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"Ugh....lockdown weight gain = I do not feel sexy at all. No dressing up in ages. I dont want to put something on & for my new lumps/bumps to squish out. I was exercising during lockdown and joined a new gym as my own gym is undergoing a lockdown revamp and wont be back open until Oct. I would ideally like to lose a stone in weight. Need to clean up my diet. I am just not feeling very sexy at all lately. Just a phase. Anyone else get like this? MsD xx" Aww op never feel like that I no it’s easyer sed than done but I bet even with ur new lumps and bumps you still look stunning in anything infact I bet ur even more beautiful and sexy now than you were when you didn’t have them x | |||
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"Yes and unfortunately no enthusiasm to change things." See I am the opposite, which is good I suppose?? I just need to clean up my diet and get on with it. Love my food and thats my problem. | |||
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"Ugh....lockdown weight gain = I do not feel sexy at all. No dressing up in ages. I dont want to put something on & for my new lumps/bumps to squish out. I was exercising during lockdown and joined a new gym as my own gym is undergoing a lockdown revamp and wont be back open until Oct. I would ideally like to lose a stone in weight. Need to clean up my diet. I am just not feeling very sexy at all lately. Just a phase. Anyone else get like this? MsD xx Aww op never feel like that I no it’s easyer sed than done but I bet even with ur new lumps and bumps you still look stunning in anything infact I bet ur even more beautiful and sexy now than you were when you didn’t have them x" Aw thanks. I am far too self-critical. But I do need to lose at least 7lbs. Even if I lost a few lbs now, I would feel better about myself. | |||
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"Ugh....lockdown weight gain = I do not feel sexy at all. No dressing up in ages. I dont want to put something on & for my new lumps/bumps to squish out. I was exercising during lockdown and joined a new gym as my own gym is undergoing a lockdown revamp and wont be back open until Oct. I would ideally like to lose a stone in weight. Need to clean up my diet. I am just not feeling very sexy at all lately. Just a phase. Anyone else get like this? MsD xx" I can see your sexy in the pics a few pounds ain't gonna change that xx | |||
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"Yes and unfortunately no enthusiasm to change things. See I am the opposite, which is good I suppose?? I just need to clean up my diet and get on with it. Love my food and thats my problem. " That is very good,normally I can get back onto thing's but the enthusiasm to exercise has escaped me completely and I've just cancelled my gym membership  | |||
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"Ugh....lockdown weight gain = I do not feel sexy at all. No dressing up in ages. I dont want to put something on & for my new lumps/bumps to squish out. I was exercising during lockdown and joined a new gym as my own gym is undergoing a lockdown revamp and wont be back open until Oct. I would ideally like to lose a stone in weight. Need to clean up my diet. I am just not feeling very sexy at all lately. Just a phase. Anyone else get like this? MsD xx I can see your sexy in the pics a few pounds ain't gonna change that xx" Thanks but unfort, my own perception of myself isnt so good these days. Not feeling it at all !! | |||
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"So you basically need a kick in the bum MsDub? Same as me. "Basically take all the food away from me and starve myself. Seriously....this is what I need to do. I lost 2 stone a few years ago due to extreme anxiety but I literally wasnt eating. That wasnt sustainable, obviously. | |||
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"Run with skydrol  "Achilles trouble Skydrol. I love running. Damaged my left ankle 2months back. Right hip is at me too now, think I am compensating for my wonky left side. Physio appt on Thurs evening to sort me out! | |||
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"Ugh....lockdown weight gain = I do not feel sexy at all. No dressing up in ages. I dont want to put something on & for my new lumps/bumps to squish out. I was exercising during lockdown and joined a new gym as my own gym is undergoing a lockdown revamp and wont be back open until Oct. I would ideally like to lose a stone in weight. Need to clean up my diet. I am just not feeling very sexy at all lately. Just a phase. Anyone else get like this? MsD xx Aww op never feel like that I no it’s easyer sed than done but I bet even with ur new lumps and bumps you still look stunning in anything infact I bet ur even more beautiful and sexy now than you were when you didn’t have them x Aw thanks. I am far too self-critical. But I do need to lose at least 7lbs. Even if I lost a few lbs now, I would feel better about myself. " Ur welcome and I know that feeling nothing worse but look on the bright side it’s a nice Monday morning and think positive thoughts no point in beating ur self up xxx | |||
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"So you basically need a kick in the bum MsDub? Same as me.
Basically take all the food away from me and starve myself. Seriously....this is what I need to do. I lost 2 stone a few years ago due to extreme anxiety but I literally wasnt eating. That wasnt sustainable, obviously. "Or find food that has few calories that you can eat whenever you wish. What kind of things are you craving to eat? | |||
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"Yes and unfortunately no enthusiasm to change things. See I am the opposite, which is good I suppose?? I just need to clean up my diet and get on with it. Love my food and thats my problem. That is very good,normally I can get back onto thing's but the enthusiasm to exercise has escaped me completely and I've just cancelled my gym membership "Oh no. Why did you cancel?? | |||
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"Run with skydrol
Achilles trouble Skydrol. I love running. Damaged my left ankle 2months back. Right hip is at me too now, think I am compensating for my wonky left side. Physio appt on Thurs evening to sort me out!"I hope you get fixed  | |||
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"So you basically need a kick in the bum MsDub? Same as me.
Basically take all the food away from me and starve myself. Seriously....this is what I need to do. I lost 2 stone a few years ago due to extreme anxiety but I literally wasnt eating. That wasnt sustainable, obviously.
Or find food that has few calories that you can eat whenever you wish. What kind of things are you craving to eat?"Nothing in particular tbh. Just need to cut back on carbs and portion sizes. No biscuits in the house etc etc. I am fully aware of what I need to do, what to eat and I am a good cook. So its just a matter of doing it. Put my big girl pants on and do it!!! | |||
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"Run with skydrol
Achilles trouble Skydrol. I love running. Damaged my left ankle 2months back. Right hip is at me too now, think I am compensating for my wonky left side. Physio appt on Thurs evening to sort me out!
I hope you get fixed "Thanks. Trouble with getting old, being too ambitious and niggles!!! Groan.....I am not 21 anymore! | |||
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"Run with skydrol
Achilles trouble Skydrol. I love running. Damaged my left ankle 2months back. Right hip is at me too now, think I am compensating for my wonky left side. Physio appt on Thurs evening to sort me out!
I hope you get fixed
Thanks. Trouble with getting old, being too ambitious and niggles!!! Groan.....I am not 21 anymore!"Start back slowly, be patient | |||
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"Run with skydrol
Achilles trouble Skydrol. I love running. Damaged my left ankle 2months back. Right hip is at me too now, think I am compensating for my wonky left side. Physio appt on Thurs evening to sort me out!
I hope you get fixed
Thanks. Trouble with getting old, being too ambitious and niggles!!! Groan.....I am not 21 anymore!
Start back slowly, be patient "Yeah....whats this patience thing you talk about??!!!! Lol I am not patient at all. Always nagging my physio as to when i can start back on my activities. Had major surgery a few years ago and I went back to gym few months after. Was killing me not to be active. | |||
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"Run with skydrol
Achilles trouble Skydrol. I love running. Damaged my left ankle 2months back. Right hip is at me too now, think I am compensating for my wonky left side. Physio appt on Thurs evening to sort me out!
I hope you get fixed
Thanks. Trouble with getting old, being too ambitious and niggles!!! Groan.....I am not 21 anymore!
Start back slowly, be patient
Yeah....whats this patience thing you talk about??!!!! Lol
I am not patient at all. Always nagging my physio as to when i can start back on my activities.
Had major surgery a few years ago and I went back to gym few months after. Was killing me not to be active. "I’ve found that I have to be patient or I’ll end up injured. I know what you mean about the surgery and inactivity too. I was involved in quite a nasty accident last year. | |||
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"Yes and unfortunately no enthusiasm to change things. See I am the opposite, which is good I suppose?? I just need to clean up my diet and get on with it. Love my food and thats my problem. That is very good,normally I can get back onto thing's but the enthusiasm to exercise has escaped me completely and I've just cancelled my gym membership
Oh no. Why did you cancel??"Well mainly as my finances are really tight as the moment and I hadn't used it in a long time. I'm 52 now and since I hit 50 everything has gone to pot,my ability to not over snack and my enthusiasm for exercise. | |||
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"Run with skydrol
Achilles trouble Skydrol. I love running. Damaged my left ankle 2months back. Right hip is at me too now, think I am compensating for my wonky left side. Physio appt on Thurs evening to sort me out!
I hope you get fixed
Thanks. Trouble with getting old, being too ambitious and niggles!!! Groan.....I am not 21 anymore!
Start back slowly, be patient
Yeah....whats this patience thing you talk about??!!!! Lol
I am not patient at all. Always nagging my physio as to when i can start back on my activities.
Had major surgery a few years ago and I went back to gym few months after. Was killing me not to be active.
I’ve found that I have to be patient or I’ll end up injured. I know what you mean about the surgery and inactivity too. I was involved in quite a nasty accident last year. "I have learned to be somewhat patient and listen. No choice. Have a referral to the pain management team to see if they can help with my surgery site and the level of discomfort I feel on a daily basis. Not can be done from a surgery point of view, just something I have to learn to cope with. | |||
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"Yes and unfortunately no enthusiasm to change things. See I am the opposite, which is good I suppose?? I just need to clean up my diet and get on with it. Love my food and thats my problem. That is very good,normally I can get back onto thing's but the enthusiasm to exercise has escaped me completely and I've just cancelled my gym membership
Oh no. Why did you cancel??
Well mainly as my finances are really tight as the moment and I hadn't used it in a long time. I'm 52 now and since I hit 50 everything has gone to pot,my ability to not over snack and my enthusiasm for exercise. "Ah I see. Well you can always exercise outdoors and at home. If you got your mojo back! | |||
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"Run with skydrol
Achilles trouble Skydrol. I love running. Damaged my left ankle 2months back. Right hip is at me too now, think I am compensating for my wonky left side. Physio appt on Thurs evening to sort me out!
I hope you get fixed
Thanks. Trouble with getting old, being too ambitious and niggles!!! Groan.....I am not 21 anymore!
Start back slowly, be patient
Yeah....whats this patience thing you talk about??!!!! Lol
I am not patient at all. Always nagging my physio as to when i can start back on my activities.
Had major surgery a few years ago and I went back to gym few months after. Was killing me not to be active.
I’ve found that I have to be patient or I’ll end up injured. I know what you mean about the surgery and inactivity too. I was involved in quite a nasty accident last year.
I have learned to be somewhat patient and listen. No choice.
Have a referral to the pain management team to see if they can help with my surgery site and the level of discomfort I feel on a daily basis. Not can be done from a surgery point of view, just something I have to learn to cope with. "Hopefully they can help with the management of the pain | |||
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"Run with skydrol
Achilles trouble Skydrol. I love running. Damaged my left ankle 2months back. Right hip is at me too now, think I am compensating for my wonky left side. Physio appt on Thurs evening to sort me out!
I hope you get fixed
Thanks. Trouble with getting old, being too ambitious and niggles!!! Groan.....I am not 21 anymore!
Start back slowly, be patient
Yeah....whats this patience thing you talk about??!!!! Lol
I am not patient at all. Always nagging my physio as to when i can start back on my activities.
Had major surgery a few years ago and I went back to gym few months after. Was killing me not to be active.
I’ve found that I have to be patient or I’ll end up injured. I know what you mean about the surgery and inactivity too. I was involved in quite a nasty accident last year.
I have learned to be somewhat patient and listen. No choice.
Have a referral to the pain management team to see if they can help with my surgery site and the level of discomfort I feel on a daily basis. Not can be done from a surgery point of view, just something I have to learn to cope with.
Hopefully they can help with the management of the pain "We shall see xx | |||
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"Yes and unfortunately no enthusiasm to change things. See I am the opposite, which is good I suppose?? I just need to clean up my diet and get on with it. Love my food and thats my problem. That is very good,normally I can get back onto thing's but the enthusiasm to exercise has escaped me completely and I've just cancelled my gym membership
Oh no. Why did you cancel??
Well mainly as my finances are really tight as the moment and I hadn't used it in a long time. I'm 52 now and since I hit 50 everything has gone to pot,my ability to not over snack and my enthusiasm for exercise.
Ah I see. Well you can always exercise outdoors and at home. If you got your mojo back!"Yeah it's just doing it | |||
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"Ugh....lockdown weight gain = I do not feel sexy at all. No dressing up in ages. I dont want to put something on & for my new lumps/bumps to squish out. I was exercising during lockdown and joined a new gym as my own gym is undergoing a lockdown revamp and wont be back open until Oct. I would ideally like to lose a stone in weight. Need to clean up my diet. I am just not feeling very sexy at all lately. Just a phase. Anyone else get like this? MsD xx" Oh bless you, sorry you feel like that, start slow and small I understand it though because I feel the same, I know I have put weight on. I have upped my yoga and cut out eating crap 
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"I have to say, I agree; although we're our own worse critics. I'm spending some serious time in the gym before putting myself on the market again! " Lol...false advertising????!!!! | |||
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"Yes and unfortunately no enthusiasm to change things. See I am the opposite, which is good I suppose?? I just need to clean up my diet and get on with it. Love my food and thats my problem. That is very good,normally I can get back onto thing's but the enthusiasm to exercise has escaped me completely and I've just cancelled my gym membership
Oh no. Why did you cancel??
Well mainly as my finances are really tight as the moment and I hadn't used it in a long time. I'm 52 now and since I hit 50 everything has gone to pot,my ability to not over snack and my enthusiasm for exercise. "You are jokeing that ur 52 ??? Never been able to see ur profile as you got it hiden but by the look off ur profile pic I thought you were in ur mid 20s 25-26 to be exact wow I am shocked as you are very beautiful xx | |||
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"Ugh....lockdown weight gain = I do not feel sexy at all. No dressing up in ages. I dont want to put something on & for my new lumps/bumps to squish out. I was exercising during lockdown and joined a new gym as my own gym is undergoing a lockdown revamp and wont be back open until Oct. I would ideally like to lose a stone in weight. Need to clean up my diet. I am just not feeling very sexy at all lately. Just a phase. Anyone else get like this? MsD xx" Yes, I’ve not been able to exercise for a couple of years due to pain in my stomach and suspected hernia now again. I’ve found my stomach is a very odd shape and I’ve got a large bulge , it doesn’t look sexy at all x | |||
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"I think we all feel like this at some point OP..Your certainly not alone. I think sometimes we just tend to focus on other things rather than ourselves. For example, kids,families, work,personal issues.. Then you wake up one morning and just think shit what about me.. All I can say is whatever your planning on doing dont overload yourself..Pick something just one thing and focus on that. Then reward yourself with something for you. Be it a haircut, nails done,buying something to make you feel good.. Take a day and focus on you. Even a bath,a hair mask,face mask Paint your nails, listen to your favourite music..I think lockdown has really made us all feel like this at some point.. Chin up OP...Sending virtual hugs xx" You are so right Sassy! I do have alot of stress in my personal life and this can take over my daily stuff. I do take time for myself and chill/heal. Its so important to do this. Good advise though xx | |||
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"I feel exactly the same. Before lockdown, I was at the gym, line dancing etc, meeting and feeling good about myself. Now, a stone heavier, no enthusiasm to do anything about it, don't want to risk the gym and don't even want to risk socials. I blame all the baking and the booze, nothing too do with my lack of willpower! " God no...willpower has nothing to do with it!!! Lol.... | |||
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"I hear you OP. My scales say I've only put on a couple of pounds over lockdown, which suprises me but without the gym I'm definitely squidgier and feel like my muffin top is now a full victoria sandwich! " I put on weight on my face and tummy. Thats it. Hate my love handles and I can feel back fat!! Ugh..... | |||
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