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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Do you 100% know what you want in another person, or do you think you know what you want, but really deep down you are not 100% sure as a whole package?

Are there things that make you question your past belief and preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I 100% know what i want and wont settle for less..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent anything in particular I want other than a connection, to meet a kindred spirit say. Other than that variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see what comes my way these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue, because if i put up check boxes and i might miss something wonderful.

I love to just talk and get to know someone

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I never used to, but now I do. Sometimes it isn’t obvious until it hits you in the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 100% sure of what I don't want

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

No. And it would be unrealistic to expect one person to be 100% of what you need

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Easier to articulate what you don’t want than what you do want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, people surprise me all the time with little unique quirks or traits that I like but didn't know I was looking for. Plus even physically I always say taller, older and broader than me, but I've broken all of those without any regret so I try keep a fairly open mind.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm a 100% sure of what I don't want"

This! Honestly I think this is more the case for most people than knowing what they actually want.

They don't know what they want, they just know what they don't want - everything else tends to just get muddled up and we are then blind to a lot of other interesting possibilities by things we feel are furthest from that which we don't.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Move around for work

I'm open minded. Things are always going to be quite different from what you see on a profile anyway. Fair enough if there are certain things you won't deviate from but being super-rigid seems to be taking this whole thing far too seriously - it's a swingers site for christ's sake

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

You are a very lucky person if you find everything you want in one person, some of us are lucky if we manage to find one person we don’t want to slap every five minutes and can tolerate most of their little habits and quirks

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

the land of BOBFOC x

Not a fecking clue what I want. It changes day to day, heck, minute to minute x

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By *ischiefmanaged90Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

I have a very clear type of what i'd ultimately want, will i ever get it i highly doubt it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman who doesn't drive a fiat or a Kia ceed...any other Kias are fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what I want. The important bit to this is, does she want me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what I want and I know what they can give so we all just muddle along in the middle

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No idea some one nice and funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are a very lucky person if you find everything you want in one person, some of us are lucky if we manage to find one person we don’t want to slap every five minutes and can tolerate most of their little habits and quirks "

You've got a mean right hook

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Bed waiting


"I'm a 100% sure of what I don't want"

I find this easier to decide.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"A woman who doesn't drive a fiat or a Kia ceed...any other Kias are fine. "

Damn I only drive a Juke

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"You are a very lucky person if you find everything you want in one person, some of us are lucky if we manage to find one person we don’t want to slap every five minutes and can tolerate most of their little habits and quirks

You've got a mean right hook "

#slappetyslap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

It’s taken a while for me to work it out, but recently, having something that I deep down thought I wanted, appear in front of me... no fucking thank you!

I’m very clear on what I do and don’t want now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you 100% know what you want, you're probably expecting them to fit what your criteria is as opposed to accepting who they are and vice versa.

Compatibility isn't about expecting another to meet all your requirements, its about being able to work through differences and enjoying the connections?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman who doesn't drive a fiat or a Kia ceed...any other Kias are fine.

Damn I only drive a Juke "

You are good to go then. Let me fuck one of your hole please ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are a very lucky person if you find everything you want in one person, some of us are lucky if we manage to find one person we don’t want to slap every five minutes and can tolerate most of their little habits and quirks

You've got a mean right hook

#slappetyslap "

Am I being annoying again?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"A woman who doesn't drive a fiat or a Kia ceed...any other Kias are fine.

Damn I only drive a Juke

You are good to go then. Let me fuck one of your hole please ?"

My left nostril is available right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I 100% know what I want but always been flexible enough to accept 99.999999%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman who doesn't drive a fiat or a Kia ceed...any other Kias are fine.

Damn I only drive a Juke

You are good to go then. Let me fuck one of your hole please ?

My left nostril is available right now "

I'll try to stay flaccid then

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"You are a very lucky person if you find everything you want in one person, some of us are lucky if we manage to find one person we don’t want to slap every five minutes and can tolerate most of their little habits and quirks

You've got a mean right hook

#slappetyslap

Am I being annoying again? "

You’re never annoying

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