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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought this would be a good topic today.

We're new to this scene, and this is one of our frustrations...

Why is it (and we know there are fakes, cheaters, and photo collectors out there) that on many couples profiles, the lady is photo'ed to the nth degree, from fully dressed in public photos, in sexy underwear and poses, and SBN, but the gentleman is.........either cock only photo'ed, obscured photo'ed, stood on the spot full frontal as if in a firing squad, or absent completely.

We expected and found only a handful of couples amongst almost 500 now, that have equal amount of photos, 50/50 of each other, nicely photo'ed, great poses and the gentleman actually making a really good effort to get our attention.

It just seems like the consensus is advertise the lady as much as possible, as the gentleman man is surplus to requirements where attraction is concerned, and only need the cock part for the foursome.

We can only deduce that they are what we've stated above or the gentleman is butt ugly and would scare us away.

Truth of the matter is, unless the couple are photo verified and actually show the gentleman and that he is making a good effort to entice, we simply block them altogether. We don't even request a photo, cause if they can't make the effort on their profile, why should we make the effort to ask for it.

Discuss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem to be quite common on here but I think it's because everyone uses their pics to attract what it is they are looking for, for us we only meet males so I'm used as the bait

Mrs

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Bait!

In our couple we try to put some of Mr too but Mrs is definitely more photogenic! X

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

We have a mix, but annoys us when only pic of male is a penis...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Spot on O.P. It's been that way for years. Couples profiles where I've seen everything the woman has including her breakfast but the man remains are mystery are , sadly, par for the course.

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By *umasutraCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

We just ignore mail from a couple who only has pics of the female. We just assume he is not attractive, otherwise they would be proud to show him off too.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Yorks

One of my frustrations too and reason we struggled with couple meets, on our couple profile.

I totally get some couples just meet men and that's understandable why they show on the lady.

As a straight woman I need to see the male on a profile, so just avoid any with only a dick pick or all of the woman. Makes me feel like I'm not of any importance.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It is fairly rare that there is an even mix of him & her on couples profiles, but we are happy enough if there is a reasonable selection of both.

From a blokes point of view, women are much nicer to look at than blokes, and 99% of photos fabbed on a couples profile will be her photo's. Even when Anita puts our profile forward in a "lets fab the men" thread, I get one or two and she gets 50 or 60 which kind of suggests that my pics or not a of much significance.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we have a good mix on our profile

Hippy

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I think we have a good mix on our profile

Hippy "

I think you do too. Both hotties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bait!

In our couple we try to put some of Mr too but Mrs is definitely more photogenic! X"

But you are very lovely bait Buttercup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we have a good mix on our profile

Hippy

I think you do too. Both hotties. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because my hubby doesn’t play solo, he’s camera shy and our main thing is hot wife play.

IF we decide to play with a couple together, we’ll cam and send photos etc before a social meet is arranged, but if my partner doesn’t want a camera on him 90% of the time that’s up to us. If people don’t like it that’s fine, we’re clearly not for them.

If people have a problem with it, it’s their problem and they can kindly jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spot on O.P. It's been that way for years. Couples profiles where I've seen everything the woman has including her breakfast but the man remains are mystery are , sadly, par for the course. "

I read this as "the man's remains are a mystery". I nearly spat my tea out, Granny

There are more pics of me purely because S doesn't especially like having his photo taken. We do try to show us both. Also there are lots of rand photos on our account for forum challenges, which might just be me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like I good mix on a cupples profile with being bi and swinging both ways I like to see what both look like xx

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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Simply I'm not as photogenic lol x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Spot on O.P. It's been that way for years. Couples profiles where I've seen everything the woman has including her breakfast but the man remains are mystery are , sadly, par for the course.

I read this as "the man's remains are a mystery". I nearly spat my tea out, Granny

There are more pics of me purely because S doesn't especially like having his photo taken. We do try to show us both. Also there are lots of rand photos on our account for forum challenges, which might just be me..... "

oooooooo I meant the man remains A mystery ......

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Because my hubby doesn’t play solo, he’s camera shy and our main thing is hot wife play.

IF we decide to play with a couple together, we’ll cam and send photos etc before a social meet is arranged, but if my partner doesn’t want a camera on him 90% of the time that’s up to us. If people don’t like it that’s fine, we’re clearly not for them.

If people have a problem with it, it’s their problem and they can kindly jog on

"

No issues here!

Claws away now kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because my hubby doesn’t play solo, he’s camera shy and our main thing is hot wife play.

IF we decide to play with a couple together, we’ll cam and send photos etc before a social meet is arranged, but if my partner doesn’t want a camera on him 90% of the time that’s up to us. If people don’t like it that’s fine, we’re clearly not for them.

If people have a problem with it, it’s their problem and they can kindly jog on

No issues here!

Claws away now kitty "

But you like my claws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a profile isn't to your liking, be it lack of male photos, or any other reason, then don't contact them, or reply to their messages.

Easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree that’s it’s frustrating, as a bi women especially.

I really appreciate an even spread of photos, and particularly like ones of the couple together. (Heart)

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

south west

The same couples then complain about the quality of pics on single men’s profiles.....

I think I have been around long enough (here’s looking at you Granny “Gums” Crumpet) to shrug my shoulders, smile with a twinkle in my eye and move onto the next profile. Even single straight blokes like to know what the fella looks like in a straight couple, it gives us an understanding of what the woman is familiar with and whether one would be suitable.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a few of me on ours, but I hate my piccy taken. Plus, Bella is far easier on the eye!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few of me on our profile but we should probably add a few more, Miss is definitely much sexier though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also lots of couples are only looking for males for hotwifing or MFM so would only be promoting her to attract men to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for all of your insights, much appreciated.

I don't think we made ourselves clear earlier, sorry if this got the claws out (meow!)

We appreciate couples have their own likes and want to attract a certain type.

What we were referring to was those couples who on their bio state they are in it together, and are looking for couples, friendship as well as fun, etc, etc, everything we're looking for, but then we look at the photos and it's as we described in the OP.

We do walk/jog on when we don't see what we want, we're not complaining, just after other people's perspectives on the phenomenon.

Each to their own

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We try to put a selection of pictures of us both on our profile and happy to send clearer face pics with messages

We like to see both halves of a couple represented in a profile too. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But you like my claws "

We like claws too

Victor does gelish nails for Vicky.

Victor is quite good at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because men are ugly, well I am anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spot on O.P. It's been that way for years. Couples profiles where I've seen everything the woman has including her breakfast but the man remains are mystery are , sadly, par for the course.

I read this as "the man's remains are a mystery". I nearly spat my tea out, Granny

There are more pics of me purely because S doesn't especially like having his photo taken. We do try to show us both. Also there are lots of rand photos on our account for forum challenges, which might just be me..... "

I read it as man's remains too!!

Makes more sense

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