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Swingers! ** spoiler alert** Part 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As you were

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Knew there would be a couple of twists in the story..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think it shows that everyone has a backstory, no matter how old, young or pretty you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey that lady is a real trier, she is getting involved if they want her or not... Love her spirit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wheres this club?

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

Iv seen this on so many occasions in clubs. You're best off thinking of it as a social and not getting your hopes up then you won't be disappointed.

If you come away and haven't played it doesn't mean you're not attractive

Mrs

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

So far it's portraying people that swing as people who are damaged in some way...

Almost as if it's an excuse or reason.

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By *oriarty99Man
over a year ago

London


"This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it. "

Yep. It’s painting people’s emotions in the wrong night. She only does it coz she has issues with men going back to a r@e. Awful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it shows that everyone has a backstory, no matter how old, young or pretty you are."

Agreed.

In every walk of life. I quite admire the way this lady decided to take life by the balls and do something she felt empowered by.

Better than turning to drink or drugs!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

yeah they tried to cover all angles of it! I never seen a drama like that but it happens appearently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it. "

I thought that too and was mad but then she said about people being able to say no and it's empowered her.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it. "

Nope. But also lots of women have experienced trauma. Doesn’t mean it has anything to do with their sexual choices though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it. "

Its made me really angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Malika is so damm hot...

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By *emptd2Man
over a year ago

Burgess Hill & Birmingham

All the women seem damaged apart from the 2nd bisexual one. Also for the couples the men seem to be the ones who were kinda forced into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it.

Nope. But also lots of women have experienced trauma. Doesn’t mean it has anything to do with their sexual choices though. "

Exactly, thats why I'm not sure its relevant.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think it shows that everyone has a backstory, no matter how old, young or pretty you are.

Agreed.

In every walk of life. I quite admire the way this lady decided to take life by the balls and do something she felt empowered by.

Better than turning to drink or drugs!"

Honestly I'm a little in love with her. Amazing lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is really interesting. I find the reasons people are into swinging fascinating though because I am a psychology nerd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I can see how if you have low self esteem and/or rejection issues. It can probably play on your mind.

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By *ingdangdoo82Man
over a year ago

sheffield/Derbyshire border

I think Siobhan is 3rd wheeling as martyn and malika just want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not liking this docu I was hoping it would show swinging in a positive light but yet again the woman will only want this lifestyle if damaged

Felt so sorry for the lady from the couple

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

This is making me really sad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly I'm a little in love with her. Amazing lady. "

I hope to emulate her. She gives off an air of strength and warmth.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Iv seen this on so many occasions in clubs. You're best off thinking of it as a social and not getting your hopes up then you won't be disappointed.

If you come away and haven't played it doesn't mean you're not attractive

Mrs"

Very true

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it. "

Of course we're emotionally damaged if we want sex. Good, stable, girls accept sex as duty. Good, stable, girls are grateful for the men that deign to find them palatable.

Deviant is an interesting word suggesting, as it does, that we stray from an acceptable norm. Deviant = damaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I can see how if you have low self esteem and/or rejection issues. It can probably play on your mind. "

Same for men and women. Shame they often forget and think it only affects their own sex/ gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is she crying, why doesn't she have some fun with her hubby? I am sure they have more chance if they look like fun...?

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"I think Siobhan is 3rd wheeling as martyn and malika just want to fuck "

I’m definitely hoping for a 3 way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Siobhan is empowering!! What a lady.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"All the women seem damaged apart from the 2nd bisexual one. Also for the couples the men seem to be the ones who were kinda forced into it. "

If you were to conduct a straw poll of the general population, you will find just as many "damaged" vanilla people as swingers or fetishists etc.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

There's a reason i don't watch TV shows like this. It portrays A skewed reality... Everyone seems mentally unstable

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it.

Nope. But also lots of women have experienced trauma. Doesn’t mean it has anything to do with their sexual choices though. "

Yes. It's slightly meh. The whole depiction. The fuck and go attitude (which isn't wrong and does exist) but what about the social side? The friendships etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes good telly to focus on the section of society that have some form of issues and damaged past....... it validates the making of the show, it’s just entertainment not a proper documentary, cheap tv

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This feels a bit like a school disco. Air of trepidation before people say fuck it and jump in!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Go martyn

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's disappointing how they've gone for the conventional narrative of buried trauma manifesting itself in hypersexualised behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not liking this docu I was hoping it would show swinging in a positive light but yet again the woman will only want this lifestyle if damaged

Felt so sorry for the lady from the couple "

Bloody channel 4. They love to edit to show things negatively

Hippy

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Not very busy for valentine's night ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go martyn "

Lucky man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the women seem damaged apart from the 2nd bisexual one. Also for the couples the men seem to be the ones who were kinda forced into it.

If you were to conduct a straw poll of the general population, you will find just as many "damaged" vanilla people as swingers or fetishists etc. "

Yup

Every one of us has some emotional 'damage'

Unless youve lived in a cave

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"All the women seem damaged apart from the 2nd bisexual one. Also for the couples the men seem to be the ones who were kinda forced into it. "

I tried to resist but she's just so persistent

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Play bunny laid on sofa looks well happy!

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON


"Not very busy for valentine's night .."

People knew cameras were there!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it. "

No they don’t you’re right _eli

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

That's the shortest 'walk of shame' I've ever seen

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By *uncouple31Couple
over a year ago

Walsall


"This emotionally damaged woman trope. Not all women who swing have issues that lead to doing it. "

That's very good to hear

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It's OK folks, we can get support from Channel 4 at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad that couple weren't put off from trying again after it not working out.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

That wasn’t terrible at all.

Fair play to all involved!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Closing thoughts?

As I said, as a man who’s never been to a club before I’ll be going because of the human touch this club seems to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I haven’t been to one of these clubs, but heard there were single blokes all over wanking. Which is the thing that’s put me off a lot. Is this true?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!"

Always been rammed when I've been, think this was filmed on a night that was invite only for people who wanted to be in the doc hence very quiet.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!"

That is due to swingers mostly being private people, the cameras being there probably killed valentines which is usually a very busy night.

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By *otwhenwetCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"It's OK folks, we can get support from Channel 4 at the end "

Just as well as I am traumatised...was expect more from Martyn Malika and Siobhan

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By *uncouple31Couple
over a year ago

Walsall


"That's the shortest 'walk of shame' I've ever seen "

But the first one I've seen done in his underwear. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!"

Some nights are dead and some busy. CH4 asked for people to take part in the programme- that will be why it was quiet.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!"

Pretty sure our average townhouse nights before lockdown were lile 60-70 people. Happy to be corrected though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's OK folks, we can get support from Channel 4 at the end "

Its a requirement because they talked about abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's the shortest 'walk of shame' I've ever seen "

Wasn’t set up at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that was very tame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked that show, made me laugh, although some parts were sad. And that woman crying did my nut in. Not in a good way..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Siobhan is 3rd wheeling as martyn and malika just want to fuck

I’m definitely hoping for a 3 way! "

Martyn couldn't handle two

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

have head liads of good things bout libs but looks really quiet.saying tat should imagine the cameras would of put a lot of peeps off.thought that malinka was hot as fuck the girl who felt she wasnt good enough i dont know why i thought she was pretty just a confidence thing i guess.font ask you dont get and the woman in her 60s good on her knows what she likes and goes for it.wats the worse that can happen someone days no thanks.if u cant handle rejection stay away from clubs.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think he was alright. but for me it’s one of those take your leave it kind of places

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about. 15 people in total there!!"

I wouldn't go to a club on a night when television cameras are there. Even a back view could identify you to people who know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats what i thought go on lad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I liked that show, made me laugh, although some parts were sad. And that woman crying did my nut in. Not in a good way.. "

They made everyone human. I’m not sure it will encourage people to go to clubs though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, it was an ok watch. I think it was a bit depressing and awkward though.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"See I haven’t been to one of these clubs, but heard there were single blokes all over wanking. Which is the thing that’s put me off a lot. Is this true?"

Frequently but not always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We liked it. Quite positive and a typical night out at a club. Hopefully it is one we will visit sometime.

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Siobhan is 3rd wheeling as martyn and malika just want to fuck

I’m definitely hoping for a 3 way!

Martyn couldn't handle two "

Haha martim doesnt want 2

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Well that's 65 minutes of my life I ain't getting back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That wasn’t terrible at all.

Fair play to all involved! "

I think it was a good representation. Feels like some on here look at swinging through rose coloured spectacles. Perhaps when they are in their groups they don't realise there's other people on the outside.

I liked what the people had to say. Swinging doesn't fix bad relationships, it makes good ones stronger.

People will see what fits their own view of it.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"See I haven’t been to one of these clubs, but heard there were single blokes all over wanking. Which is the thing that’s put me off a lot. Is this true?"

That’s never happens at libs as the restrict numbers and pick who gets invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shame they didn’t include more people that swing just because they enjoy sex and meeting people!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Well I enjoyed that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

You lucky tart you. We’re you worried it was going to be a 3sum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

Was that the first time you've seen it?

Wasn't bad - made Libs look dead and dirty though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh, it was an ok watch. I think it was a bit depressing and awkward though."

Exactly my thoughts - depressing and awkward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

You lucky bastard

Did yourself justice though. You seemed like a nice bloke so well played

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Not very busy for valentine's night .."

Possibly the fact that the cameras were there filming.

This was a specially ran valentines night for filming only. There was another valentines night with about 150 people there.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

You were so punching

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Overall, a surprisingly narrow-minded and mean-spirited doc - fair play to the contributors but bourgeois judaeo-christian morals dictate that they have to be portrayed as victims who would be better off in an orthodox relationship.

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Malika was SOOOOO hot!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Siobhan is 3rd wheeling as martyn and malika just want to fuck

I’m definitely hoping for a 3 way!

Martyn couldn't handle two

Haha martim doesnt want 2

"

Sure about that?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"It's OK folks, we can get support from Channel 4 at the end

Its a requirement because they talked about abuse. "

I realise. It did kinda suggest that we (those who partake in the "deviant" activities) might need help though. Maybe that's just my brain making connections that aren't there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

Nice arse

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk


"See I haven’t been to one of these clubs, but heard there were single blokes all over wanking. Which is the thing that’s put me off a lot. Is this true?

That’s never happens at libs as the restrict numbers and pick who gets invited "

What a load of crap

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood


"Play bunny laid on sofa looks well happy!"

i saw that aswell lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Well that's 65 minutes of my life I ain't getting back"

Did you have something special planned for that 65 minutes? Even if you did, you never get them back.

Enjoy the exchange on here, if nothing else.

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

A balanced view. Well we enjoyed Libs a few years back, glad it remains a good club. Well done John

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"That's the shortest 'walk of shame' I've ever seen

But the first one I've seen done in his underwear. Lol"

Can't go hiding that peachy bum

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

It didn’t do your street cred any harm at all - you came across well

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Fair play to all of those that took part in tonight’s program. I think it just goes to show swingers come from all walks of life.Yes some may have so called issues but they are dealing with them as best they can.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

How does it feel to be famous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

You were brilliant.

Looks like you had fun. X

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"That wasn’t terrible at all.

Fair play to all involved!

I think it was a good representation. Feels like some on here look at swinging through rose coloured spectacles. Perhaps when they are in their groups they don't realise there's other people on the outside.

I liked what the people had to say. Swinging doesn't fix bad relationships, it makes good ones stronger.

People will see what fits their own view of it. "

Agreed.

I had my own personal reasons for struggling through it, and I'm pissed off with myself that it bothered me, but that's all part of the healing process I guess.

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby

I thought it was good and showed ordinary people being empowered and normal. Siobhan is lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that's 65 minutes of my life I ain't getting back"

N'awww

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Overall, a surprisingly narrow-minded and mean-spirited doc - fair play to the contributors but bourgeois judaeo-christian morals dictate that they have to be portrayed as victims who would be better off in an orthodox relationship."

Screw orthodox relationships

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By *ammyboy1123Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Went to that club when it was called Moorbarns, and like it is now some gorgeous single ladies,who prefer to be single and use clubs for their relief,

Good luck to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That wasn’t terrible at all.

Fair play to all involved!

I think it was a good representation. Feels like some on here look at swinging through rose coloured spectacles. Perhaps when they are in their groups they don't realise there's other people on the outside.

I liked what the people had to say. Swinging doesn't fix bad relationships, it makes good ones stronger.

People will see what fits their own view of it.

Agreed.

I had my own personal reasons for struggling through it, and I'm pissed off with myself that it bothered me, but that's all part of the healing process I guess.

"

You're human. Hope the crying helped. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I haven’t been to one of these clubs, but heard there were single blokes all over wanking. Which is the thing that’s put me off a lot. Is this true?

That’s never happens at libs as the restrict numbers and pick who gets invited "

What a load of rubbish, it happens at every club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That wasn’t terrible at all.

Fair play to all involved!

I think it was a good representation. Feels like some on here look at swinging through rose coloured spectacles. Perhaps when they are in their groups they don't realise there's other people on the outside.

I liked what the people had to say. Swinging doesn't fix bad relationships, it makes good ones stronger.

People will see what fits their own view of it.

Agreed.

I had my own personal reasons for struggling through it, and I'm pissed off with myself that it bothered me, but that's all part of the healing process I guess.

"

The fact you managed to watch it says a lot about your strength lovely lady. Sending love. Oh and fuck him xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Malika on here lol x

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!"

Some nights are busier than others its not always packed to the rafters.

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham


"That's the shortest 'walk of shame' I've ever seen "

Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!"

I’ve been to libs when there was about 10 people in and another time when packed to the rafters

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Went to that club when it was called Moorbarns, and like it is now some gorgeous single ladies,who prefer to be single and use clubs for their relief,

Good luck to them "

I’ve been several times on my own because I felt safe there

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

I liked your chutzpah, did you and Makika continue your dalliance? You looked great together.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!

I’ve been to libs when there was about 10 people in and another time when packed to the rafters "

Same here

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"Well that's 65 minutes of my life I ain't getting back

N'awww "

Hey! Time is money!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm watched that and I’m very disappointed at the perspectives. Not everyone swings because they want to compensate for a lack of something else or have a damaged past. Way too much emphasis on damaged characters. The settings wasn’t flattering either.

What do you think ?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Thanks for a Ch4 Monday night sex doc Fab style.

Look after each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that's 65 minutes of my life I ain't getting back

N'awww

Hey! Time is money!!"

Pipe down, the adults are talking

Mwwaaaaaaahhh!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I thought it was good.

A little tame. But good.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!

I’ve been to libs when there was about 10 people in and another time when packed to the rafters

Same here"

I'm sure the numbers may have been effected if people knew a camera crew would be milling about....

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By *emptd2Man
over a year ago

Burgess Hill & Birmingham


"It’s a shame they didn’t include more people that swing just because they enjoy sex and meeting people!"

True. They seemed to want to portray a specific angle.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"Well that's 65 minutes of my life I ain't getting back

N'awww

Hey! Time is money!!

Pipe down, the adults are talking

Mwwaaaaaaahhh!"

Are you gonna be quiet too then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Malika on here lol x"

I’m confident there will be a search party out for her on here hahaha

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Went to that club when it was called Moorbarns, and like it is now some gorgeous single ladies,who prefer to be single and use clubs for their relief,

Good luck to them

I’ve been several times on my own because I felt safe there"

We've had quite a blast there, haven't we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that's 65 minutes of my life I ain't getting back

N'awww

Hey! Time is money!!

Pipe down, the adults are talking

Mwwaaaaaaahhh!

Are you gonna be quiet too then? "

Moi? Why on earth would I do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a shame they didn’t include more people that swing just because they enjoy sex and meeting people!

True. They seemed to want to portray a specific angle. "

I agree with that. Not the best angle. Swinging is a lot more glamorous than that

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By *hesweetcheeksMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

It was an interesting watch..

Although I’m not sure it was the best portrayal of the lifestyle sadly !

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"Well that's 65 minutes of my life I ain't getting back

N'awww

Hey! Time is money!!

Pipe down, the adults are talking

Mwwaaaaaaahhh!

Are you gonna be quiet too then?

Moi? Why on earth would I do that "

Oh yeah, it's impossible for you not to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welllllll what a croc of shit that was xx

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By *ammyboy1123Man
over a year ago

newcastle


"Went to that club when it was called Moorbarns, and like it is now some gorgeous single ladies,who prefer to be single and use clubs for their relief,

Good luck to them

I’ve been several times on my own because I felt safe there"
and that’s what it is all about the safety of single ladies

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By *a83Man
over a year ago

Essex

I didn't really connect with any of the people in this documentary. Nobody really seemed to be having a laugh or that much fun at all. The only person who interested me in the slightest was Siobhan who was great. Its a shame they had to concentrate so much on the other individuals own issues rather than other aspects of the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

You came across really well, kudos x

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Libs nearest club - always travel further to Chams etc - people seem nice. Might go.

A positive documentary about real people - and repaired the damage of the Doggibg masks smear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that wasnt too bad actually thank you all that said something xx"

You did good sweetie X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't really connect with any of the people in this documentary. Nobody really seemed to be having a laugh or that much fun at all. The only person who interested me in the slightest was Siobhan who was great. Its a shame they had to concentrate so much on the other individuals own issues rather than other aspects of the lifestyle."

We had a great time! Don’t think it came across too well though. It was a fun night

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Went to that club when it was called Moorbarns, and like it is now some gorgeous single ladies,who prefer to be single and use clubs for their relief,

Good luck to them

I’ve been several times on my own because I felt safe there

We've had quite a blast there, haven't we

"

Hey Topsy! We certainly have yes!

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Still catching up to be fair but no i wasnt worried about the 3sum it wouldnt have happened

Also no walk of Shame there for me but was bloody freezing.

Regardless of what anybody says it will take one thing in life to put you on a different path you ever thought it would be it pain, experience or trying something different we all have our reasons but makes us the people who we are and who we become

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I didn't really connect with any of the people in this documentary. Nobody really seemed to be having a laugh or that much fun at all. The only person who interested me in the slightest was Siobhan who was great. Its a shame they had to concentrate so much on the other individuals own issues rather than other aspects of the lifestyle.

We had a great time! Don’t think it came across too well though. It was a fun night "

Oh were you the couple with the redhead who were playing on the bed with another couple? Delicately putting it here.

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By *isnerdsCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Well done to all that took part. Fair play to every one of you

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By *inabedMFMCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Granny fanny , not for us , Rooney will have his google map out now

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood


"I didn't really connect with any of the people in this documentary. Nobody really seemed to be having a laugh or that much fun at all. The only person who interested me in the slightest was Siobhan who was great. Its a shame they had to concentrate so much on the other individuals own issues rather than other aspects of the lifestyle.

We had a great time! Don’t think it came across too well though. It was a fun night "

were u the little redhead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

Regardless of what anybody says it will take one thing in life to put you on a different path you ever thought it would be it pain, experience or trying something different we all have our reasons but makes us the people who we are and who we become "

Love that!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Still catching up to be fair but no i wasnt worried about the 3sum it wouldnt have happened

Also no walk of Shame there for me but was bloody freezing.

Regardless of what anybody says it will take one thing in life to put you on a different path you ever thought it would be it pain, experience or trying something different we all have our reasons but makes us the people who we are and who we become "
you came across as the perfect gent and I hope that you and the lady meet up more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Granny fanny , not for us , Rooney will have his google map out now"

You are both grandparent age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't really connect with any of the people in this documentary. Nobody really seemed to be having a laugh or that much fun at all. The only person who interested me in the slightest was Siobhan who was great. Its a shame they had to concentrate so much on the other individuals own issues rather than other aspects of the lifestyle.

I was the one with purple hair lol.... we played with the red head couple. We had a great connection and did feel bad about leaving the other 2 out but unfortunately you just go with the flow when you’re there and if it happens it happens. It’s never planned x

We had a great time! Don’t think it came across too well though. It was a fun night

Oh were you the couple with the redhead who were playing on the bed with another couple? Delicately putting it here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't really connect with any of the people in this documentary. Nobody really seemed to be having a laugh or that much fun at all. The only person who interested me in the slightest was Siobhan who was great. Its a shame they had to concentrate so much on the other individuals own issues rather than other aspects of the lifestyle.

Nooo, I had purple hair

We had a great time! Don’t think it came across too well though. It was a fun night

were u the little redhead?"

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Granny fanny , not for us , Rooney will have his google map out now"

What a vile description.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Granny fanny , not for us , Rooney will have his google map out now"

How fucking disrespectful do you wanna be?

Jesus christ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still catching up to be fair but no i wasnt worried about the 3sum it wouldnt have happened

Also no walk of Shame there for me but was bloody freezing.

Regardless of what anybody says it will take one thing in life to put you on a different path you ever thought it would be it pain, experience or trying something different we all have our reasons but makes us the people who we are and who we become "

Well said and so true

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Granny fanny , not for us , Rooney will have his google map out now

How fucking disrespectful do you wanna be?

Jesus christ "

I love that you say what I want to, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To those who have been to these clubs...are there another 50 people hiding away from the camera, because it looks like there's about 15 people in total there!!"

Absolutely you're not wrong there

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Granny fanny , not for us , Rooney will have his google map out now

How fucking disrespectful do you wanna be?

Jesus christ

I love that you say what I want to, thanks "

I'm seriously in shock.

People never fail to sicken me.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Granny fanny , not for us , Rooney will have his google map out now

How fucking disrespectful do you wanna be?

Jesus christ

I love that you say what I want to, thanks

I'm seriously in shock.

People never fail to sicken me."

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By *a83Man
over a year ago

Essex

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By *a83Man
over a year ago

Essex


"I didn't really connect with any of the people in this documentary. Nobody really seemed to be having a laugh or that much fun at all. The only person who interested me in the slightest was Siobhan who was great. Its a shame they had to concentrate so much on the other individuals own issues rather than other aspects of the lifestyle.

We had a great time! Don’t think it came across too well though. It was a fun night "

Fair play to everybody who appeared on the programme. It was certainly a brace thing to do. I'm sure the producers were looking for a specific angle to portray. I'm glad you had a great time and that's the most important thing. Unfortunately it didn't really look particularly fun and I really felt sorry for most of the people involved in having their personal baggage paraded on national TV.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood


"I didn't really connect with any of the people in this documentary. Nobody really seemed to be having a laugh or that much fun at all. The only person who interested me in the slightest was Siobhan who was great. Its a shame they had to concentrate so much on the other individuals own issues rather than other aspects of the lifestyle.

Nooo, I had purple hair

We had a great time! Don’t think it came across too well though. It was a fun night

were u the little redhead?"

ah right very cute and you looked like you wasnt paying any attention to the camera being there either

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"That wasn’t terrible at all.

Fair play to all involved!

I think it was a good representation. Feels like some on here look at swinging through rose coloured spectacles. Perhaps when they are in their groups they don't realise there's other people on the outside.

I liked what the people had to say. Swinging doesn't fix bad relationships, it makes good ones stronger.

People will see what fits their own view of it. "

I agree, I have read this thread and the other one and thought I must have watched the wrong programme

I thought it showed that swinging isn't just about sex on tap, that people have choices of who they play with and some won't compromise if it doesn't suit them so miles away from what some people think swinging is which is throwing your keys in a bowl

The club didn't look bad to me

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"That wasn’t terrible at all.

Fair play to all involved!

I think it was a good representation. Feels like some on here look at swinging through rose coloured spectacles. Perhaps when they are in their groups they don't realise there's other people on the outside.

I liked what the people had to say. Swinging doesn't fix bad relationships, it makes good ones stronger.

People will see what fits their own view of it.

I agree, I have read this thread and the other one and thought I must have watched the wrong programme

I thought it showed that swinging isn't just about sex on tap, that people have choices of who they play with and some won't compromise if it doesn't suit them so miles away from what some people think swinging is which is throwing your keys in a bowl

The club didn't look bad to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were absolutely dreading watching this as was worried about how it would be portrayed but I didn’t think it was too bad at all. The couple that were ‘excluded’ had a bit of a handicap as the cameras were always on them which put us off a bit. They also massively lacked confidence which doesn’t stand you well when you’re looking to play. Sometimes it’s just not your night....

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"We were absolutely dreading watching this as was worried about how it would be portrayed but I didn’t think it was too bad at all. The couple that were ‘excluded’ had a bit of a handicap as the cameras were always on them which put us off a bit. They also massively lacked confidence which doesn’t stand you well when you’re looking to play. Sometimes it’s just not your night...."

I've seen that so often, the desire to play simply doesn't match the confidence to do so which is why she ended up in tears.

They weren't quite sure of the 'asking' etiquette too but I'm glad they stayed and were positive in the end.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"We were absolutely dreading watching this as was worried about how it would be portrayed but I didn’t think it was too bad at all. The couple that were ‘excluded’ had a bit of a handicap as the cameras were always on them which put us off a bit. They also massively lacked confidence which doesn’t stand you well when you’re looking to play. Sometimes it’s just not your night...."

Oh you didn't come across badly at all. I think sometimes you click with people, sometimes you don't. You not including them if anything shows that swingers don't just fuck anyone, they have differing tastes. Her reaction was sad but it didn't reflect poorly on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were absolutely dreading watching this as was worried about how it would be portrayed but I didn’t think it was too bad at all. The couple that were ‘excluded’ had a bit of a handicap as the cameras were always on them which put us off a bit. They also massively lacked confidence which doesn’t stand you well when you’re looking to play. Sometimes it’s just not your night...."

Do you happen to know if they are on here?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Regardless of what anybody says it will take one thing in life to put you on a different path you ever thought it would be it pain, experience or trying something different we all have our reasons but makes us the people who we are and who we become "

Perfectly put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were absolutely dreading watching this as was worried about how it would be portrayed but I didn’t think it was too bad at all. The couple that were ‘excluded’ had a bit of a handicap as the cameras were always on them which put us off a bit. They also massively lacked confidence which doesn’t stand you well when you’re looking to play. Sometimes it’s just not your night....

Do you happen to know if they are on here? "

They are definitely on here just can’t remember their name.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I always enjoy Twitter for these TV events

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

So firstly the chap that owned it was very nice , as were the ladies who work there. I guess this isn't a true reflection of this club. It was more about the attendees than the club itself. There was no atmosphere, no pumping music, no dance pole. I wouldn't judge the club on this program, as I think it's probably better than that. I wonder if the guests were a cross section of who normally attends. Siobhan...you go girl! Mr Moreno.....mmmm

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Malika is so damm hot... "

She is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were absolutely dreading watching this as was worried about how it would be portrayed but I didn’t think it was too bad at all. The couple that were ‘excluded’ had a bit of a handicap as the cameras were always on them which put us off a bit. They also massively lacked confidence which doesn’t stand you well when you’re looking to play. Sometimes it’s just not your night....

Do you happen to know if they are on here?

They are definitely on here just can’t remember their name. "

Ah right ok no worries it looked like you had a fun time did you meet up with the other couples again xx

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By *heGeekyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"

They are definitely on here just can’t remember their name. "

That's a darn shame because we'd certainly would like to chance our arms at wining and dining them

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"

They are definitely on here just can’t remember their name.

That's a darn shame because we'd certainly would like to chance our arms at wining and dining them "

There may check the thread, you never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Moreno.....mmmm "

Indeed

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By *heGeekyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"

There may check the thread, you never know."

haha well if they are they can feel free to slide into our DMs

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Do most men shave their tits before a meet ??

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I enjoyed the program and kudos to all those who featured in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to say that none of the people in the docu deserve to be bashed on a swingers site that cater's for every single age group and race and sexuality and gender .... disgusting

the docu was rubbish to ok i thought but most docu are as they never show the full story.

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