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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

You loaned a friend £40000 two years ago but since then he has refused to pay it back which has affected your friendship.

You've begged him to pay you back £20000 and forget the rest because you have a financial crisis.

He tells you he can only get £15000 because that's all he has and you feel you have no option but to accept.

You send him your bank details and in the morning you wake up to find £150000 in your bank

You check your notifications and find 53 missed calls and 27 texts begging you to pay back £135000 as he only meant to transfer £15000 but accidentaly hit an extra 0

What do you do ?

A, send back £135000

B, take out the full £40000 and return the rest

C, keep the entire £150000 and not respond to his calls or texts

So the question is, what are you going to do

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"You loaned a friend £40000 two years ago but since then he has refused to pay it back which has affected your friendship.

You've begged him to pay you back £20000 and forget the rest because you have a financial crisis.

He tells you he can only get £15000 because that's all he has and you feel you have no option but to accept.

You send him your bank details and in the morning you wake up to find £150000 in your bank

You check your notifications and find 53 missed calls and 27 texts begging you to pay back £135000 as he only meant to transfer £15000 but accidentaly hit an extra 0

What do you do ?

A, send back £135000

B, take out the full £40000 and return the rest

C, keep the entire £150000 and not respond to his calls or texts

So the question is, what are you going to do "

I take the 40 return the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B.

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By *quirt1810Woman
over a year ago

Boston


"You loaned a friend £40000 two years ago but since then he has refused to pay it back which has affected your friendship.

You've begged him to pay you back £20000 and forget the rest because you have a financial crisis.

He tells you he can only get £15000 because that's all he has and you feel you have no option but to accept.

You send him your bank details and in the morning you wake up to find £150000 in your bank

You check your notifications and find 53 missed calls and 27 texts begging you to pay back £135000 as he only meant to transfer £15000 but accidentaly hit an extra 0

What do you do ?

A, send back £135000

B, take out the full £40000 and return the rest

C, keep the entire £150000 and not respond to his calls or texts

So the question is, what are you going to do

I take the 40 return the rest "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s tried to fuck you over. Big time. Let’s face it, 40 grand is a lot of money. And loaning a friend that kind of money, only to be treated like that? I’d give him back 15. Because that’s all he told you he had.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

B and cut ties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B and cut ties. "

Ditto.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Take what's owed, return the rest, remove him from my life x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

B

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By *lueeyedbrunetteWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

B!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

B he really can’t be that much of a friend if he knew you needed the money back as you were struggling and he had all that money and didn’t even offer it all back to you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B plus the interest it would have accrued had it been in a savings account over the last 2 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

work out interest for past 2 years he's had benefit of the money & add it on to the £40,000

Pay him back the rest

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

D

Keep the £40K owed, and pay the rest back into an account number one digit away from your so-called friend's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them you you only have 15,000 see how they like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You loaned a friend £40000 two years ago but since then he has refused to pay it back which has affected your friendship.

You've begged him to pay you back £20000 and forget the rest because you have a financial crisis.

He tells you he can only get £15000 because that's all he has and you feel you have no option but to accept.

You send him your bank details and in the morning you wake up to find £150000 in your bank

You check your notifications and find 53 missed calls and 27 texts begging you to pay back £135000 as he only meant to transfer £15000 but accidentaly hit an extra 0

What do you do ?

A, send back £135000

B, take out the full £40000 and return the rest

C, keep the entire £150000 and not respond to his calls or texts

So the question is, what are you going to do "

Take the lot, keep what he owes me and organise a huge swinger party at a club with the rest. Make sure he has the time of his life and at The end of the night tell him he paid for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"B and cut ties. "

Agreed...this is why I don't sub friends cash.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd take my 40k back and never speak to him again.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

B. Tell him to borrow the rest elsewhere and get him out of your life.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Ps. Could you lend me £20k

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is like one of those kiss, slap shag threads...its never real. So I'm going gangster, taking the lot and smoking a big fat cigar whilst holding my baseball hat. In my dreams of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B and tell him to do one

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin


"B plus the interest it would have accrued had it been in a savings account over the last 2 years."

As per the above

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

On second thoughts maybe not pay for 2 years!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Keep what was owed, return the rest and cut said person from your life.

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

B plus interest

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

B then cut ties with him. He miss led you and lied.

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Oooh I'm torn between a and b. On the one hand you'd already written off half of the debt by only asking for 30 grand back but on the other he clearly had the money as he transferred you so much more which he wouldn't be able to do if he didn't have the funds.

In actual fact the answer would he I wouldn't give money I wasn't happy to lose in the first place.

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By *ockothenorthMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Keep the lot ,break his legs,then tell him to fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B but take 2 years to give him the rest back

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter


"You loaned a friend £40000 two years ago but since then he has refused to pay it back which has affected your friendship.

You've begged him to pay you back £20000 and forget the rest because you have a financial crisis.

He tells you he can only get £15000 because that's all he has and you feel you have no option but to accept.

You send him your bank details and in the morning you wake up to find £150000 in your bank

You check your notifications and find 53 missed calls and 27 texts begging you to pay back £135000 as he only meant to transfer £15000 but accidentaly hit an extra 0

What do you do ?

A, send back £135000

B, take out the full £40000 and return the rest

C, keep the entire £150000 and not respond to his calls or texts

So the question is, what are you going to do "

My bank won’t let me transfer 150,000 I guess this is a hypothetical situation

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Take the £40k and return the rest.. it's mine anyway..

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"You loaned a friend £40000 two years ago but since then he has refused to pay it back which has affected your friendship.

You've begged him to pay you back £20000 and forget the rest because you have a financial crisis.

He tells you he can only get £15000 because that's all he has and you feel you have no option but to accept.

You send him your bank details and in the morning you wake up to find £150000 in your bank

You check your notifications and find 53 missed calls and 27 texts begging you to pay back £135000 as he only meant to transfer £15000 but accidentaly hit an extra 0

What do you do ?

A, send back £135000

B, take out the full £40000 and return the rest

C, keep the entire £150000 and not respond to his calls or texts

So the question is, what are you going to do

My bank won’t let me transfer 150,000 I guess this is a hypothetical situation

"

I don’t have enough to test their limits!! Send me as much as you can then!!!

Oh and B by the way.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Option B, take out the full £40000 plus the cost and handsome tip of a ropey old looking stripper and return the rest!

I would send her round when I knew all his neighbours were in and could see her walking past their living rooms. She would also be carrying a ghetto blaster and playing Zack Wylde's "I Hate Your Guts." It would be booming at full tit or up to 11!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flush my phone and fuck of to the Bahamas

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Keep it all.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

B if the friendship is not broken

Ray

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

B..take what I was owed and send the rest back

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Take the 40+10

Hop on a plane to somewhere ultra Exotic and expensive, send him back a few pics of you living it up, txt that you will see him next year if your liver and heart can handle it and let him sweat,

Then 5 days later send him his money bar the 50, tell him the 10 was interest, he wasn't a real mate to begin with if he left u hanging with that amount of green in his bank.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

B

However I would probably do A as that is the last thing we agreed on

Then cut ties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B ... no too much of a dilemma! Clearly a liar.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Keep the lot ,break his legs,then tell him to fuck off"

Why break his legs? Seems like unnecessary violence

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

D offer them a fiver a week as you're a bit skint at the moment.

Karma is, as they say, a biatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the £40k plus interest and admin time expenses. Put the remainder into the highest intetest account you can find and when the same time has epapsed from them stringing you along transfer it back to them, minus interest

Job done then no further contact

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Contact him and say you want to pay him but cannot as the Tax/SFO Office has automatically been notified of a potential money laundering transaction. No worries as you are sure it will all work out fine. The 40K you lent him was earned income and audited and his is bound to be the same...

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"work out interest for past 2 years he's had benefit of the money & add it on to the £40,000

Pay him back the rest"

That will be £40,003 then at current interest rates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B and hope you learned your lesson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just pay him back £10k a month for the next 11 months then keep what’s left, the interest should be about the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C. he lied. Had more than 40. Keep it all for a bit and see how it all develops. MKe him waste his time and then start repaying him some of the money. 10k each 2 months or so.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

C and then you can loan me £100k. I will pay you back, promise

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

A.......... It is the ONLY option.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Give him the money back, then take him to court for the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take what he owe's me and return the rest and start to believe in a higher power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it all, call him a chode for lying to me saying he couldn't pay me back when he so clearly could and then use the money to buy his business when he defaults on his payments and has to file for bankruptcy. I'd asset strip the business, pocket the money and then give it back to him before jetting off into the sunset.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

B but with interest and keep him hanging for a while before I returned the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If 150 actually cleared then I'd assume he has this capital and I'd therefore keep the 40 and return the rest and ghost him......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is take my 40k and then pay him back the rest at 50p a week for the rest of my life!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd have to go to a shop and get Google play cards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fuck around with them for a bit, make them sweat. Then keep the 40k and then send rest back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take what I'm owed plus interest and fuck him off out of it...thats not a friend.

If you take more tho, you're just as bad as him.

My integrity is worth more to me than a few bob.

Lu

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Take the 40 and give the rest to his mum and tell her exactly what he did

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