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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else find it a little rude for guys to send tributes without having asked if you want one?

Even more so when they upload one to their profile....erm, excuse me mate, those are my tits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a long time on fab, and for the first time ever in my live, I did a cum tribute last week. Very specifically, it was unsolicited but to a lady with whom I had been have a long and very personal chat, for some time. In receipt of the latest picture she sent me, I thought I'd try something different...

Things have taken a downward turn since then, to the point that I'm fairly certain its all but times out. Perhaps not related to that tribute (it was never spoken of), and maybe other forces are at play, but either way, first and last tribute ever! (Until there is a direct request made for one)

Sending a random tribute to a person with whom you've had no contact is not for me, but I'm guessing that some people appreciate it. And posting a picture of another person in any of your galleries without their consent deserves a firm punch in the tallywhacker!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've never had the... pleasure and I'd rather not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd be very deserving though, but much more fun in person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never had the... pleasure and I'd rather not "

I'm not a fan...recieve themquite often tho and I just think it's rude. How hard is it to ask first?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'd be very deserving though, but much more fun in person."

Thanks...i think

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've never had the... pleasure and I'd rather not

I'm not a fan...recieve themquite often tho and I just think it's rude. How hard is it to ask first?! "

Manners? Pah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners? Pah"

Manners... the first casualty of fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They use them ino their own profiles?

I love it when ppl do them for me, they can be quite imaginative and it's nice to think of someone enjoying me. Wouldn't want them displayed outside of my control though, that's just creepy.....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'd be annoyed and I find it rude if they haven't asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They use them ino their own profiles?

I love it when ppl do them for me, they can be quite imaginative and it's nice to think of someone enjoying me. Wouldn't want them displayed outside of my control though, that's just creepy..... "

Yep!

If it's someone I know well and am into...it might be something I'd enjoy, but I'd still want to be asked first and I wouldn't want it appearing in their profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be annoyed and I find it rude if they haven't asked "

It's not just me...someone (not here) said I was being over sensitive.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I'd be annoyed and I find it rude if they haven't asked

It's not just me...someone (not here) said I was being over sensitive."

No you're not I'd be tamping in all honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it. Tribute to what? The fact that someone has you in their wank-bank?? What's the excitement with that?? It's all very strange to me, IMHO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't get it. Tribute to what? The fact that someone has you in their wank-bank?? What's the excitement with that?? It's all very strange to me, IMHO "

I get that it's a turn on for some people...just not us.

It's the lack of consent I didn't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They use them ino their own profiles?

I love it when ppl do them for me, they can be quite imaginative and it's nice to think of someone enjoying me. Wouldn't want them displayed outside of my control though, that's just creepy.....

Yep!

If it's someone I know well and am into...it might be something I'd enjoy, but I'd still want to be asked first and I wouldn't want it appearing in their profile! "

That's just creepy and fuck knows how they get the pics approved???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They use them ino their own profiles?

I love it when ppl do them for me, they can be quite imaginative and it's nice to think of someone enjoying me. Wouldn't want them displayed outside of my control though, that's just creepy.....

Yep!

If it's someone I know well and am into...it might be something I'd enjoy, but I'd still want to be asked first and I wouldn't want it appearing in their profile!

That's just creepy and fuck knows how they get the pics approved???"

My thoughts exactly...i did report it, but it's still there...

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Move around for work

Hey Lu! Yeah, that's dead rude - they should have asked whether you wanted it, and then only if you did, whether you'd be fine with it posted on their profile. Shitty behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey Lu! Yeah, that's dead rude - they should have asked whether you wanted it, and then only if you did, whether you'd be fine with it posted on their profile. Shitty behaviour. "

My thoughts too...glad it's not just me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They use them ino their own profiles?

I love it when ppl do them for me, they can be quite imaginative and it's nice to think of someone enjoying me. Wouldn't want them displayed outside of my control though, that's just creepy.....

Yep!

If it's someone I know well and am into...it might be something I'd enjoy, but I'd still want to be asked first and I wouldn't want it appearing in their profile!

That's just creepy and fuck knows how they get the pics approved???

My thoughts exactly...i did report it, but it's still there... "

I mean, I actually have someones tits off this thread on my profile from a tribute THEY did for me for that very purpose, to be displayed, so I have their permission, but even that pic gets taken down periodically or whenever I display it publicly and I'm in it! Mods are really hot usually.....

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Move around for work


"They use them ino their own profiles?

I love it when ppl do them for me, they can be quite imaginative and it's nice to think of someone enjoying me. Wouldn't want them displayed outside of my control though, that's just creepy.....

Yep!

If it's someone I know well and am into...it might be something I'd enjoy, but I'd still want to be asked first and I wouldn't want it appearing in their profile!

That's just creepy and fuck knows how they get the pics approved???

My thoughts exactly...i did report it, but it's still there...

I mean, I actually have someones tits off this thread on my profile from a tribute THEY did for me for that very purpose, to be displayed, so I have their permission, but even that pic gets taken down periodically or whenever I display it publicly and I'm in it! Mods are really hot usually....."

How did that work - they tributed their own tits?

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Move around for work


"They use them ino their own profiles?

I love it when ppl do them for me, they can be quite imaginative and it's nice to think of someone enjoying me. Wouldn't want them displayed outside of my control though, that's just creepy.....

Yep!

If it's someone I know well and am into...it might be something I'd enjoy, but I'd still want to be asked first and I wouldn't want it appearing in their profile!

That's just creepy and fuck knows how they get the pics approved???

My thoughts exactly...i did report it, but it's still there...

I mean, I actually have someones tits off this thread on my profile from a tribute THEY did for me for that very purpose, to be displayed, so I have their permission, but even that pic gets taken down periodically or whenever I display it publicly and I'm in it! Mods are really hot usually.....

How did that work - they tributed their own tits? "

In fact never mind, read again & figured it out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They use them ino their own profiles?

I love it when ppl do them for me, they can be quite imaginative and it's nice to think of someone enjoying me. Wouldn't want them displayed outside of my control though, that's just creepy.....

Yep!

If it's someone I know well and am into...it might be something I'd enjoy, but I'd still want to be asked first and I wouldn't want it appearing in their profile!

That's just creepy and fuck knows how they get the pics approved???

My thoughts exactly...i did report it, but it's still there...

I mean, I actually have someones tits off this thread on my profile from a tribute THEY did for me for that very purpose, to be displayed, so I have their permission, but even that pic gets taken down periodically or whenever I display it publicly and I'm in it! Mods are really hot usually.....

How did that work - they tributed their own tits? "

I mean, if I had tits like some of the women on here I'd tribute my own!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It's not just rude, it's bloody creepy as well. I love a good consensual tribute (as long as I get to watch the tribute being done as well or else it's like getting thrush without the fucking). I think sometimes men think it's hot and they are showing you how much they like you but a bit of basic respect, even on a swinging site doesn't go amiss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just rude, it's bloody creepy as well. I love a good consensual tribute (as long as I get to watch the tribute being done as well or else it's like getting thrush without the fucking). I think sometimes men think it's hot and they are showing you how much they like you but a bit of basic respect, even on a swinging site doesn't go amiss."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no ta

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