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"This happens all the time!!! Hence why I never filter my pics. " Me either. No need when I’m this fucking perfect | |||
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"This happens all the time!!! Hence why I never filter my pics. Me either. No need when I’m this fucking perfect" You are! My biggest fear is that I wouldn’t look like my pics. I go to clubs and socials a lot so don’t see the point in making out I’m something I’m not. | |||
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"This happens all the time!!! Hence why I never filter my pics. Me either. No need when I’m this fucking perfect You are! My biggest fear is that I wouldn’t look like my pics. I go to clubs and socials a lot so don’t see the point in making out I’m something I’m not. "  you have no need to filter your photos either way. It baffles me when people do. And men fawn all over them...like ?????? | |||
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"This happens all the time!!! Hence why I never filter my pics. Me either. No need when I’m this fucking perfect You are! My biggest fear is that I wouldn’t look like my pics. I go to clubs and socials a lot so don’t see the point in making out I’m something I’m not. you have no need to filter your photos either way. It baffles me when people do. And men fawn all over them...like ?????? "Thank you.
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"I have filtered and unfiltered. I always make sure people can see me completely natural so noone feels duped. Although, apart from a smooth as shit, sparkly face, I look the same. "You look really pretty in your natural pics x | |||
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"This happens all the time!!! Hence why I never filter my pics. Me either. No need when I’m this fucking perfect You are! My biggest fear is that I wouldn’t look like my pics. I go to clubs and socials a lot so don’t see the point in making out I’m something I’m not. you have no need to filter your photos either way. It baffles me when people do. And men fawn all over them...like ??????
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"I have filtered and unfiltered. I always make sure people can see me completely natural so noone feels duped. Although, apart from a smooth as shit, sparkly face, I look the same.
You look really pretty in your natural pics x "Thank you so much
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"I don’t get them at all. I’d rather someone sees me makeup free and worst case scenario than an airbrushed version. " Natural 80’s beauty
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"This happens all the time!!! Hence why I never filter my pics. Me either. No need when I’m this fucking perfect You are! My biggest fear is that I wouldn’t look like my pics. I go to clubs and socials a lot so don’t see the point in making out I’m something I’m not. you have no need to filter your photos either way. It baffles me when people do. And men fawn all over them...like ??????
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What is it with cat ears and whiskers? Lol
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"But yet some of the biggest offenders are so popular even here in the forums? " Yep. Funny old world | |||
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"But yet some of the biggest offenders are so popular even here in the forums? " | |||
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 if you could see me in bed now with no makeup and a big baggy jumper (: but it be fair I'd always make an effort for a meet like I do with my photos so you would get what you see here, just more jiggly and not so posed. | |||
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"I don't use filters that change my appearance but I am accused of it quite often due to my hourglass shape. I definitely do think I'm a catfish though if you could see me in bed now with no makeup and a big baggy jumper (: but it be fair I'd always make an effort for a meet like I do with my photos so you would get what you see here, just more jiggly and not so posed. "I can totally relate to that too! I figure the same, I'm gonna have on make up and lingerie when we meet so they don't need to know what I look like on the school run! | |||
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"I don't use filters that change my appearance but I am accused of it quite often due to my hourglass shape. I definitely do think I'm a catfish though if you could see me in bed now with no makeup and a big baggy jumper (: but it be fair I'd always make an effort for a meet like I do with my photos so you would get what you see here, just more jiggly and not so posed. "Well then I'm guilty of your crime too,I'm here no make up on slouchy pants and vest and messy wild hair all piled up in a top knot . We all make an effort with our photos and know what angles we look better in and how to stick our buts out to show it off squeeze in our tums etc . The thing is that its still us and we are real so what you see is what you get when you meet us | |||
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 I have in my profile I have lumps and bumps and a mum tum so people know what they’re getting | |||
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"I don't use filters that change my appearance but I am accused of it quite often due to my hourglass shape. I definitely do think I'm a catfish though if you could see me in bed now with no makeup and a big baggy jumper (: but it be fair I'd always make an effort for a meet like I do with my photos so you would get what you see here, just more jiggly and not so posed.
Well then I'm guilty of your crime too,I'm here no make up on slouchy pants and vest and messy wild hair all piled up in a top knot . We all make an effort with our photos and know what angles we look better in and how to stick our buts out to show it off squeeze in our tums etc . The thing is that its still us and we are real so what you see is what you get when you meet us "Don't stick your butt out too far or you'll split your jeans  | |||
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"I don't use filters that change my appearance but I am accused of it quite often due to my hourglass shape. I definitely do think I'm a catfish though if you could see me in bed now with no makeup and a big baggy jumper (: but it be fair I'd always make an effort for a meet like I do with my photos so you would get what you see here, just more jiggly and not so posed.
Well then I'm guilty of your crime too,I'm here no make up on slouchy pants and vest and messy wild hair all piled up in a top knot . We all make an effort with our photos and know what angles we look better in and how to stick our buts out to show it off squeeze in our tums etc . The thing is that its still us and we are real so what you see is what you get when you meet us
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"I have filtered and unfiltered. I always make sure people can see me completely natural so noone feels duped. Although, apart from a smooth as shit, sparkly face, I look the same. "Can confirm...100% beaut  | |||
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! Does that not break your heart a wee bit?! | |||
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"This is going right off the topic of filters for sites like this, but it's just something I noticed this week. Schools have just gone back here and I couldn't believe the number of people posting pics of their kids with a filter ! Does that not break your heart a wee bit?! "Yup. My auntie ALWAYS puts filters on my cousins pictures. They’re beautiful 8 year old twins. They have been using filters for so long, they refuse to have their photo taken without them  when she met my wee boy for the first time she used a filter, I made her delete the photo | |||
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"This is going right off the topic of filters for sites like this, but it's just something I noticed this week. Schools have just gone back here and I couldn't believe the number of people posting pics of their kids with a filter ! Does that not break your heart a wee bit?!
Yup. My auntie ALWAYS puts filters on my cousins pictures. They’re beautiful 8 year old twins. They have been using filters for so long, they refuse to have their photo taken without them when she met my wee boy for the first time she used a filter, I made her delete the photo "It's so sad! If we think social media pressure etc is bad now, wait til this generation grows up . I hope they totally reject the whole thing and become all natural hippies! | |||
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"I don't use filters that change my appearance but I am accused of it quite often due to my hourglass shape. I definitely do think I'm a catfish though if you could see me in bed now with no makeup and a big baggy jumper (: but it be fair I'd always make an effort for a meet like I do with my photos so you would get what you see here, just more jiggly and not so posed. "You have a beautiful body and profile | |||
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"This is going right off the topic of filters for sites like this, but it's just something I noticed this week. Schools have just gone back here and I couldn't believe the number of people posting pics of their kids with a filter ! Does that not break your heart a wee bit?!
Yup. My auntie ALWAYS puts filters on my cousins pictures. They’re beautiful 8 year old twins. They have been using filters for so long, they refuse to have their photo taken without them when she met my wee boy for the first time she used a filter, I made her delete the photo "That is horrific. Its like telling a child that you don't look good so mamma has to use a filter. The long term effects of this will be awful | |||
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"I don't use filters that change my appearance but I am accused of it quite often due to my hourglass shape. I definitely do think I'm a catfish though if you could see me in bed now with no makeup and a big baggy jumper (: but it be fair I'd always make an effort for a meet like I do with my photos so you would get what you see here, just more jiggly and not so posed. "Absolutely nothing wrong with jiggly. Jiggly is good! | |||
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"Even when filters are not used, I think people just want to present themselves in the best light. Imagine my surprise when I met someone of here and he actually had his trousers on. " | |||
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"This is going right off the topic of filters for sites like this, but it's just something I noticed this week. Schools have just gone back here and I couldn't believe the number of people posting pics of their kids with a filter ! Does that not break your heart a wee bit?!
Yup. My auntie ALWAYS puts filters on my cousins pictures. They’re beautiful 8 year old twins. They have been using filters for so long, they refuse to have their photo taken without them when she met my wee boy for the first time she used a filter, I made her delete the photo
It's so sad! If we think social media pressure etc is bad now, wait til this generation grows up . I hope they totally reject the whole thing and become all natural hippies! "Oh I hate filters on children. I have a cousin who can't take a photo of her daughter without one and even has filtered photos in frames around the house. I think growing up constantly seeing yourself as somehow being better with a filter will cause major issues for some people. She's only six but she always goes on about how you can see her wrinkles and how she needs makeup. It's so sad.
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"This is going right off the topic of filters for sites like this, but it's just something I noticed this week. Schools have just gone back here and I couldn't believe the number of people posting pics of their kids with a filter ! Does that not break your heart a wee bit?!
Yup. My auntie ALWAYS puts filters on my cousins pictures. They’re beautiful 8 year old twins. They have been using filters for so long, they refuse to have their photo taken without them when she met my wee boy for the first time she used a filter, I made her delete the photo
It's so sad! If we think social media pressure etc is bad now, wait til this generation grows up . I hope they totally reject the whole thing and become all natural hippies!
Oh I hate filters on children.
I have a cousin who can't take a photo of her daughter without one and even has filtered photos in frames around the house. I think growing up constantly seeing yourself as somehow being better with a filter will cause major issues for some people. She's only six but she always goes on about how you can see her wrinkles and how she needs makeup. It's so sad.
"Christ, at that age they're basically perfect anyway. Yikes | |||
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"Closest I ever get to a filter is tweaking the contrast/colour balance. That's more of a picture quality thing. Anything more than that feels like cheating." Me too but not on every picture. Some of my most unflattering ones I could have filtered but I want to show the real me | |||
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"This is going right off the topic of filters for sites like this, but it's just something I noticed this week. Schools have just gone back here and I couldn't believe the number of people posting pics of their kids with a filter ! Does that not break your heart a wee bit?!
Yup. My auntie ALWAYS puts filters on my cousins pictures. They’re beautiful 8 year old twins. They have been using filters for so long, they refuse to have their photo taken without them when she met my wee boy for the first time she used a filter, I made her delete the photo
It's so sad! If we think social media pressure etc is bad now, wait til this generation grows up . I hope they totally reject the whole thing and become all natural hippies!
Oh I hate filters on children.
I have a cousin who can't take a photo of her daughter without one and even has filtered photos in frames around the house. I think growing up constantly seeing yourself as somehow being better with a filter will cause major issues for some people. She's only six but she always goes on about how you can see her wrinkles and how she needs makeup. It's so sad.
Christ, at that age they're basically perfect anyway. Yikes"Yup. It's terrible. And their appearance should be the last thing on their mind at that age anyway. | |||
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"We use filters to get different effects, playing with contrast or saturation, or blurring backgrounds. Not to materially alter what we look like - what's the point in that?
Mrs x"Yeah, we normally use shading effect. It does not create a false impression of what we look like, unless anyone was expecting us to in black and white lol | |||
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"People should use them as they see fit and stop worrying and judging what others do or think. I don't use them (well no more than a straightforward black and white, but I guess that's a filter) because I'm comfortable with how I look. I do however suck my gut in, hold my chest out or pick a decent angle - so what's the difference really? If I'm on a date I don't walk around the whole time with my gut sucked in so my date would be within their rights to say hang on Steve you podgey misleading fucker what's this wobbly bit here, and leave. I really don't see why ppl are so obsessed with what others are doing on here lately. Filters on fab are damn obvious to me when I look at pics, a bit like when someone only has close ups of their nipples or feet or half a glimpse of part of a corset because they don't want to display the true extent of their body in a full frontal full body shot. Each to their own. If you're thinking of meeting with someone and worried about their pics then why not meet them anyway just for a social and find out. Whether it goes any further is a joint decision, whether they look like their pics or not.... Peace.... "I might have read the thread differently, but I thought I was seeing more support of body positivity than bitching or judging  In this instance anyway, I have seen plenty of judging before on this issue!
They're def fun to play with so i can see why people do. I do think it's a different thing from just not putting your absolute worst self on show though. You're a 3 dimensional person on a date, who smiles and laughs and moves so you don't need to keep sucking in for the best snapshot...but if you've stuck a whole fake face or body on top of yours it's going to be really hard to go enjoy yourself with people that might've liked you just as you are. I know I have a friend who makes this rod for her own back all the time and it does drive me insane with her! She's so naturally beautiful, but on Tinder she's more or less Barbie and then she chickens out of the dates all the time as she's embarrassed they won't like the real her | |||
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"People should use them as they see fit and stop worrying and judging what others do or think. I don't use them (well no more than a straightforward black and white, but I guess that's a filter) because I'm comfortable with how I look. I do however suck my gut in, hold my chest out or pick a decent angle - so what's the difference really? If I'm on a date I don't walk around the whole time with my gut sucked in so my date would be within their rights to say hang on Steve you podgey misleading fucker what's this wobbly bit here, and leave. I really don't see why ppl are so obsessed with what others are doing on here lately. Filters on fab are damn obvious to me when I look at pics, a bit like when someone only has close ups of their nipples or feet or half a glimpse of part of a corset because they don't want to display the true extent of their body in a full frontal full body shot. Each to their own. If you're thinking of meeting with someone and worried about their pics then why not meet them anyway just for a social and find out. Whether it goes any further is a joint decision, whether they look like their pics or not.... Peace....
I might have read the thread differently, but I thought I was seeing more support of body positivity than bitching or judging In this instance anyway, I have seen plenty of judging before on this issue!
They're def fun to play with so i can see why people do. I do think it's a different thing from just not putting your absolute worst self on show though. You're a 3 dimensional person on a date, who smiles and laughs and moves so you don't need to keep sucking in for the best snapshot...but if you've stuck a whole fake face or body on top of yours it's going to be really hard to go enjoy yourself with people that might've liked you just as you are. I know I have a friend who makes this rod for her own back all the time and it does drive me insane with her! She's so naturally beautiful, but on Tinder she's more or less Barbie and then she chickens out of the dates all the time as she's embarrassed they won't like the real her "I think you read ME differently tbh, but most do.... | |||
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"False advertising if you ask me. No issue if you're just looking to boost your ego, but excessively filtering a face pic to the point it looks nothing like you is just asking for disappointment. " Some filters dramatically change the way people look,so I'd have to agree in some cases definitely false advertising | |||
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"I think I pull off the panda ears and bunny nose filter pretty well..." They aren't natural???? Dam very disappointing  | |||
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"I have filtered and unfiltered. I always make sure people can see me completely natural so noone feels duped. Although, apart from a smooth as shit, sparkly face, I look the same. "I like the photos of you that look unfiltered better. x  | |||
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"I think I pull off the panda ears and bunny nose filter pretty well..." My fave lol | |||
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If I'm that invested in them to want to meet sexually then a few extra lumps and bumps wouldn't bother me and I recognise that some paler men use black n white a lot rather than add a tan.
My pics are for my amusement on my profile, so sometimes i'll add a filter to get a sluttier look so to tease special friends, as they have all seen me fully naked already | |||
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"Is it bending the truth? How do you feel? Imagine seeing someone in photo's that has been touched up, filtered smoothed out and then when you finally meet they are not what you thought? Too shallow? OK Fabbers do your thing.... " Wow.. so I am not the only one who doesn't like the filters... I don't mind the fun ears or black and white arty stuff they are fun as long as you have your real photo in and among them | |||
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But no,I’d rather not see filtered pics. Not a fan of makeup plastered on either,little or none at all is better. | |||
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"Is it bending the truth? How do you feel? Imagine seeing someone in photo's that has been touched up, filtered smoothed out and then when you finally meet they are not what you thought? Too shallow? OK Fabbers do your thing.... " Accept me for who I am, or not at all. The imperiousness of some people on here beggars belief. | |||
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"I have filtered and unfiltered. I always make sure people can see me completely natural so noone feels duped. Although, apart from a smooth as shit, sparkly face, I look the same.
You look really pretty in your natural pics x "Lexi you look better in real life than your pictures. You actually smile in real life | |||
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