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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Feel free to vent, or look for advice, or offer help and advice.

I'm so frustrated with work, so much drama going on that is extremely unprofessional and very serious but little has been done. So the work team is now having to take it to HR! Which is a whole other stressful on its own!

Venting over!

And breath...

The floor is now open for anyone else to vent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll grow back fella....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m horny.

Vent over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m horny.

Vent over "

You can get cream for skin conditions....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to go shooting and my favourite shotty is in for a stock repair..... I don't want to use any others so I'm going to just sit and cry instead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a new sofa and armchair delivered. The armchair is the wrong colour. Now I have to wait another 12 weeks for a replacement.

Every time I look at the thing it gives me the rage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a shitty conference call with ex employer, the whole thing is very tiring, and really contemplating if it's all really worth it.

Rant over

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm being pulled in too many different directions.

So head in sand. Ostrich. On Fab

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I feel your pain OP!

Gotta work as a team or it creates discontent amongst the ranks! I get that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a client hang up on me half way through a discussion about a job, he was completely wrong and new it, so he hangs up, i really hate this being done, i would rather argue it out and sort things out, hate people who hang up in me, really pisses me off

and breath, 1,2,3,4,5......

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I’m horny with no chance of sex or a wank right now. Phew I’m glad that’s off my chest

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I feel like I'm wasting my time sitting in bed. How come a few stitches mean I have to do absolutely nothing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarrrrrrhhh

i think couples should be banned from talking about all the great sex they are getting

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"Rarrrrrrhhh

i think couples should be banned from talking about all the great sex they are getting "

Its a front! They are not really having any, they just brag about it to hide their pain if being in a relationship.

That guy over there told me.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Having a nightmare at work aswell and so confused with my 'love' life. Disappearing into the wilderness forever sounds perfect right now!!

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"Having a nightmare at work aswell and so confused with my 'love' life. Disappearing into the wilderness forever sounds perfect right now!! "

Can I come too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have a vent over my frustration at Virgin Media's customer service, over two hours of chat to try and seal a better deal and nothing transpired but shit, shit and more shit customer service. Aaaargh!!

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Honestly I'm just fed up of life right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a new sofa and armchair delivered. The armchair is the wrong colour. Now I have to wait another 12 weeks for a replacement.

Every time I look at the thing it gives me the rage."

.. Get a throw over too match the colour scheme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a new sofa and armchair delivered. The armchair is the wrong colour. Now I have to wait another 12 weeks for a replacement.

Every time I look at the thing it gives me the rage... Get a throw over too match the colour scheme. "

I have put a throw on it, but I see the tan coloured leather poking out at the corners... and even covered, I KNOW it’s the wrong colour

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Would love a rendezvous but I don’t think that’s gonna happen any time soon. But hey at least it’s sunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sighs

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I'll have a vent over my frustration at Virgin Media's customer service, over two hours of chat to try and seal a better deal and nothing transpired but shit, shit and more shit customer service. Aaaargh!! "

Oh god , don't start me on this one!

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Self pity is no aphrodisiac.. Grow a pair

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

today more than any other day I need to vent.... but im not going to air my 'dirty laundry' in public

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"today more than any other day I need to vent.... but im not going to air my 'dirty laundry' in public "

Please tell me you feel a little better

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Feel free to vent, or look for advice, or offer help and advice.

I'm so frustrated with work, so much drama going on that is extremely unprofessional and very serious but little has been done. So the work team is now having to take it to HR! Which is a whole other stressful on its own!

Venting over!

And breath...

The floor is now open for anyone else to vent. "

Get a grip OP

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south


"today more than any other day I need to vent.... but im not going to air my 'dirty laundry' in public

Please tell me you feel a little better "

you have certainly helped me feel better tonight

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Feel free to vent, or look for advice, or offer help and advice.

I'm so frustrated with work, so much drama going on that is extremely unprofessional and very serious but little has been done. So the work team is now having to take it to HR! Which is a whole other stressful on its own!

Venting over!

And breath...

The floor is now open for anyone else to vent.

Get a grip OP

"

Whats your problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to vent at those who say get a grip, man up or anything else along those lines when others mention themselves being stressed or having anxiety etc.

Not constructive and a generally poor attitude to those who are suffering, particularly men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel free to vent, or look for advice, or offer help and advice.

I'm so frustrated with work, so much drama going on that is extremely unprofessional and very serious but little has been done. So the work team is now having to take it to HR! Which is a whole other stressful on its own!

Venting over!

And breath...

The floor is now open for anyone else to vent. "

You have my sympathy. Same is happening at my place, people are too immature for the role they have been given the behaviour witnessed would not be out of place in a schoolyard.

Hope you get it sorted

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Sometimes just man up...

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"I'm going to vent at those who say get a grip, man up or anything else along those lines when others mention themselves being stressed or having anxiety etc.

Not constructive and a generally poor attitude to those who are suffering, particularly men."

Couldn't agree more! So often men are told to 'man up' when often a sympathetic listening ear is all that is needed to help ease anxiety!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Sometimes just man up...

"

You know I can't decide if you are like that for attention or because you haven't been given help when you have struggled.

Are you going to say man up to someone full of anxiety and suffering having suicidal thoughts?

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Sometimes just man up...

You know I can't decide if you are like that for attention or because you haven't been given help when you have struggled.

Are you going to say man up to someone full of anxiety and suffering having suicidal thoughts? "

Who mentioned suicidal thoughts..

You not the OP..

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Sometimes just man up...

You know I can't decide if you are like that for attention or because you haven't been given help when you have struggled.

Are you going to say man up to someone full of anxiety and suffering having suicidal thoughts?

Who mentioned suicidal thoughts..

You not the OP..

"

Exactly! And neither are you! So how do you know if someone isn't suffering more than they say and rather than just letting someone have their two second vent to relieve pressure you just give that outdated and insensative response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes just man up...

"

There in lies the problem when it comes to men and their mental health, it is attitudes such as this which stop men accessing help, because society believes that they should 'man up'

No they shouldn't, they should ne able to explore their feelings open and honestly....

Nobody should suffer alone all because someone said they should 'man up'

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By *aver999Couple
over a year ago

East Mids


"I'll have a vent over my frustration at Virgin Media's customer service, over two hours of chat to try and seal a better deal and nothing transpired but shit, shit and more shit customer service. Aaaargh!! "

It never changes they are always shit, show them the door we did a year ago. Got better service and half the cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whooosaahhh !

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Sometimes just man up...

You know I can't decide if you are like that for attention or because you haven't been given help when you have struggled.

Are you going to say man up to someone full of anxiety and suffering having suicidal thoughts?

Who mentioned suicidal thoughts..

You not the OP..

Exactly! And neither are you! So how do you know if someone isn't suffering more than they say and rather than just letting someone have their two second vent to relieve pressure you just give that outdated and insensative response. "

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Sometimes just man up...

There in lies the problem when it comes to men and their mental health, it is attitudes such as this which stop men accessing help, because society believes that they should 'man up'

No they shouldn't, they should ne able to explore their feelings open and honestly....

Nobody should suffer alone all because someone said they should 'man up'"

You definitely explained that better than I did so thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes just man up...

There in lies the problem when it comes to men and their mental health, it is attitudes such as this which stop men accessing help, because society believes that they should 'man up'

No they shouldn't, they should ne able to explore their feelings open and honestly....

Nobody should suffer alone all because someone said they should 'man up'

You definitely explained that better than I did so thank you

"

No lovely, you explained it succinctly

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

So the consensus is that the OP is suicidal...

Ask him not me

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"So the consensus is that the OP is suicidal...

Ask him not me "

Bo the consensus is that it's ok for everyone to vent and let out their feelings without being treated like a it's not 'manly'

My question is why did you aim your barb just at the OP and not everyone else that commented on the post venting?

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

has he gone now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the consensus is that the OP is suicidal...

Ask him not me "

Back off Tom, there's a good lad.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"So the consensus is that the OP is suicidal...

Ask him not me "

How about you just walk on by and don't comment on threads that seem to bug you? The OP and everyone else who has commented about having a crappy day doesn't need to be told their feelings aren't important and that's just what you're doing.

This is one of the things that is so wrong with society. People should be allowed to say they're having a bad day or finding things hard without being belittled.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Well that escalated quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly! "

Anyhoooooooooooooo

Did work get any better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the consensus is that the OP is suicidal...

Ask him not me

How about you just walk on by and don't comment on threads that seem to bug you? The OP and everyone else who has commented about having a crappy day doesn't need to be told their feelings aren't important and that's just what you're doing.

This is one of the things that is so wrong with society. People should be allowed to say they're having a bad day or finding things hard without being belittled. "

This!

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"Well that escalated quickly!

Anyhoooooooooooooo

Did work get any better? "

Yes and no. Its going to be an ongoing process, which has only just been started.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I was having a really wanky day today. Then I poured a large gin and looked at (zoomed into) your profile photo and life was ok again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP hope you're feeling better

My vent ..... spent 6 hr making my daughters birthday cake (everything went wrong) for it to then melt/sink during car journey to hers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly!

Anyhoooooooooooooo

Did work get any better?

Yes and no. Its going to be an ongoing process, which has only just been started. "

x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Big hugs OP.

My rant is that I'm having aself esteem wobble and I'm fed up of not sleeping properly. I think I need someoneto cuddle and tell me I'm pretty and stroke me until I fall asleep.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Hugs for all having a bad day

ET.... go home !!

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"OP hope you're feeling better

My vent ..... spent 6 hr making my daughters birthday cake (everything went wrong) for it to then melt/sink during car journey to hers "

Thank you. I'm alright really, just a fair bit of stress and frustration building up that needed releasing.

Oh dam, that must be frustrating! Did it taste good though?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Sometimes just man up...

There in lies the problem when it comes to men and their mental health, it is attitudes such as this which stop men accessing help, because society believes that they should 'man up'

No they shouldn't, they should ne able to explore their feelings open and honestly....

Nobody should suffer alone all because someone said they should 'man up'"

Quite

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Thank you to all!

A place to vent is always needed to stop the energy and emotion being released in the incorrect way.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"I was having a really wanky day today. Then I poured a large gin and looked at (zoomed into) your profile photo and life was ok again

"

Glad I could be of service!

Wait... Did you essentially just say you needed beer goggles to appreciate my pic!?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thank you to all!

A place to vent is always needed to stop the energy and emotion being released in the incorrect way. "

If you ever need a reminder, it's at the bottom of your profile

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I was having a really wanky day today. Then I poured a large gin and looked at (zoomed into) your profile photo and life was ok again

Glad I could be of service!

Wait... Did you essentially just say you needed beer goggles to appreciate my pic!? "

Sod off.. that’s my special pic

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Big hugs OP.

My rant is that I'm having aself esteem wobble and I'm fed up of not sleeping properly. I think I need someoneto cuddle and tell me I'm pretty and stroke me until I fall asleep. "

I volunteer as tribute

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"Big hugs OP.

My rant is that I'm having aself esteem wobble and I'm fed up of not sleeping properly. I think I need someoneto cuddle and tell me I'm pretty and stroke me until I fall asleep. "

I can provide 1/3, as you are pretty!

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Travelling


"Thank you to all!

A place to vent is always needed to stop the energy and emotion being released in the incorrect way.

If you ever need a reminder, it's at the bottom of your profile "

Good point! That Spiderman guy is very supportive.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Big hugs OP.

My rant is that I'm having aself esteem wobble and I'm fed up of not sleeping properly. I think I need someoneto cuddle and tell me I'm pretty and stroke me until I fall asleep.

I volunteer as tribute "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Big hugs OP.

My rant is that I'm having aself esteem wobble and I'm fed up of not sleeping properly. I think I need someoneto cuddle and tell me I'm pretty and stroke me until I fall asleep.

I can provide 1/3, as you are pretty! "

You the best

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thank you to all!

A place to vent is always needed to stop the energy and emotion being released in the incorrect way.

If you ever need a reminder, it's at the bottom of your profile

Good point! That Spiderman guy is very supportive. "

We all need friends like spiderman!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thank you to all!

A place to vent is always needed to stop the energy and emotion being released in the incorrect way.

If you ever need a reminder, it's at the bottom of your profile

Good point! That Spiderman guy is very supportive. "

We all need friends like spiderman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a similar problem in my work place the childish behaviour is astounding. As is the bitching And back stabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes just man up...

There in lies the problem when it comes to men and their mental health, it is attitudes such as this which stop men accessing help, because society believes that they should 'man up'

No they shouldn't, they should ne able to explore their feelings open and honestly....

Nobody should suffer alone all because someone said they should 'man up'"

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

My sincere apologies to the OP.

I was insensitive and at fault. It does not read good and I was well in the wrong.

Hope it works out for you OP.

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