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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you get chatting to someone, do you share your real first name?

Do you use an initial or an alias? Or does it depend on the person?

Have you ever forgotten to even give out your name?

I’ve been chatting to someone on and off for the last 6 months or so, and tonight we both realised we didn’t know each others names

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Is it not monkeynut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always give my neighbor name

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I always give my neighbor name "

What your name is Titus Jones!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always give my neighbor name "

Good idea.lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I always give my neighbor name "

I always give your name!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always give my neighbor name "

My neighbours name is Derek. Not sure I can pull that off

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

No they wouldn’t know how to say it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No real name unless we’ve met and plan on meeting again.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I always give my neighbor name "

I always use your name

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm Spartacus

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

For some reason i thought it was a good idea for my username to be my name, year of birth and where i live, for good or bad it makes conversations 3 questions shorter, i have thought about changing to something wittier but then theres the issue of getting verified again which is even harder nowadays

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Leroy Jenkins

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Leroy Jenkins "

Sorry my name is Jeff..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always give my neighbor name "

I don't think Marjorie Ellis would work for me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason i thought it was a good idea for my username to be my name, year of birth and where i live, for good or bad it makes conversations 3 questions shorter, i have thought about changing to something wittier but then theres the issue of getting verified again which is even harder nowadays"

You can change your user name anytime. Think it’s up to 4 times a year. Doesn’t affect your fab profile/veris x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm noodle if not kinkynoodles depends on who I'm meeting really

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Dave

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My real name gets revealed to those i plan to meet and to those i meet at socials and clubs.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We start with our “fab names” but then Mrs gets excited during dinky Dippy time and should my real name as she cums

Bubble burst

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I don't share my real name until we're meeting or I'm very confident in the individual. My first name is pretty unusual so easy to identify me. If anyone found out my surname, then I believe I'm the only person in the world with that name, so..... S has a bog standard first name but his surname is extremely unusual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a lot OP, I had this the other day when I realised no didn't know someones name I'd been speaking with for best part of a year....

I'm Steve if I've forgotten to tell anyone....

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"For some reason i thought it was a good idea for my username to be my name, year of birth and where i live, for good or bad it makes conversations 3 questions shorter, i have thought about changing to something wittier but then theres the issue of getting verified again which is even harder nowadays

You can change your user name anytime. Think it’s up to 4 times a year. Doesn’t affect your fab profile/veris x"

Thanks Nora, i didn't know that, shows how much i've learnt in 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they ask other wise it’s Leon, I like the film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason i thought it was a good idea for my username to be my name, year of birth and where i live, for good or bad it makes conversations 3 questions shorter, i have thought about changing to something wittier but then theres the issue of getting verified again which is even harder nowadays"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some reason i thought it was a good idea for my username to be my name, year of birth and where i live, for good or bad it makes conversations 3 questions shorter, i have thought about changing to something wittier but then theres the issue of getting verified again which is even harder nowadays

You can change your user name anytime. Think it’s up to 4 times a year. Doesn’t affect your fab profile/veris x

Thanks Nora, i didn't know that, shows how much i've learnt in 3 years"

Lol. Go to “account” “Change username”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I'm Steve if I've forgotten to tell anyone.... "

Me too, apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my nickname from the real world and then once we meet I always give out my real name if they are interested to know

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"No real name unless we’ve met and plan on meeting again. "

You told me your name was Trevor!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No real name unless we’ve met and plan on meeting again.

You told me your name was Trevor!! "

that’s next door!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm Steve if I've forgotten to tell anyone....

Me too, apparently "

You're me?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm Trevor

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Everyone I know has been told my real name at some point.. largely after drinks so doubt many remember anyway! I’ve no issue with being called either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always give my neighbor name

My neighbours name is Derek. Not sure I can pull that off "
ask him. He might want pulling off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Trevor "

Thought you were Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Trevor

Thought you were Dave "

If I have a boy I’m gonna name him Trevor. After Dave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I'm Steve if I've forgotten to tell anyone....

Me too, apparently

You're me? "

Yes, yes I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shame true gain

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By *amesandEveCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury

[Removed by poster at 20/08/20 20:38:45]

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

My real name is a closely guarded secret. Except if I tell people.

However, I have shared one of my weird middle names with the forum....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm Steve if I've forgotten to tell anyone....

Me too, apparently

You're me?

Yes, yes I am."

Steve? Can I see my vag please?

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By *amesandEveCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury


"I don't share my real name until we're meeting or I'm very confident in the individual. My first name is pretty unusual so easy to identify me. If anyone found out my surname, then I believe I'm the only person in the world with that name, so..... S has a bog standard first name but his surname is extremely unusual. "

Yes we are similar, both our real names are quite unique so we don’t share until we meet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm terrible at names so even when I've shared names I've generally forgotten them again.

My bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always give my neighbor name "

Pretty sure i remember your name.. but was yearssss ago and you could have lied lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Names don't matter to me. My real name's on my profile if anyone cares to look. I'm crap with names anyway so I'm not the type to call out a guy's name in the throes of passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive no issues with people knowing my 1st name..

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"For some reason i thought it was a good idea for my username to be my name, year of birth and where i live, for good or bad it makes conversations 3 questions shorter, i have thought about changing to something wittier but then theres the issue of getting verified again which is even harder nowadays

You can change your user name anytime. Think it’s up to 4 times a year. Doesn’t affect your fab profile/veris x

Thanks Nora, i didn't know that, shows how much i've learnt in 3 years

Lol. Go to “account” “Change username”"

Wow thats easy! Now for the hard job of thinking of a new username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Trevor

Thought you were Dave

If I have a boy I’m gonna name him Trevor. After Dave "

Do you have room for 2 boys in that pretty frame of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My real name is a closely guarded secret. Except if I tell people.

However, I have shared one of my weird middle names with the forum.... "

I must have missed that.

Do tell

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Years ago when we had the telephone book (remember them ). I was the only one with my surname in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like my real name so I use whatever I feel is a good fit for me that day.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

People just call me Jo - it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People just call me Jo - it works "

Same. Everyone at the MLS just called me Nora. In fact even people who know my name call me Nora!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After awhile il give my real name

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm Richard, it's just a good job ma surname's not Head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Richard, it's just a good job ma surname's not Head "

Or StuckInsideAGoatsArse

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

No - I wait a bit & even then spell them differently

J x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"My real name is a closely guarded secret. Except if I tell people.

However, I have shared one of my weird middle names with the forum....

I must have missed that.

Do tell "

It suits me so well..... Virtue

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I always give my real first name to people I'm meeting...only 3 people on here know my surname though.

A surprisingly high number of people think that Lily White is my actual name

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We actually have our real names on our profile, as it's just easier that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always give my real first name to people I'm meeting...only 3 people on here know my surname though.

A surprisingly high number of people think that Lily White is my actual name "

I still always call you Lily! x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"I always give my real first name to people I'm meeting...only 3 people on here know my surname though.

A surprisingly high number of people think that Lily White is my actual name

I still always call you Lily! x"

I actually quite like Lily as a name

My old profile name was Theresa Green....not many people got the joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always give my real first name to people I'm meeting...only 3 people on here know my surname though.

A surprisingly high number of people think that Lily White is my actual name

I still always call you Lily! x

I actually quite like Lily as a name

My old profile name was Theresa Green....not many people got the joke "

Really? You surprise me

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

If asked always give my real name, never use to years ago but know I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Brian, and so is my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often just forget unless they introduce themselves specifically.

I've been mid sex and stopped to ask their name before One made me guess because I apparently knew at some point. I got it wrong. It's not like he was gonna up and leave though is it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My name is common as muck, so I share in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name's so common for people my age that I use it on here without having to worry. I don't ever give my last name though unless I've met someone a few times and consider them a friend - I don't even have my last name on my Facebook.

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I use my middle name.

So technically I'm not lying!

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By *exy Two-Shoes40Man
over a year ago

bolton

Judge Willie Stroker

B. J. Cobbledick

Chubby Cox

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Those I've chatted to for a while get my real first name - those I'm meeting get my real full name so they can log it for their own security if they feel they need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leroy Jenkins "

Alright chums, lets do this!....LEEROOOOOOYYYY Jeeeenkkkinnnsssss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines not hard to guess lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Those I've chatted to for a while get my real first name - those I'm meeting get my real full name so they can log it for their own security if they feel they need to"

But your real full name could be a fake real full name...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My name's so common for people my age that I use it on here without having to worry. I don't ever give my last name though unless I've met someone a few times and consider them a friend - I don't even have my last name on my Facebook."

No I don’t have my last name on my Facebook either.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Those I've chatted to for a while get my real first name - those I'm meeting get my real full name so they can log it for their own security if they feel they need to

But your real full name could be a fake real full name...

"

It could but it's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont actually ever use my real name with anyone..its complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Spartacus"

No, I'm Spartacus.

Actually, I'm Spartacus Brian Kirk so just tell people to call me Bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a hyphenated name so I give the second part. A handful know the full name x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've give my name out to a few people. Those that was looking for me!!!! Theres a clue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I'm Steve if I've forgotten to tell anyone....

Me too, apparently

You're me?

Yes, yes I am.

Steve? Can I see my vag please? "

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"When you get chatting to someone, do you share your real first name?

Do you use an initial or an alias? Or does it depend on the person?

Have you ever forgotten to even give out your name?

We use our initials

I’ve been chatting to someone on and off for the last 6 months or so, and tonight we both realised we didn’t know each others names "

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

im brian and so is my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My real name is a closely guarded secret. Except if I tell people.

However, I have shared one of my weird middle names with the forum....

I must have missed that.

Do tell

It suits me so well..... Virtue "

sounds cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't tell anyone my name unless we were meeting after chatting for a while.

It's very unusual and if you search it on Google it brings up too much personal information and links to my Instagram, Twitter and blogs, articles from when I was in the paper (not a murderer I promise ) and location so nope, unless I completely trust you, you're never going to know.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"Happens a lot OP, I had this the other day when I realised no didn't know someones name I'd been speaking with for best part of a year....

I'm Steve if I've forgotten to tell anyone.... "

Hi Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nippy I never would have thought of you as a Steve

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We give out our first names to people we have chatted with for a while but not our surnames. We never give out the exact location of where we live either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never give out my real name until I'm actually in front of the person. Up until that point, I'm Sparkles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have the Mr saved in my phone under his Fab alias. Reminds me of how we met & why i still find him sexy & exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the odd one or 2 know my name but I'm guessing it's long forgotten.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We tell people our real names when we actually meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my fab name, Seren. No need for knowing my real name, and I'm not fussed if I don't know theirs either.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Only the odd one or 2 know my name but I'm guessing it's long forgotten. "

I won’t forget Bernard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only the odd one or 2 know my name but I'm guessing it's long forgotten.

I won’t forget Bernard."

I didn't think you would Avril

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Only the odd one or 2 know my name but I'm guessing it's long forgotten.

I won’t forget Bernard.

I didn't think you would Avril"

Avril?!! Jesus...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only the odd one or 2 know my name but I'm guessing it's long forgotten.

I won’t forget Bernard.

I didn't think you would Avril

I know, as soon as I clicked post I thought what a knob. It is random though.

Avril?!! Jesus... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give my real name if im having a conversation with someone, im comfortable giving my first name. Dont think many will know my surname unless i want them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i think we are going to meet i will reveal my name, otherwise its Tiger

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"When you get chatting to someone, do you share your real first name?

Do you use an initial or an alias? Or does it depend on the person?

Have you ever forgotten to even give out your name?

I’ve been chatting to someone on and off for the last 6 months or so, and tonight we both realised we didn’t know each others names "

My real name.

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