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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wish someone would reply if you suggested a meet or just sorry not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one should be meeting or suggesting meets at the moment unless it's socially distanced and a lot of people are still uncomfortable doing that. Also some people get so much traffic through their inbox daily, if they replied to everyone to say no thank you, they would never log off.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I wish someone would reply if you suggested a meet or just sorry not interested"

Don't suggest meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one should be meeting or suggesting meets at the moment unless it's socially distanced and a lot of people are still uncomfortable doing that. Also some people get so much traffic through their inbox daily, if they replied to everyone to say no thank you, they would never log off. "

Damn wanted to take you penguin spotting

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I wish someone would reply if you suggested a meet or just sorry not interested"

It’s in the FAQ no reply, means not interested. So in effect you’ve had a reply.

It’s hard but that’s the site, not everyone will find you appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish someone would reply if you suggested a meet or just sorry not interested"

Problem is when we reply with a no thanks for whatever reason, very often the sender will come back with what they think is a way around the reason given. If we say we don't host, it's "I can get a hotel", "car sex", I will come to you.ect ect. Or if you say not our scene or you are not what we are looking for, that often leads to abuse.

It's also time consuming for members who get a lot of messages.

It's far better to just delete and not reply, because so many members can't take no for an answer.

At the end of the day Fab members are all private individuals and not running a sexual service of any kind.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Everybody, bombard the OP with requests to meet. If there are any he doesn't answer, make sure you complain on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes even when you reply and say a polite no thank you, you get ‘why not’ or a recent one for us ‘oh you think you’re too good for me’ it’s hard to please everybody but as somebody suggested earlier, no reply means not interested if you take a look at the guidelines or Fab.

Bonnie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst the rules say no reply no interest, especially when it comes to couples lots on the forums say the leave the message to either revisit or until their partner sees it

Read then delete is a much clearer way of saying no ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can't answer every message or you would run out of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being fairly new here, I'm starting to understand why I don't get a reply, but I would appreciate if they just deleted my message so that I know not to bother them again

If they leave me on read, it does leave it slightly open to interpretation so don't know whether to follow up, or if they're generally not interested

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"I wish someone would reply if you suggested a meet or just sorry not interested"

In all fairness, a reply is time consuming for anyone who’s not male!

Now, a delete if not interested...that’s more definitive and I’d much rather that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply = no thank you!!

We approach fab our way and I reply to all messages because I’m on here a lot night and day but at times I wish we just ignored most messages as there has been no effort put into them at all but they want the earth.

Best of luck op best of luck.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish someone would reply if you suggested a meet or just sorry not interested"

You really want to see the shit you get as a woman for saying "no thanks" or "Not interested" you would realise its often not worth the hassle for a woman and not replying is best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish someone would reply if you suggested a meet or just sorry not interested"

That is your answer.

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