FabSwingers.com forum: Gay Or Not?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it gay for a man to receive oral from another man? Not that I’ve been actively looking for it but I seem to get a lot of offers for discreet BJ’s and even through a glory hole so we don’t even have to look at each other? What’s your thoughts? I mean I’d rather have a girl but no one seem interested ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've had oral from another man and vice versa. Given the right mood I go Fab straight. But I don't find men attractive or want a relationship with one.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think what you're describing is either

A) situationally bi

B) Desperately bi

If ya HAD to label it of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay or bi if you need a label

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Why would it be "gay" do you think OP? Are you now thinking you *only* want to have sex and relationships with men for the rest of your life? If so, yes it's completely gay.

If however you think it's something you'd like to your sexual buffet, along with having sex with women, then at most I'd say it makes you bi-curious

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

"Is it gay for a man to receive oral from another man? Not that I’ve been actively looking for it but I seem to get a lot of offers for discreet BJ’s and even through a glory hole so we don’t even have to look at each other? What’s your thoughts? I mean I’d rather have a girl but no one seem interested ??"

It doesn't make you gay.

But it sounds like you are curious and theres nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gay or bi if you need a label "

^This really. If you want to play sexually with a person of the same sex, however much ppl might like to deny it as a temporary or none enjoyable state, you're still it even if temporarily and liable to be it again.... ....but what does a label even mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't make you gay.

But it sounds like you are curious and theres nothing wrong with that. "

This also.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry I should have rephrased it, not gay but yes Bi. However I don’t find men attractive nor do want to actively receive oral from men. But a lot of guys message me offering and I’m constantly saying no but then I thought to myself. I guess it’s a win-win right? They get what they want and I get to empty my balls? Would that still be labelled Bi??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I should have rephrased it, not gay but yes Bi. However I don’t find men attractive nor do want to actively receive oral from men. But a lot of guys message me offering and I’m constantly saying no but then I thought to myself. I guess it’s a win-win right? They get what they want and I get to empty my balls? Would that still be labelled Bi??"

In my opinion yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion yeah. "

But I don’t like labels. I’m not even sure what I am. I’m just me. Just be you.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Being involved in a sexual act with a person of your own sex makes you bi - what difference does it make anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s bi anything with a nother Guy is ither gay or bi

I am bi I like to dress up wigs make up the lot

Am I looking for a relationship with a guy god no not attracted to guys in that way

But am attractied to them in the bed room xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting. I was curious to know if it’s a thing a lot of me do. While still denying that they’re bi. But I suppose that’s a whole other topic. I bet there’s a lot out there that deny being bi when they, in actual fact, have engaged in sexual activities with other me.

But then I always thing about porn where it’s MMF and they’re doing double lent ration and their dicks touch ect... how far do you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi shmi. I hate labels. Most of the time it's women all the way with me. Occasionally there's nothing better than cock.

Is it Fab Straight, bi- or what? Don't know, don't care. It's what I feel like in the moment.

One of the BJ's ever was a bloke. Try it, you might just like it.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Do I understand this correctly. You’re thinking of having a guy suck your cock because you can’t find a woman to do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting. I was curious to know if it’s a thing a lot of me do. While still denying that they’re bi. But I suppose that’s a whole other topic. I bet there’s a lot out there that deny being bi when they, in actual fact, have engaged in sexual activities with other me.

But then I always thing about porn where it’s MMF and they’re doing double lent ration and their dicks touch ect... how far do you go"

Bi MMF porn turns me on ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do I understand this correctly. You’re thinking of having a guy suck your cock because you can’t find a woman to do it?

Well it’s just on a plate for me on this website, from guys. No woman seems interested at this stage hha

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Well that would depend perhaps on whether knowing it was a bloke on the otherwise of the glory hole would be a turn on, ot whether it would make your blue balls shrivel up into your intestines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need to put labels on everything though I wouldn't say you were straight if you did just somewhere in the Grey.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Do I understand this correctly. You’re thinking of having a guy suck your cock because you can’t find a woman to do it?

Refer to my earlier "labelling"

Situationally bi

Desperationally bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But then I always thing about porn where it’s MMF and they’re doing double lent ration and their dicks touch ect... how far do you go"

There is a lot trust me I would say about 90% off men on fab are bi even if they profiles says straight and would say there’s only about 10% true straight guys on hear

And if any one wants to say different then why do I get 600-700 page views a day and over 200 message a day 90% off them comeing form straight guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well that would depend perhaps on whether knowing it was a bloke on the otherwise of the glory hole would be a turn on, ot whether it would make your blue balls shrivel up into your intestines.

That’s a very good point, and if I’m honest, the thought of another man with a stubbly beard putting his lips around my cock really does make me shrivel up. So chances are I’d get there and that would be the case. I just wanted to know peoples opinion on the matter

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't need to put labels on everything though I wouldn't say you were straight if you did just somewhere in the Grey. "

Yeah I agree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Guys message me saying they like that I am straight and they just really want to suck my cock and even through a glory hole so I’m only explaining the situation and sharing my opinion

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Guys message me saying they like that I am straight and they just really want to suck my cock and even through a glory hole so I’m only explaining the situation and sharing my opinion"

I get that - it's just the way you're explaining it that I take exception to - you're reducing sex and sexuality to a very transactional level that comes across as desperate.

Phrases like "it's win/win right" and "I get to empty my balls" for me takes the sensuality and meaning out of it and debases sex to being a selfish act where all that matters is getting your end away regardless.

Now if that's what you and your sexual partners want and all are happy then fair enough but in my opinion it's just cold and pointless - especially when you're effectively pretending to be something you're not for the sake of sex and because you're unable to find what you really want.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

No it's not, but you can catch "the gay" from it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Guys message me saying they like that I am straight and they just really want to suck my cock and even through a glory hole so I’m only explaining the situation and sharing my opinion"

Keep in mind that this is the internet.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Now each to their own, and if that's how you view your own sexuality and find guys that are happy to allow you to do so, then that's your prerogative but regardless of the gender of a sexual partner I find that kind of attitude pretty cold."
yes I find it very cold too , I've had guys asking to visit me for the sole purpose of emptying Thier balls and saying I'm a straight guy and never done this before etc I give them short shrift , not using me as a last resort !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Guys message me saying they like that I am straight and they just really want to suck my cock and even through a glory hole so I’m only explaining the situation and sharing my opinion

Keep in mind that this is the internet."

What happens on the internet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Guys message me saying they like that I am straight and they just really want to suck my cock and even through a glory hole so I’m only explaining the situation and sharing my opinion

Keep in mind that this is the internet.

What happens on the internet..."

...... stays on the internet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Now each to their own, and if that's how you view your own sexuality and find guys that are happy to allow you to do so, then that's your prerogative but regardless of the gender of a sexual partner I find that kind of attitude pretty cold.yes I find it very cold too , I've had guys asking to visit me for the sole purpose of emptying Thier balls and saying I'm a straight guy and never done this before etc I give them short shrift , not using me as a last resort ! "

Haha I totally agree with you, but I’m not the one messaging them, I’m the one saying no and I was simply asking for advice on whether I should just go for it or not, and if so, what does that make me?

I’m not one for using someone, but they literally put it on a plate so it made me think, would I be a fool to say no to getting my dick sucked

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I’m not one for using someone, but they literally put it on a plate so it made me think, would I be a fool to say no to getting my dick sucked "

Personally I'd say you'd be a fool to say "yes" to getting your dick sucked under those circumstances - ask yourself this is getting your dick sucked really that important that you'd let someone do it, who you weren't attracted to, regardless of their gender, purely for the sake of getting it sucked?

And that's without getting onto any feelings of guilt or questioning yourself you might have after because it was another bloke (yes it happens for some men).

Unless you are genuinely turned on by the thought of same sex sex I'd question why you were even considering it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like you're bi-curious, at this point. Unless you eventually do it and enjoy it, in which case you can probably drop the "curious".

Don't worry too much about what it's called. Just do whatever feels comfortable to you and don't overthink it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Now each to their own, and if that's how you view your own sexuality and find guys that are happy to allow you to do so, then that's your prerogative but regardless of the gender of a sexual partner I find that kind of attitude pretty cold.yes I find it very cold too , I've had guys asking to visit me for the sole purpose of emptying Thier balls and saying I'm a straight guy and never done this before etc I give them short shrift , not using me as a last resort !

I’m not one for using someone, but they literally put it on a plate so it made me think, would I be a fool to say no to getting my dick sucked "

Do what you fancy fella, at the end of the day it's just sex and and experimenting. I'm straight but I've had sex with the occasional woman before and regretted it in the cold light of day and that didn't kill me. So I don't think it's such a big deal if you try it and don't enjoy it, that just means you were curious but in reality straight. HOWEVER, there is also the possibility to might REALLY enjoy it and release your inner bi.....

The fact you've done a thread about it speaks volumes to me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s bi

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Now each to their own, and if that's how you view your own sexuality and find guys that are happy to allow you to do so, then that's your prerogative but regardless of the gender of a sexual partner I find that kind of attitude pretty cold.yes I find it very cold too , I've had guys asking to visit me for the sole purpose of emptying Thier balls and saying I'm a straight guy and never done this before etc I give them short shrift , not using me as a last resort !

I’m not one for using someone, but they literally put it on a plate so it made me think, would I be a fool to say no to getting my dick sucked

The fact you've done a thread about it speaks volumes to me.....

You* might

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m not one for using someone, but they literally put it on a plate so it made me think, would I be a fool to say no to getting my dick sucked

And that's without getting onto any feelings of guilt or questioning yourself you might have after because it was another bloke (yes it happens for some men).

Unless you are genuinely turned on by the thought of same sex sex I'd question why you were even considering it."

You’re right, I’ve not looked at it that way and you’ve made my mind up for me, thanks for your advice! I’m not attracted to men and I wouldn’t want to live with my doubt after that I would inevitably have afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Now each to their own, and if that's how you view your own sexuality and find guys that are happy to allow you to do so, then that's your prerogative but regardless of the gender of a sexual partner I find that kind of attitude pretty cold.yes I find it very cold too , I've had guys asking to visit me for the sole purpose of emptying Thier balls and saying I'm a straight guy and never done this before etc I give them short shrift , not using me as a last resort !

I’m not one for using someone, but they literally put it on a plate so it made me think, would I be a fool to say no to getting my dick sucked

The fact you've done a thread about it speaks volumes to me.....

Haha I guess you’re right! The saying is, don’t knock it until you’ve tried it I guess. But I don’t want to try it that’s my point so I’ll just stick with my gut and say no??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter or need a category..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Now each to their own, and if that's how you view your own sexuality and find guys that are happy to allow you to do so, then that's your prerogative but regardless of the gender of a sexual partner I find that kind of attitude pretty cold.yes I find it very cold too , I've had guys asking to visit me for the sole purpose of emptying Thier balls and saying I'm a straight guy and never done this before etc I give them short shrift , not using me as a last resort !

I’m not one for using someone, but they literally put it on a plate so it made me think, would I be a fool to say no to getting my dick sucked

The fact you've done a thread about it speaks volumes to me.....

Haha I guess you’re right! The saying is, don’t knock it until you’ve tried it I guess. But I don’t want to try it that’s my point so I’ll just stick with my gut and say no??"

So why ask a bunch of strangers if you should try something and if it "makes you" gay/bi by trying it or thinking about it, if at the end of the day you are sure it's something that you definitely don't want to try? If that's the case then my judgement would be that you my friend are a straight man looking for any attention you can get. You've just lost mine, have fun with fab and I hope you find that vag you're looking for soon fella......

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

.... as a daisy

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Is it gay for a man to receive oral from another man?"

...did I log into r/memes accidentally again?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s a bi bi at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only gay if you enjoy it! Definitely gay for the one doing the sucking.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"It's only gay if you enjoy it! Definitely gay for the one doing the sucking.

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bisexual men suck cock so how is it only something a gay man would do ?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Sorry but personally the idea of adopting any kind of sexuality just to "empty my balls" would be a complete turn off, likewise if I met someone for whom that was the aim.

I'm unashamedly bisexual not to "empty my balls" but because my sexuality dictates that I am open to sex with both men and women and I rather enjoy spending naked time with both.

Now each to their own, and if that's how you view your own sexuality and find guys that are happy to allow you to do so, then that's your prerogative but regardless of the gender of a sexual partner I find that kind of attitude pretty cold.yes I find it very cold too , I've had guys asking to visit me for the sole purpose of emptying Thier balls and saying I'm a straight guy and never done this before etc I give them short shrift , not using me as a last resort !

I’m not one for using someone, but they literally put it on a plate so it made me think, would I be a fool to say no to getting my dick sucked "

First of all, it's a two way act so both persons, sucker and suckee use each other.The advise on this site will either be, go for it or don't,but remember it is all about what YOU want..Finally,'emptying your balls' can be very mood altering...Worth checking out your feelings after cumming.

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By *ool_FukrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Aww ffs just do it.., u have put the thread up so it’s obviously something u think u want to try! Who cares what it makes u, once u have tried it you will know either way! Sex doesn’t really need all the labelling, if you enjoy it and it’s consensual go for it

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s only gay if eye contact is made

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"It’s only gay if eye contact is made "

Which eye you talking about..

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"It’s only gay if eye contact is made

Which eye you talking about..

The brown one of course

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By *he sultan of swingMan
over a year ago

mid devon

Orally bi maybe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gay or bi if you need a label "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you get your blowjob in glory hole, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested to know how many offers for bi gob jobs the OP has had since his latest pic hit page 1 of most fabbed guys

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s only gay if you make eye contact

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By *sturjackMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I would be more inclined to favour this:

"pansexual

/pan's?k???l/

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adjective

not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.

noun

a pansexual person.

Definitions from Oxford Languages"

But then I guess we all see the world with different eyes.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If you marry the guy straight after the act, that’s definitely gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a man and another man sucks on your sausage....

That's gay.

(Gay's ok, if that's you're thing)

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