FabSwingers.com forum: Negativity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will admit I am one of the first ones that can sometimes be very negative and I need to snap out of it and fast. Sometimes in life you are on a high sometimes in life you're on a low you just got a pick up the pieces and just move on to the next day life's too short

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes indeed.

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

We all have put negative moments on life OP - those times when we are down, or feel the world is against us, it's natural, but it's how you deal with that negativity and what you allow it to appear as that is the key.

As a generally positive person I find abject negativity in others difficult to deal with at times and know I don't always handle it well, but I also appreciate that for some various factors including life experience have shaped them that way, so try to be empathetic when I can - but it depends how it's expressed and how open others are to dealing with it.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will admit I am one of the first ones that can sometimes be very negative and I need to snap out of it and fast. Sometimes in life you are on a high sometimes in life you're on a low you just got a pick up the pieces and just move on to the next day life's too short

So true.. Dont let one bad day escalate. So easy to get into a rut..

Chin up OP

By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I think we all suffer from negativity/depression/blue days. But the positive of that is they help you see how the good days are and you can learn to avoid those things that bring you down.