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"I’m not one to bitch about the many varieties of people on this site. Usually, the bullshit on here is water off a ducks back for me. Today, I’m struggling to process an experience with another member of the site. I had met this individual a couple of times around new year and *really* fucking liked him. He was going through some shit or whatever, and fucked off. Fast forward 7 months or so, and there he is, in my inbox, out of fucking nowhere. Turns out, he’s still allegedly going through shit and has one problem after another and he can’t possibly see me because of everything that’s on his plate. This carries on for 6 weeks. Fine. No problem. Then a week ago, after 6 weeks of messages about how terrible everything is and can’t go for a walk and a talk, he’s got a new verification? I don’t give a fuck that he had a meet. But holy shit did it hurt to be smacked in the face with “I can’t meet” actually being “I just don’t want to see you”. Idfk. Just needed to vent I guess. Wtaf like. I’m a big girl. I can take a no. I can take rejection. But like that?! Just fucking say it! Don’t act like life is too difficult when REALLY you just don’t want to see me! Ugh. I’m tired of this shit. I never moan about stuff. But this one was a stinger. Goddammit.
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" Maybe his verification could of been from someone he knew before you? An old friend or previous lover even? Just a thought. " Very unlikely. | |||
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" Maybe his verification could of been from someone he knew before you? An old friend or previous lover even? Just a thought. Very unlikely. " Is it, you said yourself he's been on here before. | |||
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" Maybe his verification could of been from someone he knew before you? An old friend or previous lover even? Just a thought. Very unlikely. Is it, you said yourself he's been on here before." His profile is around 2 years old, and the only veri he had was the one I’d given him 8 months ago. It doesn’t matter either way. It was, as someone so eloquently put it, a slap in the face. | |||
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"I’m not one to bitch about the many varieties of people on this site. Usually, the bullshit on here is water off a ducks back for me. Today, I’m struggling to process an experience with another member of the site. I had met this individual a couple of times around new year and *really* fucking liked him. He was going through some shit or whatever, and fucked off. Fast forward 7 months or so, and there he is, in my inbox, out of fucking nowhere. Turns out, he’s still allegedly going through shit and has one problem after another and he can’t possibly see me because of everything that’s on his plate. This carries on for 6 weeks. Fine. No problem. Then a week ago, after 6 weeks of messages about how terrible everything is and can’t go for a walk and a talk, he’s got a new verification? I don’t give a fuck that he had a meet. But holy shit did it hurt to be smacked in the face with “I can’t meet” actually being “I just don’t want to see you”. Idfk. Just needed to vent I guess. Wtaf like. I’m a big girl. I can take a no. I can take rejection. But like that?! Just fucking say it! Don’t act like life is too difficult when REALLY you just don’t want to see me! Ugh. I’m tired of this shit. I never moan about stuff. But this one was a stinger. Goddammit.
Thanks for reading. "His loss as u look fabulous in profile picture but if u liked him it won't be easy x | |||
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" Maybe his verification could of been from someone he knew before you? An old friend or previous lover even? Just a thought. Very unlikely. Is it, you said yourself he's been on here before. His profile is around 2 years old, and the only veri he had was the one I’d given him 8 months ago. It doesn’t matter either way. It was, as someone so eloquently put it, a slap in the face. " Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. Try rising above it as all that happens us you end up frustrated. We bet he isn't feeling that way so why should you. | |||
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"I’m not one to bitch about the many varieties of people on this site. Usually, the bullshit on here is water off a ducks back for me. Today, I’m struggling to process an experience with another member of the site. I had met this individual a couple of times around new year and *really* fucking liked him. He was going through some shit or whatever, and fucked off. Fast forward 7 months or so, and there he is, in my inbox, out of fucking nowhere. Turns out, he’s still allegedly going through shit and has one problem after another and he can’t possibly see me because of everything that’s on his plate. This carries on for 6 weeks. Fine. No problem. Then a week ago, after 6 weeks of messages about how terrible everything is and can’t go for a walk and a talk, he’s got a new verification? I don’t give a fuck that he had a meet. But holy shit did it hurt to be smacked in the face with “I can’t meet” actually being “I just don’t want to see you”. Idfk. Just needed to vent I guess. Wtaf like. I’m a big girl. I can take a no. I can take rejection. But like that?! Just fucking say it! Don’t act like life is too difficult when REALLY you just don’t want to see me! Ugh. I’m tired of this shit. I never moan about stuff. But this one was a stinger. Goddammit.
Thanks for reading. "Ah shit! Sorry to hear you've had to put up with that. I've had exactly the same, ignored then messaged giving the bullshit, and the veris....Damn. I blocked and forgot as the grovelling was embaressing. This was someone who when I got to know him arranged to meet at Townhouse, now Townhouse is an hour away from me, I drive up only to recieve a message saying he won't be there as he was stuck in France  great, left alone in a strange place, standing outside an ominous building... I thought fuck it and went inside, despite not knowing anyone... had a great time  | |||
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"I’m not one to bitch about the many varieties of people on this site. Usually, the bullshit on here is water off a ducks back for me. Today, I’m struggling to process an experience with another member of the site. I had met this individual a couple of times around new year and *really* fucking liked him. He was going through some shit or whatever, and fucked off. Fast forward 7 months or so, and there he is, in my inbox, out of fucking nowhere. Turns out, he’s still allegedly going through shit and has one problem after another and he can’t possibly see me because of everything that’s on his plate. This carries on for 6 weeks. Fine. No problem. Then a week ago, after 6 weeks of messages about how terrible everything is and can’t go for a walk and a talk, he’s got a new verification? I don’t give a fuck that he had a meet. But holy shit did it hurt to be smacked in the face with “I can’t meet” actually being “I just don’t want to see you”. Idfk. Just needed to vent I guess. Wtaf like. I’m a big girl. I can take a no. I can take rejection. But like that?! Just fucking say it! Don’t act like life is too difficult when REALLY you just don’t want to see me! Ugh. I’m tired of this shit. I never moan about stuff. But this one was a stinger. Goddammit.
Thanks for reading. "Feeling your pain. Why can't folk be honest? No one deserves to be messed around. We've found we have wasted time talking to folk who actually are fake and have no intention of doing anything other than wasting time. It's a shame loads of genuine folk. Sadly we haven't found any on here. | |||
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