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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

There has not been one of these threads for a while.

I never had a chance to go to one of these events before lockdown generally due to timing, and also because I only wanted to go when I was in what I would call a "genuine D/S relationship" and not someone I was topping because for me it was about the relationship with your sub and her behaviour. I did go to a "Dance for Your Dom" event which was brilliant.

Who else has been to a CMNF event and did it enrich the relationship or it was not that special?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not really heard much about CMNF dynamic

What is the Dance for Your Dom?

Will i find them if i google?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t heard about this either... worth a google?

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton


"I have not really heard much about CMNF dynamic

What is the Dance for Your Dom?

Will i find them if i google? "

They are definitely on the fetish website that can't be mentioned.

Basically it is couples only, and a small group of about 6 couples. The women in advance send in a piece of music. You turn up at a dance studio dressed casually but bring a change of clothes which is evening wear (men have a tuxedo and women evening dresses). The women are left to work on their moves which can include poledancing. The men go back to base which is a large house with a pool table, a pool, large garden with croquet hoops and have a drink and light snacks. The men chill for a few hours, get changed and return to the studio where the women are changed and made up. The studio now has a big arm chair and then each dom takes turns to sit in the chair whilst their sub dances for them. For me it was not so much the dance but the look of pride in the dom's eyes and the look of being appreciated in the sub's eyes that made it so special. Afterwards it was back to the house for a meal and drinks served by the subs. If I can find the picture I had it up on my old profile I will put it up here. I have the subs consent to post the picture. Dance for your Dom is what I call BDSM entertainment for adults who want to get away from the night club environment held late at the weekend. This was held on either a Saturday or Sunday afternoon.

They also briefly introduces Dance For Your Dom Dark

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"There has not been one of these threads for a while.

I never had a chance to go to one of these events before lockdown generally due to timing, and also because I only wanted to go when I was in what I would call a "genuine D/S relationship" and not someone I was topping because for me it was about the relationship with your sub and her behaviour. I did go to a "Dance for Your Dom" event which was brilliant.

Who else has been to a CMNF event and did it enrich the relationship or it was not that special?

"

The lady quote likes the sound of this

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"There has not been one of these threads for a while.

I never had a chance to go to one of these events before lockdown generally due to timing, and also because I only wanted to go when I was in what I would call a "genuine D/S relationship" and not someone I was topping because for me it was about the relationship with your sub and her behaviour. I did go to a "Dance for Your Dom" event which was brilliant.

Who else has been to a CMNF event and did it enrich the relationship or it was not that special?

The lady quote likes the sound of this "

Ooh she misread lol age likes naked male clothed female

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

They were my favourite events when I lived in the East Midlands.

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Was that the CMNF out of a certain club in the East Midlands?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not really heard much about CMNF dynamic

What is the Dance for Your Dom?

Will i find them if i google?

They are definitely on the fetish website that can't be mentioned.

Basically it is couples only, and a small group of about 6 couples. The women in advance send in a piece of music. You turn up at a dance studio dressed casually but bring a change of clothes which is evening wear (men have a tuxedo and women evening dresses). The women are left to work on their moves which can include poledancing. The men go back to base which is a large house with a pool table, a pool, large garden with croquet hoops and have a drink and light snacks. The men chill for a few hours, get changed and return to the studio where the women are changed and made up. The studio now has a big arm chair and then each dom takes turns to sit in the chair whilst their sub dances for them. For me it was not so much the dance but the look of pride in the dom's eyes and the look of being appreciated in the sub's eyes that made it so special. Afterwards it was back to the house for a meal and drinks served by the subs. If I can find the picture I had it up on my old profile I will put it up here. I have the subs consent to post the picture. Dance for your Dom is what I call BDSM entertainment for adults who want to get away from the night club environment held late at the weekend. This was held on either a Saturday or Sunday afternoon.

They also briefly introduces Dance For Your Dom Dark

"

Oh it sounds amazing

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Was that the CMNF out of a certain club in the East Midlands?"

Yep, in south Leicestershire.

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as those naked females don't empty their bladders on my clothes I am up for it

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton


"Was that the CMNF out of a certain club in the East Midlands?

Yep, in south Leicestershire. "

Did you go to the club's monthly Sunday afternoon fetish event? I went once it was really good but it was a 3 hour drive home so I did not go again.

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton


"As long as those naked females don't empty their bladders on my clothes I am up for it "

I am certain that won't happen, a read up on formal D/S protocol will relieve you of that worry!??

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Was that the CMNF out of a certain club in the East Midlands?

Yep, in south Leicestershire.

Did you go to the club's monthly Sunday afternoon fetish event? I went once it was really good but it was a 3 hour drive home so I did not go again."

Nope. I went to the femsub events though by tge same organisers as the CMnf events. They had a bouncy castle

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Sounds fun, I never got to those either.

So much to do after lockdown!

Despite doing a fair bit of pick up play in my time, I think these events are better if you either have someone to go with or are in a relationship.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's one of those dynamics that intrigues me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve attended such events in Europe but in gender reverse. My male sub stripped for me and offered himself up. Delightful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve attended such events in Europe but in gender reverse. My male sub stripped for me and offered himself up. Delightful. "

Yeah I think I’d prefer it the other way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t this just a lap dance?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"There has not been one of these threads for a while.

I never had a chance to go to one of these events before lockdown generally due to timing, and also because I only wanted to go when I was in what I would call a "genuine D/S relationship" and not someone I was topping because for me it was about the relationship with your sub and her behaviour. I did go to a "Dance for Your Dom" event which was brilliant.

Who else has been to a CMNF event and did it enrich the relationship or it was not that special?

"

Oh, we would absolutely adore this! Longtime fantasy of ours.

Mrs x

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton


"I’ve attended such events in Europe but in gender reverse. My male sub stripped for me and offered himself up. Delightful. "

I like the idea of high protocol events where swapping does not necessarily happen, but where the sub is judged on their submissive non-sexual behaviour and their understanding of correct protocol.

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton


"Isn’t this just a lap dance? "

At one level it is, in the same way that Formula 1 is cars going around in circles. If the D/S relationship is strong then Dancing for your Dom is a suped up lap dance because of the emotional connection, and as we all know a lot of D/S is in the mind.

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

Would be great to see an event where willing subs of both sexes are displayed naked by their fully clothed sponsors

. The subs to be quiet and respectful but dignified as they are discussed teased inspected and toyed with

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

Has any one been to this sort of thing

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

I k was due to attend one of these events with a submisive female exhibitionist friend .had paid deposits booked hotel recieved rules and itinerary then covid cancelled it all . rules were gentlemen minimum evening/lounge suit or tuxedo .ladies evening dress .arrive to complementary glass of fizz congregate and socialise .at set point in evening ladys retire to separate room to undress jewelery may be worn as may heels and stockings nothing else to be covered. ladies then parade for the males before joining with there partners nd remains naked for rest of the evening . any play then takes place on an agreed basis .

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

There’s a venue in Bridgwater, Somerset that is planning on holding clothed Dom naked Sub nights. No gender conformity needed.

We’re hoping to attend as CMNF, which Kitty is very excited about!

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