, dont let it bug you xx"

Definitely the case, I've had it a few times before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive only had one case of this.. yeah it feels crap. But then i get lots of really lovely messages too.

Just a shame we concentrate one the negative feelings rather than remember the positive experiences and messages.

You know your an inspiration to me x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an opening message from a single guy once saying " I would love to meet you, but you are too fat for my girlfriend".

Such a charmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive only had one case of this.. yeah it feels crap. But then i get lots of really lovely messages too.

Just a shame we concentrate one the negative feelings rather than remember the positive experiences and messages.

Soooo cute x

You know your an inspiration to me x x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are cunts...

Only an insecure fuck wit would do that...pay them no mind

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

People like that should be pitied they're clearly not happy souls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People like that should be pitied they're clearly not happy souls."

Lots of unhappy people in the world sadly

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Sorry this happened to you OP, there is no excuse for this sort of behaviour.

They obviously wanted to feel a sense of power and control that they don’t normally get to feel in their sad little lives.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Because they are utter cock wobbles is why.

Your lovely... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay no heed to negative messages they have to be insecure about themselves to take the time to message you saying that they clearly want a response back to make themselves feel important. Just keep being your lovely self.

Knowone has the right to put you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hilarious... Maybe it is reverse psychology!!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Some people are idiots. I've had a couple recently, which is rare for me. Maybe it's nearly a full moon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just received a message from a guy who thanked me for telling people I'm not meeting so don't ask! I have never engaged with him before. Sarcastic prick. We just have to block and ignore and not let it get to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks "

The mindset is to make you irritated and insecure I guess and you putting this thread up will tell them they have achieved their goal if they read this.

There is no point letting things get to you on here just ignore block and move on.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I had an opening message from a single guy once saying " I would love to meet you, but you are too fat for my girlfriend".

Such a charmer

I got one from a guy 20 years outside my age range telling me I was "too BBW" for him.

I agreed, then realised I'd probably done exactly what he was aiming for by responding, so I blocked.

OP, sometimes if people can't get positive attention they will settle for negative.

You've never interacted, it can't possibly be anything to do with you, it's 100% their issue. Pity them and counter-block to make sure they can't message you again in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the ones where their first message is saying definitely fake and then blocking you! Like what’s the point!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see ladies on forums that have blocked me for no apparent reason that I would have liked to chat to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I brush up reasonably ok lol

Can hold a conversation and having been on here awhile pretty thick skinned now

I do now think perhaps it's time to get photo verified though.....

I find occasionally if you wink / hot list a block happens and be good if a lady explained why before blocking.....

I think it's civil to just say no thank you which gets a good luck in your search back

Saying that on occasion a lady then engages which is a, real tonic

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I never block willy nilly. For me to block someone they really have to have crossed that line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh bless you Bluebell

We have chatted before and it was complimentary on my part which you acknowledged....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks "

At least you get a message saying that. I just find i'm blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks

At least you get a message saying that. I just find i'm blocked"

How strange.

It’s almost as if you started a thread asking people to block you...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks "

The simple answer is that some people are assholes

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"People are cunts...

Only an insecure fuck wit would do that...pay them no mind

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It would never cross my mind to send anyone a message like that, it's hurtful and rude

I won't be for lots and they won't be for me, best just to avoid those who are not your type rather than make them feel crap

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just imagine how desperately undesirable they must be if they've the time or inclination to spend their time on here sending messages like that

. Wee souls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chances are they probably don't have the right equipment to handle you anyway doll!

Stay beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s there insecurities... the term snowflake springs to mind .. I had one off a couple after I declined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only get that when I turn them down. Usually get well your fat anyway. Yeah no shit Sherlock

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have no idea why someone would do that. Have no interaction yet feel they have a say...go figure

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

I think half of site have me blocked even tho never spoken to them but hey there lose.

Anyone who thinks body shaming is nice needs a slap with a pipe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think half of site have me blocked even tho never spoken to them but hey there lose.

Anyone who thinks body shaming is nice needs a slap with a pipe "

Hey I’ve not blocked you

in a no homo way u seem a good lad ...

qualities right there pal

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks "

Ignore them xxx

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Evie - big cuddle from me. We will never know what is on their minds and unfortunately it’s hard not to focus on a horrible message.

But I think it was the care bear though because Care Bears care. I personally love them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Evie

You’re one of the favourite people I’ve bumped into on the scene.

Haters gonna hate.

Take no notice

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks

The mindset is to make you irritated and insecure I guess and you putting this thread up will tell them they have achieved their goal if they read this.

There is no point letting things get to you on here just ignore block and move on. "

I get what you are saying but I really am nothing but bemused by it all. If I'd have asked them if they liked me I'd get it but just a random message out of the blue.

I hope they do see it and see what a truly odd thing it is to do.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"ive only had one case of this.. yeah it feels crap. But then i get lots of really lovely messages too.

Just a shame we concentrate one the negative feelings rather than remember the positive experiences and messages.

You know your an inspiration to me x x "

Awww thank you x

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you

They get this rise... they are just idiots... report, delete, Block, move on... try not to take the bait because it gives them the pleasure!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just what is the mindset of people you've never ever engaged with sending you messages telling you you're def not for them and then blocking you?

Never winked them or messaged them or spoke to them in any way.

Fucking insecure pricks "

Sounds that way. Too much time on their hands too.

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