FabSwingers.com forum: So you meet for a social

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tic tacs man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of your teeth fell off in her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You didn’t tit her up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have fucked you just to make sure I didn't want to see you again

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

She decided she didn’t want to see you.

Anything else and you‘re probably overthinking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you wearing that turkey hat ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You didn’t tit her up? "

That made me

Mickey Flanagan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you weren't that great a kisser. The snogging before you parted being her final test of you. I very much doubt it but whatever it was, fuck it, it wasn't meant to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The angle of your turkey hat wasn’t jaunty enough maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was the turkey hat

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Did you ask her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She stole your wallet whilst you were distracted by all the snogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you ask her?"

Why ask her directly, when you can ask a bunch of strangers on the internet who weren’t there and can only make wild guesses ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You didn’t tit her up?

That made me

Mickey Flanagan!"

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’d rather be told no after a snog than sex... silver linings...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously. "

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s isolating

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship"

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

Yeah exactly, it's not nice, at least have the decency to say.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

She got too d*unk. Went with the flow. Done some things she regretted when she woke up. Doesn't want to take it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe that's all she wanted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

They never do, it’s easier for them to bottle it and ignore you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d rather be told no after a snog than sex... silver linings...

This is very, very true!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

In the nicest possible way maybe she just didn’t want to.. for whatever reason. As is everyone’s right.. I haven’t shagged everyone I’ve kissed. It was a social.. it ended there. Sometimes that’s just it. There’s no great secret, maybe she just didn’t want sex.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Did you ask her?

Why ask her directly, when you can ask a bunch of strangers on the internet who weren’t there and can only make wild guesses ?!"

That's fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

That is not what I’m getting at. In fact I probably posted because I just wanted a rant. I wasn’t expecting a kiss for starters. At one point, it just felt right so I initiated one and then as the night carried on so did she. And even at the end of the night she wanted one. And she was even talking about meeting up, so why be like..., let me lead you into this way of thinking to then fuck you off?

Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

Why do you get to decide whether she has a good reason or not?

Like all things on Fab, take it as an "I'm not interested" for whatever her personal reasons are and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

Why do you get to decide whether she has a good reason or not?

Like all things on Fab, take it as an "I'm not interested" for whatever her personal reasons are and move on."

Never met her through fab, but fair point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously. "

It could be anything.

She may idealising you in her fantasies, maybe it was the stress, or just she wanted to fuck you just once and bye.

Dont take it too personally. It happens

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next.

Do you watch friends?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next.

Do you watch friends?"

I have done yeah?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next.

Do you watch friends?

I have done yeah?"

There’s an episode when chandler says ‘I’ll call you’ every time he sees Janice..some humans are just like that. Well intentioned but just not meant to be.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I thought you were taking the pee.

I wish you happier times x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought you were taking the pee.

I wish you happier times x

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens and we all interpret actions differently. I'm shit at everything.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Shit happens and we all interpret actions differently. I'm shit at everything. "
m

That’s why people communicate. It’s fairly simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmmmm. Im shit at that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously. "

It's not nice O P especially when you thought that you both hit it off,I'd rant to if I got no explanation to way,we live&learn though

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

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she has said she doesnt want to see you again. That isn't leading you on. I've met guys at a club.. had sex and once was enough. I had no intention of repeating the experience so I tell them. Would you rather she kept saying she was busy and making excuses not to see you again?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

she has said she doesnt want to see you again. That isn't leading you on. I've met guys at a club.. had sex and once was enough. I had no intention of repeating the experience so I tell them. Would you rather she kept saying she was busy and making excuses not to see you again?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tic tacs man

I'm a Smint man.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Maybe she’s just a serial dater?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe she’s just a serial dater? "

Who knows ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens even to the best stallion

Buy a ford fiesta to forget about her

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Who cares it's fab.

Maybe you didn't do anything wrong.

Maybe she thought she liked you a bit too much, but didn't want the hurt of catching feelings for a fabster or isn't in the place to explore that.

I know I've certainly pulled away from people I've saw myself falling for on here over the years.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe the next day she met someone she liked more than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You didn’t tit her up?

That made me

Mickey Flanagan!"

The prelude to the obligatory visit to Wimpys for a rum bubba and on to fingering.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

Yeah exactly, it's not nice, at least have the decency to say.

You met her once, she doesn’t owe you an explanation. Often people might give a reason, but it isn’t necessarily THE reason so you’ll never know really. And as she seems to have been straight with you about not wanting to meet again I don’t see how this is leading you on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You didn’t tit her up?

That made me

Mickey Flanagan!"

Or spent too long titting her up OVER the jumper.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

She’s a Russian spy and was trying to infiltrate the UK and thought you were 008.

Obviously at some point you told her what you did for a living. She realised she’d got the wrong man. Dammit.

Now in order to protect herself (and you) she has to get rid of you. So she does the kissing thing to shut you up (walls have ears) and leaves you wanting more.

Only now she’s flying over Moscow and is incommunicado.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Perhaps your kissing didn't do it for her - I've turned down further meets with guys in the past because, even though I found them physically attractive and we got on well, their kissing didn't give me fanny flutters. A good kiss is important to me, all other attraction wanes if their kiss doesn't make me want to rip their clothes off.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Been there too. Don't over analyse.

Move on

plenty more fun to be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Perhaps your kissing didn't do it for her - I've turned down further meets with guys in the past because, even though I found them physically attractive and we got on well, their kissing didn't give me fanny flutters. A good kiss is important to me, all other attraction wanes if their kiss doesn't make me want to rip their clothes off. "

Definitely this! If a kiss is rubbish then it ain’t going further! Not saying your kisses are rubbish OP but women are fickle creatures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd have fucked you just to make sure I didn't want to see you again

This comment wins ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously. "

You didn't stop sucking her face off long enough for her to tell you. You guys are stronger than you look you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She wanted a snog (right here, right now) that minute and yours were the closest pair of lips.

She got what she wanted.

She used you purely as a snogging machine and forgot to see you as a person with feelings. Now you're sullied goods. A bit of meat that's been left out of the fridge for too long.

Hope that thought makes you feel better OP. Have a great day

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

She got what she wanted. Her ego satisfying. Or some other reason that you may not be aware of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

Tbh I’m done. Fuck it. Next.

Do you watch friends?

I have done yeah?

There’s an episode when chandler says ‘I’ll call you’ every time he sees Janice..some humans are just like that. Well intentioned but just not meant to be. "

Great example!

Also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She’s a Russian spy and was trying to infiltrate the UK and thought you were 008.

Obviously at some point you told her what you did for a living. She realised she’d got the wrong man. Dammit.

Now in order to protect herself (and you) she has to get rid of you. So she does the kissing thing to shut you up (walls have ears) and leaves you wanting more.

Only now she’s flying over Moscow and is incommunicado.

Definitely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have speaking to the other person for ages, you go out for drinks. Get on like a house on fire and snog each other’s face off most of the night. And also when you leave each other.

Yet she doesn’t want to see you again?

What went wrong?

In fact fuck it. Yeah it wasn’t right from the start obviously.

It's horrible isn't it

Happened to me too and it turned out he was in a relationship

I’d rather her come out with a good reason than lead me on all night.

At least say what it is

I've experienced this and always thought I did something wrong,

However I have met people just for chat and coffee (haven't led on) but we know before we leave generally if its right.

I tend to leave earlier if it doesn't feel right.

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