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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the bedroom I mean. Or wherever you choose to get down to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the woman takes control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why does someone have to take control, go with the flow is our way, and most so called dom men have no idea what it means

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Its mutual as far as I'm concerned and it depends on the situation.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'd probably identify as a switch. As I enjoy both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why does someone have to take control, go with the flow is our way, and most so called dom men have no idea what it means"

They don’t. I’m just interested in the answers.

And I don’t particular mean “a Dom”. I don’t know about all that stuff really. I mean taking control in the bedroom.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I like when we are both in control oh sorry I’m not a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like when we are both in control oh sorry I’m not a man "

Haha. Open to women too!

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you "

It's fun to switch. Usually prefer to be in control but when you have a genuine connection with a partner and they know what you enjoy, sometimes it's nice to hand over the reigns

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you

It's fun to switch. Usually prefer to be in control but when you have a genuine connection with a partner and they know what you enjoy, sometimes it's nice to hand over the reigns "

Yeah i need that connection and trust

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you "

I prefer a good give and take session, but then most times, what I want don't matter a dam, lol

I do what I'm told,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give and take. I'm more likely to want the woman to take control. Neither taking control though is good for mutual satisfaction.

Overall depends upon mood, woman and situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you

I prefer a good give and take session, but then most times, what I want don't matter a dam, lol

I do what I'm told, "

Hahahah x

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I dance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dance"

. I you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you "
I let the woman be in control

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By *ike rotchticklesMan
over a year ago

oldham

Like to take it in turns ...

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I dance

. I you "

And I'm fond of you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I consider myself more of a mutual lover, but a slight lean to the more dominant side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switcheroo is the best of both worlds!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dance

. I you

And I'm fond of you "

Oh right ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m alpha ... sooo ... i need someone that can tame me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m alpha ... sooo ... i need someone that can tame me "

Interesting so what is your definition of alpha? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I identify as Dom, but the thing is, if a lady is sub - she is still in total control, its my job to enact her desires take her to the edge of where she's comfortable and not one step further.

It's a pact of trust, the lady wants controlled vulnerability, she gives up control and takes it back at will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to allow my playmate to take the lead but not relinquish control. Authorised Transgression

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I identify as Dom, but the thing is, if a lady is sub - she is still in total control, its my job to enact her desires take her to the edge of where she's comfortable and not one step further.

It's a pact of trust, the lady wants controlled vulnerability, she gives up control and takes it back at will. "

Yeah see that’s a whole different dynamic which to be honest I don’t know enough about to have an opinion. My understanding is you can still be dominant (or have a dominant streak) without being classified as a Dom/Domme. Am I right? Where GM when I need him?!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I like my guy in control in and out the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like my guy in control in and out the bedroom. "

What about your wifeys?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I like my guy in control in and out the bedroom.

What about your wifeys? "

The same!!! This princess likes to feel looked after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're correct. Looking around the water on here are sometimes muddied between alpha type and dom/sub, which you are correct in pointing out. X

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I enjoy it when j ties me to the bed and blinfolds me.

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like my guy in control in and out the bedroom.

What about your wifeys?

The same!!! This princess likes to feel looked after "

Haha. Pillow princess. I’m the opposite lets get together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not really that dominating but have been told it seems like I control things a few times.

I do enjoy it when she tries to take control and fighting against it so its almost like a fuckfight as to who gets the upper hand, that point where her hands are around your throat and she is trying to ch0ke you yet you try to keep full eye contact and not pass out is incredibly sexual to me.

Biting or pinning to submission is also highly exotic and I have ended up being laid out before as ive almost blacked out and done the same in return.

Switching it around is where its at for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're correct. Looking around the water on here are sometimes muddied between alpha type and dom/sub, which you are correct in pointing out. X"

I’m just talking about maybe tying a man to the bed (with hold ups not rope!) and maybe a blindfold and teasing the fuck out of him type thing. And vice versa. More that kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what I'm wearing tbh.... If I'm girly dressed then I like a strong man but if I'm dressed a bit more edgy I naturally take control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pin me down and feed me apple crumble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like control, because thats who i am, its not just sex, in my life i like to take responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pin me down and feed me apple crumble "

Ooooooh Sam!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I like my guy in control in and out the bedroom.

What about your wifeys?

The same!!! This princess likes to feel looked after

Haha. Pillow princess. I’m the opposite lets get together "

I really am!

Match made in Heavan

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like control, because thats who i am, its not just sex, in my life i like to take responsibility."

Ah but very often it can work the opposite in the bedroom I think.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I prefer a man to take control in the bedroom and outwith. There is a fine line between being naturally Dominant and just being an arrogant arse though which makes my search harder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer a man to take control in the bedroom and outwith. There is a fine line between being naturally Dominant and just being an arrogant arse though which makes my search harder "

Yes. You’re right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're correct. Looking around the water on here are sometimes muddied between alpha type and dom/sub, which you are correct in pointing out. X

I’m just talking about maybe tying a man to the bed (with hold ups not rope!) and maybe a blindfold and teasing the fuck out of him type thing. And vice versa. More that kind of thing. "

Get you x yeah I love that kind of sensual play. Misunderstood slightly my (ex wife and friends) were what would be classified as sub-sluts, very very different tbh.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

All the women I've been with have preferred to let me take charge

I'm just used to it now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the women I've been with have preferred to let me take charge

I'm just used to it now."

I think more women do like the man to take charge than don’t. Just from what I’ve read on here anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like control, because thats who i am, its not just sex, in my life i like to take responsibility.

Ah but very often it can work the opposite in the bedroom I think. "

I agree im some cases, just speaking from me though, i feel comfortable in that position. I can understand why some people with alot of responsibility give it up in sex x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like control, because thats who i am, its not just sex, in my life i like to take responsibility.

Ah but very often it can work the opposite in the bedroom I think.

I agree im some cases, just speaking from me though, i feel comfortable in that position. I can understand why some people with alot of responsibility give it up in sex x"

Yeah me too. I wanted people’s individual preferences though. Interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m usually calling the shots, even when I’m not how my day has gone will dictate who’s taking charge in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m usually calling the shots, even when I’m not how my day has gone will dictate who’s taking charge in the bedroom. "

I think it depends on the person too and how comfortable you are with them. For me it does anyway.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We all have different taste.

So long as its all mutual a nd I've party isn't pushed into something they don't want to do then its all peachy.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I prefer a fifty-fifty approach myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all have different taste.

So long as its all mutual a nd I've party isn't pushed into something they don't want to do then its all peachy. "

Definitely. I’ve always said that. If it’s legal and everyone consents then do what the hell you like! Other people don’t have to like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer a fifty-fifty approach myself "

I can do fifty - fifty

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"We all have different taste.

So long as its all mutual a nd I've party isn't pushed into something they don't want to do then its all peachy.

Definitely. I’ve always said that. If it’s legal and everyone consents then do what the hell you like! Other people don’t have to like it. "

Id hate myself I'd if someone has agreed to something they wasn't 100% happy with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all have different taste.

So long as its all mutual a nd I've party isn't pushed into something they don't want to do then its all peachy.

Definitely. I’ve always said that. If it’s legal and everyone consents then do what the hell you like! Other people don’t have to like it.

Id hate myself I'd if someone has agreed to something they wasn't 100% happy with. "

Yeah me too. I’d hate to think someone was just doing something to please me. I almost did that once to please someone else but I didn’t in the end.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

as with a lot of things there has to be an equalibrium for it to be successful

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By *yes146Man
over a year ago

London

Flexibility is the key.Depends on the mood. Role play is fun as can play either roles.

This works for me.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Control does not play a part in our relationship and neither of us would want it to, between each other or if anybody joins us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Flexibility is the key.Depends on the mood. Role play is fun as can play either roles.

This works for me. "

Yeah again role play is a different thing I suppose. I’m shit at that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Control does not play a part in our relationship and neither of us would want it to, between each other or if anybody joins us. "

I think I may have perhaps worded it wrongly. More taking the lead I meant.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Flexibility is the key.Depends on the mood. Role play is fun as can play either roles.

This works for me.

Yeah again role play is a different thing I suppose. I’m shit at that. "
as am I

Well unless I'm asked to play an Irish husky voiced lumber jack looking dude, lol

Reckon I could pull that 1 off,

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"All the women I've been with have preferred to let me take charge

I'm just used to it now.

I think more women do like the man to take charge than don’t. Just from what I’ve read on here anyway x"

Exactly. Though, with the right woman, I'd be willing to let them take control then again, just go with the moment, as long as both having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the women I've been with have preferred to let me take charge

I'm just used to it now.

I think more women do like the man to take charge than don’t. Just from what I’ve read on here anyway x

Exactly. Though, with the right woman, I'd be willing to let them take control then again, just go with the moment, as long as both having fun."

That’s exactly right. It depends on the person for me. Totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with both.

Surely communication is vital though, a guy or woman taking charge could overstep a boundary if limits are not clearly defined.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Control does not play a part in our relationship and neither of us would want it to, between each other or if anybody joins us.

I think I may have perhaps worded it wrongly. More taking the lead I meant. "

If somebody says "Let's try this" then I'm all for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Flexibility is the key.Depends on the mood. Role play is fun as can play either roles.

This works for me.

Yeah again role play is a different thing I suppose. I’m shit at that. as am I

Well unless I'm asked to play an Irish husky voiced lumber jack looking dude, lol

Reckon I could pull that 1 off, "

Oh I say. That sounds rather sexy

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I love a strong Alpha male to subdue me and take control. If I'm worked up though, my jaguar side will spring forth and take over.

The unpredictability of power exchange is just so hot

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you "

Anyhooooo... ?

Derry Girls fan?! Lol

I quite like having a lady being in control, especially if theres a strapon, ir better still, another bi guy in the mix...

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By *hisguy84Man
over a year ago

Jersey

I tried playing sub once. It was the most awkward, cringe, and un sexual experience.

I always play dom. Do like it when they’re a little feisty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you "

I prefer to be in control.

However, with that said.... some aspect of being IN control is to rrlinquish control to your partner.

(Of course, with the ability to take back the control whenever I like or desire to)

Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control

I prefer to be in control.

However, with that said.... some aspect of being IN control is to rrlinquish control to your partner.

(Of course, with the ability to take back the control whenever I like or desire to)

Does that make sense?

"

*Relinquish- bloody phone

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I'm a switch, just being one or the other gets boring. I like being able to enjoy both roles depending on my/our mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just good to go with the flow. Variety is the spice of life!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you "

For me it can depend, someone recently was being dominating when I was in a collar and I was being bratty and would not do what she wanted

But then later with some else I was being dom

For me it just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m alpha ... sooo ... i need someone that can tame me

Interesting so what is your definition of alpha? x "

someone who takes total control in seduction x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both...its good to share and take turns

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"This university is keeping me busy this week! (I do get free cock pics for doing this though so it’s not all bad )

Anyhoooooooo.

There seems to be a lot of dominant men on here. So my question to you men is this. Who quite likes a woman taking control and who prefers to take control themselves or needs to be in control?

Thank you "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either work for me really

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Just seems to happen naturally that I tend to be the dominant one. I do like partners to be more active though - passive submissives who just want to lie there & be used are less interesting to me.

I don't think I've actually been with a dominant woman, open to it though.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I generally just go with the flow - I do tend to be attracted to men with strong personalities though, so I'm usually happy for them to take the lead. Although I will often surprise him by suddenly taking control at some point

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By *martin1001Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"You're correct. Looking around the water on here are sometimes muddied between alpha type and dom/sub, which you are correct in pointing out. X

I’m just talking about maybe tying a man to the bed (with hold ups not rope!) and maybe a blindfold and teasing the fuck out of him type thing. And vice versa. More that kind of thing. "

That I can relate to - I also like not being allowed to cum ...not in a 'slave' type scenario, but just in a 'saving it up' kind of way. It's liberating in some ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a leading lady in my life xx

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By *inkytoggerMan
over a year ago

Tarporley

I'm wanting to explore female domination.

I love the idea of someone else just taking control.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t do dominant men. Assertive, yes, but not dominant. I’m too bossy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're correct. Looking around the water on here are sometimes muddied between alpha type and dom/sub, which you are correct in pointing out. X

I’m just talking about maybe tying a man to the bed (with hold ups not rope!) and maybe a blindfold and teasing the fuck out of him type thing. And vice versa. More that kind of thing.

That I can relate to - I also like not being allowed to cum ...not in a 'slave' type scenario, but just in a 'saving it up' kind of way. It's liberating in some ways."

And fun

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport


"I’m just talking about maybe tying a man to the bed (with hold ups not rope!) and maybe a blindfold and teasing the fuck out of him type thing. And vice versa. More that kind of thing. "

That sounds perfect, yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about giving and taking and finding a mutual understanding.

That's when English(boring)ends and it's time for Biology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a woman taking control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a good give and take session, but then most times, what I want don't matter a dam, lol

I do what I'm told, "

I find some men, who are very dominant, can also be some of the most delicious switches, once with the right woman.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sorry to sit on the fence but it's both for me. I enjoy being used as a woman's plaything as much as I enjoy having a woman take it (esp from behind). I think it's better to experience the full spectrum of pleasure but everyone's wired differently.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I prefer an equal; a sparing partner. I’m not inclined to be ‘controlled’ but I will con_ede to letting him think he is for a long as I chose to do so

Likewise I have no desire to control him; I do however ramp up the tease so he is putty in my hands!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

All these questions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All these questions "

another name change! Too confusing lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer an equal; a sparing partner. I’m not inclined to be ‘controlled’ but I will con_ede to letting him think he is for a long as I chose to do so

Likewise I have no desire to control him; I do however ramp up the tease so he is putty in my hands! "

Yes. Well put!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"All these questions

another name change! Too confusing lol x"

I know I confused myself xx

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I'd probably identify as a switch. As I enjoy both. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pin me down and feed me apple crumble "

*starts baking*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely lady in charge, like the idea of her totally satisfied

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By *lueeyeseyesblueMan
over a year ago

sidcup

Switch it up more fun

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Pin me down and feed me apple crumble

*starts baking*"

I thought that said BARKING!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a woman in control of what she wants at 1st then take over to finish off

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends on the circs, depends on my mood, depends on the dynamic.

I wouldn't want to be in charge all the time, its sexier to mix it up

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I'm not telling you my answer now bend over and take a spanking not nora

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Tbh I am very much a switch!!!! I can be easyily Dom as well as very subby, I suppose it’s similar to my Voyuer vs Exhibiting streak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on how I feel and who I'm with at the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not telling you my answer now bend over and take a spanking not nora "

I know your bloody answer!

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"I'm not telling you my answer now bend over and take a spanking not nora

I know your bloody answer! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pin me down and feed me apple crumble

*starts baking*

I thought that said BARKING! "

I'm all for doggy style DC!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Pin me down and feed me apple crumble

*starts baking*

I thought that said BARKING!

I'm all for doggy style DC! "

Rokey raggy. Hehehehehe.

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

I like to take charge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to take charge"

I like a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally just go with the flow - I do tend to be attracted to men with strong personalities though, so I'm usually happy for them to take the lead. Although I will often surprise him by suddenly taking control at some point "

This

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales


"I like to take charge

I like a challenge "

You’d lose! I’m quite competitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my favourite thing is Dominant guys and seeing how far I can reverse the tables and what I can get away with. Through trust and cuteness, not in a bratty way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to take charge

I like a challenge

You’d lose! I’m quite competitive"

I never lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s sex

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales


"I like to take charge

I like a challenge

You’d lose! I’m quite competitive

I never lose. "

Then I guess it’s game on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to take charge

I like a challenge

You’d lose! I’m quite competitive

I never lose.

Then I guess it’s game on!"

I guess it is

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By *poddyMan
over a year ago

tipton

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I truly like both. But both are types of play for me not some lifestyle choice!

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

The woman but only if she genuinely enjoys it.

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By *poddyMan
over a year ago

tipton


"I think my favourite thing is Dominant guys and seeing how far I can reverse the tables and what I can get away with. Through trust and cuteness, not in a bratty way. "

This

For me personally, if some one can pull my primal side out then even better.

They might think they are being cute, smart,whitty and some times even a damn good brat will do it correctly.

Bring out the primal and the dominance is overwhelming but some of the best play sessions I've had in the past, are a power struggle and exchange between two dominants.

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By *ulu and MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Do enjoy both kinds of play.

Monkey x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Naturally submissive and can't do the whole Dom taking control thing - but can be assertive in the right moment and with the right person on an equal level and have quite the spanking hand if I do say so myself

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Pin me down and feed me apple crumble

*starts baking*

I thought that said BARKING!

I'm all for doggy style DC! "

Good answer!!!

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Has to be switch for me, I'd get bored otherwise, Being dom with a bratty sub is interesting or being told what to do not by a domme but a more controlling and assertive Woman

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