FabSwingers.com forum: Gym bods vs dad bods

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gym bods vs Dad bods, which one do you prefer?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Dad bods for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was asked last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doughnut in one hand dumbell in the other waiting the results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be boring and say it really does depend on the person, although I prefer a bit of squish to ripped so if I had to choose on just the body I’ll go with dadbod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 6pack bod

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I like both, I prefer attraction to the persons face and personality over their body type every time

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

dad here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Depends how they treat me

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like both. His personality is the important part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like other guys are more impressed with a gym fit body. Girls generally dont seem to care

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

I like a guy that's looked after himself, but also got a bit of wear and tear...

Shows they look after themselves, but not an up themselves pretty boy

Just my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a lot of female and cpuple profiles saying gym fit... the only Jim I know is the one that serves my food.

I have dad bod but I'm a Rugby player and have that build seems a bit of a rare thing to be required. Maybe thats just round this way

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Dad bod. Gym bods can be too hard to cuddle into.

Hubby is in the dad bod category, although he'd like a little more gym. Doughnuts and Deadlifts is definitely his ideal though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bods for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either. All. They can tag team me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod coz that's me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like a guy that's looked after himself, but also got a bit of wear and tear...

Shows they look after themselves, but not an up themselves pretty boy

Just my preference

So for you a pretty boy is someone who gyms a lot or that's one of the characteristics of a pretty boy for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like both. His personality is the important part"

Good point same here - personality is everything but for some reason I’ve always gone for the dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a six barrel belly. Never going to be a gym bod even with my efforts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about half and half

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"What about half and half"

That sounds like an excellent compromise

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"I like a guy that's looked after himself, but also got a bit of wear and tear...

Shows they look after themselves, but not an up themselves pretty boy

Just my preference

So for you a pretty boy is someone who gyms a lot or that's one of the characteristics of a pretty boy for you?"

If looks is all they've got going for them, no personality to match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More interested in who he is than how ripped he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym bod... please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is key

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"I feel like other guys are more impressed with a gym fit body. Girls generally dont seem to care

This is so true. I'm always getting compliments from guys. Literally have guys come up to me in shops and bars just to tell me I'm jacked.

Random young lads following my insta and asking me advice and sending me compliments.

I've even had a guy in a vanilla club go and get his girlfriend so he could make her feel my arms. It was really awkward.

Never happens from girls.

When I was single and using Tindr a lot the girls I would meet often told me they would have passed me by because of my pictures but only swiped right because my bio was funny and I made them laugh when we messaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice not hairy dad bod for me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Gym bods vs Dad bods, which one do you prefer?"

What about normal bods?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Fat bloke with a fantastic personality here if anyone wants to chat.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad /papa bods for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod. Soft stomach, thick thighs but strong arms

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Slim to rugby build is my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd you're not interested in what's between my ears then I'm not interested in you.... Bodies are so variable and magnificent....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have chicken legs

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Dad bod. Soft stomach, thick thighs but strong arms"

Dad bod - tick.

Soft stomach - tick, tick.

thick thighs - tick.

strong arms - tick.

Gosh - errrrrrrrm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you look after your body I don’t mind too much. Abs are nice, but so is eating chocolate with someone in bed!

Treat yourself, your body and those around you with respect and I’m more likely to have an interest.

An Adonis is always nice, but if there is no substance to the person I’d kick a Greek god out of bed for being boring.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I can go for either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a 24 pack here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dad and a grandad body. Gym fit ? those were the days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely have a dad bod

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Dad bod for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting read

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By *arkbicrossMan
over a year ago

chingford

I’d defo go for a dad bod myself.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"I have a 6pack bod

Me too. But unfortunately I've lost the plastic thing that holds it all together....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. I'm greedy and less body fixated. A pleasant personality is essential.

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By *hefmike555Man
over a year ago

south west

Catering pack bod here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I’m confused by my place in the world here as I’ve never been to a gym in my life but I don’t have kids either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doughnut in one hand dumbell in the other waiting the results "

Perfect

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"See I’m confused by my place in the world here as I’ve never been to a gym in my life but I don’t have kids either

Yours is just a damn fine bod. Can't be defined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I’m confused by my place in the world here as I’ve never been to a gym in my life but I don’t have kids either

Yours is just a damn fine bod. Can't be defined "

Nope! Can’t accept that! I must be pigeon holed!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"See I’m confused by my place in the world here as I’ve never been to a gym in my life but I don’t have kids either

Yours is just a damn fine bod. Can't be defined

Nope! Can’t accept that! I must be pigeon holed!

Oh I'm sure there are many ladies who'd like to squeeze you in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dad bods for me "

Mines a grandad bod does that count x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....

Agreed, think too many assumptions associated to guys with a good body... Full of himself/on the gear/no personality etc etc

These traits are present in all shapes n sizes, my experience with 'ripped guys' has been that they are gentle, sophisticated, educated and often shy, Kai Green for example. I'm not saying all, just as all aren't knuckle dragging neanderthals.

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By *utiebum18Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Gym bod for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I’m confused by my place in the world here as I’ve never been to a gym in my life but I don’t have kids either

Yours is just a damn fine bod. Can't be defined

Nope! Can’t accept that! I must be pigeon holed!

Oh I'm sure there are many ladies who'd like to squeeze you in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a strong man I have best of both all the shoulders back arms and legs but u have to have the power belly lol

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’ve got a fiddles bod, and believe me, I fiddle with it.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Gym bods, but not someone who "lives at the gym". Just nicely toned, showing they look after themselves is good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grandad bod??

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

A dad bod but within the reason. I really don't like a overly muscular guy but also don't like unhealthy and out of shape dad bod. I like athletic daddies

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

gym bod

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Define a gym bod ? It's primarily about attraction. We both look after ourselves but don't gym. Neither of us would find someone seriously overweight as attractive. Sex is attraction. Generally people will have a type and that is sometimes dictated by their own body shape.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Dad bods

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By *ireblade16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Grandad bod here, does that count

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By *lueeyedbrunetteWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Gym bod but big with it. Don’t like skinny gym bods. The bigger the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I’m somewhere in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As time ticks on it’s hard to keep up . But we try x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go for somewhere in-between is the most appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women's definition of a dad bod is not an average blokes bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering what my mr would be classed as?

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"Just wondering what my mr would be classed as? "
can't really see but I'd say athletic dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants a 6 pack when you can have a barrel?!?

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I don't know if I even qualify for a dad bod atm lockdown has had an affect. But on a diet now so will have that dad bod in no time

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I want all the bods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer nice faces and decent attitudes... Bodytype is extremely unimportant... If I fancy the face and attitude then the rest is sexy too

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

"Gym bods vs Dad bods, which one do you prefer?"

The one with the nice person associated with it

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

Grandad bod here! Did go to the gym before coronavirus. But why does all the bad foods for you , taste so damn good

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....

I don't think anyone was denying that... we have a few friends here who are very well defined and delightful people!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have a dad bod but I go to the gym 3 or 4 times a week

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like a bit of both. Not a lover of skinny men but if the body looks like it has not been neglected then all is fine with me

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

"For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....

Agreed, think too many assumptions associated to guys with a good body... Full of himself/on the gear/no personality etc etc

This

the amount of gear comments that get thrown around makes me laugh. Heaven forbid that someone actually puts the commitment in with training/diet to achieve the results... No no, it must be gear! And cause they're on gear they must be a complete bellend too

Personally, if someone's personality attracts me and they have some body confidence then I don't really care what shape/size that body is. If you like what you see then you like what you see...

On the other side of the fence though, some people feel body types need to match. Plenty of rejection from women who say stuff like "why you messaging me go find yourself a gym girl, I'm not right for you"

It's all subjective at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....

Agreed, think too many assumptions associated to guys with a good body... Full of himself/on the gear/no personality etc etc

This

Personally, if someone's personality attracts me and they have some body confidence then I don't really care what shape/size that body is. If you like what you see then you like what you see...

It's all subjective at the end of the day"

Most don't get that even those who are taking it still have to work really hard, they think it's a case of take a jab before bed and boom, wake up looking like Arnold lolol you see it all the time, guy will have a great photo and the 'on it' comments get posted usually from men who could never get that way, roids or not!

As Ive implied, some of the people I've known through bb have been beautiful people and very very humble..... You look great by the way, well done

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By *onglegcoupleCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I’m a fat dude but my mrs is hot as fuck

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Not sure what I’d be classed as lol

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

"For the record..... you can have a gym fit body and a nice personality.....

Agreed, think too many assumptions associated to guys with a good body... Full of himself/on the gear/no personality etc etc

This

Personally, if someone's personality attracts me and they have some body confidence then I don't really care what shape/size that body is. If you like what you see then you like what you see...

It's all subjective at the end of the day

As Ive implied, some of the people I've known through bb have been beautiful people and very very humble..... You look great by the way, well done

There's just a lot of misinformed people out there when it comes to that. There's no magic injection that will transform you overnight, the same as there's no magic pill to shed unwanted weight. Agreed!

Cheers darling

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I’m a fat dude but my mrs is hot as fuck

She certainly is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah very beautiful personality right ??98% of women go for pictures 6 packs models or muscles..cause I know guys can have a great personality but after the 1st message sent with a face and just the face all they get is a block button not matter how great the personality is....

I experienced this myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have the Dad but go to gym. I think you can have the happy medium of both. Whatever your physique just be active enough to be healthy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah very beautiful personality right ??98% of women go for pictures 6 packs models or muscles..cause I know guys can have a great personality but after the 1st message sent with a face and just the face all they get is a block button not matter how great the personality is....

I experienced this myself.

Don't be disheartened, of course its not gonna be just personality or just looks, all has to align and I'm sure with the right attitude you'll find someone you like n she likes you.

What the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I experienced this myself.

I have to agree - you have all the wit and charm in the world, but as soon as the women see the 6-packs you get dropped like a stone.

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By *onglegcoupleCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I’m a fat dude but my mrs is hot as fuck

She certainly is

Cheers, i must have a great personality haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gym bods vs Dad bods, which one do you prefer?"

The one hanging out of the back of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not bothered skinny muscular or dad bod its more how the dick looks lol

But i have found skinny guys to be the biggest and have the best stamina I like i guy that can cum multiple times and keep going

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Afraid I'm more the grandad bod these days!

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Gym bods vs Dad bods, which one do you prefer?

The one hanging out of the back of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a dad and don't go to the gym, so I guess I've got a dad bod

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

This is a interesting thread. I think I’m in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gym bods vs Dad bods, which one do you prefer?"

Gym body please, I’m shallow

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Unfortunately I have more of a dad bod.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Unfortunately I have more of a dad bod.

You have a very lovely bod, W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a fat dude but my mrs is hot as fuck

Having a couple of schillings does help....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like both, I prefer attraction to the persons face and personality over their body type every time "

So true

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

"This was asked last week

And the week before. And probably the week before that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it always have to be one type against another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does it always have to be one type against another.

Because

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does it always have to be one type against another.

Because "

Great input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does it always have to be one type against another.

Because

Great input

#monologue

#sadlife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All types

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I’m a fat dude but my mrs is hot as fuck

She certainly is

Cheers, i must have a great personality haha

Haha nah a happy couple is a happy couple dude

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"This was asked last week

And the week before. And probably the week before that too. "

It's common enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many seeking reassurance

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