FabSwingers.com forum: Chatted up

By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Under normal circumstances

How often do you get flirted with and asked out for a date ?

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in a galaxy far far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here... never

Real life... i don't have a social life so again nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirted with, quite a lot but that's probably because I'm a massive flirt. Asked on a date, never bit that's probably because I'm a cow

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

"Flirted with, quite a lot but that's probably because I'm a massive flirt. Asked on a date, never bit that's probably because I'm a cow

You bum wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirted with, quite a lot but that's probably because I'm a massive flirt. Asked on a date, never bit that's probably because I'm a cow

A cow with a good arse at least

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By *irebird567Woman
over a year ago

near by

On here, alot, but coz i have zero social life never in real life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there was that time in the late 80’s ... but that might have been a dream I once had ....

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Flirted with, quite a lot but that's probably because I'm a massive flirt. Asked on a date, never bit that's probably because I'm a cow

Pull the udder one,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the odd smile every now & again but when in work kit people avoid me lol

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

On fab, lots of empty flirts.

In real life, almost never, because I'm usually out with female mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never in real life

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

what's the difference between flirting and being chatted up?/

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Flirted with? A lot.

Asked out? Occasionally.

Flirted with and asked out by someone I actually fancy? Rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never in real life "

I can literally be there in 45 mins

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Flirted with a fair amount at work. I've been given phone numbers and asked out but it's generally from one of a group of lads who are working away.

I'd not date anyone who works away a lot again. I've seen what happens and in my personal experience it's not all about the job, it's running from facing up to unhappiness at home and instead of sorting your shit out it's easier to brush it under the carpet and have yourself a "second life" or alter ego.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Not happened for ages not that it happens very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never "
bloody hell you never getting chatted up must be somthing worng with the guys you look stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirted with, quite a lot but that's probably because I'm a massive flirt. Asked on a date, never bit that's probably because I'm a cow

You bum wow

Thank you

Back at you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do flirt ask women out

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Even friendly conversations are few and far between, no flirting, no asking out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirted with, quite a lot but that's probably because I'm a massive flirt. Asked on a date, never bit that's probably because I'm a cow

A cow with a good arse at least

Moo!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I think I got asked once on a night out.... But to be fair he could have been asking for directions to the moon he was that d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never in real life "

Hey sexy, do you come here often?

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"I think I got asked once on a night out.... But to be fair he could have been asking for directions to the moon he was that d*unk

Bless him for trying though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirted with, quite a lot but that's probably because I'm a massive flirt. Asked on a date, never bit that's probably because I'm a cow

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Moo moo lol

I wouldn't go that far honey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

Well, some flirting now and again..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never in real life

Hey sexy, do you come here often?

I’d come a whole more if you were here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In RL I haven't flirted or asked anyone out on a date for over ten years. Just haven't been looking for it. Before that I mainly flirted and see what would happen rather than explicilty ask out.

On Fab I'll flirt on the forum and, sometimes, send a flirty message. Haven't been asked out per se because of COVID but there may be a few possibilities for the future. Once again seeing what happens and where things go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never in real life

Hey sexy, do you come here often?

I’d come a whole more if you were here

*goes to find her wand and the next train*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirted with, quite a lot but that's probably because I'm a massive flirt. Asked on a date, never bit that's probably because I'm a cow

Moo moo lol

I wouldn't go that far honey lol"

You haven't seen nothing yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirted with, quite a lot but that's probably because I'm a massive flirt. Asked on a date, never bit that's probably because I'm a cow

Say, how you doin'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Under normal circumstances

How often do you get flirted with and asked out for a date ?

Now and again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never in real life

Hey sexy, do you come here often?

I’d come a whole more if you were here

*goes to find her wand and the next train* "

Mmmm goes to choose sexy outfit and toys at the ready......

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Under normal circumstances

How often do you get flirted with and asked out for a date ?

Now and again...

That's great, maybe the English guys need to up their game

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

"Under normal circumstances

How often do you get flirted with and asked out for a date ?

Probably around once every couple of months, it’s so flattering to be asked for your number by a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outside of fab....never

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Outside of fab I normally in jeans and football top unless I am in the gym

People are shocked when they see me in other clothes

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

How long is a piece of string

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Can honestly say while I've been out and about I don't think it's ever happened

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Used to have a good crack in my bar management days.. these days I don’t go out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Under normal circumstances

How often do you get flirted with and asked out for a date ?

Last time this happened was about 4 years ago. Was on a train, and this heavy chested lady just started to chat to me ....we decided to meet up.....she didn't turn up !!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Hardly ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Used to have a good crack in my bar management days.. these days I don’t go out!! "

I worked behind a bar when I was 19/20 and get flirted with quite a bit from the women

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Never

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

every time i go out to a pub or club i get chatted up by someone who wants to get into my knickers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The last time was on holiday a couple of years ago, we both git chatted up at the same time

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

The occasional flirt but if I go out it's with freinds so I'm not actually looking to meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot. Due to my job. But then again us hairdressers are massive flirts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirted with at work a fair amount.

Asked out never.

Sad times

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

which chat up lines actually work?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Sometimes it gets boring when people just stare or constantly hitting on you for your looks, makes me loose confidence in anyone having genuine intentions so I often don't respond to flirting.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

20 years ago, in A&E waiting room, I was waiting with my friend who had had a bad fall and a guy was flirting with me and asked me out but he was bleeding from the head and possibly had concussion, but me and my ego are still counting it

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Flirted with - a lot. Probably because I'm flirty.

Asked out - pre-covid, fairly often.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

No idea about flirted with, I'm hopeless at picking up signals. Asked out on dates? Never x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot more before tinder, bumble etc. I think people my age have forgotten how to approach each other in real life

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Rarely

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Flirted with, no idea as I'm terrible at reading people.

Asked out, a few times

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Flirted with, no idea at all.

It's hard to tell when somebody is actually flirting or if they are just being nice because so many people are fairly (innocently) flirty when being nice in general.

While the back and forth flirty dance is fun, I just prefer an upfront "hey I like you" mixed in with flirty over the subtle kind any day.

As for being asked out. Very very very very rare.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Been asked out a couple of times many years ago. Mostly women will drop a few hints if they want a date with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once wen I was 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hardly ever

not about the quantity but the quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never they just want me for my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

A fair bit when I had a social life. Now I very rarely go out and if I do my Young bambino’s are with me and I’d be mortified because my eldest would bang on about it to everyone!

Last time was a few years back by the parcel delivery guy, but I think he wanted a shag more than romancing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often but act like it is the first time Everytime !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far more than on here. And a few awkward work encounters after they declared feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 6 monthlyish. Usually through work so it depends on the flow of new people around or connected with my community role.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Under normal circumstances

How often do you get flirted with and asked out for a date ?

Never

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

As a guy, its got to be over 20 years ago.

As Sophie, most times I go out but never asked out on a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often, but through work.

When I go out, never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely go out but when I do I pretty much guaranteed to get hit on and flirted with

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Very rarely these days but I have watched Mr get chatted up a few times and he seems completely oblivious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Tons of flirting...but asked out only in dreams lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirted with, no idea at all.

It's hard to tell when somebody is actually flirting or if they are just being nice because so many people are fairly (innocently) flirty when being nice in general.

While the back and forth flirty dance is fun, I just prefer an upfront "hey I like you" mixed in with flirty over the subtle kind any day.

As for being asked out. Very very very very rare. "

You wanna go out with me

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

No idea, as a bloke I am oblivious to being chatted up and believe whole heartedly that women are genuinely fascinated by my love of train numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be a cow but you’re absolutely bang in’

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