FabSwingers.com forum: are you straight if.......

By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

heres one for you. If you were playing and were approached by someone of the same sex as you who told you they wanted to touch you and play with you but insisted they were straight would you think oh no your not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all

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By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

no i thgought not its almost amusing seeing as im definitly not straight

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

At a club or social I wouldnt be at all perturbed.

If I was in Tesco I might find it a bit strange...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At a club or social I wouldnt be at all perturbed.

If I was in Tesco I might find it a bit strange..."

What aisle would I find that???

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By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

"At a club or social I wouldnt be at all perturbed.

If I was in Tesco I might find it a bit strange..."

Very true but i find it funny in clubs too when they insist but im straight

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

perhaps in the heat of the moment they forgot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"heres one for you. If you were playing and were approached by someone of the same sex as you who told you they wanted to touch you and play with you but insisted they were straight would you think oh no your not?"

I would be a little pissed off! But bi or gay in answer to your question.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im confused, surely if someone of the same sex wanted to touch you they wouldnt be straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this discussion with a bloke on another site in chat - he was adamant that loads of straight blokes loved meeting him and said but surely if they're meeting you on a regular basis they're not straight....then he declared me a bigot and flounced out in a strop.

I couldnt care less is someone is straight, gay or bi but surely a man regularly meeting another man to play isn't straight

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By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

"Im confused, surely if someone of the same sex wanted to touch you they wouldnt be straight"

So was i i declined as i didnt want to be someones experiment but surely at that point you are at least bicurious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this discussion with a bloke on another site in chat - he was adamant that loads of straight blokes loved meeting him and said but surely if they're meeting you on a regular basis they're not straight....then he declared me a bigot and flounced out in a strop.

....with his pink handbag tucked under his arm and pursing his lips....

If a woman wanted to play with me and said she was straight I'd think she was very odd. Possibly just doing it for the benefit of the bloke she was with. Ewww.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

In respect of a male: I would say they were not straight if they wanted to kiss or received bum sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the moment was right,yes i would,Not one for turning people down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewwch no kissing at all........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite frankly, if I fancied 'em they could give themselves whatever label they wanted !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to touch or like touching a member of your own sex sexually you are NOT as straight as you think you are.

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

I hate the old labels thing for me no too people have the same sexuality, but i suppose it sums up why i put myself as bi curious on the profile ive never done anything to a man or vice versa,and I could quite easily call myself straight as I absolutely adore women but have accepted that in the swing of things at a club I doubt id mind if it was a mans head doing things down there, likewise if i liked it id probably be willing to do it back.so as we have to define ourselves bi curious was as close as any but in truth who care, give me labias not lables

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they could be straight.

Your sexuality is not defined by what happens for 10 minutes in a club.

I've had countless women ask to touch my boobs. I don't assume they are bi.

I've also had women lick me, I wouldn't necessarily think they were bi either. I haven't asked them but I don't consider if someone wants to try something that they are necessarily defined by that for the rest of their lives.

I have tried licking pussy, I'm not that keen on it, but I wanted to know if I could make a woman cum (I couldn't). My OH has also sucked a guys cock with me and had a guy suck him.

Neither of us are bi. We are just experuimental when we are swinging. Neither of us are necessarily turned on by the same sex and neither of us have had previous bi experiences before swinging or been in a relationship with the same sex.

We are not in denial. We do not believe that we have to change our profile because we've had oral experiences with the same sex, sexuality is not defined by being curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a one off thing I can sort of buy it - wanting to see if you enjoy something you've never tried before.

But if it's something a person does regularly and seeks out, then to me that's bi surely?

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By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

If a woman wanted to play with me and said she was straight I'd think she was very odd. Possibly just doing it for the benefit of the bloke she was with. Ewww.

Thats what we thought at the time but it seemed to be her not him up for him it was just odd with the fact she labelled herself as straight yet was determined to get er hands on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman wanted to play with me and said she was straight I'd think she was very odd. Possibly just doing it for the benefit of the bloke she was with. Ewww.

Thats what we thought at the time but it seemed to be her not him up for him it was just odd with the fact she labelled herself as straight yet was determined to get er hands on me"

In that case I'd think she's bi but homophobic, if that makes sense? She made a point of stating that she's straight which to me makes it sound like she thinks being bi or lesbian is a bad thing. Anyone else would surely just play without worrying about labels.

It would put me off and make me question it too.

Take it as a compliment... Even 'straight' women want you.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If a woman wanted to play with me and said she was straight I'd think she was very odd. Possibly just doing it for the benefit of the bloke she was with. Ewww.

Thats what we thought at the time but it seemed to be her not him up for him it was just odd with the fact she labelled herself as straight yet was determined to get er hands on me"

May be it was a bet or a dare... her other half wanting to see if she dare do something to a woman. May be she wanted to do it to turn him on. May be she wanted to fulfill his fantasy. May be it was a one off. May be she just got too horned up or was high on a hormone rush and didn't care, it was just flesh.

I have had many a woman between my legs and I didn't give a shit what gender the person was at the time... it was just another tongue and fingers.... a physical sensation.

I am straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she was curious if she may be bi curious... so just taking advantage of the situation before updating her profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the same if a guy is gay/bi/straight and dont see labels matter However if straight guys fuck tv/cd is he straight? Loads on here dont fuck gay guys yet fuck tv/cd. Plenty of raw sex also, which plenty of us gay guys dont do.

I was told by one straight guy he dont fuck feminine men but will fuck a masculine guy (so he fucked me) and he fucks suck cd/tv please should i get my suspenders/stockings on to get a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha it's a bit like the guys who are listed as straight but then in the profile description says is 'orally bi with right guy' !!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i was going down on a lady one time and i felt someone fondling my cock and balls .. it was a guy .. i got back to my lady and let him carry on .. he was nice and gentle .. and it felt good ... am i bi .. caught the gay .. or straight and dont mind ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i was going down on a lady one time and i felt someone fondling my cock and balls .. it was a guy .. i got back to my lady and let him carry on .. he was nice and gentle .. and it felt good ... am i bi .. caught the gay .. or straight and dont mind ?"

See its labels again, as lOng as you enjoyed it Who Gives A damn, there are plenty of guys who must be in that situation just go with the flow i think its more when guys meet tv/cd

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

id have a social with a cd/ts but i would play .. not very satisfying for them .. but teasing and flirting might be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"id have a social with a cd/ts but i would play .. not very satisfying for them .. but teasing and flirting might be fun "

But would you fuck em?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

nah .. should have said i would not play .. hence not very satisfying for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the same if a guy is gay/bi/straight and dont see labels matter However if straight guys fuck tv/cd is he straight? Loads on here dont fuck gay guys yet fuck tv/cd. Plenty of raw sex also, which plenty of us gay guys dont do.

I was told by one straight guy he dont fuck feminine men but will fuck a masculine guy (so he fucked me) and he fucks suck cd/tv please should i get my suspenders/stockings on to get a shag?"

All this confuses me too when I look at straight mens profiles an men an tvs are clearly listed on their veris an tvs profiles confuse me too at times when they say straight yet they only b with men all very topsy turvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent a great deal of my adult life struggling against it but I've finally come out I'M STRAIGHT AND PROUD OF IT!

wonder what me mum would say

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

yup would definatly think "oh no your not" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by one straight guy he dont fuck feminine men but will fuck a masculine guy (so he fucked me) and he fucks suck cd/tv please should i get my suspenders/stockings on to get a shag?

Your confused, lol i know how you feel. I have met 6 straight guys of here all great sex etc etc, cant provide verification cos it puts of the woman. All i say is play safe at all times you dont know where they have been....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent a great deal of my adult life struggling against it but I've finally come out I'M STRAIGHT AND PROUD OF IT!

wonder what me mum would say

Hurrah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by one straight guy he dont fuck feminine men but will fuck a masculine guy (so he fucked me) and he fucks suck cd/tv please should i get my suspenders/stockings on to get a shag?

Are you confusing tv with ts as a straight ts would sleep with people of their birth gender not thier transitioned gender.

Ie mtf if straight would only sleep with men as they're legally defined as women and as far as they're concerned they are a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by one straight guy he dont fuck feminine men but will fuck a masculine guy (so he fucked me) and he fucks suck cd/tv please should i get my suspenders/stockings on to get a shag?

Are you confusing tv with ts as a straight ts would sleep with people of their birth gender not thier transitioned gender.

Ie mtf if straight would only sleep with men as they're legally defined as women and as far as they're concerned they are a woman "

No there is no confusion here, i mean transvestites not trans-sexuals (pre or post ops) who are completely different with operations and removal of penis replaced with a vagina they are a woman, genetically modified to be a woman so live there life as one and get treated sexually like one and any man choosing to go with a ts is straight.(now i am confused)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many men are in denial

Man up!

Admit to yourselves what you are

Playing with the same sex, however you want to dress it up (pardon the pun) is a gay act.

You may be gay, you may be Bi.

You definitely ain't straight.

Live with the fact, you will be a lot happier than being constantly in denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by one straight guy he dont fuck feminine men but will fuck a masculine guy (so he fucked me) and he fucks suck cd/tv please should i get my suspenders/stockings on to get a shag?

Are you confusing tv with ts as a straight ts would sleep with people of their birth gender not thier transitioned gender.

Ie mtf if straight would only sleep with men as they're legally defined as women and as far as they're concerned they are a woman

I am goin by various profiles on this very site "plz understand that I'm not homophobic or against anyone's sexual preferences before I'm accused of that"

Of tvs ts CDs etc that say they are straight x it's the sme as so called straight men sayin straight yet have male veris showin also men that are bi oral lol all these different classifications when did it get so complicated sheesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its only complicated because people keep calling themselves straight when they are anything but.

If a guy only has sex with men dressed as women then he is either Gay or bi with a particular fetish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its only complicated because people keep calling themselves straight when they are anything but.

If a guy only has sex with men dressed as women then he is either Gay or bi with a particular fetish"

Voice of reason it would simplify all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its only complicated because people keep calling themselves straight when they are anything but.

If a guy only has sex with men dressed as women then he is either Gay or bi with a particular fetish

Voice of reason it would simplify all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it really mean you have to be either or?

touching then saying 'it really isnt for me, i felt nothing' would suggest the other person was straight.

but how do you know unless you try it?

they may be straight, but bi interested, or something. i dunno.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is so difficult to understand? Curious, tried it, didn't like it? Straight

Tried it, liked it, want to do it again

Not straight

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its only complicated because people keep calling themselves straight when they are anything but.

If a guy only has sex with men dressed as women then he is either Gay or bi with a particular fetish

Voice of reason it would simplify all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far too many men are in denial

Man up!

Admit to yourselves what you are

Playing with the same sex, however you want to dress it up (pardon the pun) is a gay act.

You may be gay, you may be Bi.

You definitely ain't straight.

Live with the fact, you will be a lot happier than being constantly in denial"

I believe you speak the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is so difficult to understand? Curious, tried it, didn't like it? Straight

Tried it, liked it, want to do it again

Not straight

Simples"

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