FabSwingers.com forum: Not getting anywhere?

By *ee4fun202 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Love to hear a few tips on what's going wrong or is this the normal for a while ..

After a few messages my texts are being unopened

Seems like it's going well and then nothing ..

I need a connection with a person before anything could happen even a coffee meet ..

Amy help to add to my profile maybey pics ?

Always send a face pic I'm the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better pictures would be a start imo.

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By *ee4fun202 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Better pictures would be a start imo."

Such as ?

I don't want my face on my profile but I'd send it in private

Never been good at taking a picture

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ask yourself this - what is it about your profile that makes you stand out from thousands of other guys profiles on here? If the answer is nothing, then change it so it does.

Also, would someone I'm looking to potentially meet appreciate seeing pics of me having sex with another person, or would they find that a turn off? Again depending on your answer make changes.

If you're stuck for ideas for what kind of pics work, take a look round at other guys that have veris, get ideas from their pics - doesn't have to be a face or anything recognisable. Then learn how to use the timer on your phone camera and get creative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is like school. The girls are only interested in the top boys. We are the inbetweeners. Harmless but hopeless. Below us are the nutters calling women lesbians because they won't reply to the billion messages they've sent asking them if they 'wanna fuck?'. At the bottom are the weirdos wanking into their mothers knickers. Embrace your position and you will be set free.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Honestly? Unless it’s a couples profile most women don’t like seeing a photo of a single fella with his cock within a mile of another woman. Those pics tend to appeal more to men.

So maybe put pics of you (face pic not needed) clothed or not.

And just have patience. Site is quieter at the moment I find due to Covid.

But to get anywhere on here you have to have good humour, patience and not be in any immediate hurry for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly? Unless it’s a couples profile most women don’t like seeing a photo of a single fella with his cock within a mile of another woman. Those pics tend to appeal more to men.

So maybe put pics of you (face pic not needed) clothed or not.

And just have patience. Site is quieter at the moment I find due to Covid.

But to get anywhere on here you have to have good humour, patience and not be in any immediate hurry for sex.

You always have to have patience then you might get lucky

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Don't depend on private messages alone.

Use the forums to find friends.

Let people get to know you and before you know it - you'll find the woman of your dreams.

She'll live miles away, but you'll find her.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

First up.... we are still in a pandemic unless you've been living 3rd Rock from the sun for the last 6 months, so there are plenty of people who aren't really wanting to connect that much at the moment. What's the point in getting all hyped chatting and making plans to meet when nobody even knows when it will be semi responsible to?

A lot of people are financially on their arses, so even when it may be deemed safe to, they're gonna struggle to subsidise travel or hotel for example, or possibly new clothes or haircut etc. Pretty hard to feel sexy when your mop is out of control and you're living in pyjamas.

Covid has had, and is still having a major impact on lives. Emotions, frustrations and patience is also fraying for many people.

As for the rest of it. I wouldn’t look twice at someone who's photos show them what looks like barebacking to me. Huge red flag for me personally and cunt dryer-upper.

Loads will be fine with it so if it's your thing then you'll connect with those who are into that, whichever the case it will take time and likely plenty of it.

Life isn't normal and won't be for fucking ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're on the road to nowhere.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"We're on the road to nowhere."

Burning down the house I reckon Jim

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"First up.... we are still in a pandemic unless you've been living 3rd Rock from the sun for the last 6 months, so there are plenty of people who aren't really wanting to connect that much at the moment. What's the point in getting all hyped chatting and making plans to meet when nobody even knows when it will be semi responsible to?

Covid has had, and is still having a major impact on lives. Emotions, frustrations and patience is also fraying for many people.

As for the rest of it. I wouldn’t look twice at someone who's photos show them what looks like barebacking to me. Huge red flag for me personally and cunt dryer-upper.

Loads will be fine with it so if it's your thing then you'll connect with those who are into that, whichever the case it will take time and likely plenty of it.

Life isn't normal and won't be for fucking ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty hard to feel sexy when your mop is out of control and you're living in pyjamas.

I like wild hair and pyjamas

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Gemini Man hit the nail on the head, saying something I consistently say on profile advice. Why write the same shit that other guys write, I’ve seen a profile text that was a very funny poem, he had verifications, I saw another that had a story, he had verifications. I could go on with other very imaginative profile text I’ve seen over the years.

The other day I commented on a profile advice thread, the guy had created wonderful imaginative photos but the text bland usual stuff written elsewhere.

You can have the greatest text since Shakespeare on your profile and still not get meets, but at least you’ll stand out and eventually someone is going to be impressed that you’re saying something different.

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