FabSwingers.com forum: I am curious to know

By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Are you a Spanker or a Spankee...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a Spanker or a Spankee..."

Neither?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Spankee, definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a Spanker or a Spankee..."

Spanker...

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Spanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *ature watcherMan
over a year ago

lichfield

"Are you a Spanker or a Spankee..."

Bend over and I'll show you ! Xxx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Spanker

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By *reg.worcsMan
over a year ago

worcester

spankee- love it

riding crop please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both if the mood takes!!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Neither

but I will spank if required

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm more of a spanker these days!

Mike

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Spanker

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Spankee.... On occasion

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Are you a Spanker or a Spankee..."

Mainly a spanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh definitely a spankee

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Spanker

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Spankee, can't beat being over someone's knee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I am with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spankee. Love it

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Both

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Spanker.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

And you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a bit of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a spankee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be both, pretty please?

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Spankee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends entirely on my mood

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Depends who I am with"

This - a good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving is less painful than taking so if it has to be one then give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I pick both, as it all depends on partner and chemistry between both

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

Neither......unless you really beg!!!

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

I do like to do a little spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being hog tied and spanked by a woman with little hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More of a spankee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really big on either, I'd rather a wee bite on the bum. Biter and bitee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanker although I will bend for the right man.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

[Removed by poster at 18/08/20 09:39:13]

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"bit of both really depending on the mood. But I would mainly be the spanker. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer spanking over being spanked... I'm not great with pain tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spankee

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"Not really big on either, I'd rather a wee bite on the bum. Biter and bitee

Would happily oblige

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Spankee, all day long! I have dished it out before but my heart's not really in it.

Mrs x

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

Gentle spanker, usually across my knees xxx

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Have spanked on the odd occasion but really into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we have to choose? Like both sides

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm a bit of a spanker

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Spanker, but nothing too hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanker

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

S - spanker

N - spankee

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Used to be a spanker with the ex wife, loved it during doggy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanner...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooops I mean spanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spanner... "

You don’t want to use one of those, that would really hurt

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Love my bum spanked !! X

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"Are you a Spanker or a Spankee..."
. Definitely a spanker, bare hand, heavy leather belt or paddle you can decide

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Oooo both actually more of a spanker at the moment but can enjoy both as much

Though a new crop and paddle is in order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither floats my boat but if he has a fine ass I'll give it a quick slap, if required

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Spankee here

I was once asked to spank another girl and I couldn't bring myself to do it.

K x

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Thanks for all the answers fabstars x

I am a neither, but I am curiously nosy

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I can't spank. I just burst out into fits of laughter, which totally spoils the moment.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spankee..

Is this a match making thread

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Both, mostly spankee though

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Spankee..

Is this a match making thread

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Spankee..

Is this a match making thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

Though more spankee

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

"Are you a Spanker or a Spankee..."

Only been spanked by the Mr and flogged by another lovely lady so far but excited to try more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really big on either, I'd rather a wee bite on the bum. Biter and bitee

Ooh didn't realise this was an option!

Also both

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Not really big on either, I'd rather a wee bite on the bum. Biter and bitee

Ooh didn't realise this was an option!

Also both

I missed this one!! This more than spanking please

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Both.

I've done a fair bit of spanking in my Domme days.

And I adore being spanked by someone who knows what they are doing...far and few between...but lovely when you find one

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I'm still waiting for a spankee moment

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Spanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Definitely a spankee

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

Both

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Both with the right person

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Both as some on here found out

though I did serve it up first wasnt expecting the whip for the return though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanker... but who knows what the future holds?

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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Spankee definitely

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

bend over and you might find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanker, now bend over

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"bend over and you might find out

Add two e e into your username and you might find out my reaction

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Both

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Oooo both actually more of a spanker at the moment but can enjoy both as much

Though a new crop and paddle is in order

Tbh for me, if I am spankee I normally zone out in to my own world. Not a sexual world but more of a spaced out world.

If I am a spanker I try to tease and read the body signs of the lady I am spanking to see if they like or don’t like something. A lot is reading signs and adjusting play accordingly

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Spankee ... thank you gladly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a monkey spanker

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"She's a monkey spanker"

Ohh hello Patrick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have to say neither, never really been my thing, saying that willing to give it another go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanker...to start with

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"bend over and you might find out

Add two e e into your username and you might find out my reaction

do I add the 'mis' prefix too?

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By *oc30Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Spanker, but would switch for a special someone

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"bend over and you might find out

Add two e e into your username and you might find out my reaction

do I add the 'mis' prefix too?

I thought that was a given

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I must say I am Always looking for other spankees

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We both give and receive.

Katie.

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By *ampant2kMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Spanker 110%

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

For someone who veers towards the submissive/spankee side...and even though I say so myself...I have a pretty good spanking hand...and in a mutually equal situation, with the right person I'm more than happy to use it

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like to be a bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a Spanker or a Spankee..."

Oh definitely a spankee, love me a good spanking

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Bit of both ideally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Spankee

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Spanker - but flogee

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

Spankee here

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Spankee always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spankee with hair pulling as well (hopefully

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Spankee

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By *uge G RectionMan
over a year ago

where I like to be... down south

im a wan.... sorry spanker

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Spankee - Depends who I’m with at the time though

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Spanker, definitely a spanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be both, it depends on who I am playing with. That is the beauty of identifying as a switch!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

No I rather Hear the squelching noise

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

100% Spanker

Ray

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Definitely both but prefer to be spanked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a bit of both ...

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By *aige675Woman
over a year ago

North of London

Both

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