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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If u was on a train or anywhere in public with a group of adults and u saw a man wanking or flashing or a woman for that matter would u let em get on with as causing no harm or would u report it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report.

Kind of is doing harm? Like involving non-consenting people in your kink who don't want to see it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, what if kids saw them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the next step in the progression of someone who does this. Especially men.

Sexual Assault?

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

Report 10O% -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely report it.

This kind of thing is totally out of order, its never ok or appropriate to involve unsuspecting or none consenting people in your sexual games.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Report it, it's the start of a slippery slope to prison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report for definite. Apart from the fact, people shouldn't be subjected to that sort of thing if not consenting to it, children could see and also, it's illegal.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Causing no harm?!?? It’s illegal for a reason.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd probably clothes line them out the train window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd probably clothes line them out the train window."

"No ticket"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be reported.

The people who do things like this are usually repeat offenders who behave inappropriately or commit other crimes.

To think the behaviour is doing no harm is naive at best, it can cause great distress to innocent m_mbers of the public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the next step in the progression of someone who does this. Especially men.

Sexual Assault? "

Often upskirting or rubbing themselves against unsuspecting m_mbers of the public on crowded trains or further sexual touching/assault.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I seen a man on Saturday in a park but wasn't sure what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the first point is that it's illegal. Indecent exposure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would report it straight away. It is harmful making non consenting people seeing your kink !

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I seen a man on Saturday in a park but wasn't sure what to do"

Grab him by the throat and warn him to put his cock away before you take a meat cleaver to it?

Just me then.

Nah, report. To be fair if there were kids around I'd have gone with option 1 whilst calling the police.

What he may seem harmless really isn't for someone who may have stumbled upon him by accident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seen a man on Saturday in a park but wasn't sure what to do"

Call 101 or report at your nearest station, you can also call 999 depending on the situation but that is a judgement call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be having a not so quiet word depending on who was around, if it was kids then it would be quiet but they would know they've got seconds before its going to hurt.

Then they'd be reported. There is no need for any of that shit no matter what the kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u was on a train or anywhere in public with a group of adults and u saw a man wanking or flashing or a woman for that matter would u let em get on with as causing no harm or would u report it"

Report.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ide phone police. But why are you asking opp. What would you do

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

I'd be tempted to take the law into my own hands.

But since that would probably land me with a criminal record for assault, I'd definitely phone the police, and not let him get away until they arrive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be tempted to take the law into my own hands.

But since that would probably land me with a criminal record for assault, I'd definitely phone the police, and not let him get away until they arrive."

Done a citizens arrest

I used to much force and injured his arm

Almost got prosecuted

Didn’t get a thanks if the lady who got flashed and verbally abused

So I’d mind my own business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably kick them in the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seen a man on Saturday in a park but wasn't sure what to do

Call 101 or report at your nearest station, you can also call 999 depending on the situation but that is a judgement call."

It’s a crime in progress so 999.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a man I probably find my self geting done for gbh sorry no words would be sed just a good hard smack in the mouth of it’s a woman I would probably have a word with her then report

There could be kids around something’s shouldn’t be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d call them out on it, and phone the police.

And when calling them out, I’d be loud about it.

Maybe film it? For the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you please explain how a man showing his penis and/or wanking in a very public place where non-consenting people are and could see? Let alone children, is not harmful??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seen a man on Saturday in a park but wasn't sure what to do"

Oh really? Ah. And here I was, assuming you wanted to do it

How did it make you feel OP? Did you feel it was harmless? Who else could see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this one of these very unusual topics, where we all agree?

If so, is it a sign of the coming apocalypse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seen a man on Saturday in a park but wasn't sure what to do

Oh really? Ah. And here I was, assuming you wanted to do it

How did it make you feel OP? Did you feel it was harmless? Who else could see?"

You tell him queenie xx

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Not on. If he did it in Glasgow and was seen he’d end up getting punched out lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd probably clothes line them out the train window.

"No ticket" "

Love the Indy reference

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

I would say having used the green arrow that the responses rightly did not go the way the op possibly expected..

Op your 53, you knew full well or should do that what you were supposedly asking is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say having used the green arrow that the responses rightly did not go the way the op possibly expected..

Op your 53, you knew full well or should do that what you were supposedly asking is wrong. "

The green arrow is a wonderful tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report it as they could be exposing themselves at children next time its just not on.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Someone wanked on me. A complete stranger, on my way to work on a packed commuter train.

It was hideous. The train was so busy that I don't think anyone noticed. I reported it to the police who took it really seriously which I was very grateful for.

I was young and it had a huge impact on me. It still does have impact on me.

So in answer to your question I would report it yes.

I'd also walk straight up to them and tell them what I thought and I can assure you it wouldn't be polite.

So if anyone is thinking of doing it, you need to make sure you don't do it near me.

You also need to take a long hard look at yourself because your behaviour is completely disgusting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Report. Not even a question. That's private and shouldn't be done without the clear consent of all those who might see.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

Just because I'm a swinger and fuck strangers doesn't mean that I want to see some guy having a wank while I am going about my day.

So yes I would 100% report him to the police.

I didn't consent to seeing his cock, so he can keep the little fella to himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report. No question.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I have had a couple of men flash at me. It made me feel vulnerable and I didn’t like it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I have had a couple of men flash at me. It made me feel vulnerable and I didn’t like it. "

Yeah. It's a power move, an invasion. Wildly inappropriate at best.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

I agree... Report it... But here's a question.... Youre on a train... Who you going to report it to? When? How? And to what realistic outcome? I mean I haven't seen a policeman for about 4 weeks and the train guards don't get involved with crimes. Now if I'd been with my daughter... I may have been tempted to resolve the matter myself.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I agree... Report it... But here's a question.... Youre on a train... Who you going to report it to? When? How? And to what realistic outcome? I mean I haven't seen a policeman for about 4 weeks and the train guards don't get involved with crimes. Now if I'd been with my daughter... I may have been tempted to resolve the matter myself. "

They rely on this

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

In a 3 lane traffic jam the other day a woman in middle lane walked to the front of her car and tugged her jeans and knickers down and had a piss as she stood and then wriggled them back up she had a confident radiant smile all round for the cheering truckers

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I would report it.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

report it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a 3 lane traffic jam the other day a woman in middle lane walked to the front of her car and tugged her jeans and knickers down and had a piss as she stood and then wriggled them back up she had a confident radiant smile all round for the cheering truckers"

That's disgusting.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Can you please explain how a man showing his penis and/or wanking in a very public place where non-consenting people are and could see? Let alone children, is not harmful??"

Exactly! Disturbing that this is not seen as an issue. I'd report the pervert. Start of a sluppery slop. What next ....sexual assault? Worse?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"In a 3 lane traffic jam the other day a woman in middle lane walked to the front of her car and tugged her jeans and knickers down and had a piss as she stood and then wriggled them back up she had a confident radiant smile all round for the cheering truckers"

I had the misfortune to see a very similar dressed lady get out of a car in a co op car park pull everything down and proceed to have a shit along side a skip then wiggle up her shorts

The co op staff were not ammused

Wanking in public should be reported

If you can see it a child can see it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"In a 3 lane traffic jam the other day a woman in middle lane walked to the front of her car and tugged her jeans and knickers down and had a piss as she stood and then wriggled them back up she had a confident radiant smile all round for the cheering truckers"

Wildly inappropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think iv ever seen a thread where ever single poster is in consensus.

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